Seriously if you dont mind being in the friendzone that is actually alpha as ****. Stop trying to go straight to smashing and actually be a human being for once.

You're welcome, misc.

strong cope lmao

Not even close buddy

I’m okay with being friends with women. Even if they are single. I have been friends with women that I found physically attractive, but didn’t really want anything with for various reasons, because they can hook you up with friends.

If I am super into a chick, I csnt do the friendzone thing.

That said, it’s important to clearify. When I say friends I mean we can text occasionally and like each other’s social media and hang out in group settings. I would never like invite a girl that I was into out to like hang out or some **** as friends though.

Friendzone to me is like going shopping and **** together. No thanks. We can be “friends” but we have to keep a distance. I actually don’t even mind a little venting over text, but fat chance I’m going to talk to you on the phone.


There are situations where maybe “chilling as friends” a couple times is a way to get an idea of the girl is vibing you in a no pressure scenario. How you act, if you do, determines if she’ll ever see you as more than a friend though.

Cool stuff. Friendship works both ways, simply do sht for me and ill do sht for you. Thats it.
But I agree with the stuff you said.

And at the last part, bishes gotta like you for who you are you feel me? If not then that ain't a friend to be with.

Personally I can be friends with married girls that I work with or girls dating or married to my own friends. I don’t waste time hanging around people that aren’t true friends or with a girl that I’m interested in as a friend but also hot enough I want to date level.

Not sorry for having zero desire to talk or be friends with a woman who isn’t hot. I have friends for friends. A woman’s companionship is different and we’re biologically designed that way. Friendship only with single woman you’re attracted to sucks. And if you waste your time with unattractive women vs your friends or women you want to date then wtf is wrong with you?

What about just having cool people on your side?

Oh I forgot, misc doesn't consider women "people".

I don't get how you're wasting your time. If you guys are equally being good friends and building each other up then what time is wasted?

i cant even get out of the acquaintance zone fkn lmao. also mirin aesthetics

Because you’re only hanging out with her in the first place bc she’s hot enough at the thought of dating. Sure her personality is cool. The more you hang out with her and are attracted the more these feelings are gonna rise to the surface full fledged. There’s really no way around it, and if you’re not attracted that way then why wouldn’t you be finding the same girl that you’re friends with and attracted to who also likes you and would love nothing more than your dick inside her?

You can care about the girl who’s relegated you to just friends and catch up from time to time, but anything other than casual catch ups will lead to nothing but frustration.

Strong confusion between being in the friend zone and being an attractive male in the picture.

Friend zone guys show up when it’s time to move, they sign off on girls bullchit, they sit in the beta pool waiting for a chance to be “the nice guy”.

Alphas know females, a lot of them, mainly based on affiliation, but also because tbh we can hold a conversation, and keep a harmlessly flirtatious casual friendship open with a female and we’re on the radar when they’re looking to monkey-branch or look for a breakup fling...
We aren’t actively looking to steal your girl, but if she hits us up and we grab a couple drinks... we don’t ask questions about their current relationship status.

When will the Misc learn.

if you are equally good friends, then you are friends. you're not in the friendzone, you stupid fukking idiot.

Yeah, if you truly are just friends it's perfectly fine and will keep you fresh with other girls. If you're an orbiter hanging around in hopes that she'll slip up and fuk you, that isn't alpha.

You know what I meant you parasitic worm.

no. i don't know what you mean because you did a horrible job of explaining your stance, you stupid fuk.

I always wanted to have female friends because I sometimes get tired of being around guys all the time, but it's hard to find female friends. I actually resorted to going on Bumble BFF and pretending to be gay so I can find female friends on there. I actually did end up hanging out with one girl. But it's still hard trying to meet girls on there. They'll ussually stop replying to messages after a while, or they're reply once a week and it just dies out.

it's possible to be friends with a girl, but if you have a thing for her or want to fuk her then being just friends is beta