For those of you who don't know being alpha widowed is where you date someone who was just so amazing (alpha) that no one really lives up to them afterwhards.

This happened to me around this time two years ago where i met girl off tinder. She was small 5 ft 1, cute, lifted, porn addicted, just a crazy hyper fun sloot. The sex was amazing and she knew how to bang. She was so experienced she even knew of different positions to do in the car lol.

Anyway. We went out for about 6-7 months and she cheated/left me in may-june 2019... I'ts been a lng time and i still think of her sometimes. I 've tried dating other girls but they are just so meh compared to her. i'm glad that i no longer have feelings of her and i'm over it but at the same time i'm still struggling to come to terms with being alpha widowed.


Anyone else been alpha widowed before? How did you come to terms with hit? My ex set a standard of sex and having a girlfriend that lifts. This isn't about missing her or getting her back (i'm over her) but how can i enjoy other women if they aren't as good as her?

She cheated on you so how is she great? If you're just talking about sex, then just go fuk a porn star

Many of us have been there and there will never be another one that will live up to her. I still think of mine and it’s been over 2 years and it wasn’t just the best sex if my life it was everything. Now all the woman I sleep with are just human cum rags and that’s it. Live with the memories and just enjoy knowing you experienced something that many people won’t.

Bro I know for a fact that bish wasn't 5 ft 1, you know it too

I think girls that are insane and trap you and boil you with their crazy do serious emotional damage that feels like that. Truth is it fades if you would stop being a little b tch all the phucking time. All it takes to be the GOAT partner is a fit body and sexing, apparently personality don't matter (obviously, he dated a porn addict who would cheat on him). It's kind of sad, OP can't see that his requirements for a GF were all time lows (body + sex skills) and then he is SHOCKED when the wh0re rips his heart out. Play stupid games win stupid prizes, son. Maybe look for a quality human being next time? Don't get blinded by the flesh?

This isn't about her it's about coming to terms and trying to live a life being alpha widowed. How can you compare banging hookers to having fun raw dog sex with a girl you love ? Not even close.She cheated but it was 100% my fault for being a beta/taking her for granted.Unaware.It's very true and i've matured since and realize she wasn't girlfriend material. I mean surprise surprise, a girl who talks aboout sexpo, gangbangs, sex with drug dealers, wears nothing, has a huge sexual partner count, has done extreme sexual things, cheats on me with a random.. and rips my heart out ... (LOL at me)

But at the same time she set a really high standard in terms of sex and the type of girl I can get. So what do i do?

and she wasn't that bad she as a very loving/affectionate/caring gf tbh.

Pics?

op is a *******

Yeah, but the actual version, not the one where losers whine nonstop about their ex. Think about that for a second. Normally I'm not really in the "compare your issues to other people's" but can't quite help myself with this one. This is embarrassing.

You are not authorized to use the past tensebeing a beta...until you no longer accept 100% responsibility for another dude's dink falling into your girl's vagene.

Lol WTF

hahah didn't read chit.

op is such greasy napkin. negged.

:')

I think part of the healing process involves you sharing her nudes.

Can we talk about this in private?