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Let me guess, it was a liberal arts degree
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Its ok misc, he deserves what happened to him
Its ok misc, he deserves what happened to him
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Originally Posted By leafs43⏩
This was probably planned by her leading up to a divorce.
She was going to clean him out then leave.
She was going to clean him out then leave.
LOL at the people saying he should divorce her..She had a plan and taking all of his savings and splitting were included in it.
10-08-2020, 12:35 PM
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it's 2 years old and has been proven fake
10-08-2020, 12:37 PM
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Follow up
I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
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I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
Link?Follow up
I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
10-08-2020, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Skeptical_Hippo⏩
It's my story bro see post #11Link?
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
Oh what the hell? Thats crazy, gonna go read.It's my story bro see post #11
10-08-2020, 12:51 PM
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I knew, before entering that it was mostly his money. Divorce her ass and sue her for it
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10-08-2020, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
you know why you won in something so rare to win as a man, a divorce? you could afford a good lawyer lol most men think the guy that has ****ty office by 7-11 is good enough lolFollow up
I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
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I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
Nurse, redhead, former college volleyball player.....I should have known misc
10-08-2020, 01:01 PM
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They didn’t have a proper discussion before marriage or a plan to pay it off once they got married. He did it to himself (srs). They’re gonna have a lot of problems in the future. I’m 99% against divorce. He dun goofed.
Better to pay of off now that accrue more interest. Your married. That interest is yours too.
Better to pay of off now that accrue more interest. Your married. That interest is yours too.
10-08-2020, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
Kudos for you making it through pretty well. I assume you wont be marrying anyone else in this life time with a contract between you and the governmentFollow up
I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
Nurse, redhead, former college volleyball player.....I should have known misc
I initiated the divorce by kicking her out and telling her to file in two weeks or I would file. She did not cheat she just went fuking crazy (as all women do after 40). She always talked about how horrible it is when a man files and since I could care less I offered her a chance to save face.
I found a book one of her friends had given her by one of the top divorce attorneys in the state. I pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-) She got another attorney and asked for two more weeks to file.
We kept our finances pretty much separate and divided the bills (fairly I thought) between us. It ended up I was paying for much more of the load than she was and she was able to stash away $100k without me knowing. She was an RN and made decent money.
We settled at the settlement conference with the judge without a trial. The $100k went into the settlement. I got the most important stuff: paid off house, dog, guns and home gym. My attorney was much better that hers. She still refers to my attorney as that fuking bitch.
Nurse, redhead, former college volleyball player.....I should have known misc
10-08-2020, 01:09 PM
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In on important self reminder about life thread.
Don't marry someone unless:
1) They make close to your income level at least (+-20%), if not more than you
2) They have no debts, or if they do, they clearly have been working on it with an effort
3) They convey and act similarly to your own ideal financial habits (could be coupon usage, could be paying off debt above the minimum, could be investing related, could be eating at home more than eating out/delivery, etc.)
4) You sign a pre-nup and marry in a state/country where the law actually acknowledges it
5) You've tried living together for a number of years
In a perfect world with a perfect spouse there is a net benefit to marriage. Tax breaks, household stability if you have a kid, combined incomes to easily tackle CoL and grow the net worth, etc. But if you're not on the same page financially, chit like what occurred in the OP happens lying, cheating, divorce, and multiple years of financial saving/investing/planning thrown down the drain.
Don't marry someone unless:
1) They make close to your income level at least (+-20%), if not more than you
2) They have no debts, or if they do, they clearly have been working on it with an effort
3) They convey and act similarly to your own ideal financial habits (could be coupon usage, could be paying off debt above the minimum, could be investing related, could be eating at home more than eating out/delivery, etc.)
4) You sign a pre-nup and marry in a state/country where the law actually acknowledges it
5) You've tried living together for a number of years
In a perfect world with a perfect spouse there is a net benefit to marriage. Tax breaks, household stability if you have a kid, combined incomes to easily tackle CoL and grow the net worth, etc. But if you're not on the same page financially, chit like what occurred in the OP happens lying, cheating, divorce, and multiple years of financial saving/investing/planning thrown down the drain.
10-08-2020, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
she was obviously getting pounded for moneyI got divorced in December. My wife had a little over $100k in a checking account I didn't know about until we exchanged financial disclosures.
didn't her lips taste a little salty sometimes? Jamal and Tyrone should have drank more water boyo
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Came in expecting Dave Ramsey caller.
Still depressing to read that IG post.
Still depressing to read that IG post.
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also just lol if you aren't the one controlling the finances in the marriage
first thing my wife does when she receives her paycheck is transfer it to my account and I put some money ocasionally for her to buy her stuff
first thing my wife does when she receives her paycheck is transfer it to my account and I put some money ocasionally for her to buy her stuff
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Lol at marrying someone with 45k in student loans, unless they're a doctor and your marrying way up.
What a moron.
What a moron.
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
ReppedI pulled a Tony Soprano and went and retained her before she did. ;-)
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Difforce is only going to be more expensive lol.
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
This is not the first time I've heard of this happening.I got divorced in December. My wife had a little over $100k in a checking account I didn't know about until we exchanged financial disclosures.
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Originally Posted By criminal_manne⏩
even smarter if she did it because she plans to divorce him anyways.Actually a smart financial decision to pay down high interest debt innit
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Originally Posted By GM54⏩
In my opinion if there is a massive discrepancy in salary or net worth. Its an indicator that one party is more intelligent/motivated/driven/disciplined then the other. In that case the lesser party should never have access to or be able to control the others finances. At that point you aren't an equal partner in the marriage. Not even close, you take a back seat to all financial decisions and are along for the ride.in all seriousness, how do people do this? pro-rate based on salaries?
I make like 4x as much as my wife. if our monthly expenses are say 20k, would i put in 15k in our joint acount and she puts in 5k?
We have one joint account and discuss all purchases and we are all good. cant imagine how people have split accounts and doesnt cause drama
I make like 4x as much as my wife. if our monthly expenses are say 20k, would i put in 15k in our joint acount and she puts in 5k?
We have one joint account and discuss all purchases and we are all good. cant imagine how people have split accounts and doesnt cause drama
As far as how things are divied up it just depends. If people earn a similar salary it should be 50/50. In your case its not very practical that it be 50/50. So it could probable be scaled percentage of bills to income in a fair manner.
I have a massive issue with the way divorce settlements are handled. I'm sorry but fukking and living with a successful person shouldn't entitle you to a portion of their wealth if you didn't have a hand in building it. If its two equal people that got married and build wealth together, sure, 50/50.
If I go into a marriage with a 1 million dollar net worth and my spouse goes in with a 100k net worth. And over the course of a 20 year marriage we scale that to 10 million net worth. She's should be entitled the 10% she brought to the table, not 50%. Unless she is able to provide that she brought more to the table in order to build a large net worth.
Just my opinion of what's fair. If I marry some chick that has 4x my net worth I wouldn't expect to take half her schit or run her finances.
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best course of action now is to take a 50k loan out in her name then divorce.
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Originally Posted By keyboardworkout⏩
brb questioning how I would even attempt to expose this prior to a divorce settlement.I got divorced in December. My wife had a little over $100k in a checking account I didn't know about until we exchanged financial disclosures.
Originally Posted By Archangel_Lost⏩
Sad state and you'd be forging her sig, fighting that battle, but not a bad idea tbh.best course of action now is to take a 50k loan out in her name then divorce.
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
Thats because you think like a man while women think like women.In my opinion if there is a massive discrepancy in salary or net worth. Its an indicator that one party is more intelligent/motivated/driven/disciplined then the other. In that case the lesser party should never have access to or be able to control the others finances. At that point you aren't an equal partner in the marriage. Not even close, you take a back seat to all financial decisions and are along for the ride.
As far as how things are divied up it just depends. If people earn a similar salary it should be 50/50. In your case its not very practical that it be 50/50. So it could probable be scaled percentage of bills to income in a fair manner.
I have a massive issue with the way divorce settlements are handled. I'm sorry but fukking and living with a successful person shouldn't entitle you to a portion of their wealth if you didn't have a hand in building it. If its two equal people that got married and build wealth together, sure, 50/50.
If I go into a marriage with a 1 million dollar net worth and my spouse goes in with a 100k net worth. And over the course of a 20 year marriage we scale that to 10 million net worth. She's should be entitled the 10% she brought to the table, not 50%. Unless she is able to provide that she brought more to the table in order to build a large net worth.
Just my opinion of what's fair. If I marry some chick that has 4x my net worth I wouldn't expect to take half her schit or run her finances.
As far as how things are divied up it just depends. If people earn a similar salary it should be 50/50. In your case its not very practical that it be 50/50. So it could probable be scaled percentage of bills to income in a fair manner.
I have a massive issue with the way divorce settlements are handled. I'm sorry but fukking and living with a successful person shouldn't entitle you to a portion of their wealth if you didn't have a hand in building it. If its two equal people that got married and build wealth together, sure, 50/50.
If I go into a marriage with a 1 million dollar net worth and my spouse goes in with a 100k net worth. And over the course of a 20 year marriage we scale that to 10 million net worth. She's should be entitled the 10% she brought to the table, not 50%. Unless she is able to provide that she brought more to the table in order to build a large net worth.
Just my opinion of what's fair. If I marry some chick that has 4x my net worth I wouldn't expect to take half her schit or run her finances.
The same moment a man has been dismissed from her life he is only an object from whom anything possible has to be taken, we see this basically in any divorce where she often lies to get the kids and as much money as possible even if such lies could lead him to jail.
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Originally Posted By scooterbrah⏩
^This.just lol @ sharing bank accounts with a spouse. he got what he deserved for being retarded
Who the hell shares an account with literally anyone else? facepalm
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