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post 1618813811 10-08-2020, 03:11 PM
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in last few days i had like 5 girls messaging me 1st (not bots) and after 'hi' in return they are gone. JFL
Did they expect me to start juggling on a unicycle? Well guess they found guys that are willing to do that real quick.
post 1618816861 10-08-2020, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By randomuser12345
in last few days i had like 5 girls messaging me 1st (not bots) and after 'hi' in return they are gone. JFL
Did they expect me to start juggling on a unicycle? Well guess they found guys that are willing to do that real quick.
You will almost always have to initiate the first engaging conversation online - just like in real life. If they're interested they'll engage back.

If you unwilling to put in the few minutes it takes to do so I'm not sure what to tell you.
post 1618817781 10-08-2020, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By randomuser12345
in last few days i had like 5 girls messaging me 1st (not bots) and after 'hi' in return they are gone. JFL
Did they expect me to start juggling on a unicycle? Well guess they found guys that are willing to do that real quick.
I mean you want the women to do everything for you? Lol. You don’t got to juggle bro but if they are messaging you they are probably attracted and you could do better than a “hi” back
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post 1618819061 10-08-2020, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By randomuser12345
in last few days i had like 5 girls messaging me 1st (not bots) and after 'hi' in return they are gone. JFL
Did they expect me to start juggling on a unicycle? Well guess they found guys that are willing to do that real quick.
As a man, unless you're famous or look like a top tier male model, you will have to make the initial effort.

From there it's quid-pro-quo.
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post 1618839981 10-08-2020, 08:16 PM
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Had a date last night with somebody who i matched with and actually used to work with. Went to a little bar restaurant had drinks and ate something. We were there for about 3-4 hours so I'd say it went decent. Walked her back to her car and she said lets do it again but no hug or anything. I'll still reach out and try to plan a second date. I'm not into games so I'm not gonna wait until she reaches out or wait 3 days. If she actually had a good time she will want to go out again. It honestly just felt good to go out on a date since I haven't really been on one in awhile.
post 1618841491 10-08-2020, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
Had a date last night with somebody who i matched with and actually used to work with. Went to a little bar restaurant had drinks and ate something. We were there for about 3-4 hours so I'd say it went decent. Walked her back to her car and she said lets do it again but no hug or anything. I'll still reach out and try to plan a second date. I'm not into games so I'm not gonna wait until she reaches out or wait 3 days. If she actually had a good time she will want to go out again. It honestly just felt good to go out on a date since I haven't really been on one in awhile.
Did you get covid, I'm setting up a date this weekend probably outside in the park w/ some wine.
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post 1618841681 10-08-2020, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Did you get covid, I'm setting up a date this weekend probably outside in the park w/ some wine.
No I did not. She seems way more concerned about it then me though.
post 1618854521 10-08-2020, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
Had a date last night with somebody who i matched with and actually used to work with. Went to a little bar restaurant had drinks and ate something. We were there for about 3-4 hours so I'd say it went decent. Walked her back to her car and she said lets do it again but no hug or anything. I'll still reach out and try to plan a second date. I'm not into games so I'm not gonna wait until she reaches out or wait 3 days. If she actually had a good time she will want to go out again. It honestly just felt good to go out on a date since I haven't really been on one in awhile.
Did you pay or split it?

No kiss isn't a good sign but if she stayed that long she prob doesn't hate you?

I do shorter first dates so things don't get stale and they're left wondering/wanting to know more.
post 1618854721 10-08-2020, 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88
No kiss isn't a good sign but if she stayed that long she prob doesn't hate you?
Disagree, no kiss on first date means nothing. Totally depends on the girl.
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post 1618857631 10-09-2020, 12:10 AM
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Narrowed myself to talking to one guy. So much easier to deal with but lord.. this one. I have regrets creeping in lmao







Edit: this all started due to the fact I said “Oh okay. I’m sorry, have a goodnigh.” When he stated he has to sleep for work lmao
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post 1618858321 10-09-2020, 12:23 AM
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[QUOTE=FemaleWarriorxo post_id=1618857631]Narrowed myself to talking to one guy. So much easier to deal with but lord.. this one. I have regrets creeping in lmao

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Edit: this all started due to the fact I said “Oh okay. I’m sorry, have a goodnigh.” When he stated he has to sleep for work lmao[/QUOTE]Jesus. Next the guy.
post 1618858751 10-09-2020, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
Jesus. Next the guy.
I am. Kinda loling at it and also scratching my head since it literally came out of no where lol
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post 1618859051 10-09-2020, 12:42 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
I am. Kinda loling at it and also scratching my head since it literally came out of no where lol
Omfg RUN, might be wincel or eod
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post 1618859181 10-09-2020, 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Omfg RUN, might be wincel or eod
Lmaoo don’t make me cry from that thought

Anyways. I apparently can’t find an older man that is sane LOL
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post 1618859951 10-09-2020, 01:04 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Lmaoo don’t make me cry from that thought

Anyways. I apparently can’t find an older man that is sane LOL
I’m secretly enjoying knowing that’s my competition.
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post 1618860351 10-09-2020, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Lmaoo don’t make me cry from that thought

Anyways. I apparently can’t find an older man that is sane LOL
That's always the problem I found with apps/online dating. You come across a lot of nutjobs you would normally never meet in person because such people are usually holed up at home and well outside of your social circle.

Not a lot of other options though with the Corona around.
post 1618862981 10-09-2020, 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Lmaoo don’t make me cry from that thought

Anyways. I apparently can’t find an older man that is sane LOL
Why were you still replying instead of blocking? If some random bint started whining at me like that I'd nope out after two messages.
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post 1618867281 10-09-2020, 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
I am. Kinda loling at it and also scratching my head since it literally came out of no where lol
Is this someone you've met? How long have you been talking to him? lol He really went off the rails especially since I'm assuming you didn't even meet yet.
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post 1618871261 10-09-2020, 06:45 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Narrowed myself to talking to one guy. So much easier to deal with but lord.. this one. I have regrets creeping in lmao







Edit: this all started due to the fact I said “Oh okay. I’m sorry, have a goodnigh.” When he stated he has to sleep for work lmao
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post 1618873211 10-09-2020, 07:15 AM
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post 1618876361 10-09-2020, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
I’m secretly enjoying knowing that’s my competition.
Well I’m glad one of us is enjoying it lmao
Originally Posted By MediocreGains
That's always the problem I found with apps/online dating. You come across a lot of nutjobs you would normally never meet in person because such people are usually holed up at home and well outside of your social circle.

Not a lot of other options though with the Corona around.
Actually didn’t meet him off an app. But yeee I run into so many nut jobs
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Why were you still replying instead of blocking? If some random bint started whining at me like that I'd nope out after two messages.
Tbh was butthurt for a second but I blocked after my last screenshot.
Originally Posted By Legz422
Is this someone you've met? How long have you been talking to him? lol He really went off the rails especially since I'm assuming you didn't even meet yet.
It’s the one you think our personalities could worklmao
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lmaooooo
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post 1618876851 10-09-2020, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By ScottTil
I don't get it
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post 1618879011 10-09-2020, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
It’s the one you think our personalities could worklmao
lol The classmate? Yeah, he cray.
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Originally Posted By brightbrah
am I the only guy in this thread that doesn't go for a kiss on first dates? Well, other than a ONS...
I was a late bloomer so idk but it feels unnatural to me.
No you are not alone. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don’t. It depends on how comfortable I am with the person.
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post 1618885641 10-09-2020, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By brightbrah
am I the only guy in this thread that doesn't go for a kiss on first dates? Well, other than a ONS...
I was a late bloomer so idk but it feels unnatural to me.
Maybe not on the first date but if you don't go for it quick you wind up in the friendzone.
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Originally Posted By TBO1313
Maybe not on the first date but if you don't go for it quick you wind up in the friendzone.
You definitely want to do something that makes you not a friend, even if it's touching lower back, thigh, leaning in etc.

However I don't think the danger is even 'friendzone', it's just clear lack of chemistry and/or lack of initiative on the guy's behalf which turns a woman off or makes her assume you aren't interested.
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Originally Posted By Legz422
lol The classmate? Yeah, he cray.
Nah not the classmate? I thought you said it for another guy I brought up. Idk. I’m deep into NyQuil right now lol

Also he’s pretty much cray cray. He also ended up calling me after I blocked him lol
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
You definitely want to do something that makes you not a friend, even if it's touching lower back, thigh, leaning in etc.

However I don't think the danger is even 'friendzone', it's just clear lack of chemistry and/or lack of initiative on the guy's behalf which turns a woman off or makes her assume you aren't interested.
I don't mind a brief kiss on the first date if I am attracted to someone.
Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Nah not the classmate? I thought you said it for another guy I brought up. Idk. I’m deep into NyQuil right now lol

Also he’s pretty much cray cray. He also ended up calling me after I blocked him lol
Oh, I thought it was the classmate that you said you were both loud? You've talked about too many guys recently. I can't keep up. lol
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Originally Posted By Legz422
Oh, I thought it was the classmate that you said you were both loud? You've talked about too many guys recently. I can't keep up. lol
Nah. The classmate is younger than me. This guy is 30 lol

Pretty much lmao. I can’t remember what exactly you said. Oh well. That is life lul
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