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Thread: Every single one of you is a victim of hypersexualization, and it's changed you.

post 1619881251 10-20-2020, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
Men are stimulated with the eyes.

Imagine living in a society, with Instagram, Snapchat, slutty outfits, movies, TV shows, where you are bombarded with sexuality every minute of the day.

Do you not think this heightens your sexual desire, to an unnatural level? Do you not think this has affected you and changed you, so you are not the Man you were supposed to be?

Think of all of the life decisions you've made. Big or small. How many of these decisions were influenced by the changes in you, due to having your brain invaded by these images and thoughts from social media, women wearing suggestive clothing, movies and tv shows?

How many decisions do you make, on a monthly basis, based entirely on sex, due to your unnatural, heightened desire?


Your entire worldview is tainted by this hypersexualization. And you don't even realize it.

At what point should you decide to disconnect from all of this, and reconnect to your spiritual side, reconnect to Nature, reconnect to your curiosity?

How many people have not been able to reach their potential, because of this?


Imagine if you were born on an island, with no internet, and raised there. All you had were great novels, and academic books. You grew up innocent and unaffected by the modern world. Would you still want to spend your Friday nights the way you spend them now?
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post 1619881561 10-20-2020, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Slootbrahh⏩
Maybe they will end up in prostitution. Imagine onlyfans makes a whole generation of sloots into prostitutes when the onlyfans $ runs out, or their body looks like asss
If they all became streetwalkers it would drive the market value for real vagene down to presimp levels.
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post 1619881831 10-20-2020, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By RavingRicky⏩
90% of men have been watching porn every single day since they were 14.
Guilty of this tbh.. but if the balance of attention between men and women were equal , and the opportunities to be intimate as well, then I dont think id have this "issue".

Im not incel by any stretch, but women get to fulfill their fantasies on whim. Threesome? Np. Anal? Np. Sugar daddy? Np. What aboiut as a guy? You could make it your full time job and still fall short of results.

But who do we have to blame for all this? What came first? The chicken or the egg? We often see males date down, but you'll never see a 8HBB with a 7 male.... but is this caused initially by women being naturally picky? Or being picky because the supply dosnt meet demand? Like??? The dynamics are too complex and its impossible to come to a definite conclusion...
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post 1619881921 10-20-2020, 08:15 AM
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I come from a place where nudity is not a big deal. Nobody gives a fuk, we go to sauna with our families and it's normal. Nothing was hypersexualized nor taboo. No shame, no guilt, no teen pregnancies no hypocricy, no bible beating and no complexes. I really never even think about any of that except when I read how things are here.

Also grew up before internet so there's that..
post 1619882581 10-20-2020, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I come from a place where nudity is not a big deal. Nobody gives a fuk, we go to sauna with our families and it's normal. Nothing was hypersexualized nor taboo. No shame, no guilt, no teen pregnancies no hypocricy, no bible beating and no complexes. I really never even think about any of that except when I read how things are here.

Also grew up before internet so there's that..
I can't even fathom this. My Dad sharpied over my face in family photos because he deemed it immodest. My. Face.
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post 1619882881 10-20-2020, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
I can't even fathom this. My Dad sharpied over my face in family photos because he deemed it immodest. My. Face.
Understandable.
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post 1619882961 10-20-2020, 08:32 AM
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the world is more sexual than ever, in terms of exposure

but in terms of getting laid, it's less sexual than ever (for the average guy)
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post 1619883251 10-20-2020, 08:36 AM
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I'm 1+ year of NoFap and the OP is right, it was hard as **** because of the hypersexualization
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post 1619884491 10-20-2020, 08:51 AM
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You are crazy.

What do you think people did when we were all naked?
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post 1619884591 10-20-2020, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Slootbrahh⏩
We got onlyfans now which is so pathetic. Imagine meeting a sloot, and she seems amazing potentially, then you find out she has an onlyfans.

Every hot girl i see at the gym i just assume shes got one.
My friend was head over heels for this hot chick he went out with and sent me a picture of them together. He was raving about how much fun they've been having & how she in turn takes HIM out on nice dinners and was mind blown at her nice car & condo. 5 dates later he finds out she's an escort LOL. Poor bastard was crushed.
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post 1619884681 10-20-2020, 08:53 AM
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I agree with everything u said OP
post 1619884731 10-20-2020, 08:54 AM
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Op you've been right about this stuff since at least 2014 srs
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post 1619884741 10-20-2020, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Misc420Doctor⏩
You are crazy.

What do you think people did when we were all naked?
I don't know, but are you saying we should live and behave like pre-historic animals?
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post 1619884951 10-20-2020, 08:56 AM
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Agree OP.

Time to change society
post 1619884971 10-20-2020, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
I don't know, but are you saying we should live and behave like pre-historic animals?
People still did everything they needed to do to thrive and build civilizations while naked in front of each other.
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post 1619884991 10-20-2020, 08:56 AM
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OP is correct.

The denying is Much like a drug addict in the midst of their high is unable to understand that they are on drugs and an addict and even when they are falling apart later they still refuse to believe they are an addict and drugs destroyed them. This is society and civilization level though.
post 1619885191 10-20-2020, 08:58 AM
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Two relationships and my career have been ruined because of porn. I just can't get enough of seeing 10/10s doing literally anything on screen. Doesn't even need to be hardcore, cam girls are enough.

I totally understand why there's a whole set of males out there who'd rather fap in their basement than shag a 2/10. 30 years ago all you had was a Playboy mag and it wasn't so in your face. Now 10/10s are everywhere, scantily clad, so why settle for a 2/10 when you can just fap to a 10/10 in 4k HD?

I would love to go back 15 years and see how my life would've turned out had I never given into the urges. Perhaps I would've just gamed more, or perhaps I would be in a zen-like state and a CEO.

Hardest addiction to crack.
post 1619885321 10-20-2020, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I come from a place where nudity is not a big deal. Nobody gives a fuk, we go to sauna with our families and it's normal. Nothing was hypersexualized nor taboo. No shame, no guilt, no teen pregnancies no hypocricy, no bible beating and no complexes. I really never even think about any of that except when I read how things are here.

Also grew up before internet so there's that..
It isn't a problem.

The real problem here is a lack of accountability from grown men.

You have no one to blame for your porn addiction but yourself.

If you can't control yourself then go ahead and destroy yourself.

I don't care either way, it's less competition for me.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy⏩
My friend was head over heels for this hot chick he went out with and sent me a picture of them together. He was raving about how much fun they've been having & how she in turn takes HIM out on nice dinners and was mind blown at her nice car & condo. 5 dates later he finds out she's an escort LOL. Poor bastard was crushed.
Very few things are worse for a man than finding out that a woman he really likes and cares about and who likes him back is the town bicycle. Absolutely soul crushing
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
The dont have that in the mountains of Afghanistan and the men there fuk goats

They dont have that in on the compounds in Utah and the men there fuk their sisters

We are basically more advanced Bonobos. Bonobos have 3 ways, orgies, oral sex, molest juveniles, have anal sex ect. In the jungle as monkeys.

And our other side, the chimp side, they brutally slaughter each other when they go to war. You see that in humans too.
I guess when you put it that way....
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what is the difference between sexualization and HYPERsexualization
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Been on NoFap and NoPorn since August. Had a slip up or two. Day 30 since I got an app to keep track.

Hyper-sexualization is pretty crazy right now, mostly because of how it is framed. Girls getting tricked into objectifying themselves, men getting tricked into being subservient to pictures and videos of women they'll never even meet in person. It's pathetic from every angle. And if you try and criticize it, you're just labeled sexist. "You can't handle a strong woman!" They aren't saying that when I'm d!cking them down, WITHOUT the subscription fees. I've been to a strip-club maybe 4 or 5 times, on the behest of friends. Was more sad than anything. Despite that I've fukced 2 strippers, both of whom I met at different music festivals.

Porn is an addiction much like heroin or any other drug for some people. It's basically causing your dopamine receptors to get prolapsed like the very sloots anguses you're fapping to. The guys who started NoFap get harassed by people in the porn industry. Again, criticizing porn and degeneracy and slootiness is automatically deemed "puritanical" or "sexist." I think it's all to keep men and women in a state of weakened debauchery.
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Originally Posted By DDSF1⏩
OP is correct.

The denying is Much like a drug addict in the midst of their high is unable to understand that they are on drugs and an addict and even when they are falling apart later they still refuse to believe they are an addict and drugs destroyed them. This is society and civilization level though.
Nietzsche was correct. Society has replaced God with hedonism.
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
Been on NoFap and NoPorn since August. Had a slip up or two. Day 30 since I got an app to keep track.

Hyper-sexualization is pretty crazy right now, mostly because of how it is framed. Girls getting tricked into objectifying themselves, men getting tricked into being subservient to pictures and videos of women they'll never even meet in person. It's pathetic from every angle. And if you try and criticize it, you're just labeled sexist. "You can't handle a strong woman!" They aren't saying that when I'm d!cking them down, WITHOUT the subscription fees. I've been to a strip-club maybe 4 or 5 times, on the behest of friends. Was more sad than anything. Despite that I've fukced 2 strippers, both of whom I met at different music festivals.

Porn is an addiction much like heroin or any other drug for some people. It's basically causing your dopamine receptors to get prolapsed like the very sloots anguses you're fapping to. The guys who started NoFap get harassed by people in the porn industry. Again, criticizing porn and degeneracy and slootiness is automatically deemed "puritanical" or "sexist." I think it's all to keep men and women in a state of weakened debauchery.
Aldous Huxley wrote about this 80 years ago in Brave New World.
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I felt much better when I lived around good people and no good-looking women.

I also performed as well as ever in the most indulgent environments.
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For me it's really taken away from the IRL experience. Back in 2012 I remember going crazy over seeing a girl with her cheeks hanging out. Nowadays I see a handful of women with their ass hanging out anytime I go somewhere like the park or the mall. Clubbing is beginning to be more like going to the strip club.

Idk if its affected everyone but personally I no longer see women as something to be pedestalized. Maybe no fap will help but its rare for me to connect with them like I did pre thot era. It also seems like the divide between men and women has become even worse. Femthots have convinced themselves that they are better than/don't need a man. If they do then its more transactional then ever (must have money, good looks, clout) to really make them feel fulfilled. Gone are the days of good humor and character getting you laid.

They have succeeded in convincing women that riding the cock carousel and materialism will lead to long term happiness. To make matters worse men do not speak out and will even participate via OF, liking pics, wking IRL. God help us all...
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Bumping this thread for this lovely Wednesday
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