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post 1620062611 10-21-2020, 09:17 PM
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Need help with energy vampire friend. Srs

Fuk bra idk why this chit fuks wit my head .. I legit ain’t gone make another friend like this me and this dude been through a lot together used to be best friends and chit

Like wtf dude was even sendin me pics of me and him and the good ole times a week before he cut me off. Can’t tell if he’s some psychopath energy vampire draining me or what.

No homo. Idk if it’s cause he cut me off like that or what. Miss hittin the gym and doin crazy chit. I live in a small ass town and it’s hard to make new friends literally

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Last pic was me and him no homo but we would do all kinda chit. We were a legit squad. Like in fast and furious where the rock and that other dude were friends. That’s how tight we was. Literally a pic of us in a plane lol

Like how u gone send pics of the good ole days and then cut me off like that

Idk if I need closure or what

I legit don’t kno why the fuk he’s ignorin

Ended up sendin this:

https://ibb.co/DMrS3sk

Edit: dude ain’t even reply but posted insta stories. It’s almost as if he’s tryin to piss me off or some chit? I can’t tell if he’s feeding off this energy or what
post 1620063081 10-21-2020, 09:21 PM
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Should I just ask why u ignorin or ask to chill or give an ultimatum for our friendship or some chit?

How do I salvage this friendship?
post 1620063301 10-21-2020, 09:25 PM
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Sounds like he's cutting himself off from the world and not just you. Maybe depressed? I dunno bro but that's how I act when I don't wanna be social. With anyone
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post 1620063421 10-21-2020, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
Sounds like he's cutting himself off from the world and not just you. Maybe depressed? I dunno bro but that's how I act when I don't wanna be social. With anyone
Nah I don’t think he is. Cause he was traveling and chit while ignorin me I made like two threads on this. it’s kinda complicated man..Dudes kinda manipulative and my heads just fuked from this chit

I’m legit just thinkin of messaging sayin what’s the deal. I just wanna hit up the gym and chill

Here’s the thread of the whole story

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...9011561&page=3

Was expecting him to hit me up but he still ain’t hit me up
post 1620063811 10-21-2020, 09:33 PM
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Lol fuk it do your own thing. Why escalate n potentially lose a friend
post 1620063851 10-21-2020, 09:33 PM
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What y’all think I should msg?
post 1620064021 10-21-2020, 09:34 PM
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post 1620064051 10-21-2020, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Nah I don’t think he is. Cause he was traveling and chit while ignorin me I made like two threads on this. it’s kinda complicated man..Dudes kinda manipulative and my heads just fuked from this chit

I’m legit just thinkin of messaging sayin what’s the deal. I just wanna hit up the gym and chill

Here’s the thread of the whole story

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...9011561&page=3

Was expecting him to hit me up but he still ain’t hit me up
Got any other mutual interests though? Dude literally said he's been depressed and been off test for 3 weeks bro. Maybe he see's you as a bad influence and wants to do more with his life than take steroids and lift? Sorry to come off harsh but maybe
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post 1620064091 10-21-2020, 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
Got any other mutual interests though? Dude literally said he's been depressed and been off test for 3 weeks bro. Maybe he see's you as a bad influence and wants to do more with his life than take steroids and lift? Sorry to come off harsh but maybe
Nah cause he still post insta stories of him lifting

He did get engaged tho to some 37 year old sloot while were both 25

Also I don’t do steriods lmao. But he does steriods and will be on for life
post 1620064201 10-21-2020, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Nah cause he still post insta stories of him lifting

He did get engaged tho to some 37 year old sloot while were both 25

Also I don’t do steriods lmao. But he does steriods and will be on for life
Oh damn.... Does his fiancé not like you or sumn? lol
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post 1620064231 10-21-2020, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Noobrero⏩
Lol fuk it do your own thing. Why escalate n potentially lose a friend
Would just sayin this be escalating it and potientally lose a friend?

“Why you been ignorin for months bra what’s the deal lmao, if u ain’t wanna chill just say it”
post 1620064351 10-21-2020, 09:39 PM
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happens sometimes with bros he prob going through some chit or just doesnt want to hang out and if you keep pressing then its just gonna keep pushing
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post 1620064441 10-21-2020, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
Oh damn.... Does his fiancé not like you or sumn? lol
No I never even met the fiancé I just seen they got engaged on ********

There like 4-5 different possibilities on why he’s ignorin. I just literally don’t kno

In that post I linked I went into great detail on why he mite be ignorin from seein me lose frame with our other mutual friend in a group chat.

It’s either that and the dude wants to fuk wit me head, or it’s cause he’s gettin engaged, or it’s cause of like 3 other different possibilities
post 1620064771 10-21-2020, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
No I never even met the fiancé I just seen they got engaged on ********

There like 4-5 different possibilities on why he’s ignorin. I just literally don’t kno

In that post I linked I went into great detail on why he mite be ignorin from seein me lose frame with our other mutual friend in a group chat.

It’s either that and the dude wants to fuk wit me head, or it’s cause he’s gettin engaged, or it’s cause of like 3 other different possibilities
Not gonna lie bro, this is the reason why I don't have many friends. I hate the petty drama. I don't even know who I'd pick as my best man for my wedding and that ish pisses me off. But I really have no time for ish like this.

Let him be upset with you or the world or whatever and just say "I dunno why you seem different these days but I'm always here when you wanna chall or just talk bro. Take care of yourself and hope to see you soon"

Dats it mayn
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post 1620065501 10-21-2020, 09:54 PM
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Struggling with the same thing OP. One of my best homies moved to Arizona and stopped making an effort to stay connected.
post 1620066031 10-21-2020, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
Not gonna lie bro, this is the reason why I don't have many friends. I hate the petty drama. I don't even know who I'd pick as my best man for my wedding and that ish pisses me off. But I really have no time for ish like this.

Let him be upset with you or the world or whatever and just say "I dunno why you seem different these days but I'm always here when you wanna chall or just talk bro. Take care of yourself and hope to see you soon"

Dats it mayn
“Why ignore for months bra real talk what’s the deal. U can come to my gym or I can go to urs. But if u ain’t wanna chill say tht.“

Is tht good? Cause what you wrote is not somethin I’d usually say lol
post 1620066181 10-21-2020, 10:05 PM
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seems like there is some escalating sexual tension. wait for the right time and use lube
post 1620066651 10-21-2020, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By 2020visionz⏩
Struggling with the same thing OP. One of my best homies moved to Arizona and stopped making an effort to stay connected.
Except this dude didn’t even move. I don’t kno what’s the deal
post 1620066701 10-21-2020, 10:14 PM
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ur so dam needy, no wonder he ghosted ur lame ass
post 1620066811 10-21-2020, 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
“Why ignore for months bra real talk what’s the deal. Leme kno when you wanna chill if u do”

Is tht good? Cause what you wrote is not somethin I’d usually say lol
lol whatever you say would be better than nothing. But end the msg as if to say this is my last attempt bro, you need to move on with your life man. Life's too short to be worrying bout a "friend". Stop overthinking it man. Let it go
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post 1620066821 10-21-2020, 10:16 PM
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he prolly has a new bish OP.

he stopped being 150lbs and doing pull ups all day. He achieved bloat status.
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post 1620066891 10-21-2020, 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
lol whatever you say would be better than nothing. But end the msg as if to say this is my last attempt bro, you need to move on with your life man. Life's too short to be worrying bout a "friend". Stop overthinking it man. Let it go
Tru. I’m just tired of goin to the gym by myself. It’s been fukin wit my psychie/my mojo. I live in a small ass town it’s legit hard to meet new people or atleast alpha people who do cool chit and lift.

Also this dude lives in the city, while I live in a small ass town. It’s wierd asf goin to the city bymyself especially New Orleans where you’d get mugged if ur by yourself or without a crew
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Originally Posted By kauseemcee⏩
lol whatever you say would be better than nothing. But end the msg as if to say this is my last attempt bro, you need to move on with your life man. Life's too short to be worrying bout a "friend". Stop overthinking it man. Let it go
Is this good msg?

“Why ignore for months bra real talk what’s the deal. Leme kno when you wanna chill if u do. I can go to ur gym or u can come to mine

This is my last attempt bro“

Boutta send
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Thinkin bout messaging this


“Yo what's the deal bra lmao why you been ignorin for months

If u ain't wanna chill just say it and I ain't gotta see u again”

Fuk bra idk why this chit hurts so much.. I legit ain’t gone make another friend like this me and this dude been through a lot together used to be best friends and chit

Like wtf dude was even sendin me pics of me and him and the good ole times a week before he cut me off

No homo just this chit is fukin me up. Idk if it’s cause he cut me off like that or what. Miss hittin the gym and doin crazy chit. I live in a small ass town and it’s hard to make new friends literally

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https://ibb.co/TmyB7xD

Last pic was me and him no homo but we would do all kinda chit. We were a legit squad. Like in fast and furious where the rock and that other dude were friends. That’s how tight we was. Literally a pic of us in a plane lol

Like how u gone send pics of the good ole days and then cut me off like that

Idk if I need closure or what

I legit don’t kno why the fuk he’s ignorin
I had that happen one time with my best friend.. turned out he was dead.. srs
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains⏩
I had that happen one time with my best friend.. turned out he was dead.. srs
Dude ain’t dead. He legit post pics at the gym lmao

Sorry for ur loss tho
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Dude ain’t dead. He legit post pics at the gym lmao

Sorry for ur loss tho
Op to try and be more serious with you. i have a buddy that way. You just got to leave him alone. He'll come back around sooner or later if he is a real friend. Just trying reaching out to him a few months from now. Find another bromance or just be independent.
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
Op to try and be more serious with you. i have a buddy that way. You just got to leave him alone. He'll come back around sooner or later if he is a real friend. Just trying reaching out to him a few months from now. Find another bromance or just be independent.
Already sent this 5 mins ago. And it’s been months since that other message

https://ibb.co/DMrS3sk

I literally just wanna kno what the deal is though like the dude is always passive aggressive and he literally told me before he was an energy vampire

He could be ignorin cause:

1. From being in the group chat and seeing me lose frame with our other friend in the group. Other friend was talkin chit in group chat and I went off on him and lost frame. He seen that

2. He’s tryin to bring me down

3. It’s cause he got engaged

4. He gets off on this attention

Or some other petty bull chit
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Lmao don't ask the misc brah. If you're as close as you think, you should be able to say legit whatever tf you want and click.

You didn't fuk up and sleep with an ex of his or something right?
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Already sent this 5 mins ago. And it’s been months since that other message

https://ibb.co/DMrS3sk

I literally just wanna kno what the deal is though like the dude is always passive aggressive and he literally told me before he was an energy vampire

He could be ignorin cause:

1. From being in the group chat and seeing me lose frame with our other friend in the group. Other friend was talkin chit in group chat and I went off on him and lost frame. He seen that

2. He’s tryin to bring me down

3. It’s cause he got engaged

Or some other petty bull chit
most likely cause he is engaged. this happens alot man. how old are you? bros always disappear when the marriage reaper calls their name
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Originally Posted By AD117⏩
Lmao don't ask the misc brah. If you're as close as you think, you should be able to say legit whatever tf you want and click.

You didn't fuk up and sleep with an ex of his or something right?
Nah but he was in a group chat with our other mutual friend and he seen me lose frame when the other friend talked chit.

Was my msg good that I sent?


https://ibb.co/DMrS3sk

I mean if he’s a real friend he’d respond to that rite
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