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post 1620252411 10-23-2020, 04:46 PM
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How do u deal with anxiety?

My anxiety is ruining my life. Cant sleep at night, cant concentrate/handle stress
I dnt wanna take meds, is there any other way?
How do u guys deal with ur anxiety??!
(Srs answers plz)
post 1620252651 10-23-2020, 04:49 PM
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post 1620252821 10-23-2020, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
My anxiety is ruining my life. Cant sleep at night, cant concentrate/handle stress
I dnt wanna take meds, is there any other way?
How do u guys deal with ur anxiety??!
(Srs answers plz)
How are you with people normally? Talking or keeping it to yourself? What about work and coworkers? Need more info bro if you want some help. Dont know your living situation
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post 1620252881 10-23-2020, 04:52 PM
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exposure

aka facing it, dealing with it. i.e. whatever it is that is causing anxiety

avoidance, avoiding the thing that causes anxiety, exacerbates it
post 1620252961 10-23-2020, 04:53 PM
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Unfortunately there is no easy solution. I would suggest starting with a list of all of the things that are bothering you. Then start organizing them i.e. problems within your control, problems outside your control, existential problems no one can do anything about, etc.

Then rank order the problems you can do something about yourself. Whether you want to start at the top with the hardest, or the bottom with the easiest, it doesn't matter. Pick randomly. Break that problem down, create a plan to help alleviate it.

You might also benefit from giving up a bad habit or two that is destructive in your life. Something you do to avoid your other problems, which feels good at the time, but ultimately makes you feel worse afterwards.
post 1620253011 10-23-2020, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By MarioZ93⏩
How are you with people normally? Talking or keeping it to yourself? What about work and coworkers? Need more info bro if you want some help. Dont know your living situation
Keep to myself speak when spoken to, currently unemployed, live with parents.
post 1620253111 10-23-2020, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
exposure

aka facing it, dealing with it. i.e. whatever it is that is causing anxiety

avoidance, avoiding the thing that causes anxiety, exacerbates it
I do face it but i cant sleep at night. I even failed my exam cuz I was so stressed and anxious cudnt evn study
post 1620253181 10-23-2020, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
Good books on anxiety, and/or talk to a therapist.
Can u recommend books?
post 1620253231 10-23-2020, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
Can u recommend books?
Subtle Art of not giving a fck.
post 1620253291 10-23-2020, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
I do face it but i cant sleep at night. I even failed my exam cuz I was so stressed and anxious cudnt evn study
Lack of sleep can make you more anxious. I’ve had insomnia for about 7 years. If I don’t do what I need to do to get adequate sleep, I’m a psychopath lol
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Stop any alcohol and drugs, I was a big night drinker and that carried over into my next day where I would face anxiety.
post 1620253381 10-23-2020, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
I do face it but i cant sleep at night. I even failed my exam cuz I was so stressed and anxious cudnt evn study
You in school having anxiety issues? You worried about grades?
post 1620253401 10-23-2020, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Glutebrahhh⏩
Unfortunately there is no easy solution. I would suggest starting with a list of all of the things that are bothering you. Then start organizing them i.e. problems within your control, problems outside your control, existential problems no one can do anything about, etc.

Then rank order the problems you can do something about yourself. Whether you want to start at the top with the hardest, or the bottom with the easiest, it doesn't matter. Pick randomly. Break that problem down, create a plan to help alleviate it.

You might also benefit from giving up a bad habit or two that is destructive in your life. Something you do to avoid your other problems, which feels good at the time, but ultimately makes you feel worse afterwards.
I have tried but whenever I face a problem I just get stressed and panic and ultimately **** up. But thanks for the advice i’ll try harder
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by thinking about killing myself and never having the balls to go through with it, and then just having to deal with life again once I settle down from my bad wittle feewinggggsss.
post 1620253451 10-23-2020, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
Keep to myself speak when spoken to, currently unemployed, live with parents.
Age? Look i was too much in my head at times when i was younger, which caused a lot of anxiety sometimes even now but it doesn't last long. Started working really early and like many others said you need to expose yourself. Work place is probably the best thing since you need to work and communicate with coworkers and that is essential. Anything else could be temporary exposure, but not daily one like work. Anxiety happens when you have too much time on your hands and start overthinking instead of just doing the thing. Oh yeah, the lack of sleep. This one is one of the main reasons why my anxiety can even raise up now. Having some kind of routine when you go to sleep and wake up will help definitely
post 1620253481 10-23-2020, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Shysty021⏩
You in school having anxiety issues? You worried about grades?
Na im giving postgraduate exams. (After uni)
post 1620253581 10-23-2020, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted By MarioZ93⏩
Age? Look i was too much in my head at times when i was younger, which caused a lot of anxiety sometimes even now but it doesn't last long. Started working really early and like many others said you need to expose yourself. Work place is probably the best thing since you need to work and communicate with coworkers and that is essential. Anything else could be temporary exposure, but not daily one like work. Anxiety happens when you have too much time on your hands and start overthinking instead of just doing the thing
26 years old. I think i dnt know how to deal with stress. I am finding jobs but no luck
post 1620253651 10-23-2020, 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted By LCBOLeo⏩
Stop any alcohol and drugs, I was a big night drinker and that carried over into my next day where I would face anxiety.
No alcohol. No drugs. Dont evn smoke
post 1620253661 10-23-2020, 05:02 PM
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i don't really experience anxiety, but i did when i was vitamin d (no homo) deficient srs
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post 1620253751 10-23-2020, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
I have tried but whenever I face a problem I just get stressed and panic and ultimately **** up. But thanks for the advice i’ll try harder
Bro nothing gets done without effort. If you panic and freak out when you face your problem, then you probably don't understand your problem. You can't tackle some things all at once, it's a process that takes days or weeks or even years. Break it down, comes to terms with it, and start making smart moves.

Often, the returns we all seek are delayed, but they will come. Put in your work, be patient, and don't quit.
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
i don't really experience anxiety, but i did when i was vitamin d (no homo) deficient srs
I am taking vit d supplements for yrs has not helped
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
I am taking vit d supplements for yrs has not helped
how many hours of sleep do you get?

that's another big cause of anxiety for me
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
how many hours of sleep do you get?

that's another big cause of anxiety for me
I get adequate sleep but at daytime not at night when im supposed to sleep cuz my mind starts racing and I just get up and start eating or doing something to distract myself.
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
I do face it but i cant sleep at night. I even failed my exam cuz I was so stressed and anxious cudnt evn study
well if that's true, then idk what to tell you. but i dont quite believe you

also, fwiw, i believe it's generally thought when people don't know what the source is it's usually social anxiety

general anxiety is prob what.. a low self esteem mixed with a bit of anxiety? so kinda like a depressive viewpoint developed from not dealing with it and overcoming it and then "fighting it" and it becomes a general malaise

general is still fixable with setting up your life to how you want it. grabbing life by the balls and constructing what you want

maybe if it's sleep for you try alllll the things you can as hard as you can to ensure you get 6 to 8 hours (find which one is better)
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Originally Posted By mk2kh⏩
26 years old. I think i dnt know how to deal with stress. I am finding jobs but no luck
stress is a common thing. You will always have it as you progress in life so dont let this discourage you. If this happens while you work than take some sick time or off time and let it down a little. Just dont go for too much alcohol or drugs. Now jobs, what do you mean about finding them but no luck? What kind of job do you want to work? What kind of work did you do until now and how was it for your mental health?
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yer fuked for life boyo

take the pill or sip the bottle
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If you've got anxiety, it means you want something, not materialistic, something worth having, and for whatever you don't have it. The only way to fix that, is to go out and get it.
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