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post 1620951361 10-31-2020, 12:31 AM
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Originally Posted By SPP1⏩
Terrible response. Ease into it.
Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
She’s already replied she was always quick to reply even after a period of igoring her when down and it’s a huge part of why I loved her no homo. I’m procrastinating sending a reply now since it’s been so long..
This. I said humour and strength, not an emotional redemption arc. Talk about the improvements subtly in real life, not this right now. Keep it light, keep it simple she responded to you already, you’re already in. But keep it light, joke around a bit, keep it fun

Also tomorrow when you call her none of that ‘’i’ve changed’’ bull****. keep it light, make some jokes, tell her you wanna meet up. Don’t take yourself seriously.

Then at the date you can casually mention about your progress, but you need to Radiate energy, body language etc

It’s not about you now, it’s about her. So make her feel good through humour and not taking yourself seriously.
post 1620951391 10-31-2020, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted By SPP1⏩
Terrible response. Ease into it.
Okay yeah that’s true, I’ll update what’s.happening if more replies itt as I’m now gonna answer her
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post 1620951481 10-31-2020, 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Okay yeah that’s true, I’ll update what’s.happening if more replies itt as I’m now gonna answer her
Make some plans to meet up. Don't pour your heart out tonight if you've been drinking.
post 1620951691 10-31-2020, 12:42 AM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Yeah 0 was wrong on her end. When sober and thinking of any negatives literally the only negative is her physique is underweight but tldr her personality made me love her. We broke up 100% due to my peRsonal faults and taking her for granted. Literally a week after meeting everyone in my dorm thought we were inseparable

I’m only saying this cus not natty rn but I’ve dated girls much better looking than her, girl I dated after her was an 8.5-8.86 to me and I just got over It quick. She’s special to me, dead srs
Looks aren't everything as long as she is good enough to you, trust me say goodnight and leave it until you are sobersorry I was watching a scary movie got distracted lol.
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post 1620951881 10-31-2020, 12:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Cloudmen⏩
This. I said humour and strength, not an emotional redemption arc. Talk about the improvements subtly in real life, not this right now. Keep it light, keep it simple she responded to you already, you’re already in. But keep it light, joke around a bit, keep it fun

Also tomorrow when you call her none of that ‘’i’ve changed’’ bull****. keep it light, make some jokes, tell her you wanna meet up. Don’t take yourself seriously.

Then at the date you can casually mention about your progress, but you need to Radiate energy, body language etc

It’s not about you now, it’s about her. So make her feel good through humour and not taking yourself seriously.
Yeah brah I agree with all u said

Not to sound like a PRICK but I’m not like the typical miscer who I perceive as fa and awkward lmao. Not u srs. She just asked me to set a time to meet up whenever i want so in.jpg to redeem myself
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post 1620952011 10-31-2020, 12:54 AM
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Originally Posted By SPP1⏩
Make some plans to meet up. Don't pour your heart out tonight if you've been drinking.
I just sent a reply in mobile tht fuced up while I’m fukked up lmao

But yeah I just set up a time to meet up. Had 0 intentions of spilling my heart out while drunk; just gave me the courage to reach out after my **** ups
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post 1620952031 10-31-2020, 12:56 AM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Yeah brah I agree with all u said

Not to sound like a PRICK but I’m not like the typical miscer who I perceive as fa and awkward lmao. Not u srs. She just asked me to set a time to meet up whenever i want so in.jpg to redeem myself
You’re not a prick. i just don’t want you to make mistakes. You did good boyo, i’m proud of you. Now go meet up.
post 1620952091 10-31-2020, 12:57 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
Looks aren't everything as long as she is good enough to you, trust me say goodnight and leave it until you are sobersorry I was watching a scary movie got distracted lol.
Yeah honestly the first time I laid eyes on her my first thought was she has a very pretty face but her body is way too light. She’s the girl who taught my personality is much more important than looks no homo.

But yeah I wasn’t planning on confessing all my feels while drunk. Goal was to just message her and set up a tIme to meet which I’ve accomplished after this msg. Already excited for it.

There are no current scary movies in the meta Srs, liar
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post 1620952101 10-31-2020, 12:57 AM
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Awesome brah, keep us updated. Hope it works out, and if it does - Don't fuk it up again.

Drugs and alcohol, that **** is not good for you. You don't need that stuff in your life.
post 1620952191 10-31-2020, 12:59 AM
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Call another girl. Will remove the itch and give you some perspective.
post 1620952231 10-31-2020, 01:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Cloudmen⏩
You’re not a prick. i just don’t want you to make mistakes. You did good boyo, i’m proud of you. Now go meet up.
Thank you bro I appreciate it srs. Apart from my sis and best friend I never bring up anything personal like this

But if you knew my past you’d say i was a prick Srs. Or maybe that’s the 0 self esteem Talking when I’m Literally a top 1% chad according to miss standards ok I’m sounding CRINGE af but it s just my real emotions talking no HOMO
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post 1620952291 10-31-2020, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Yeah honestly the first time I laid eyes on her my first thought was she has a very pretty face but her body is way too light. She’s the girl who taught my personality is much more important than looks no homo.

But yeah I wasn’t planning on confessing all my feels while drunk. Goal was to just message her and set up a tIme to meet which I’ve accomplished after this msg. Already excited for it.

There are no current scary movies in the meta Srs, liar
Well GJ just don't text too much unless sober being srs I lol at drunk texts mostly unless they can hold it together I'm only buzzed myself just now so I get it, but if I am drunk I text stupid myself lol, and I'm watching a Halloween movie I never watched before it's not that scary tbh though maybe it's the voddie I did close my closet doors though just in case
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post 1620952341 10-31-2020, 01:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Nestaaa⏩
Awesome brah, keep us updated. Hope it works out, and if it does - Don't fuk it up again.

Drugs and alcohol, that **** is not good for you. You don't need that stuff in your life.
Very appreciated ty. Brah Srs

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Out
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post 1620952361 10-31-2020, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
Call another girl. Will remove the itch and give you some perspective.
This is different mane I’ve dated a
More attractive girl after her
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post 1620952491 10-31-2020, 01:09 AM
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Lmfao.. anyone who encourages this chit deserves a ban

Don’t fukin text an ex..

U got onetitus

Bust a nut and clear ur head cause ur not thinking straight lmao

My friend tried meeting up wit an ex once, said he was gone fuk her and leave to get the last word, I told him not to cause I already know what was gone happen, he did it and she played his ass hard lol. Dude drove out there for nothin and got ego wrecked for months
post 1620952531 10-31-2020, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
Well GJ just don't text too much unless sober being srs I lol at drunk texts mostly unless they can hold it together I'm only buzzed myself just now so I get it, but if I am drunk I text stupid myself lol, and I'm watching a Halloween movie I never watched before it's not that scary tbh though maybe it's the voddie I did close my closet doors though just in case
Yeah Unlike these posts I made sure I had no typo s or anything srs
I normally never drink text but she means a lot to Me no homo, even after therapy I had irrational thoughts I shouldn’t Reach our to her cus I duc D up in th e past

My sis had to
I’m done srs
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post 1620952581 10-31-2020, 01:13 AM
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post 1620952621 10-31-2020, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
Lmfao.. anyone who encourages this chit deserves a ban

Don’t fukin text an ex..

U got onetitus

Bust a nut and clear ur head cause ur not thinking straight lmao
A 6-7 could be better than a 8-10 depending on quality, character and personaliy at the end of the day you have to live with them so don't tell him how he feels, plus he said it was him not her, often a mental connection is far stronger and means more something you can't replace in anyone else someone else won't cover that.
Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Yeah Unlike these posts I made sure I had no typo s or anything srs
I normally never drink text but she means a lot to Me no homo, even after therapy I had irrational thoughts I shouldn’t Reach our to her cus I duc D up in th e past

My sis had to
I’m done srs
Yeah you need sleepgo sleep it off and you can think better in the morning.
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post 1620953021 10-31-2020, 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
A 6-7 could be better than a 8-10 depending on quality, character and personaliy at the end of the day you have to live with them so don't tell him how he feels, plus he said it was him not her, often a mental connection is far stronger and means more something you can't replace in anyone else someone else won't cover that.



Yeah you need sleepgo sleep it off and you can think better in the morning.
Agree with what y said , she’s 8 facially 5 bodily but my recent. X was 8.5 overall I don’t give a **** tho this girl was literally 9.9/10 personality wise. We hung out on campus from 12am-6-am and ripped off “safe space” posters from th community enter lmao,

But yeah she just confirmed the time I said was good so. Bout to pass out I. Rarely drink anymore but this was an exception and I’m at 50/125 iq
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Only read the OP. Did you text her yet?
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She already ****ed someone else. Its a 1-4 week buzz reconnecting, then worse than ever before after that. Move on son.
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what kind of substance did you abuse?
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Originally Posted By capowt⏩
Only read the OP. Did you text her yet?
Yeah to update she replied fast, texted a bit and are meeting up for dinner Wednesday to catch up

Wish I had done this sooner, opposite of regretting doing it
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post 1620992191 10-31-2020, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By BobLoblawBrah⏩
She already ****ed someone else. Its a 1-4 week buzz reconnecting, then worse than ever before after that. Move on son.
Even if she did I did too so not really thinking of that. Even if getting back together doesn’t work I’d still want to keep in contact and be friends, she is special to me no homo
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post 1620992301 10-31-2020, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted By 8pieces⏩
what kind of substance did you abuse?
Don’t wanna be specific but related to study drugs
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Messed up girls trust due to substance abuse.

Texts her after a year while drunk.








Stay safe brah.
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where the **** are the pics?
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Originally Posted By capowt⏩
Only read the OP. Did you text her yet?
Yes, lol at miscers asking for advice and then not taking it. He already had his mind made before making this thread.

Have to let them find out the hard way.
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You don’t really want her as a friend though?
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Keep us updated op. And obviously pics
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