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post 1621702601 11-06-2020, 08:22 AM
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"She's not yours, it's just your turn"

Isn't that kinda cucked?

It implies that men wanna keep women, but women don't wanna be kept.

Shouldn't the opposite also be true?

You're not hers, it's just her turn.

Why/How are women always first to move on?

Isn't this a relationship dynamic that needs to change given today's social climate?

Why try and keep somebody around that doesn't want to stay around?
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
post 1621702791 11-06-2020, 08:24 AM
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Never attached yourself to people or things.

People come and go, things change, females are individuals and being possessive and thinking she’s “yours” is clingy and creepy
post 1621702941 11-06-2020, 08:24 AM
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post 1621702961 11-06-2020, 08:25 AM
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So stop cuffing and pass her over here boyo
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post 1621703021 11-06-2020, 08:25 AM
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That mentality comes from incels that wants to own women. In reality it’s all the same
post 1621703121 11-06-2020, 08:26 AM
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post 1621703251 11-06-2020, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
Isn't that kinda cucked?

It implies that men wanna keep women, but women don't wanna be kept.

Shouldn't the opposite also be true?

You're not hers, it's just her turn.

Why/How are women always first to move on?

Isn't this a relationship dynamic that needs to change given today's social climate?

Why try and keep somebody around that doesn't want to stay around?
Lmfao. ur way off

if ur in a relationship you are the beta provider giving ur time energy and attention to this one girl while she bangs chads in ons

You’re literally a cuk if ur in a relationship. Period

She ain’t urs. It’s only ur turn. Pass that hoe to who ever u want you blue pulled beta simp fuk

Smash and dash for life. You can either be the one she cheats with or the one she cheats on

I’ve given you this information, it is up to you to do what you want with it. Become the beta cuk in the relationship or be the smash and dash chad

I can only lead a horse to water but I can not make you drink it
post 1621703291 11-06-2020, 08:27 AM
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reality is, guy or girl, its just their turn.

this is why boyos need to value themselves as the prize.
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post 1621703351 11-06-2020, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Never attached yourself to people or things.

People come and go, things change, females are individuals and being possessive and thinking she’s “yours” is clingy and creepy
Chadagucci dropping wisdom
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
post 1621703371 11-06-2020, 08:27 AM
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post 1621704151 11-06-2020, 08:33 AM
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It's pretty much blackpilled stoicism, OP. You can extend that out further - your mom, dad, son, daughter, wife, friends, etc. They are not yours. You don't get to keep them and are only loaned to you for a short time. You will lose them one day or another, some much sooner than others.
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post 1621704701 11-06-2020, 08:37 AM
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It's a pseudo intellectual attempt at trying to justify some of the core tenets of blackpill.

And while there's some merit to the statement that "people aren't yours", it's incorrectly attributed to an extreme just like everything else in blackpill.

Real, genuine, and good humans do exist, all of whom go against the core ideals of the incel rhetoric "race to the bottom", "crabs in a bucket" mentality that gets spread here.
post 1621704861 11-06-2020, 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Mountaineer92
reality is, guy or girl, its just their turn.

this is why boyos need to value themselves as the prize.
Men are desperate for sex and will always be desperate for sex, women take advantage.
post 1621705121 11-06-2020, 08:40 AM
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... Is said by losers who aren't going to get anywhere in life because of their delusions.
Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me die;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lie.

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post 1621705491 11-06-2020, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey
Men are desperate for sex and will always be desperate for sex, women take advantage.
speak for yourself.
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post 1621705851 11-06-2020, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786
... Is said by losers who aren't going to get anywhere in life because of their delusions.
No not at all. It’s actually a non loser mentality. It’s about realizing that you can’t control people or every circumstance and by removing yourself from trying to so you can focus on your own purpose and mindset which is the only thing you can control in life.

It’s about independence, self respect and being above latching on to 1 female for your source of happiness when 3.5 billion women exist on this earth.

What’s cooler some dude who thinks a girl is theirs or some dude who is chill, focused on himself and realizes things could end and it’s not the end of the world because he can easily find someone else and has his own things going on outside of his relationship.
post 1621705941 11-06-2020, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
Isn't that kinda cucked?

It implies that men wanna keep women, but women don't wanna be kept.

Shouldn't the opposite also be true?

You're not hers, it's just her turn.

Why/How are women always first to move on?

Isn't this a relationship dynamic that needs to change given today's social climate?

Why try and keep somebody around that doesn't want to stay around?
Nothing is ever going to change for you Timmy
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post 1621706521 11-06-2020, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
No not at all. It’s actually a non loser mentality. It’s about realizing that you can’t control people or every circumstance and by removing yourself from trying to so you can focus on your own purpose and mindset which is the only thing you can control in life.

It’s about independence, self respect and being above latching on to 1 female for your source of happiness when 3.5 billion women exist on this earth.

What’s cooler some dude who thinks a girl is theirs or some dude who is chill, focused on himself and realizes things could end and it’s not the end of the world because he can easily find someone else and has his own things going on outside of his relationship.
Okay, but people should have that mentality with ALL things. Buddhist teachings are great about this. Anything you "latch" onto is bound to bring you suffering in the long run.

I agree, you shouldn't rely on external factors to bring you inner peace and happiness. That's just setting yourself up for failure.
Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me die;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lie.

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post 1621706691 11-06-2020, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
Isn't that kinda cucked?

It implies that men wanna keep women, but women don't wanna be kept.

Shouldn't the opposite also be true?

You're not hers, it's just her turn.

Why/How are women always first to move on?

Isn't this a relationship dynamic that needs to change given today's social climate?

Why try and keep somebody around that doesn't want to stay around?
Ehh if anything I’ve been the one who has always kept one foot out the door and my eyes peeled for other options when I’m in a relationship. Usually the girls I date are more obsessed with me than I am with them. I don’t mind that dynamic because it makes my life easier.

Don’t get me wrong I’ve had some slip ups but I learned about female nature when I was very young, thankfully.

Nothing in life is permanent. You enjoy the ride, not the destination. The other thing that men ABSOLUTELY need to take to heart is that there is no ONE woman for you. Every single one of them can be replaced if need be. Every quality that a specific girl has, there are hundreds more carbon copies of her out there. You should never feel that you have to stay with someone for fear of not finding better, or even the same traits in another.
post 1621708561 11-06-2020, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786
... Is said by losers who aren't going to get anywhere in life because of their delusions.
Easy, killer 😆😆😆
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
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Thread title reminded me of this :

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It’s cool just rationalize not dating women because they’ve more than likely had 10+ dinks before you
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Willing to bet OP can’t remember the last time time he had female interaction IRL
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
Isn't that kinda cucked?

It implies that men wanna keep women, but women don't wanna be kept.

Shouldn't the opposite also be true?

You're not hers, it's just her turn.

Why/How are women always first to move on?

Isn't this a relationship dynamic that needs to change given today's social climate?

Why try and keep somebody around that doesn't want to stay around?
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Divorce settlements would like a word with you OP.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
thread title reminded me of this :

lol
The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

That's why grandma's apple pie rocks and yours sucks.
Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
At least it will thunderstorm tonight, and we know how they feel about water. :)
^^^Racist police officer who also cries about how racism doesn't exist, also cries reverse racism and typifies the stupidity of the racist right, referring to black people as "they" and regurgitating racist stereotypes.
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Never attached yourself to people or things.

People come and go, things change, females are individuals and being possessive and thinking she’s “yours” is clingy and creepy
Exactly. Bc look all the flings etc you had in the past with girls

Can gaurantee after a certain amount of time 95% percent of them fell right of the radar
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Most men do not have an abundance mindset. These men fear losing their girlfriends because they either think it will take a huge effort and a lot of time to get another one, or they believe there is no one else out there quite like the one they're with, so they try their hardest to keep this girl at all costs and end up truly broken when she does leave.

If they accept that relationships come and go (it's just their turn), and that there will always be other options (no such thing as 'the one'), then they can stop worrying and instead focus more on themselves and their goals.

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How dare you!

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