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post 1621884741 11-07-2020, 04:49 PM
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Biggest opportunity you have ever missed with a girl? (story time) (autism)

A few months ago I was miring this latina sloot at work, but could only see her body which was nice and her eye area cuz of mask. Had no clue who she was but then she recognized who I was, turns out we went to high school together and had some brief interactions in one of our classes.

When we were in highschool she literally once called me hot to my face and I was a mega autist virgin and literally didn't even say anything. Fast forward 5 years later I've dated, banged some attractive girls ect, so you would think I'm maybe not a total autist anymore. Well, during the next few days at work her and I would talk and work together, I am still in college so work a pleb job at Amazon warehouse.

One day while talking she mentions something about how nobody likes these 2 managers of ours, these 2 hnnng foreign sloots who are sisters and both managers, and I mention to her "oh I like them, they are always nice to me" and her response was "probably cuz they see you and are like damnn haha"

Brahs, I should have just pulled out my phone and said "You're pretty cute yourself let me get your number" but we aren't allowed to use our phones on the floor and I got nervous so instead my autist brain just laughed and continued carrying on normal conversation with her. I figured I'd try to get her number on lunch break. Well, we had break at different times and she left work at a different time than me and her last day at this job was a few days from that day, she got pulled away to another station by one of the hot managers cuz she saw us talking, and I literally never saw her again.

I wanna jump off a bridge when I think about it
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post 1621886341 11-07-2020, 05:00 PM
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Was dating around and picked a dumb sloot over a good girl(eventually cheated!)

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post 1621886791 11-07-2020, 05:04 PM
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I was in college and at a college party at the apartment of 3 college girls. We're all standing talking and the one roommate is a hot looking light black chick. Her and I get to talking and everything's cool. So we're all drinking and the roommates all start doing shots and the black chick was starting to get pretty drunk. So about an hour or two goes by and she starts drunkenly grabbing at my package through my jeans as we're talking. I'm like whoa - there's people all around us - take it easy! I'm trying to be cool about it so I'm a challenge and so her roommates don't block me. So the black chick drunkenly says - oh you don't like me because I'm black. I said no, there's just a lot of people around. This was a small 3BR apartment and we're all in the living room. So again she starts grabbing at the package - and she says to me - "I bet you've never had your dick sucked by a black girl before!" I looked at her and said - Meet me in the bathroom! So I go to the bathroom and I wait, and I wait, and I wait. Suddenly, my buddy bursts into the bathroom (he was watching the whole time) and he tells me - your girl! she was on her way and did a faceplant on the floor drunk and passed out and the roomates put her to bed! SO I come out of the bathroom and I see the one bedroom door is locked and guarded shut and the roommates said they put her to bed and I ended up with nothing that night. So the moral of the story is this - yes you need to be a challenge and be cool and have self control - but if you wait too long to close the deal you can lose. I'll never forget her final words to me.
post 1621887551 11-07-2020, 05:11 PM
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1989. I was 17. 14 year old chick with huge boobs was into me.

Asked me over the phone one day after school "would you do that to me?" in a soft, sexy tone when we were talking about sex, which she always brought up.

"Oh no, I wouldn't want to hurt you and I respect you too much."

she bert stares me over the phone...

"Ummm, you couldn't hurt me..."

Thought she meant she thought I had a small wiener and got mad at her and hung up.

Autismo levels off the charts
post 1621887561 11-07-2020, 05:11 PM
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had an asian girl I was working with for a lab in science class. we were making ice cream. flavored milk in one bag, ice and salt in another. was shaked together till the ice cream formed. in the end we succeeded in making ice cream and both enjoyed the treat. was to her after the lab and saw her grabbing her stomach; folding over in pain. I just kept fukking talkin, wanted her to think I was cool guy. she darted out of the room with tears in her eyes. I thought I said something racist. boom hit me the strongest stench of roasted beef and poop. she avoided me the rest of the day
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post 1621887701 11-07-2020, 05:13 PM
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Hurts to even think about srs.

I’m pretty sure I’ll win this thread and then proceed to kill myself.

Don’t hurt your children.

Negative self esteem is such a beyond fukkd up thing
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Originally Posted By DassItMan
Hurts to even think about srs.

I’m pretty sure I’ll win this thread and then proceed to kill myself.

Don’t hurt your children.

Negative self esteem is such a beyond fukkd up thing
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I had so many "on a plate" opportunities from age 18-23 that it actually hurts a bit. Threw away my youthful glow years because I was an insecure shycel.
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I used to have a bunch of these, maybe like 2 or 3 and they'd be really painful the rest of the night. I'd be chanting to myself "next time next time". And so I just started going for them and never having this ever happen again. I think I had a couple more missed opportunities since, but it came down to bad luck and just not having any opportunities at all. all I remember now are various times where I screwed up asking her out. So basically I just replacedmissing out autism withasking out autism, but at least I can tell myself that I didn't let the opportunity slip. I don't fail all the time though, I do succeed quite often and they're very comforting to think of, but I tend to remember the ask-out fails most often and it stings...
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post 1621889671 11-07-2020, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator
1989. I was 17. 14 year old chick with huge boobs was into me.

Asked me over the phone one day after school "would you do that to me?" in a soft, sexy tone when we were talking about sex, which she always brought up.

"Oh no, I wouldn't want to hurt you and I respect you too much."

she bert stares me over the phone...

"Ummm, you couldn't hurt me..."

Thought she meant she thought I had a small wiener and got mad at her and hung up.

Autismo levels off the charts
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Originally Posted By bfdehewdbyywhn
had an asian girl I was working with for a lab in science class. we were making ice cream. flavored milk in one bag, ice and salt in another. was shaked together till the ice cream formed. in the end we succeeded in making ice cream and both enjoyed the treat. was to her after the lab and saw her grabbing her stomach; folding over in pain. I just kept fukking talkin, wanted her to think I was cool guy. she darted out of the room with tears in her eyes. I thought I said something racist. boom hit me the strongest stench of roasted beef and poop. she avoided me the rest of the day
That... doesn't sound like an actual opportunity. Or was it.
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Originally Posted By TheBrentmeister
I had so many "on a plate" opportunities from age 18-23 that it actually hurts a bit. Threw away my youthful glow years because I was an insecure shycel.
I'm 23, are you still a shycel?
Originally Posted By Ninshark
I used to have a bunch of these, maybe like 2 or 3 and they'd be really painful the rest of the night. I'd be chanting to myself "next time next time". And so I just started going for them and never having this ever happen again. I think I had a couple more missed opportunities since, but it came down to bad luck and just not having any opportunities at all. all I remember now are various times where I screwed up asking her out. So basically I just replacedmissing out autism withasking out autism, but at least I can tell myself that I didn't let the opportunity slip. I don't fail all the time though, I do succeed quite often and they're very comforting to think of, but I tend to remember the ask-out fails most often and it stings...
At least you succeed nowadays
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When I was a freshman in college I asked girl to the movies, she said “My parents dont let me go to the movies but Im down to go somewhere else, I’ll pick you up”


I literally said “oh thats ok, i live really far maybe next time”





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Originally Posted By Merc009
When I was a freshman in college I asked girl to the movies, she said “My parents dont let me go to the movies but Im down to go somewhere else, I’ll pick you up”


I literally said “oh thats ok, i live really far maybe next time”





Up to this day my soul burns... ������
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This girl at work that I was doing a project with. I was treading lightly cause of the don't chit where you eat principal but felt a strong connection.

She was kinda shy but gave me all the signals too.. constant smiles, compliments. We went to get coffee together once and while they were making it she stood so close to me like rubbing up against my shoulder in a big open food court.

I was gonna ask her out when the project ended (end of March) but corona hit and we started WFH. Couple weeks later we were supposed to have a brief call about the project but ended up talking for 2+ hours about random chit and she told me "it was really nice to hear your voice" and I was like "you too" and other gay chit like that.

Should've told her I liked her then and there but pussyed out. Then my ex hit me up and we started catching up (a whole different story) but me and the work girl basically stopped talking and a few months later when I tried to respark things she was cold. Seems like she may be dating someone based on her insta stories but not sure.
post 1621896591 11-07-2020, 06:33 PM
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also I was a tier 1 autist in HS and probably missed out on 5 easy kills

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post 1621897831 11-07-2020, 06:46 PM
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I was 25 and still living at home.

Went to carnival near my house with my dream girl

After she asks if she can come over, I should've said no because mom is home and not cool.

Bring this girl home anyway and mom is at the front.

I say "she needed to use the bathroom"

Mom says in angry voice "why don't you go to McDonalds".

Left and never see this girl again. It's all my moms fault, srs.
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Had this small, big booty latina girl I used to work with that was very clearly into me; strong eye contact, always had that smile girls get on their face when talking to guys they like, would stand close with her hips touching me all the time, always brought up sex whenever she could, copied some **** I did, etc.

I asked her out once and she answered with a yes so incredibly fast that I got whiplash. Then she changed her answer and said "I mean, no", then she changed her answer again and said "I mean, it depends where we went", all in the span of like a few seconds before I had a chance to say anything. We got interrupted by a costumer, so the conversation stopped there, but I guess I used up all my energy asking her out in the first place because I was too scared to bring it up again the entire day.

After that was a long history of me being super beta and doing a lot of cringey ****, so over time she definitely lost interest in me and I pretty much got permanently friend-zoned. That happened a few more times than I'm willing to admit..
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was talking to this track chick in college. we both went jogging one night and she came back to my college dorm/apartment. she was like "help me do these leg stretches on the floor!"

im at her feet. i hold one leg down with both hands and drive my shoulder into her other leg to where if you're looking from the side her legs make an L shape. my face was right next to her pooce and she was like oh that feels so good. fuark
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this thread is making me feel better
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This one chick, dating for a few months. She was a bit reserved. So I never really escalated; her energy / vibe just made me feel like a rapist when I would start getting into sh!t with her, srs. She called things off and called me 'timid.' At the same time, she didn't like being touched in normal circumstances; didn't like cuddling during movies, etc. Was really hard to read her. One time I was ready to smash and she asked to grab a condom, went to get it, then she said "The mood passed." Got up and left at like 5 AM, like the fuk?

What sucks is if I genuinely dig a chick, I some times overthink sh!t when it comes time to plow. So that times 1000 with this particular girl. If I can power through the initial banging I always pull all nighters for first romps, and I'm golden. But if I fuk up and get anxious, I some times ruin my mindset with that particular girl. I also started to realize most of the time, when I get this sorta early anxiety, it's because the girl in question is a bit off...sociopathic, narcissist, BPD, overly slooty. Always wondered if it was my gut intuition psyching me out of getting tangled up with some psycho chicks. However, the one I mentioned earlier, while undoubtedly mentally ill, was smart as fuk, great looking...intellectually she was awesome. But there was just tons of emotional baggage there. IDK how some bruhs turn off their gut intincts and just smash these crazy broads. 10 years ago I didn't even notice or pay attention to the red flags that scare my stiffy away now in my early 30s. It's a blessing and a curse, I reckon.
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Had just broken up with LTR years ago and had some chick (8/10 misc standards) I knew through friends in college drive 1 hour to my apt for my lunch break (office across the st.)

Could have sealed the deal but I guess I poosed out and then break ended I went back to work and sent her home lmao not even so much as a hug for her when she was prob expecting the full service package
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Soul destroying cringeworthy stuff.

Was 14-15, German girl in my class that a friend and I used to tease. Would always want to be around me, came over to mine a few times and literally would lay down on my bed next to me. Fast forward to 16-17ish she came over when she had a bf and told me how she had a crush on me. Never made the move.
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I have one, to this day i still cringe hard at it. I was 21 years old in the middle of a severe depression because of several stuff that had been happening in my life since i was 15. I was simply not a healthy minded dude.

Have told this story before like 10 times on the misc, it was a 9/10 HBB blonde, met her in a class, she asked for my number (to "study"), studied a few times on her house and in a friend of her's house... i never made a move.

Last chance i had she literally sent me "i got an A how can i pay you back??". Told her she could just give me an apple the next time she saw me (i was always eating an apple before that class, just being by myself looking at the horizon, acting like some kind of mysterious anime character). Funny enough that whole act must have looked badass because apparently she was attracted to me but i still fuked it up because i had the personality of an autistic 3/10. Anyway she left me on read, and i double texted her a couple of days after that and got no response.

To this day i still cringe.


Also have another one, with my college oneitis, but thats a whole different story. This one more than making me cringe makes me feel legit pain in the heart lol. Its one of those "what if" situations, it was completely under my control to have a thing with the girl i was crushing hard on for 2 years, literally in love like some kind of elementary school little *******... it was under my control and i just didnt do it.

I mean, live and learn i guess.
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Dude maybe look at your self and be introspective - the only times I've attracted crazy ones into my life to any sort of capacity was when I was fkn weird and off.
I'm of the belief everyone is a bit crazy, but it's best not to force others to endure that. I don't burden others with my crazy, and that's how everyone should operate. Well, aside from burdening hired professionals...it's their job.

Also, you seem to be under the impression this was every girl I hooked up with. It wasn't. Maybe a handful out of two dozen? I'm thinking maybe, some times, your body registers the red flags your mind tried to overlook.
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I can't even type all the opportunities I missed in my late teens/early twenties. It makes me cringe even thinking about it.
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Back in college, somehow ended up dancing/making out with my oneitis. Party ends and I take her back to my dorm room. I literally cannot get it up because of anxiety, alcohol, or some combination of both. She ends up leaving and I'm convinced I've blown it.

We ended up dating afterwards for like four years before she dumped my ass so I guess it wasn't all bad. But at the time was brutal...
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The year was 2009. I was 15 at the time and knew these two girls in my high school were crushing on me and they were best friends. They weren't HBBs by any means, maybe a pair of 6's.

Anyways - my mom would WFH every day but Wednesdays she went into the office so I had the house to myself. Somehow I managed to get these two best friends, who confirmed were both crushing hard over me, over to my house and we were all three chilling at my house, I got them both into my bed just talking and shooting the chit. Because I was still a virgin at the time I had no clue what to do and didn't even imagine how to advance. I still cringe to this day.
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https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=110386641

similar thread from years ago. old but gold
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13 years old, the HBB popular school girl invited me to her house, i could of made out with her but acted like a pussy still regret it to this day dead srs.
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