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post 1622613281 11-14-2020, 12:53 PM
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How can I be rougher in bed?

My gf says she is satisfied in bed. She generally looks forward to our sex and that I wouldn’t still be in the picture if I sucked in bed.

But she says on the roughness scale that I’m about a 3 out of 10 on what she wants and that I rely too much on the fact I have a large penis (hey, those are her words not mine).

But I don’t know how to be rougher. Wtf. Slapping? Choking? Hair pulling? Calling her rude things????

Help me
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post 1622613331 11-14-2020, 12:54 PM
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Ask her other dude for tips
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post 1622613491 11-14-2020, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By SmashinYoungVag⏩
Ask her other dude for tips
Don’t put your insecurities on me like that dog.
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post 1622613771 11-14-2020, 01:00 PM
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post 1622613831 11-14-2020, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Slapping? Choking? Hair pulling? Calling her rude things????
Well, yeah, that's pretty standard these days.

Sounds like she might be into some BDSM stuff, too.
post 1622613881 11-14-2020, 01:00 PM
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just stop relying on that fact so much (her words not mine)
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post 1622614141 11-14-2020, 01:04 PM
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Some women like rough sex like choking and feeling forced fuked almost raped. If she is like that then you need to enjoy it.
I probably banged your mom.

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post 1622614281 11-14-2020, 01:05 PM
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Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
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post 1622614441 11-14-2020, 01:06 PM
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Honestly man she sounds like she has different tastes from what you wanna put out there. I'm not someone who gets off on slapping the chit outta a girl in bed, if she wants something I don't enjoy we aren't gonna be that compatible long term sexually.

Her Dad probably left the picture early.

I had a girl who would get soaking wet if she tongue my Angus. Her tongue was pointy and I didnt wanna kiss her after. Didn't want to always have her do butt related things to me for her to get off and peaced. One thing I didn't do was come to the misc and ask about how to satisfy her different taste.
post 1622614531 11-14-2020, 01:08 PM
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Btw dirty talk from someone who doesn't know how to do it is cringe af.

Anyone can choke a bish tho.
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Start with choking and slapping. If that doesn't work you might have to try scat. Look up Veronica Moser.
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Just treat her like a **** toy and stop thinking of her as a person. Show no respect for her in bed. Choke her, slap her, spit in her mouth. Degrade that little slut. Force her to gag on your cock. **** her face until she throws up. They love it brah. Women are filthy ****ing whores I don’t know how you brahs don’t get it yet.
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
My gf says she is satisfied in bed. She generally looks forward to our sex and that I wouldn’t still be in the picture if I sucked in bed.

But she says on the roughness scale that I’m about a 3 out of 10 on what she wants and that I rely too much on the fact I have a large penis (hey, those are her words not mine).

But I don’t know how to be rougher. Wtf. Slapping? Choking? Hair pulling? Calling her rude things????

Help me
For real, have sex like you want to have it.

I dated this girl and she liked choking and all of that sh!t and I will not do it. She had issues with men and in psych there's the idea that people that like getting beaten, etc are actually abusing the person they requested to beat them.

That's because if a woman hates men and she asks you to hit her, then she can say "She, he's just brutal like other men. A real man wouldn't do it" and then after that, she can start treating you like sh!t.

Another girl I was with, molested when she was a kid, adopted by monsters, etc ask me to slap her ass. I did in fact slap it, and she never asked me again, because one slap was enough to teach her a lesson.

Don't get into doing things you don't want to do and do not listen to women. If you're a nice person and your idea of making love is to be gentle, stick with it and get her away from weirdness.
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post 1622614851 11-14-2020, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
Just treat her like a **** toy and stop thinking of her as a person. Show no respect for her in bed. Choke her, slap her, spit in her mouth. Degrade that little slut. Force her to gag on your cock. **** her face until she throws up. They love it brah. Women are filthy ****ing whores I don’t know how you brahs don’t get it yet.
Meh. That description doesn't sound like fun to me. Dehumanizing a girl I like isn't my thing, ill give them a good fook but honestly I don't wanna pretend to be something I'm not every time I lay the pipe.

Rather just be myself. Some days that kind of stuff is nice but I dont feel like that every time. Feels fake or like you need a messed up mental.
post 1622614921 11-14-2020, 01:12 PM
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It’s a delicate balancing act. Don’t do enough (as in your case) and she’ll daydream of someone else fulfilling her fantasies...do too much, and she’ll be shocked and horrified and could ruin your chemistry.

In my opinion...girls like rough but with purpose. They don’t want you yanking their hair like you’re starting a mower...they want you to grab a fistful of hair and pull her up gently (when you’re behind), then kiss their neck, etc. If they’re grabbing the sheets, grab their hands and pin them down, or if in doggy, put her arms behind her and hold them their...but don’t just throw her in an arm bar and think it’s hot. In other words, I don’t think they want to feel like they’re physically being abused...they just want the feeling that they’re not in control.

If they WANT to be abused, I’d never get serious with a girl like that. Red flag that she’s broken...
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah⏩
Just treat her like a **** toy and stop thinking of her as a person. Show no respect for her in bed. Choke her, slap her, spit in her mouth. Degrade that little slut. Force her to gag on your cock. **** her face until she throws up. They love it brah. Women are filthy ****ing whores I don’t know how you brahs don’t get it yet.
Op, this is the best answer you will get. Srs.


Women love it to varying degrees. Start filthy and work your way up as she responds to it.
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get the roughest belt you can find and give her 1 solid spank to her bare ass....make it bleed if you can.

Ask her if she wants another, if she says yes then dump her bc she is a pyscho...if she says no then, tell her to stfu about roughness and she'll deal with whatever you decide to give her.
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it's more of an attitude of only caring about your needs. Telling her to shut up and do (whatever act you want add here). Take charge. Looking in her eyes and tell her to do what you want, when you want. When it's your turn, do what you want with full abandon for her pleasure as hard as you feel like.
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Lol she’s used to Jamal and Tyrone sorry brah, hope you don’t see a long future with this chick
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If she said that bro if she hasent cheated by now she is destined to in the future.

When it comes to that chit you cant fake it man. Chics can smell fakness is a man a mile away.

Compatibility is everything OP
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Stop caring about her so much and take zma

Srs

The reason you aren't being rough is because in your mind you're looking at her like the mother of your kids which she isn't

Treat her like some dumbass thot and slap the sloot

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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Start with choking and slapping. If that doesn't work you might have to try scat. Look up Veronica Moser.
Dude. Rough sex. Slapping. Choking. S&M. Is all good man. So long as its consensual but really scat? You have to be mentally disturbed and phucked up to. Be turned on by something like that.

Ive watched and even done golden shower porn type stuff but thats sterial..

Even a shrink will tell you sexual communicatin and exploration is a great thing. But. Thats not a matter of ot just being mentally phycked. Its dangerous.
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Think of whatever she did that pissed you off.
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