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post 1623038001 11-18-2020, 07:45 PM
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This is the filth that my nephew has to live in

I'm going with my mother tomorrow to clean this place up the best we can. His strung out excuse of a mother has DFACS up her ass trying to take the kids away, and if the place doesn't become at least livable sometime soon, my nephew (and her other son) will be taken from her custody.

Gonna try my best to not rage hard the entire time I'm there.

This is my nephews fukking BEDROOM.... Warning: NSFL


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EDIT:

This is what my mother and I were able to do to in his bedroom in a day. Turns out there was a bathroom in his bedroom, that had been closed off with a dresser in front of the door and not used for years because the toilet wasn't working. I got it working, along with their kitchen sink which hadn't worked in over a year.

Spoiler!








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post 1623038191 11-18-2020, 07:47 PM
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Fuuark, poor kid. Spike her with heroin next time you're over and call an anonymous tip about an erratic woman at the house and a kid's in danger.








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post 1623038371 11-18-2020, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted By grandmoloch⏩
Fuuark, poor kid. Spike her with heroin next time you're over and call an anonymous tip about an erratic woman at the house and a kid's in danger.

not srs

semi srs
Bro, i don't need to spike her for that situation to arise.
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post 1623038591 11-18-2020, 07:51 PM
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In the exact same situation m9

The court case is actually happening right now for my nephew, started 50 mins ago to decide what is happening with the kid. Hope he's taken off them
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post 1623038781 11-18-2020, 07:53 PM
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what is the end goal here? you seem to imply that she is unfit, but you are trying to help her keep the kids?
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post 1623038791 11-18-2020, 07:54 PM
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Damn I can smell that room from here
post 1623038811 11-18-2020, 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted By JamesA1990⏩
In the exact same situation m9

The court case is actually happening right now for my nephew, started 50 mins ago to decide what is happening with the kid. Hope he's taken off them
Idk how I feel about it, foster care is fking garbage as well. At least when this bitch has custody I see him every now and then and my mom and I can make sure he's at least healthy and whatnot.
Originally Posted By katya422⏩
what is the end goal here? you seem to imply that she is unfit, but you are trying to help her keep the kids?
I suppose its to avoid foster care. And to just give him a place to lay his head that isn't absolutely disgusting.
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post 1623038901 11-18-2020, 07:55 PM
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post 1623039021 11-18-2020, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By DizzySmalls⏩
Damn I can smell that room from here
It all smells like cigarettes. They're fukking everywhere. Bathroom sink is littered with them.
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post 1623039081 11-18-2020, 07:56 PM
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absolutely disgusting, even the fuking light bulb wants to get out of that room
lmao I was like lmao


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post 1623039691 11-18-2020, 08:00 PM
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I've seen worse. Not great, not terrible. Mom needs to get chit together tho.
post 1623039791 11-18-2020, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted By bov188⏩
By any chance, is this guy your brother in law?

lmao


She would be the in-law btw. I'm not related to the mom, I'm related to the dad. But they were never together anyhow, the nephew is an accidental pregnancy between this bitch and my brother when they were both 17.
Originally Posted By Underwrought⏩
I've seen worse. Not great, not terrible. Mom needs to get chit together tho.
Um, not terrible?
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post 1623040201 11-18-2020, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
I suppose its to avoid foster care. And to just give him a place to lay his head that isn't absolutely disgusting.
any chance the mom will get treatment, or give over care to someone better? is the dad in the picture?
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post 1623040241 11-18-2020, 08:05 PM
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Damn that's sad. Good for you OP for doing what you can. People don't understand that it's difficult and I'm sure there are things you would like to do but know you can't because if you do, you'll make it worse. What many don't understand is how living like this, with a mom that is messed up, it can lead to all kinds of mental problems for the kid that will haunt them their entire life.
post 1623040281 11-18-2020, 08:05 PM
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Poor kid. That bed looks ****ing disgusting, would throw down to buy him a new one srs
post 1623040451 11-18-2020, 08:07 PM
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Had no idea you were related to LinuxJon brah, RIP.
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post 1623040541 11-18-2020, 08:09 PM
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Reminds me of my woman’s dad’s place. It wasnt that bad when she lived with her parents, but chit went way downhill after her mom split from him.

He passed away a few years ago and left us with an absolutely huge mess to clean up. It took weeks and we needed to bring in one of those big industrial garbage bins to haul everything away
post 1623040681 11-18-2020, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
Idk how I feel about it, foster care is fking garbage as well. At least when this bitch has custody I see him every now and then and my mom and I can make sure he's at least healthy and whatnot.




I suppose its to avoid foster care. And to just give him a place to lay his head that isn't absolutely disgusting.
update: child going with my brother and not his ex for the interim

they both are fukwits

edit: diapers at 4 as well. real sad
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post 1623040711 11-18-2020, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
any chance the mom will get treatment, or give over care to someone better? is the dad in the picture?
Her boyfriend is worse than she is. The dad was my brother, who died unexpectedly 2 months ago.

There is a chance that my mother, his grandmother, would be given custody. But my brother was never legally his father. Another man (who is in prison) signed the birth certificate and we weren't allowed to meet my nephew until he was 4 years old.

He was still in diapers at that age, btw.
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post 1623040801 11-18-2020, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Edged123⏩
Poor kid. That bed looks ****ing disgusting, would throw down to buy him a new one srs
Its already been purchased. Just have to clean the damn room up so we can put it in there.
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post 1623040881 11-18-2020, 08:12 PM
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Feel bad for the cat
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Originally Posted By jasticus⏩
Feel bad for the cat
They have the cat to catch all the rats, ded ass.
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post 1623041041 11-18-2020, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
Her boyfriend is worse than she is. The dad was my brother, who died unexpectedly 2 months ago.

There is a chance that my mother, his grandmother, would be given custody. But my brother was never legally his father. Another man (who is in prison) signed the birth certificate and we weren't allowed to meet my nephew until he was 4 years old.

He was still in diapers at that age, btw.
damn. tough situation. sorry for your loss.

you might try reaching out to CASA. my aunt volunteers as a child advocate,

https://nationalcasagal.org/
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This is so sad man. I hope you or your mother can take him in.
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
Her boyfriend is worse than she is. The dad was my brother, who died unexpectedly 2 months ago.

There is a chance that my mother, his grandmother, would be given custody. But my brother was never legally his father. Another man (who is in prison) signed the birth certificate and we weren't allowed to meet my nephew until he was 4 years old.

He was still in diapers at that age, btw.
Lawyer up.
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OP, would you consider taking custody of your nephew? He clearly needs a stable parent figure. What about your brother? Why doesnt he take custody?
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Originally Posted By CroForce⏩
Lawyer up.
Feels inevitable.


Forgot to mention the kitchen sink, both toilets, and the oven are all broken and don't function.
Originally Posted By tank2003⏩
OP, would you consider taking custody of your nephew? He clearly needs a stable parent figure. What about your brother? Why doesnt he take custody?
It would obviously be a massive undertaking for me to take him in, but I would. I have a one year old and a newborn on the way, it wouldn't be easy.

My brother died recently, but even when he was alive it was tough. He didn't exactly have a stellar life either and could never afford the litigation to take custody.

Plus Georgia is big time stupid about leaving kids with moms, regardless of circumstance.
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Originally Posted By tank2003⏩
OP, would you consider taking custody of your nephew? He clearly needs a stable parent figure. What about your brother? Why doesnt he take custody?
He said the brother died a couple months back and he wasn't technically on the birth certificate so there is no claim
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Your nephew has nothing on janoy.

The pisslord clearly didnt write this (it is worded too well) but someone with some....impairments (less than the pisslord) clearly did.
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Originally Posted By DizzySmalls⏩
He said the brother died a couple months back and he wasn't technically on the birth certificate so there is no claim
ohh...chit...i completely missed that
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