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post 1623473411 11-23-2020, 12:35 PM
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paulie walnuts and corrado soprano jr.

word to the wise my friend, remember pearl harbor.
post 1623473971 11-23-2020, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By MajinBuuuu⏩
You not wanting kids or not wanting her dependant on you sounds like either of you aren't at a stage in your life where you want a family or you're not man enough to shoulder responsibility. Men reproduce, men take risks.. it's not impressive to take the path of least resistence. Miscers are overwhemlingly scared little pusses who have been aggressively coddled all their life.
Ignorance is bliss
post 1623474021 11-23-2020, 12:42 PM
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Bad idea, except good relationships are hard to find.
post 1623474071 11-23-2020, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By ectosthetic⏩
ITT you will have married/LTR people say "yeah man those bachelor guys are wannabe losers"

As well as current bachelors who say "lol getting married is for beta cucks"

No real opinions will be found here
That’s why you look for advice from those who’ve successfully done both , instead of the screaming retards in the room
post 1623474661 11-23-2020, 12:49 PM
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I don't want to settle for someone. I already know what its like to have someone special and I know who I want. I know I can get guys. I also know it's going to be sad to be alone as an old woman. But there's nothing I hate more than meaningless sex - so much so that I'd rather just not have sex at all.
post 1623474741 11-23-2020, 12:50 PM
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I'm happily married but if I won £10,000,000 I'd be single in a heartbeat and be dumping my loads all over S. America.

That's an unrealistic dream. So instead I live a realistic (if somewhat dull) life. I'm far too lazy to work enough hours to ever amass enough funds to live that life, and it's too late for me anyway. Had a good time in my 20s - at least I wasn't slave waging and wasting those best years.

Chasing women is fun, but really only 1 in 5 is actually worth it by the time you've busted your nut. It's a lot of hassle and it can take a few times for the sex to click.

At the stage in my life where wondering if it's time to have a baby or not. Huge decisions in my near future.
post 1623475251 11-23-2020, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy⏩
How old are you?

It's very immature how you view parenthood. Being a dad and supporting my kids is far from a burden. It's not hard at all.

Obviously you speak from inexperience with your ideas of what marriage and parenthood has in store from you.

I watch UFC cards from the prelims to main event with my wife, 5 year old, and newborn in the house with me. I've even missed fights due to family parties and guess what... It's not the end of the world.

Your "mindset" is comical.
Yea keep drinking your beers on your reclining chair, and getting nagged at by the "wife"

Can't tell you how many guys I know say chit like "Yea I had to sell my motorcycle, cause the wife said so" and you can see a little bit of them dead inside. I can travel to Florida whenever I want and not have to drag the kids around on a trip to Disney lmao
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post 1623475261 11-23-2020, 12:56 PM
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just lol

if you are a sub 8/10 single male you are not a "bachelor" - you are an incel.
post 1623475711 11-23-2020, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
paulie walnuts and corrado soprano jr.

word to the wise my friend, remember pearl harbor.
Have you ever been tested for Tourette’s?
post 1623477361 11-23-2020, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
Oh yeah because adoption agencies just hand out babies like they're handing out Halloween candy. Especially to unmarried single men. More delusions of piss.
People here are stupid af. It's impossible for single men to adopt a kid because of chomos.
Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Lol, yeah let's slowly destroy western society and almost every incentive for men to start a family...

"Bu but why do more men stay bachelor?"

What a surprise, men look at society today and to the future and base their decisions on those prospects.
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post 1623477431 11-23-2020, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy⏩
Calling him immature is not hating I'm just telling it like it is. Many of these posts reek of insecurity. The guy I quoted was getting nagged by one ex girlfriend and uses her as a reason why he thinks a future wife would be the same. No offense, but how does that make any sense?
He may fall into the category of hating on all marriages, possibly because he assumes all men experience the problems he did with his exes when in reality not all women/relationships are like that and some are mutually beneficial relationships and both parties are genuinely happy together.
post 1623477661 11-23-2020, 01:21 PM
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You could be married your whole 20s thru 50s then hit 60 and that hoe could leave you
post 1623478031 11-23-2020, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887⏩
If you're a miserable person, you'll be a miserable person with or without a wife and kids.

Same goes for being happy.
Can confirm. It doesn't matter what I do. I'll hate my life no matter what. Probably not going to get married though since I am ugly. Marriage rates are dropping off a cliff anyways. In 20 years the married couples will be the odd ones out.
post 1623478301 11-23-2020, 01:28 PM
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i'll never get married but that doesn't mean i'm gonna be lonely

have a million friends and it gets easier to get prime sloots as i get older, balder, fatter and uglier srs
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post 1623478971 11-23-2020, 01:34 PM
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Gonna be one of those crazy cat ladies but as a man with dogs instead.
post 1623479671 11-23-2020, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
People here are stupid af. It's impossible for single men to adopt a kid because of chomos.




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Originally Posted By SixSet⏩
brb adopt 16 year old sloot
^^^Case in point^^^

Single women are just as delusional though. Unless you're a 9 figure celebrity like Madonna, ain't nobody giving babies to single menopausal Karens for adoption.
post 1623489041 11-23-2020, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Can't really worry about what you may or may not regret later on. Just gotta do what feels right for you in the moment and make the best outta your life.

I don't see the point of bachelors hating on the family men (ie calling them beta providers or w/e given we still need to procreate) nor do I see the point of the family men hating on the bachelors calling them immature or saying they live purposeless lives. If it's the right life for them and they're not hurting anyone else in the process then good on them.

I kind of assume that, even if you don't want kids, there comes a time prior to ~60 or so where you'd want a steady relationship (even if you don't live together) if you genuinely enjoy companionship but there are exceptions to that as well I'm sure.
im not sure if you noticed but its relationship or married brahs attacking the bachelors ITT.

Im not sure why theyre mad. They should literally not give a phuck. The world is overpopulated anyways
post 1623489451 11-23-2020, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
divorce stats are kinda skewed - admittedly it was awhile ago that I last checked, but if you look at marriages where it was the first marriage for both partners the divorce rate is around 20%. Some people are getting divorced multiple times and it skews the numbers.
Not to mention the amount of failed 1-day marriages during Vegas vacations, etc.
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As long as you can win the depression battle, you'll be fine.
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post 1623489691 11-23-2020, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Chezdon⏩
I'm happily married but if I won £10,000,000 I'd be single in a heartbeat and be dumping my loads all over S. America.

That's an unrealistic dream. So instead I live a realistic (if somewhat dull) life. I'm far too lazy to work enough hours to ever amass enough funds to live that life, and it's too late for me anyway. Had a good time in my 20s - at least I wasn't slave waging and wasting those best years.

Chasing women is fun, but really only 1 in 5 is actually worth it by the time you've busted your nut. It's a lot of hassle and it can take a few times for the sex to click.

At the stage in my life where wondering if it's time to have a baby or not. Huge decisions in my near future.
See youre the type of guy thats okay with that. If I ever felt like I settled I would just rope myself, srs.

Imagine feeling like that towards your wife, that you can just leave her if you became rich. Thats not it jeff
post 1623489771 11-23-2020, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
Oh yeah because adoption agencies just hand out babies like they're handing out Halloween candy. Especially to unmarried single men. More delusions of piss.
You can go to a non cucked country you dip chit.

Adopting in Bosnia for example is ez af.
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Be in a healthy relationship with somebody you are attracted to and it's worth it.

Anything else, be single instead.
post 1623494391 11-23-2020, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By MuslimBrahSwag⏩
You can go to a non cucked country you dip chit.

Adopting in Bosnia for example is ez af.
Good luck raising a kid on your own as a single dad in your 40's-50's. More inexperience and stupidity than even warrants a response really.
post 1623495591 11-23-2020, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
Good luck raising a kid on your own as a single dad in your 40's-50's. More inexperience and stupidity than even warrants a response really.
If you are college educated I see no reason why you wouldn't be able to raise a kid, especially at that age.

If you're living pay check to pay check then yeah, don't have kids. But if you've got your chit together there is no reason why a single man can't father a child.
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There is no such thing as a risk free choice, where you remain a bachelor or not.

"“Marry, and you will regret it; don't marry, you will also regret it; marry or don't marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world's foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world's foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both." - Søren Kierkegaard
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Is this a Boomer Vs Millennial debate . Most dudes don't want to invest in society. Just look around you FFS misc. Men are logical thinkers right. So why do you think young men are not following traditional roles . Because i have a feeling most of you kunts are naive to whats going on.

brb gynocentric world
brb divorce courts against men
brb family courts
brb Feminism
brb Men shaming
brb Sjw/snowflake culture
brb MeToo
brb Economy ****ed (thank gov/covid)
brb mental health issues on the rise

Alot of guys realities/paths are never black and white its what makes us unique. I won't call it cope because were all going through different **** but when it comes down to it. Live your life how you want to FFS. A great Family man with a wife and kids . Fair enough. A cultured guy who has STR with women and has all the time in the world. Fair enough.

Men need to start supporting each other regardless because no one else is going to do it.
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Originally Posted By MuslimBrahSwag⏩
If you are college educated I see no reason why you wouldn't be able to raise a kid, especially at that age.

If you're living pay check to pay check then yeah, don't have kids. But if you've got your chit together there is no reason why a single man can't father a child.
Wanna know how I know you've never woken up multiple times throughout the night to change diapers or feed a crying baby? Everyday, 7 days a week. At 40+ years of age with no help and then go to work the next day.

Ahh but I'm sure you pull something else out of your ass of which you have exactly zero experience doing but totally know for sure how it would be no problem.
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Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
Wanna know how I know you've never woken up multiple times throughout the night to change diapers or feed a crying baby? Everyday, 7 days a week. At 40+ years of age with no help and then go to work the next day.

Ahh but I'm sure you pull something else out of your ass of which you have exactly zero experience doing but totally know for sure how it would be no problem.
I took care of a 2 year old when I was 11 years old brah. The burden was entirely on me. Not just me though, this has literally been the standard throughout all of history, and still is today in the majority of the world thats not the US and Canada. Brb I was raised in an environment where im not an adult until in 30 so everyone must be like me. Nah brah.

I'm not even gonna bother responding to you anymore. You're literally mad for no reason at all brah. If I was as immature as you are at age 46 then yeah, I guess I wouldn't be ready either. Strong being offended that people can do things that you can't.
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Being a bachelor sucks.

I was one for like, 16 years.
how many sloots were you smashing grandpa?
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Why are so many of you still attached to the blue pilled dream?

Look around. I mean, really look around. Take in the world around you, assess the impending decay of nuclear family, identify behavioral trends of sloots, and make a no ego assessment of your prospects.

Some of you are like old men yelling at clouds, refusing to adapt to the modern world. Do you think the end result of smashing your face into that brick wall is self actualization and fulfillment?
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