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post 1623578161 11-24-2020, 01:19 PM
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[srs] Lasting longer for sex...[no virgins please]

any tips on lasting longer in bed?


Seriously, blow my load after about 10 minutes and any serious pounding i do causes me to blow even faster...any tips? Need to keep the lady happy.
post 1623578191 11-24-2020, 01:19 PM
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post 1623578551 11-24-2020, 01:23 PM
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Are you under the impression that sex should be 60 minutes of porn level pounding?

10 mins of sex (not including foreplay) seems like a good amount

There's always round 2 if you want more
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post 1623578941 11-24-2020, 01:27 PM
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I just say round 1 doesn't count
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post 1623579311 11-24-2020, 01:31 PM
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post 1623579401 11-24-2020, 01:31 PM
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I heard there's a fleshlight designed specifically for practice/lasting longer OP
post 1623579461 11-24-2020, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By areyoucereal
Are you under the impression that sex should be 60 minutes of porn level pounding?

10 mins of sex (not including foreplay) seems like a good amount

There's always round 2 if you want more
haha, i'm 35 year old married (9yrs) man, with prior experience so i'm well aware sex shouldn't be marathon sessions, but 20 minutes after foreplay would be nice.

I feel like when i was younger i last a lot longer, but i guess i never really paid attention.

I have some friends who claim it takes them an hour to bust, so maybe they're full of shiit or they're actually gay and struggling to get off with their girls...i dunno.
post 1623579711 11-24-2020, 01:35 PM
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Have a few drinks first
post 1623579811 11-24-2020, 01:36 PM
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First and foremost, doesn't matter how long you last if your partner is satisfied and reaches climax enough times to be satisfied.

Ten minutes is average for most people (read: perfectly fine and not an issue at all). But if you want to last for a little longer, you'll have to learn when you're reaching "the point of no return" and figure out how to pull yourself back from that. You can do this by focusing on something that isn't your immediate arousal, or changing positions/strokes. I would say you start switching things up WELL before reaching the point of no return.

You have to learn about the type of stroke you're making, and the types that bring you to more immediately to climax. Not all strokes and not all positions are created equal. Some will feel WAY better for you, and some will feel WAY better for her. Trick is to find a good balance between the two. Certain positions let you hit strokes that are "coasting" strokes for me where I'm feeling good but I'm not getting closer to climax.

But really, know yourself. Know when you're closing in on blowing your load. Think about benching, you know how you know you've got 1,2,3 or 4 reps left in the tank? Well, it's similar in that you should be familiar enough with the sensation that you can make changes to coast on it when it's coming on too soon.
post 1623579821 11-24-2020, 01:36 PM
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Just fap beforehand
post 1623580091 11-24-2020, 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo
Have a few drinks first
This was my answer.
post 1623588601 11-24-2020, 03:11 PM
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10 minutes it plenty I’d say, well at least most of the time.
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switch positions frequently and think about the poop inside her butthole
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Jestermaxxing beta concept.

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post 1623589641 11-24-2020, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By areyoucereal
Are you under the impression that sex should be 60 minutes of porn level pounding?

10 mins of sex (not including foreplay) seems like a good amount

There's always round 2 if you want more
This. I've been told I last too long after 10 mins. Srs. I've also been told I'm "too long" hehe, but even as an average dude I feel like you should be able to sufficiently beat the pussy up in that time frame. Just work on your stroke game, OP. Also, if you REALLY wanna last longer, focus on nasal breathing only for as long as you can during sex. Keep your breath as relaxed and controlled as possible. The more horny or anxious you are, the more likely you are to cum.

The easiest way to control this is your breath. Listen to your body and tune into your level of arousal. Change positions, slow your breath, and change your strokes if you're getting close. Worst case scenario, CNS depressants like alcohol will make you last forever. As that classic 80's song said, "Relax, don't do it, when you wanna..."
post 1623589891 11-24-2020, 03:29 PM
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Avoid kegeling when fuking is a huge correction. Rather do a reverse kegel. And breath deeply in and out as well.

I can fuk as long as I want, record 6 hours session
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Originally Posted By low_clazz
any tips on lasting longer in bed?


Seriously, blow my load after about 10 minutes and any serious pounding i do causes me to blow even faster...any tips? Need to keep the lady happy.
All depends on your mental game mainly... Sometimes you gotta let your mind go down some deep irrelevant paths... Think of something that stresses you out.

Physical health and stamina come into play... Low stamina=early nut.
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Originally Posted By Celsus
Avoid kegeling when fuking is a huge correction. Rather do a reverse kegel. And breath deeply in and out as well.

I can fuk as long as I want, record 6 hours session
Do people actually kegel during sex? WTF?!
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Originally Posted By Strawng
Do people actually kegel during sex? WTF?!
Yeah, that's one of the reason many people bust too quick, because they are used to fapping, where they just want to fap and bust quick. Best and fastest way for a quick fap bust is just to kegel, really.

So when they start having sex, their body involuntary starts doing kegels
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Originally Posted By areyoucereal
Are you under the impression that sex should be 60 minutes of porn level pounding?

10 mins of sex (not including foreplay) seems like a good amount

There's always round 2 if you want more
This

10 minutes is fine
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wish I lasted 10 min, srs. I legit 10 minutes is solid. I try to drink before I plow. Looking for answers myself.

think of your grandma
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash
First and foremost, doesn't matter how long you last if your partner is satisfied and reaches climax enough times to be satisfied.

Ten minutes is average for most people (read: perfectly fine and not an issue at all). But if you want to last for a little longer, you'll have to learn when you're reaching "the point of no return" and figure out how to pull yourself back from that. You can do this by focusing on something that isn't your immediate arousal, or changing positions/strokes. I would say you start switching things up WELL before reaching the point of no return.

You have to learn about the type of stroke you're making, and the types that bring you to more immediately to climax. Not all strokes and not all positions are created equal. Some will feel WAY better for you, and some will feel WAY better for her. Trick is to find a good balance between the two. Certain positions let you hit strokes that are "coasting" strokes for me where I'm feeling good but I'm not getting closer to climax.

But really, know yourself. Know when you're closing in on blowing your load. Think about benching, you know how you know you've got 1,2,3 or 4 reps left in the tank? Well, it's similar in that you should be familiar enough with the sensation that you can make changes to coast on it when it's coming on too soon.
some solid advice here.

My foreplay game is pretty good, wife really enjoys it and seems to be satisfied by it. Our communication is very solid so I trust she's being honest about it.

But when other guys start talking about how they go on and on forever, it makes me a bit self conscious.

Good to see 10 minutes is right where i need to be.
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Originally Posted By Celsus
Yeah, that's one of the reason many people bust too quick, because they are used to fapping, where they just want to fap and bust quick. Best and fastest way for a quick fap bust is just to kegel, really.

So when they start having sex, their body involuntary starts doing kegels
Damn. I let those involuntary kegels happen cuz I enjoy them, but I can easily relax if I so choose...which I do when I'm having sex. Weird how I subconsciously avoided that chit. Then again, I don't fap. I probably haven't fapped regularly for close to a decade. Never single crew...
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Originally Posted By ReadyToLift2019
Old dude here - This is what I do to last 45-60+\- minutes of straight hardcore pounding pron style action; any more than that and the wife is crying in pain. Honestly I want some reps for this chit too because if you do this to any sloot she is going to beg you for a ring (srs) so be careful plus I’m typing this out on a cell which is total agony

First I start with a little round of margaritas and some bs-ass candy drink for the wife. After 1-2 of them then she is ready for 3-4 shots, normally high end tequila or moonshine (I dig unaged corn whiskey). Before the shots get rolling too heavy tho I drink half of one of these; I get them at vitamin shoppe (pro tip - ONLY buy the yellow ones; the red are total dogchit and I’ve been left with the sourguts/cockadookies because of these terrible evil mfers including but not limited to not getting any puss for the night (mad af) (srs) (VRY SRS)

https://www.******************/p/sex...-shots/pbp1005

After the 2-4 shots I can normally pretty easily get the old lady to start working on that clam; she’s normally fun/a little giddy by now and she’s got to pop the top if she’s going to soak the bed ifyouknowwhatimsayin. Once she pops that top though I know chit is golden (lol bad pun cuz that nectar ain’t pizz) for the night boyos (again, vry srs)

It’s at this point then I may or may not pull out a little bit of Marley and then depending on if I’ve got some little tingles going on from the yellow stuff I’ll either drink the second half of it (which always guarantees 45+ minutes) or I’ll skip it if I’m feeling a little too buzzed

After another 30 minutes or so you better hold on because she’s coming at you like Harvey Weinstein lol. I only bust about half of the time and really don’t care if I do or don’t because after I put that ass to sleep then the next morning I’ll beat it again like it owes me money for about seven minutes and catch that nut

Godspeed Gentlemen - go smash that prime poon in memory of your boy RDL2019
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Originally Posted By Celsus
Yeah, that's one of the reason many people bust too quick, because they are used to fapping, where they just want to fap and bust quick. Best and fastest way for a quick fap bust is just to kegel, really.

So when they start having sex, their body involuntary starts doing kegels
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