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11-25-2020, 10:09 AM

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LOL at thinking a low kill count will save you boyo. From reddit relationship advice. (lol at redditors)

Me and my ex girlfriend were madly in love she would always talk about starting a family and what she wanted from us and how she's happy.

Few months ago she became friends with girl who would constantly talk about her sexual adventures with multiple men and how exciting her life was on all these dating apps. My ex girlfriend was a virgin when we met and had no other experience.

Last week we were talking about moving things forward like settling down and starting a family and she opened up about her wanting to explore other options and that she's so happy with me but she's not sure she can settle down because she hasn't been with anyone else and doesn't know and needs to find herself first.

She ended things and I find out through mutual friends that she's already been on several dates.

Is this something that is truly a big deal for women?

Is it possible to have a lifelong partnership with someone who hasn't had any other relationships and has nothing to compare you to?

11-25-2020, 10:10 AM

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11-25-2020, 10:12 AM

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Of course marrying a virgin isn't a guarantee for a success BUT if we look at stats there is more chance of success.

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11-25-2020, 10:14 AM

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Is it possible to have a lifelong partnership with someone who hasn't had any other relationships and has nothing to compare you to?

no

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11-25-2020, 10:15 AM

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Always ****ing lol at the "find myself" line.

You find yourself by pushing your limits and overcoming challenges. You don't find yourself being a human fleshlight and staying in luxury hotels traveling the world.

11-25-2020, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩

Of course marrying a virgin isn't a guarantee for a success BUT if we look at stats there is more chance of success.

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those stats are driven up by a few things

-ugly people who don't have a lot of options to start with, think about it, if attractiveness is a normal distribution then half of all people are ugly.
-religious people

LOL if you think a decent looking girl in 2020 who has only had unimpressive sex with your 18 year old self will not try other options when given the chance. You haven't lived real life or accidentally fuked some dudes gf if you don't understand this.

11-25-2020, 10:16 AM

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11-25-2020, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩

those stats are driven up by a few things

-ugly people who don't have a lot of options to start with, think about it, if attractiveness is a normal distribution then half of all people are ugly.
-religious people

LOL if you think a decent looking girl in 2020 who has only had unimpressive sex with your 18 year old self will not try other options when given the chance. You haven't lived real life or accidentally fuked some dudes gf if you don't understand this.

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11-25-2020, 10:20 AM

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11-25-2020, 10:20 AM

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I'd venture to say that the less partners a chick has had.... the more they'll want to try out some new cocks in the future when the marriage/relationship hits the bumpy roads

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11-25-2020, 10:21 AM

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11-25-2020, 10:22 AM

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I don't think it's possible to have a healthy adult relationship at a young age, especially when you've never been in one before.

11-25-2020, 10:24 AM

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11-25-2020, 10:29 AM

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Is it possible to have a lifelong partnership with someone who hasn't had any other relationships and has nothing to compare you to?

Yes, it is. Statistically, as has been noted, it's more likely for those relationships to work. It might have to do with religion, but then again I think us religious folks are also significantly more likely to try it in the first place, so it would be hard to compare.

11-25-2020, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted By NicaM⏩

Yes, it is. Statistically, as has been noted, it's more likely for those relationships to work. It might have to do with religion, but then again I think us religious folks are also significantly more likely to try it in the first place, so it would be hard to compare.

wrong. think about the study. taking data from everyone who is still alive and married. LOL if you think it applies in 2020.

11-25-2020, 10:36 AM

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If you ask me being with a girl who has only slept with guys they’ve been in relationships with is pretty much ideal. Their # won’t be too high and they’ll actually have experience dating.

I wouldn’t see dating a virgin being any better than dating a girl who’s slept with 2-5 guys in relationships.

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11-25-2020, 10:42 AM

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11-25-2020, 10:43 AM

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If I were to guess, having been with 2-4 before you would be the sweet spot as far as not wanting to "see what else is out there."

11-25-2020, 10:46 AM

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my first LTR was a virgin, she cheated on me for these exact reasons (or planned to cheat, I caught her texting and dumped her ass on the spot after a 4 year LTR)
what is the appeal of a virgin anyways? I want a semi sloot, who knows what she wants (family, monogamy) because she's experienced that life
also sex with virgins isn't good, I banged a few of them in my 20's, never a great experience tbh

11-25-2020, 10:47 AM

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LOL @ marriage, but I completely don't give a phuck about a gal's partner count

only care if she's dialed and fun to hang out with

only insecure virgins want virgins because they feel like they won't stack up against her memories of other dudes

every gal i date becomes obsessed with me no matter what crew

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11-25-2020, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩

wrong. think about the study. taking data from everyone who is still alive and married. LOL if you think it applies in 2020.

Actually, although the trend to have more sex before marriage continues to become more acceptable, women who have fewer partners staying married longer is still true. I'm referencing Nicholas H. Wolfinger, "Counterintuitive Trends in the Link Between Premarital Sex and Marital Stability," The Institute for Family Studies, June 6, 2016.

Also, as a member of the U.S.'s Christian homeschooled subculture, I lean on personal experience, and based on my friends' sexual history compared to their relationship health, I'd have to say, yes, I believe it holds true in 2020.

11-25-2020, 10:54 AM

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Likely fake. But if real, do love the harlot friend jealous of her relationship friend and conning her into throwing it all away to ride the carousel

11-25-2020, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted By TheCore84⏩

Most chicks have a slut year to get it all out of their systems.

lol? a year? try all of their 20s.

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11-25-2020, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩

If I were to guess, having been with 2-4 before you would be the sweet spot as far as not wanting to "see what else is out there."

Disagree. If you're a man I believe you need AT LEAST 20 encounters, and 3 or so more serious relationships, to truly understand women, what you want, yourself, and how not to get bossed around in a relationship

11-25-2020, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩

Disagree. If you're a man I believe you need AT LEAST 20 encounters, and 3 or so more serious relationships, to truly understand women, what you want, yourself, and how not to get bossed around in a relationship

this is so spot on.

I truly didn't feel like I was in the driver's seat in terms of casual encounters, fwbs, or dating actual quality girls with something to offer until I hit around 20 in kill count, with a serious live in relationship under my belt and fwb experiences to draw from.

I still won't admit to having it all figured out, but it feels night and day compared to who I was just a few years ago.

This applies to women also. Can't expect a girl whose never fuked anyone else or dated some other guys to know that you are the best she'll get.

11-25-2020, 11:01 AM

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11-25-2020, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩

lol? a year? try all of their 20s.

Some yes for sure

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11-25-2020, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩

I'd venture to say that the less partners a chick has had.... the more they'll want to try out some new cocks in the future when the marriage/relationship hits the bumpy roads

This

Can't imagine being with a woman that has had one sexual partner.

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11-25-2020, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩

this is so spot on.

I truly didn't feel like I was in the driver's seat in terms of casual encounters, fwbs, or dating actual quality girls with something to offer until I hit around 20 in kill count, with a serious live in relationship under my belt and fwb experiences to draw from.

I still won't admit to having it all figured out, but it feels night and day compared to who I was just a few years ago.

This applies to women also. Can't expect a girl whose never fuked anyone else or dated some other guys to know that you are the best she'll get.

Yep, I heard that advice years ago and thought it was silly at first. Felt I understood women “well enough” after 5 slays, then 10, then 15, despite still stumbling. But at around 20 it means you:

- have no problem getting women and know it. Aka relationship leverage
- can balance dating multiple women at a time
- know that women all respond to the same positive triggers. Same escalation tactics. Are attracted to the same types of guys and behavioral traits.
- continuation of that is knowing no woman is truly special, unicorns don’t exist
- takes the romanticism out of it and becomes more pragmatic
- you fit women to your life and not your life to chasing women
- won’t be used by women for money, resources , etc
- won’t be blindsided , or really even care, if she branch swings

Will add that slaying and managing a relationship are different animals. If you can do the former you usually can do the latter quite well, but if you do wife up or get serious I’d recommend having a couple relationships before then ideally.