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post 1624615491 12-05-2020, 05:51 PM
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just unfollow

if she gives you social media after asking for a number = she wants you to be a beta orbiter
post 1624615781 12-05-2020, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
just unfollow

if she gives you social media after asking for a number = she wants you to be a beta orbiter
Is that common for gym girls to do though? Genuinely curious as this has never happened before, but yeah either unfollowing or just not dming
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post 1624616211 12-05-2020, 05:58 PM
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She basically rejected you, get in line with her 10,000 followers
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post 1624616491 12-05-2020, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
She basically rejected you, get in line with her 10,000 followers
Feels cold man ://

I have twice as many followers as her though and don’t even post anymore lol. Sad
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post 1624617541 12-05-2020, 06:15 PM
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^^^yeah that's why I hate the new age IG/snap chit. Brb confident enough to approach and spit game IRL. Brb 7 posts in 3 years.

Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Nah no smiles, no autist but that’s because in the gym I’m way too focused which is why I’ve never approached before. There are 16 power racks at my Uni gym and she usually lifts at one adjacent to me if I’m there first. The excessive eye contact and checking out is undeniable though, it’s why I knew I’d get her # 100%, well in this case ig lol.

Yeah I could see that happening, part of the reason why I just keep to myself at the gym and take any obvious attention signs from girls as an ego boost if anything.
How did the approach go? If the eye contact has been as strong as what you're saying and it took several months to approach than I got sum bad newz...could easily be remedied if the approach was strong but gym girls are probably used to all types of super confident dudes hitting them up without hesitation.
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post 1624621721 12-05-2020, 07:05 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
^^^yeah that's why I hate the new age IG/snap chit. Brb confident enough to approach and spit game IRL. Brb 7 posts in 3 years.





How did the approach go? If the eye contact has been as strong as what you're saying and it took several months to approach than I got sum bad newz...could easily be remedied if the approach was strong but gym girls are probably used to all types of super confident dudes hitting them up without hesitation.
Didn’t even think of that tbh. Maybe she thought it took me all that time to get myself to approach her but that is definitely not the case

Had to think of a one liner before asking for her # which she seemed to genuinely laugh at. Don’t see how the eye contact or anything else could have gone better really. Which is why I’m legit confused at the Ig chit

But yeah for that reason I’m not gonna even bother dming her or anything
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post 1624622281 12-05-2020, 07:11 PM
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Do not listen to these fellas telling you to unfollow her or that she’s just using you for attention; you are literally mind-gaming yourself for no reason.

DM her and she what’s she about. Then, if she seems disinterested or flakey, you can stop talking to her.
post 1624624101 12-05-2020, 07:42 PM
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post 1624624781 12-05-2020, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Composed⏩
Do not listen to these fellas telling you to unfollow her or that she’s just using you for attention; you are literally mind-gaming yourself for no reason.

DM her and she what’s she about. Then, if she seems disinterested or flakey, you can stop talking to her.
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post 1624627721 12-05-2020, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Composed⏩
Do not listen to these fellas telling you to unfollow her or that she’s just using you for attention; you are literally mind-gaming yourself for no reason.

DM her and she what’s she about. Then, if she seems disinterested or flakey, you can stop talking to her.
Well tbf just unfollowing her was my initial thoughts on it. I’ll just dm her if I feel like it later but that make make it awkward when I see her again. Oh well don’t really care
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post 1624627821 12-05-2020, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Olympia2018⏩
My idiot brother,

When you start meeting girls who are “Instagram” famous with thousands of followers and she’s a solid 9/10+ and you’re sitting next to her and she shows you her “Instagram” dms and 100s of ******** messages you’ll realize that **** is cringe as fuk and nothing for her to brag about to family or friends. Seriously no respect OP
She’s no where near a 9/10 maybe a 7.5 in the face and barely has 700 followers but yeah I get ur point. As I’ve said though I’ve never been given a girls social media instead of # which is why I’m confused
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post 1624628271 12-05-2020, 08:39 PM
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are you worried about what happens after? like if she "rejects" you at the gym?

i say just try. who gives a fuk. y'all are so bundled up in your little ball of fear.

maybe she was asking for insta to scope you out then would give you her #.. it's pretty gay but might be a possibility

i dont even have social media but i would try to get her # off of social media to have the convo off of there

if she "rejects" you she hardly knows you so it's not some big thing
post 1624628991 12-05-2020, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
are you worried about what happens after? like if she "rejects" you at the gym?

i say just try. who gives a fuk. y'all are so bundled up in your little ball of fear.

maybe she was asking for insta to scope you out then would give you her #.. it's pretty gay but might be a possibility

i dont even have social media but i would try to get her # off of social media to have the convo off of there

if she "rejects" you she hardly knows you so it's not some big thing
Honestly I don’t care at all, idk why I even approached her it was pure impulse srs

I’ll admit my ego has taken a hit from her refusing to give me her # instead of ig which is why I wanted to find confirmation that this was normal for gym chicks to do

Based off what I can read from her ig posts she’s an immature 19-20 year old and I cbf dealing with that chit anymore
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post 1624629461 12-05-2020, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By justgenetics⏩
Honestly I don’t care at all, idk why I even approached her it was pure impulse srs

I’ll admit my ego has taken a hit from her refusing to give me her # instead of ig which is why I wanted to find confirmation that this was normal for gym chicks to do

Based off what I can read from her ig posts she’s an immature 19-20 year old and I cbf dealing with that chit anymore
yea my feeling is IF it went bad when you messaged her. she's the type to have lots of messages and you just go in the pile so i doubt it would even matter. she certainly wouldn't be thinking about you much

but that's just my feeling from what you've said. as long as you don't make it really heavy i think it would be brushed off easily

but yea, sounds like it's not worth it
post 1624630171 12-05-2020, 09:13 PM
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Literally just ask her to hangout through IG and if she's not interested unfollow and disregard her. No need to go down all of these rabbit holes of trying to reason why a female did something.
post 1624634331 12-05-2020, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
yea my feeling is IF it went bad when you messaged her. she's the type to have lots of messages and you just go in the pile so i doubt it would even matter. she certainly wouldn't be thinking about you much

but that's just my feeling from what you've said. as long as you don't make it really heavy i think it would be brushed off easily

but yea, sounds like it's not worth it
True I decided to look at the comments on a few of her posts and she definitely has some orbiters

If I randomly get the urge to dm her I will but right now just can’t even be bothered
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post 1624636911 12-05-2020, 11:23 PM
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post 1624637161 12-05-2020, 11:29 PM
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join her other 50k orbiters kn social media
Sometimes nobody shows up to orbit and you automically win (srs)
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post 1624642221 12-06-2020, 01:07 AM
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bro she didn’t give u the # n curved u to IG/Snap



lmfao If you can’t tell it’s over from that I’ve got sum bad newz OP
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- first sentence in OP literally says OP is acting turbogay in the gym
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Is this really how phucked up the game is in the west now? lmfao.

Cannot imagine getting the social media close. Would not even bother contacting srs.
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