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post 1625047483 12-09-2020, 08:57 PM
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Rate My Chances with Tinder Girl/10

Context: I tried to date this girl off a different mobile app like over 2 years ago. I recently re-downloaded Tinder with obviously the same level of dismal success as before.

Randomly matched with her again without realizing it, didn't recognize her at first. She reached out and messaged me first, chances seem good thoughts?

Has my luck finally turned around?











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post 1625047603 12-09-2020, 08:58 PM
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post 1625047673 12-09-2020, 08:59 PM
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In before she ghosts you and deletes app 2-3 days later.
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post 1625047793 12-09-2020, 09:00 PM
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Why do you rip on yourself and show weakness in your messages?

“I don’t get a lot of matches”

Wtf is that chit ... even if you don’t I have no idea why you’d admit it
post 1625047813 12-09-2020, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By thadderbox
In before she ghosts you and deletes app 2-3 days later.
Honestly I'm half expecting it, she ghosted me the first time. When we were talking last night she said it was because she "Had Issues" and shouldn't have been dating at the time. IDK she seems more receptive this time.
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post 1625047873 12-09-2020, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Why do rip on yourself and show weakness in your messages.

“I don’t get a lot of matches”

Wtf is that chit ... even if you don’t I have no idea why you’d admit it
Honesty is the best policy, not gonna pretend to be someone I'm not.
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post 1625047923 12-09-2020, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
Why do rip on yourself and show weakness in your messages?

“I don’t get a lot of matches”

Wtf is that chit ... even if you don’t I have no idea why you’d admit it
You must spread some reputation around etc.
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post 1625047953 12-09-2020, 09:01 PM
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2 years surfing around apps... she belongs to the streets brah.
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post 1625048003 12-09-2020, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Skeptical_Hippo
Zero
Honestly I'm not expecting it to go anywhere. Srs but she gave me her number again so who knows.
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post 1625048023 12-09-2020, 09:02 PM
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I think you come off a bit needy, "I need a goth gf in my life", "can I facetime" then you say it's cool if she doesn't want to.

Just pump the brakes a bit brah you should be fine
post 1625048063 12-09-2020, 09:02 PM
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stop saying LOL every text
I rep/neg back
post 1625048143 12-09-2020, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem
I think you come off a bit needy, "I need a goth gf in my life", "can I facetime" then you say it's cool if you don't want to.

Just pump the brakes a bit brah you should be fine
Is wanting to have a face to face conversation too much to ask? It was joke brah semi-srs I didn't post the full convo she said she was tired and was going to sleep soon.
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post 1625048223 12-09-2020, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By wapacmane
stop saying LOL every text
Lol
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post 1625048243 12-09-2020, 09:04 PM
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9/10. Not gonna give advice because I'm a potato about this stuff.
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post 1625048253 12-09-2020, 09:04 PM
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OP

She is totally into you. I didn't read the above responses. She is pretending to be goth as an out. She is shy, she needs you to lead. Fuk sake man that is a very nice bang if you can work it right.
post 1625048283 12-09-2020, 09:04 PM
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Sorry couldn't read those boring messages but just tell her you got rated 8/10 at bodybuilding.com. That should work.
post 1625048313 12-09-2020, 09:04 PM
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She's already banging another dude right now, but if he doesn't text her back for a day I'd say you have a pretty good shot.
Best thread: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=168274783
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post 1625048343 12-09-2020, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17
9/10. Not gonna give advice because I'm a potato about this stuff.
Same she's probably gonna lose interest.
No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.

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post 1625048393 12-09-2020, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Honesty is the best policy, not gonna pretend to be someone I'm not.
You voluntarily told her that though. Simply not saying anything is not being “dishonest”

Then you went into how the app is hard for guys lol
post 1625048443 12-09-2020, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Is wanting to have a face to face conversation too much to ask? It was joke brah semi-srs I didn't post the full convo she said she was tired and was going to sleep soon.
Women under the age of 40 don't go to sleep until 3am
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post 1625048463 12-09-2020, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Sorry couldn't read those boring messages but just tell her you got rated 8/10 at bodybuilding.com. That should work.
Ouch brutal red pill from my misc wife lol that kinda stung Cass

But I must admit I don't have "game" when it comes to messaging women. I just try to make conversation like a normal human being.
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post 1625048513 12-09-2020, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
You voluntarily told her that though. Simply not saying anything is not being “dishonest”

Then you went into how the app is hard for guys lol
LMFAO at these guys

He has a very nice bang hook, line and sinker and has zero idea how to close the deal.
post 1625048523 12-09-2020, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
You voluntarily told her that though. Simply not saying anything is not being “dishonest”

Then you went into how the app is hard for guys lol
Well it's true, there's a thread about it on here nearly every day.
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post 1625048563 12-09-2020, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Context: I tried to date this girl off a different mobile app like over 2 years ago. I recently re-downloaded Tinder with obviously the same level of dismal success as before.

Randomly matched with her again without realizing it, didn't recognize her at first. She reached out and messaged me first, chances seem good thoughts?

Has my luck finally turned around?











Way too many text

Are u trying to smash her? If so id make it clear in the first msg lol
post 1625048673 12-09-2020, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten
Way too many text

Are u trying to smash her? If so you make it clear in the first msg lol
I'll try and see when she's free. I told her my days off, I'll see if she commits to wanting to meet this time or if she's gonna flake like last time.
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post 1625048903 12-09-2020, 09:10 PM
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Hate to say it, but you got beta texting game breh. I still think you have a chance.

Are you guys still texting? Did you plan for anything yet? Are you just tryin to smash??
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post 1625049083 12-09-2020, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Ouch brutal red pill from my misc wife lol that kinda stung Cass

But I must admit I don't have "game" when it comes to messaging women. I just try to make conversation like a normal human being.
Ok. I did read and yes you sound like a normal human bean.
post 1625049113 12-09-2020, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I'll try and see when she's free. I told her my days off, I'll see if she commits to wanting to meet this time or if she's gonna flake like last time.
If your avi is you, you must be having a laugh at the Misc. This cannot be real. If I was a single dude I would be barking up her tree. FFS I hope this is a joke thread.
post 1625049143 12-09-2020, 09:12 PM
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You aren’t gonna have any ‘success’ if you bring up ur lack of success with every match you have

When every girl has who knows how many matches at any given time that has got to be the biggest turn off possible

Never used a dating app but you can’t treat it like irl at all.. much more superficial
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post 1625049183 12-09-2020, 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted By ThaGreat1
Hate to say it, but you got beta texting game breh. I still think you have a chance.

Are you guys still texting? Did you plan for anything yet? Are you just tryin to smash??
I texted her about 5 minutes ago, but she said she's in the middle of movie with her cousin. Gonna give it an hour and just ask her when she's free. Keep it short and simple.
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