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post 1625195813 12-11-2020, 09:19 AM
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A Srs question for all miscers. Trolls stay the phuck out

Anyone here ever reached a point in their life where they just said phuck all. Took off and started a new life some where?


I am 46 i just had a son who i love more than anything and i want to see him raised right.with principles and ethics. As fathers we never want our son to repeat our mistakes but the mother and i seem to be on diffeent wave lengths.maybe thata my fault.cUse im 46 amd she is 26.i dont kniw.


All i do know is i dont agree with all that goes arlund this place . i am not perfect. But i was raised to love and treat others based on how they acted. To believe in the word of jesus.

I have a home here but i reallt dont have a home cause nothing i believe in or was taught is in thia dwelling.

No im not drunk. Just. A father trying to figure out what ia best to do for my son.cause if i left. She has blue hair flies rainbows, a liberal. I dont hate those people i just dont want tjat for my son.

I named him micah from the rifleman. Micah torrence.thats his middle name..

This is hard guys and i brougbt it on my self being 46 dating at the time a 25 yr old


At thia point i have to ask id there is a jesus where is he at?
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post 1625196173 12-11-2020, 09:23 AM
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bro lissn u need 2 starT a new lyfe rite now
fk every1
rough tough thug lyfe
post 1625196503 12-11-2020, 09:26 AM
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In all seriousness you said it yourself. You are 46 years old, knocked up a virile 26 year old and now have a son.

You owe it to him at the very least to get him to 5 years old before thinking about what you are already thinking. Give him a male role model while his mind is young and malleable.

With regards to the woman, you either suck it up for some more years, or you destroy lives.

Sorry, I can’t give you a “it’s all going to be ok answer”

Cheers
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post 1625196753 12-11-2020, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted By weezystrong⏩
bro lissn u need 2 starT a new lyfe rite now
fk every1
rough tough thug lyfe
I dont want to be a thug bro. I dont want to be a redneck i just want to be a PERSON. no labels no names no colors...just be a good decent human being..

I think at the end. If jesus or whoever no matter what color they are and im proud to say that jesus was black.

Regardleas.....its all so simple but yet so hard
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post 1625196763 12-11-2020, 09:29 AM
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post 1625196953 12-11-2020, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
I dont want to be a thug bro. I dont want to be a redneck i just want to be a PERSON. no labels no names no colors...just be a good decent human being..

I think at the end. If jesus or whoever no matter what color they are and im proud to say that jesus was black.

Regardleas.....its all so simple but yet so hard
Fuking lol man, as much as I want to say never change, you really need to change. Your girlfriend having custody of your son tells me she's probably way less of an addict than you are. Get help bro, srs.
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
I dont want to be a thug bro. I dont want to be a redneck i just want to be a PERSON. no labels no names no colors...just be a good decent human being..

I think at the end. If jesus or whoever no matter what color they are and im proud to say that jesus was black.

Regardleas.....its all so simple but yet so hard
life is hard.
we all want to be judged by our character not our appearence.
you will make it brah i believe in you
post 1625197323 12-11-2020, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Bcl2⏩
Fuking lol man, as much as I want to say never change, you really need to change. Your girlfriend having custody of your son tells me she's probably way less of an addict than you are. Get help bro, srs.
Shes nor an addixt anx shes nor a bad woman.just different views..shes a great mother in most ways. I wont take anyrging from her..she is a good person
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post 1625197363 12-11-2020, 09:35 AM
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First thing I thought was OP is drinking.

If you continue to expect your son to be like you, you will not only disappoint yourself but also your son.

Believe it or not, you can still teach your son principles and ethics despite the color of his moms hair or what stickers she has on her car.

And a word of advice - the best thing you can do for your child is to respect their mother.
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Shes nor an addixt anx shes nor a bad woman.just different views..shes a great mother in most ways. I wont take anyrging from her..she is a good person
I thought you said you weren't drunk?
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I get it and totally understand.

Mine are 13 and 11 and I am looking at other places for me to live near by (like a mile away). It's been bad for a few years. We are very close and it tears at me. If the wife would agree, I have a plan I can execute immediately. Lawyers, finances and everything.

The good and bad days are yoyoing so much I can't deal...
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post 1625198113 12-11-2020, 09:42 AM
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I've done several cross-country moves but spent a good deal of time reflecting on my real motivations for moving. Everyone I know (above maybe age 25 or so) who "started over" just ran away from the problems they created. It's painfully obvious that you're the problem, and running away from yourself isn't going to help, and there's probably an element of crime involved in your plan.

Jesus isn't really my style although black Jesus is a new and exciting idea, but I am into a higher power, and my own personal belief is that a higher power can restore you to sanity if you work on getting sober. Let me know if you want help finding resources to do that.
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post 1625198233 12-11-2020, 09:43 AM
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OP you fuk off for a year and you might not recognize him when you come back. What you need to do is put whatever animosity/negative feelings for the mom behind you and focus on your son. Sit down with her and have an adult conversation and spell out that in no uncertain terms that a boy needs his father, and you want to be apart of his life as much as possible. You don't have to love the woman, but you guys need to be at the very least impartial, and decent to one another. As another poster said the way you treat his mother will have a profound effect on his relationship with not only you, but other women he meets in the future.

It's really cut and dry...You have responsibilities, and don't have the luxury of checking out. Do what's best for your son...end of story.
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post 1625198603 12-11-2020, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Anyone here ever reached a point in their life where they just said phuck all. Took off and started a new life some where?
This guy tried back in 1971.
Dan Cooper is the pseudonym of an unidentified man who hijacked a Boeing 727 aircraft in United States airspace between Portland and Seattle on the afternoon of November 24, 1971.[1][2] The man purchased his airline ticket using the alias Dan Cooper but, because of a news miscommunication, became known in popular lore as D. B. Cooper. He extorted $200,000 in ransom (equivalent to $1,260,000 in 2019) and parachuted to an uncertain fate. Despite an extensive manhunt and protracted FBI investigation, the perpetrator has never been located or identified. It remains the only unsolved case of air piracy in commercial aviation history.


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/D._B._Cooper
post 1625199083 12-11-2020, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
I get it and totally understand.

Mine are 13 and 11 and I am looking at other places for me to live near by (like a mile away). It's been bad for a few years. We are very close and it tears at me. If the wife would agree, I have a plan I can execute immediately. Lawyers, finances and everything.

The good and bad days are yoyoing so much I can't deal...
I was married for along time..around year 7 or 8, what you wrote would describe my relationship with my wife. I had a plan and knew the best of times were long past. I had even raised the topic of what life would look like if we had to split.

What did I do? Stuck around another 10 years out of some obligation to my kids and watch things get worse and worse.

My kids had front row seats to our sh!t show.

I don't know your circumstances but all I can say is don't waste too much of your life like I did in indecision.
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I made those choices before I had kids...

Are you talking about abandoning your son? WTF?
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I love how he has to type out 'no I'm not drunk'

OP you need real help asap. Not the misc.
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Originally Posted By Stray800⏩
I was married for along time..around year 7 or 8, what you wrote would describe my relationship with my wife. I had a plan and knew the best of times were long past. I had even raised the topic of what life would look like if we had to split.

What did I do? Stuck around another 10 years out of some obligation to my kids and watch things get worse and worse.

My kids had front row seats to our sh!t show.

I don't know your circumstances but all I can say is don't waste too much of your life like I did in indecision.
We are at 18 married now. Sucks. It's not THAT bad for the kids, but they do come down and ask us to keep it down. I've also been driven to the brink of violence a number of times and have a tough time knowing that. Need a counselor. Friends understand but they are biased to me.

sorry OP, no hijack.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy⏩
I love how he has to type out 'no I'm not drunk'

OP you need real help asap. Not the misc.
Literal give away he’s hammered and in his feels. The most baffling thing to me about OP is how much he misspells words in this day age of auto correct, the fact he’s wasted 24/7 is a given at this point.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is so hard for me to understand because I feel like kids keep a marriage together. They give both parents an incentive to stick it out as a family. Couldn’t you keep your differences private and focus on raising them together?

And I never wanted kids but actually do have some doubts or regrets if maybe kids could have kept my marriage together.
A lot of women have severe mental issues and strong allergies to responsibilities. Most females should follow the Dogs&Dildo path. But for < 35 year olds, the males are worse than females.

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is so hard for me to understand because I feel like kids keep a marriage together. They give both parents an incentive to stick it out as a family. Couldn’t you keep your differences private and focus on raising them together?

And I never wanted kids but actually do have some doubts or regrets if maybe kids could have kept my marriage together.
This was my ask of her - keep our sh!t our sh!t and we'll figure it out together.

She decided to involve the kids (and all of social media) and it got to a point where it was irreparable.
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I think OP passed out

not drunk though
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My grandpa did but he waited for his youngest son to turn 18

Moved across the country and started a new life having a kid in his upper 50s
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You just had a son

The first year of having a kid is THE ABSOLUTE HARDEST for couples

You are literally in the most difficult part of this whole thing. Let the boy walk first FFS before thinking about huge life changes. Maybe you guys are just exhausted and haven't learned to cope yet. It's a hard adjustment to go from no to 1 kid.


Are the ideas you have for child rearing vastly different? Is there no hope for a middle ground?

Give some examples of the arguments.
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You the guy with a step kid and beta baby daddy drama?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is so hard for me to understand because I feel like kids keep a marriage together. They give both parents an incentive to stick it out as a family. Couldn’t you keep your differences private and focus on raising them together?

And I never wanted kids but actually do have some doubts or regrets if maybe kids could have kept my marriage together.
I can't tell you how many times I've seen people (personal friends of mine) have children because they think it's going to help their marriage so they can have something to 'focus on as a team' - basically the mom gets wrapped up in kids bc she has less time to focus on dad / them / partnership goals. And dad then feels neglected even more and their problems pre kids become exacerbated. They start resenting each other bc they never feel like the other person does enough. I've def seen this song and dance in multiple families. The ones that make it had a healthy relationship to start with before kids.

Bringing children into an already suffering marriage is not the answer nor is it healthy for anyone involved especially the innocent children. Children do not keep a marriage together - they just keep 2 miserable people under the same roof because of children.
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