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post 1625203383 12-11-2020, 10:36 AM
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post 1625204513 12-11-2020, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
All i do know is i dont agree with all that goes arlund this place . i am not perfect. But i was raised to love and treat others based on how they acted. To believe in the word of jesus.

I have a home here but i reallt dont have a home cause nothing i believe in or was taught is in thia dwelling.

Just. A father trying to figure out what ia best to do for my son.cause if i left. She has blue hair flies rainbows, a liberal. I dont hate those people i just dont want tjat for my son.

At thia point i have to ask id there is a jesus where is he at?
Originally Posted By Stray800⏩
If you continue to expect your son to be like you, you will not only disappoint yourself but also your son.

Believe it or not, you can still teach your son principles and ethics despite the color of his moms hair or what stickers she has on her car.

And a word of advice - the best thing you can do for your child is to respect their mother.
OP - all you can do is expose him to the things you associate as positive influences in your life and let him make up his own mind.

Strong morals and values do not have to go hand in hand with religion. Don't make it seem like he needs to follow in your footsteps in regards to religion to have good character and he will disappoint you if he ends up choosing not to be religious (like his mother i presume) when he's older.
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Pull yourself together OP. Your a dad now. For your son's sake can you not lay off the sauce for 10 fukn mins. Deal with your problems like a man not some child who has to kill brain cells every time something doesn't go his way. Or you can just keep going like you are now, have a child that resents you in 20 years and you can sit in your recliner getting drunk with a life full of regret and bad decisions. It's up to you
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post 1625206413 12-11-2020, 11:04 AM
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post 1625206563 12-11-2020, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah makes sense. Idk what would have happened. Kids are such a huge life change that maybe they would have changed my ex. But if not then they would have suffered greatly. Or if they turned out like him that would’ve been a lifetime of worries and problems.

I do know families that seem to stay together for the kids without really any close bond between the parents, and they seem ok.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet woman.
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post 1625206853 12-11-2020, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Anyone here ever reached a point in their life where they just said phuck all. Took off and started a new life some where?


I am 46 i just had a son who i love more than anything and i want to see him raised right.with principles and ethics. As fathers we never want our son to repeat our mistakes but the mother and i seem to be on diffeent wave lengths.maybe thata my fault.cUse im 46 amd she is 26.i dont kniw.


All i do know is i dont agree with all that goes arlund this place . i am not perfect. But i was raised to love and treat others based on how they acted. To believe in the word of jesus.

I have a home here but i reallt dont have a home cause nothing i believe in or was taught is in thia dwelling.

No im not drunk. Just. A father trying to figure out what ia best to do for my son.cause if i left. She has blue hair flies rainbows, a liberal. I dont hate those people i just dont want tjat for my son.

I named him micah from the rifleman. Micah torrence.thats his middle name..

This is hard guys and i brougbt it on my self being 46 dating at the time a 25 yr old


At thia point i have to ask id there is a jesus where is he at?
How about for starters don't get fukking hammered on a weekday morning. Then be a man and raise your kid to be less of a piece of chit than his alcoholic father and cum dumpster mother. If you abandon him now he will never have a chance. Pull yourself together FFS...
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post 1625207513 12-11-2020, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By 78novacaine⏩
How about for starters don't get fukking hammered on a weekday morning. Then be a man and raise your kid to be less of a piece of chit than his alcoholic father and cum dumpster mother. If you abandon him now he will never have a chance. Pull yourself together FFS...
Honestly OP should be permabanned, it’s obvious he’s got some serious irl issues that need addressing and his drunken ranting on the misc only takes away from that.
post 1625208923 12-11-2020, 11:31 AM
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You’ll be 64 when your kid is graduating high school. Yikes.
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post 1625209503 12-11-2020, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Stray800⏩
I think OP passed out

not drunk though
This.

Thread will resume in 8-10 hours when OP comes round.
post 1625210203 12-11-2020, 11:47 AM
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You're old enough. You know better.

It's time to stop running and take a stand. Be the man you know yourself to be, and act with the kid's best interest at heart. Everything else will flow from that, and, chances are, they'll end up better.
None of the above constitutes legal advice nor should be interpreted as such.
post 1625210443 12-11-2020, 11:50 AM
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Already abandoned the Misc and his kid....
post 1625210603 12-11-2020, 11:52 AM
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post 1625211993 12-11-2020, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
You’ll be 64 when your kid is graduating high school. Yikes.
Just lmao if you think OP lives to be 64.
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post 1625214853 12-11-2020, 12:37 PM
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post 1625215003 12-11-2020, 12:38 PM
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This is starting to bug me for real. Can't just open up a heavy ass thread like this and bounce.
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post 1625215713 12-11-2020, 12:46 PM
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Misc do-gooders giving Op too much credit. The real problem is that Op thinks he is the one that can "do what's right" for his kid.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
This is starting to bug me for real. Can't just open up a heavy ass thread like this and bounce.
He's just passed out somewhere. He'll forget all about this and make the same thread next week.
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post 1625217233 12-11-2020, 01:00 PM
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post 1625219383 12-11-2020, 01:20 PM
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post 1625219413 12-11-2020, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes and you can’t just make a kid and bounce.
I'm not sure if this was actually true but the word around town when I was in my early 20s was that Florida had some type of law where none of their residents had to do court ordered DNA tests so if you knocked a chick up you could just bounce down to Florida and never have to pay child support. I know like 4 guys who did this lol. Once I posted a pic of myself at the beach after a random trip I took and got several texts asking who I knocked up
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah maybe he is just not capable and the kid is doomed to grow up with an alcoholic and absent dad. Which is so sad and wrong.

I really don’t understand addiction at all and how you can not make the right choice for your kid and yourself. It’s just morally wrong and I can’t understand it.
My dad is an alcoholic and was absent the majority of the time I was growing up which is why I have zero patience for OP. I could tell you guys stories that would set everyone here a feels bullet train.

Anyway, I don't hate my dad too much because he's the reason I'm tall, athletic and good looking. If I was an ugly manlet because of him I wouldn't be nearly as forgiving. It's kinda fukd up but it is what it is
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post 1625219423 12-11-2020, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes and you can’t just make a kid and bounce.
Also true

I mean you can, but you'd be a peice of chit for not at least doing all you can.
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post 1625221103 12-11-2020, 01:38 PM
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Muzzle gave some good advice.

In addition: you need to get better at regulating your emotions and your impulses ASAP.

This situation you now find yourself in is completely by your own design.

Think, and then act.
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I gues most of the misc knows OP to be somewhat of an alcoholic?
Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
I am 46 i just had a son who i love more than anything and i want to see him raised right.with principles and ethics. As fathers we never want our son to repeat our mistakes but the mother and i seem to be on diffeent wave lengths.maybe thata my fault.cUse im 46 amd she is 26.i dont kniw.


All i do know is i dont agree with all that goes arlund this place . i am not perfect. But i was raised to love and treat others based on how they acted. To believe in the word of jesus.
Listen brah.
If you want to instill ethics and a moral code into your kid, the most improtant thing is being consistent in your own behaviour. You have to always stick to your own principles. That's the only way to set an example.
If you drink a lot this is not going to be possible, you are going to be two people. One sober dad and one drunken dad. Both will act different.

To be able to properly instill morals into the little guy, you need to get sober.
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I did it at the age of 32 (6 months ago)

but I had nothing holding me down, no kids or gf back home, work also helped cover the cost and expanded to my new location so I didn't have to find a new job.


no regrets so far but i can't really give insight on your current position because you've got a child.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Also true

I mean you can, but you'd be a peice of chit for not at least doing all you can.
Honestly... absent father or having a high/drunk/ and or miserable, wishing he were somewhere else - around isn't much better....

I think I rather take the former.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy⏩
Honestly... absent father or having a high/drunk/ and or miserable, wishing he were somewhere else - around isn't much better....

I think I rather take the former.
Having a completely absent father would leave you with tons of "what if" questions and that stuff will drive you crazy. At least if he's there you can see what not to do.
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Originally Posted By littlemissy⏩
Honestly... absent father or having a high/drunk/ and or miserable, wishing he were somewhere else - around isn't much better....

I think I rather take the former.
I'd take the latter any day


No dad around is...........not fun.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
I'd take the latter any day


No dad around is...........not fun.
I'll say the kids I knew with chitty dads usually turned out better than the kids with no dad at all. The only way no dad would be better is if they were abusive
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
I'll say the kids I knew with chitty dads usually turned out better than the kids with no dad at all. The only way no dad would be better is if they were abusive
Yup. Abusive is one thing, but generally just kinda scummy? All day over absent.
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