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post 1626487303 12-24-2020, 12:14 PM
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Sloot says she wants to sort out her life before talking to anyone again.. Wat do

So I met this sloot last Friday and asked her out yesterday to go bowling sometime next week. She gave me a weird response so I ask "was it too soon to ask her out".

She says that she's sorting some chit out in her life before wanting to talk to someone again.. Thing is this girl is pretty hot and cool (from what I can tell), so would it be worth it to keep her in rotation (like keep talking to her or trying to be her friend first and then try to date)?

How would you brahs proceed?
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post 1626487533 12-24-2020, 12:16 PM
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Give her the space and be the 'patient understanding guy who isn't in it for the sex' but keep her within arms length for when she's ready.
post 1626487623 12-24-2020, 12:18 PM
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womens favorite lie to tell guys they dont want to talk to

just go nc and forget about her
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post 1626488043 12-24-2020, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
womens favorite lie to tell guys they dont want to talk to

just go nc and forget about her
This. Save yourself the time / trouble and just go NC.
post 1626488193 12-24-2020, 12:24 PM
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post 1626488233 12-24-2020, 12:25 PM
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Why do you guys ask questions like this? Knowing the answer to something like that is generally not going to help you.

When somebody is interested in you, they'll make it clear.

If the answer to "Wanna meet up?" is anything other than yes, why do you feel the need to quantify it? There's nothing remotely gratifying about expanding on the why or the how. As cool as she might come off, she's letting you know she ain't with it so you should just get to stepping. It won't do either of you any good to keep pursuing.

Anybody who "isn't emotionally available because they aren't adult enough to sort their emotions" is not worth your time.

Just soft next and keep it moving.
post 1626488383 12-24-2020, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
womens favorite lie to tell guys they dont want to talk to

just go nc and forget about her
Originally Posted By Hector002⏩
This. Save yourself the time / trouble and just go NC.
Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
Why do you guys ask questions like this? Knowing the answer to something like that is generally not going to help you.

When somebody is interested in you, they'll make it clear.

Just soft next and keep it moving.
Gonna go with these, kinda sucks cause she was hot af lol

Thanks brahs
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post 1626488393 12-24-2020, 12:27 PM
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she wants to explore other options that are not you so beat it nerd
post 1626488483 12-24-2020, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
she wants to explore other options that are not you so beat it nerd
das it mane
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post 1626488733 12-24-2020, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
womens favorite lie to tell guys they dont want to talk to

just go nc and forget about her
Yeah this.

Ask yourself op, if you were having a tough time in life trying to figure **** out, would having an attractive and nice lady around make that easier? Yes. Women think the same, if she thought you were attractive and decent there would be no problem.
post 1626488783 12-24-2020, 12:33 PM
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Go NC, Chad slid into DMs
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post 1626488943 12-24-2020, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
she wants to explore other options that are not you so beat it nerd
Whenever girls say stuff like "sorting out personal issues" or "not ready to talk to anyone yet" this is what they really mean. Go home Roger.
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post 1626489113 12-24-2020, 12:37 PM
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You're out bro take the hint
post 1626489203 12-24-2020, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
Gonna go with these, kinda sucks cause she was hot af lol

Thanks brahs
No worries brah, plenty more where she came from srs
post 1626489343 12-24-2020, 12:41 PM
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she wants some chad tyrone and chang action.
Lol, lmfao
post 1626489593 12-24-2020, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
Yeah this.

Ask yourself op, if you were having a tough time in life trying to figure **** out, would having an attractive and nice lady around make that easier? Yes. Women think the same, if she thought you were attractive and decent there would be no problem.
True to all this tbh. The attractive part hurts tho, ngl
Originally Posted By ThatGuy950⏩
Go NC, Chad slid into DMs
Oof
Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
No worries brah, plenty more where she came from srs
I hope so brah, I'm trying my best out here lol
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post 1626489863 12-24-2020, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted By lupus002⏩
she wants some chad tyrone and chang action.
Fuuuarrrk when will it be my turn to be Tyrone
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post 1626490643 12-24-2020, 12:57 PM
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Just tell her you weren't asking her out for a bunch of chit chat, just bowling. Then possibly some horizontal refreshments later on and game of "ballin' for babies".
post 1626490653 12-24-2020, 12:57 PM
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Tell that bish she owes you a bj for reparations
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post 1626491023 12-24-2020, 01:01 PM
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lmao

seems like she's just making a cop out excuse so she doesn't have to talk to you

move on to the next mate
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
womens favorite lie to tell guys they dont want to talk to

just go nc and forget about her
This. Fuk her. She’s lying.
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post 1626492023 12-24-2020, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By ChangeOfStyle⏩
lmao

seems like she's just making a cop out excuse so she doesn't have to talk to you

move on to the next mate
Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩
This. Fuk her. She’s lying.
True. I asked out 3 other girls and looks like imma have a busy week cause they're all down lol. Thanks brahs.

Just gonna not fuk these up lol
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Not sure if srs
post 1626496853 12-24-2020, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Not sure if srs
Unfortunately I was brah, but it's all good now.

Will rep everyone when off r/c
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She is not highly interested. If a girl wants you she won't have such boundaries like ''need to sort things out''. You can try chatting with her a few times and if her interest doesn't seem to escalate leave it in the dust. Just don't overly waste your time.
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she's just not that into you.

Tell her to let you know when she's "ready" and never contact her again. She may randomly message you weeks down the line, but if it's just to chat and not hang out then don't waste your time.
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Originally Posted By DevonHardy⏩
She says that she's sorting some chit out in her life before wanting to talk to someone again
Lmao. Do you think she would’ve said that if Chad asked her out?

NC brah. On to the next.
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take the hint OP.
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Didn't read the content of the post.
I'd say let her sort out her life and move on.
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Maybe she’s afraid of the BBC and that you”ll destroy her..lol

Serious answer I would just move on
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