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post 1627067483 12-30-2020, 09:57 PM
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Is online dating the only way to meet women now?

In need of a rebound asap. Plz aware on the difference between the main ones. Yes I know I'm way behind on the online dating scene. Fml
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post 1627067603 12-30-2020, 09:59 PM
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So glad I got married before online dating became the main way to meet women
post 1627067653 12-30-2020, 10:00 PM
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tinder is now what plenty of fish was in the 00s
post 1627067723 12-30-2020, 10:01 PM
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online is chit tbh, loads of games and logistics may not be in your favour. Your matches could be far away. Also competing against 100s of other dudes for the same girl.
Best bet is social circle, or maybe cold approach srs
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post 1627067733 12-30-2020, 10:01 PM
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Nah brah but w/Covid, it seems to be a bit more of a convenient option. I personally gave up on it but you might have success on it.
post 1627067773 12-30-2020, 10:02 PM
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I do best off cold approach and Instagram with actual meeting. Most matches on online dating but it’s much more about playing games on there
post 1627067833 12-30-2020, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
online is chit tbh, loads of games and logistics may not be in your favour. Your matches could be far away. Also competing against 100s of other dudes for the same girl.
Best bet is social circle, or maybe cold approach srs
Lol at cold approach when everyone wears a ****ing mask. 0 social circle atm, and never hooking up w women at work again. I have no other options brah.

Depressed af.
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post 1627067853 12-30-2020, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By NMS3
Nah brah but w/Covid, it seems to be a bit more of a convenient option. I personally gave up on it but you might have success on it.
why did you quit?
I've had bad experience with online dating in my experience they had the biggest egos and most likely to play games.
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post 1627067863 12-30-2020, 10:03 PM
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online dating is 90% AI bots that can hold a semi-coherent conversation and scammers now, srs.
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post 1627067953 12-30-2020, 10:04 PM
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Bumble is good, very active, ton of hotties, ton of runaround but you’ll find a few a week willing to hangout

Hinge seems less active

Tinder is garbage
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post 1627067983 12-30-2020, 10:05 PM
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tinder was goldmine for me in 2014-2016. very slim picking nowadays. my pics are **** and im not chad so ymmv
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post 1627068013 12-30-2020, 10:05 PM
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Tinder has been pretty good lately. fukked 4 girls from it in past 3 months and get more replies. I think girls are actually using it to meet right now
post 1627068053 12-30-2020, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnytable
Tinder has been pretty good lately. fukked 4 girls from it in past 3 months and get more replies. I think girls are actually using it to meet right now
I hope there is hope
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post 1627068073 12-30-2020, 10:07 PM
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online dating is for losers and incels lol
post 1627068103 12-30-2020, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted By the700level
Bumble is good, very active, ton of hotties, ton of runaround but you’ll find a few a week willing to hangout

Hinge seems less active

Tinder is garbage
any bumble advice? other than be 6'4 chad
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post 1627068263 12-30-2020, 10:10 PM
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Ok cupid any good?
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post 1627068393 12-30-2020, 10:13 PM
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Oh god no.

If anything online dating combined with quarantine has made dating WORSE.

Politics, single mothers, people with trust issues -- it's basically a cesspool.
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post 1627068403 12-30-2020, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Better
any bumble advice? other than be 6'4 chad
Pictures obviously. When I started I put 6 **** pictures of myself

Changed them all and now getting 3-4 per day hitting me up. Some definite quality too I’m shocked for an app
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post 1627068503 12-30-2020, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA
why did you quit?
I've had bad experience with online dating in my experience they had the biggest egos and most likely to play games.
I didn’t have the best pics and was too lazy to get the perfect shots. Figured meh, will just focus all my attention on outside. Just didn’t seem worth it to try to get those good pics only to deal w/the silly games like you mentioned.


Also OP, each app gonna probably be a bit different experience for you compared to everyone else. Just depends on too many factors regarding how good you’ll do on each app, tough to predict
post 1627068523 12-30-2020, 10:15 PM
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In my opinion yes. Online, or common friend groups..

I’ll be honest.. I pull a lot online. Easily bang 18-23 year olds, as a 30 year old.

If I do a cold approach without knowing them, I have to go all in, and try to get their number in a limited amount of time.

Online, there is no pressure on their end, no drunk friend pulling them away, no loud music.

Online is just too easy for what it is.

Plus online I get to tell if they’re a dumb liberal or not.
post 1627068753 12-30-2020, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted By expert701
Ok cupid any good?
I think they are all trash tbh. Think of economic side of it.

80% of the women if they want male attention can just go to a nice bar or a club to hang out and they will get looksmaxxed dudes approaching them. Sex is on demand. Short term relationship on demand. And with how pussy-deprived modern males are, long-term relationship on demand pretty much for anyone under gigachad status.

So why would sloots do online dating?
1) attention, seeing if she still got it and can get 500+ matches a day
2) hoping ultimate gigachad finally notices her

This works out to be that like 3/4+ of dating population are going to be men competing for a small pool of women are already drowning in male attention both in RL and online. Unless you are gigachad, your chances are lottery-level for any decent looking girl IMO.
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post 1627068903 12-30-2020, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted By andyray
tinder is now what plenty of fish was in the 00s
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post 1627069003 12-30-2020, 10:21 PM
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post 1627069323 12-30-2020, 10:25 PM
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How does one even do online dating if zero social media, zero photos and etc
post 1627069473 12-30-2020, 10:27 PM
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Unless you're gigaChad, don't bother with Tinder.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
post 1627069553 12-30-2020, 10:28 PM
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Ok, but everyone saying online dating is chit, I would still argue that it's the only option
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post 1627069643 12-30-2020, 10:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron
Wait, OP is a beavercel?

Time to go to Tim Hortons to meet girls.
You mean the 52 yr old Indian at the cash register?
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