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post 1627219043 01-01-2021, 04:32 PM
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Its not that women like bad boys (change my mind)

They like hot guys. Thats my theory. They dont like bad boys, they like hot guys, and hot guys happen to have a lot of options so they arent as needy, pushy, and clingy, they dont have to be nice to get women, so they are seen as "*******s".


Women get ghosted and played with all the time by hot guys (hypergamy), and women cant comprehend that its not that they like these type of guys because they behave like that, they like them because they are tall, dark and handsome, and for these same reasons that they like them, every other girl likes them to.

Offer and demand.



Now, yes, some women will prefer a douchebag over a gentle guy because of daddy issues, but IMO most majority of women woud rather be with a good looking masculine man of integrity rather than a good looking total dick.
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It's not that water isn't dry, it's that water is wet. That's my theory

Change my mind op
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that's assuming any woman has any idea what she wants though
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Yeah women don’t like bad boys, they like guys who aren’t scared and *gasp* actually ask them out and aren’t afraid to show sexual interest.
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Are there adult males who are not aware of this? Where have you been OP, I’m pretty sure everyone figured this out in high school.
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This is black or white thinking, the reality is many shades of grey. They like both bad boys and hot guys. Some girls will tend to like one side more than the other

ever seen an ugly drug/pot dealer get hot girls?? ever seen an ugly fk gets a hot chick because he is 'confident' ? ever seen a hot guy with an ugly landwhale??

Life isn't black or white, and female attraction is not just an on/off switch (hot=ON, badboy=ON), doesn't work this way.
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
No

3/10 guys who look like Lil Wayne get laid easily because girls like the criminal look
bull****....

They want someone that has a bad boy attitude but also has a soft side.... Eg, The Rock, Brad Pitt, etc
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
I agree 100%.

If there were decent masculine men around, they would pick that over the criminal types.

Perfect example to picture would be like a rancher.

These men are even more rare these days than the "bad boys", so yes, they will go for whatever is available.
Yes, i often see women complaining about how they are attracted to only douchebags or guys that have "commitment issues", or guys that like to be with a lot of women insteand of monogamous... and im thinking "its not that you like these type of behaviours, you like Chads, and Chads have that type of behaviour because they can" lol


So yeah, i fully believe that the "Women are attracted to badboys and *******s" thing is a myth. Or well, they are, but those traits arent the reason why they are attracted to them.
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This is the reality in the real world, but on a dying incel forum it’s all women like being treated like chit no matter what. Works so well that at least half this forum has to pay to fuk at this point, lmao
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post 1627220303 01-01-2021, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
No

3/10 guys who look like Lil Wayne get laid easily because girls like the criminal look (If they're not manlets)
Attractive girls wont go for 3/10 men just because they are criminals. That doesnt make sense in anyway whatsoever, unless the criminal is making lots of money, then yeah, gold diggers will want him.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
As opposed to "men" knowing what they want?
they want a virgin with the sexual experience of a pornstar but she gotta be a virgin though
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Originally Posted By BrightThru2014⏩
Are there adult males who are not aware of this? Where have you been OP, I’m pretty sure everyone figured this out in high school.
Nah, most people think that women do prefer bad boys over nice guys. Thats simply not the case, as long as we dont extrapolate the meaning of the word "nice" and make it look like nice means being a beta submissive pussy ass man.

Women prefer nice guys over bad guys, but they would rather go for a good looking bad guy than an average looking nice guy.


"Nice guys finish last!!! Dont be nice guys!!"

The truth is that ugly and average looking guys finish last, thats it.
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just a tidbit:

women can be dumb too. we often talk about this stuff almost like a perfect world, but it doesn't exist. ESPECIALLY with women and their mood swings

so for instance, in that thread about narcissism. a woman could see the guy being flashy and think he's CONFIDENT because they're dumb and not analyzing signs and suddenly down the line it comes out.. no, he's not just confident he's a full on narcissist

basically what im saying is life isn't perfect and a woman could incorrectly interpret signs short sightedly
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
that's assuming any woman has any idea what she wants though
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young sloots want to fk attractive confident guys that are fun to be around. and don't want commitment.

once the sloots have hit the wall (age 30+), and think they have matured (they haven't). and want to start a family they want to settle for a beta male that will provide and they can control. looks take a backburner.

they will most likely never be able to control the first guy from their younger years. and more often than not, those same guys might not provide a reliable lifestyle.

that is how sloots are hardwired
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IncelTV made a great point about this: the bad boys that women go for happen to be good looking. The bad boy traits are slightly attractive in a dark triad way, but ultimately it comes down to looks.

There are tons of criminals and douche bags that women regard as total losers simply because they don't have the looks. But give them looks, and suddenly women will swoon over them.

Let's take a look at the epitome of bad boy & good looks Jeremy Meeks. Women swoon over him simply because of his looks. But give him a face like Elliot Rodger and women would regard him as a loser.



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"men" knowing what they want? sir?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I think it’s about masculinity and confidence.

Bad boys are usually masculine and confident so that’s what women like but they conflate that with the bad part.

Masculine confident goodlooking nice guys are GOAT.
You can be masculine, confident and still be a nice person.

My point with this thread is that if a man is not getting sucess with women its not because hes nice, unless your definition of nice means being a submissive bitch that never takes the initiative.

"Nice guys finish last" is a myth IMO, same as "women love *******s".


No Tim, you are not going to get Stacy to suddenly be attracted to you and want to suck your cock just because when you start ignoring her or calling her fat or average looking, or start wearing a bandana and start selling drugs lol
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Originally Posted By Kormo⏩
It's not that water isn't dry, it's that water is wet. That's my theory

Change my mind op
Water actually is not wet because the molecules are all bound together and not wetting one another. Although water has the ability to make other materials wet, the liquid itself is not wet.
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Why do good girls like bad boys?

Bad boys are often arrogant, and dingbat girls confuse that with confidence.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
You can be masculine, confident and still be a nice person.

My point with this thread is that if a man is not getting sucess with women its not because hes nice, unless your definition of nice means being a submissive bitch that never takes the initiative.

"Nice guys finish last" is a myth IMO, same as "women love *******s".


No Tim, you are not going to get Stacy to suddenly be attracted to you and want to suck your cock just because when you start ignoring her or calling her fat or average looking, or start wearing a bandana and start selling drugs lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I think it’s about masculinity and confidence.

Bad boys are usually masculine and confident so that’s what women like but they conflate that with the bad part.

Masculine confident goodlooking nice guys are GOAT.
bad boys just do what they want, when they want. it isn't a case of being doing bad things, or treating people badly.

guys can fake this too for a while, enough time to get laid though they will get exposed. just follow the basics and don't kiss a sloots ass

most sloots outgrow the desire for "badboys" over time as they want to settledown eventually, and need the reliable paycheck
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Originally Posted By jakobi⏩
bull****....

They want someone that has a bad boy attitude but also has a soft side.... Eg, The Rock, Brad Pitt, etc
Not all women want the same thing. But your delusional if you think women don't like straight up alphas/bad boys.

I can tell you for a fact guys with a history of domestic violence, sexual assault, rape, etc. are never some FA incel that masturbates themself to sleep. Furthermore even when women know a guy has a history of abusing his wife/GF they won't hesitate to get with him. And they'll even hang around for awhile to be abused if they think it will end or they don't have a better option.

Also, from listening to jail/prison phone records I can assure you that guys that are locked up for more violent crimes like robbery and even murder don't have ANY issues keeping one or two females on the line wanting to be with him when he gets out.



I know a couple of guys that have 6-12 kids with different women and pay child support for none of them. And none of them have issues dating. Even if new girls know their personal issues.


Bottom line. Guys that naturally have high testosterone. Will smack women around. Will impregnate women then skip out on their child/child support. Are NEVER lonely guys that can't find a relationship. Those guys are never single and usually have at least 2-3 girls on the line at any given time. Girls that know their history and know they aren't some 'nice guy'.
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
Chads just do what they want, when they want. it isn't a case of being doing bad things, or treating people badly.
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This is probably true in most cases. But I know of a couple really beautiful girls that are married to guys that aren't hot at all, and they're not rich either. They're just average looking guys, with average jobs/income.
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I feel like women see what’s popular in the media and try to tool around that idea of what they want in a man. You don’t have to be an ultra chad to get women you just have to know what hats hot and play to that. Srs
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