This is what I was thinking. Imagine not even being able to land a desperate/thirsty 30+ Semi hbb. So. I am disappoint.

I will say this though, for a quick lay older women are great. Probably the easiest group to slay on tinder too. Sucks that most are ugly as fck though but if you find one that conserved well...damn son she could teach you things and most of the time is open for the most kinky stuff too...

Look at the stats for women taking antidepressants. Mind blowing. Women are twice as likely as men to be on them. Like 50% of women over 40 are on them. I’m sure the numbers skyrocket after 30. Thanks, feminism.

You aren't wrong, although that brings me back to the acceptance bit. If you're willing to accept all of this and are comfortable with the compromises, then go ahead. But that acceptance bit is so critical here. If you're still holding out for some attractive amazing chad that will impregnate you and be your 'dream guy' you definitely have to curb those criteria. Then again, way too many people overall are delusional about their partner criteria. Everyone seems to suffer from the 'grass is greener syndrome.' I remember Stephen King once said, "wanting more is just a recipe for heartache."

Sure I understand but I doubt you even have the choice in the first place.

Btw serious question; how is your sex drive? Meno pause is close now so I'm wondering.

oh baby ur so gorgeous and beautiful! wow!

They do it because believe it or not it works since most guys are retards with insanely low standards. It's the same reason why blacks can't figure out why police stereotype them. Because like it or not these things work.

I'd even bet most ITT are simply posturing but if actually in the situation to snag one of these cum dumpsters wouldn't think twice. Most of you are ok with low quality women I'm sorry to burst your bubble. It's the hard truths of the world some of you can't swallow. Best part is the justification with fundamental attribution error. When it's someone else the girl is desperate and the guy is pathetic. When it's you and some ho you like it's an exception somehow.

Only the ones who act like teenagers

what we talking about here ***gots? smashing and dashing or dating?

i have never stayed with a sloot after cumming to "chill". i usually cum, get up get dressed and leave or ask them to leave cuz something came up.

now if we are talking about dating or getting to know her than i need someone that has something in common with me and we are on the same mental state regardless of age.

Just remember........women are like dog poo; the older they get, the easier they are to pick up.

Q U E E N you deserve it all!!’1

Are you alright with being single your entire life? You may get sex with younger men, but remember; women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of relationships, and at your age your relationship value is very low. If you want a relationship you might want to look for men your own age, but if you're happy being pumped and dumped over again then that's up to you, but remember being an old woman and pulling a young man just for sex is really nothing to be proud of or special, men will fuk anything... you're just being used to satisfy a primal urge.

Personally i think the whole 'i want to stay single' is a cope, because you know you would have to downgrade massively for a relationship which is something you're not prepared to do. However, maybe i'm wrong and maybe your eyes are fully open to all of this and you don't care, if so fair play to you srs.

Ah, looks like the misc is poppin. Lil dudes lining up again to suck my rancid kunt again.
No fights. Come on boys. No more than two at a time.
I am all you hate. Can you believe that I dare hope for true love - the sappy sort like maple syrup running off of a stack of pancakes? At my age? Oh the humanity!
Fuk all a y'all. The man I love died years ago. But I will find another man, just as swole, just as lit ... a man known as Chad.
This is what Chad is going to say to me.












Resident geezer out.

Fair enough, good for you then. At least you're honest about what you want, know the repercussions and aren't living behind a great wall of cope.

Because like all ages of every person, their happy chemicals and emotions are their main driving force. There’s very little logic involved in anything that most people do. By the time they’ve chased all the dopamine highs of getting attention/options from many different guys, they’ve passed their peak and have to then start to realise they will have to settle. Same goes for men too, I’ve known a lot of guys who had a lot of options when younger, then I see them in the supermarket in their 30s with an average chubby wife and a baby. Putting even a little thought into what you want from life and trying to achieve it will put you miles ahead of most other people.

Women that cross into 30 enter their own Malthusian Trap of sorts - internally they think their value has increased. They have a good job, are better traveled, maybe own a house or nice car, etc. they expect a ‘match’ similar in achievements to them, so as their own internal value increases so does their expectation in a man.

Of course, men know that this is foolhardy. Because their actual dating value decreases with age. Her expectations goes up, but her actual value goes down. Unless she happens to get lucky and score a high value guy, her options are to cope and be single forever (common) or settle for a beta shmuck (also common).

BRB 'just chillin lol' pics on Insta in skimpy underwear or pyjamas with hair done and a full face of makeup....with a load of childrens toys in the background.

For the several women who are in their early twenties and might be reading this.....I’m gonna give you some serious real talk. Now listen carefully...

If you’re 18-27 years old and even just slightly good looking, you better damn well think about if you really wanna go your entire life without a family. It’s not just about kids. It’s about FAMILY. This goes for men too. Stare at the wall for a few hours each day if you have to and figure out what you want in life. If you want kids someday then you better realize that the hourglass has already started dropping sand. I hate to sound cruel but you’re basically a depreciating asset. Treat your youth like the commodity that it is. If you wanna lock down a chad that can be a good husband/father then make that your mission.

If you think you can just sloot it up in your twenties and just swoop in and find a husband at 30+ you’re entirely too cocky and careless. If you say you want a career instead of a family then you better be damn sure you’re gonna get there because if you don’t, you risk being alone and depressed with a shrinking pool of guys that maybe still want you. The chads out there that you think you can still get at 30+ will have moved on to the younger girls. And your standards will be FORCED to drop due to simple supply and demand economics. By then you’ll definitely settle. The guys you rejected in your twenties won’t take you this time around. They’ve been slowly working their asses off accumulating money/resources.

For us men, time is on our side. Our ceiling may never reach that of a 10/10 girl in her twenties. They have the most fun out of anyone so their peak may be higher, but it doesn’t last. Like that saying goes....”Women who turn 40 finally know what it’s like to be average men in our twenties.” You’re gonna get rejected by all the good looking men you used to be able to pull into your twats. So what you do is up to you.

Also to my brahs here, don’t waste up a girl’s prime/fertile years by lying to her or leading her on like you might put a ring on it someday. That’s fukked up and you can literally ruin a girl for life by doing that. We can smash and dash all we want but just try to think a little harder about treating a girl like she’s “just your next gf” when she might be thinking you’re “the one.” Have some fukking empathy too and don’t be a borderline sociopath about it.

Repped, good advice.

But we all know humans follow their "feelingz", same for young guys. This is a structural cultural problem that will only change when we get the social/cultural framework back liberals in the west destroyed. Young people do not (want to) understand or underestimate that their actions have long term consequences.

25 is the cutoff is you want to have several babies with minimal chance of autism.

Hang out 2 years she's 27. Start breeding and have 1 every 2 years She's 37 by the time you have 5.

Thanks and you’re right.

Also another biological fact is that the higher your “kill count” is, (# of sexual partners) the more likely you are to get a divorce. Look up the stats/charts. And your ability to pair-bond with a long term mate will decrease. This is way worse for women than men, btw. Just please refrain from thinking I’m some mysoginistic douchebag for two seconds. What I’m saying is the truth. If you spread yourself too thin, you can lose something you might never get back. The same way that indulging in porn can desensitize men to the point where we have trouble getting hard, the same concept applies to sex. Don’t become that jaded person who can barely feel anything anymore.

I’m not religious at all but I wish I hadn’t wasted so much time banging sloots and getting into relationships with girls I only saw as my “next gf” instead of a possible wife. To be fair with myself, I didn’t really know for sure if a few of my exes were “the one” or not. I was an idiot and procrastinated thinking long term. But that’s still my fault. Nobody else to blame.

I’m not saying that everyone should play the game of musical chairs and try to marry someone ASAP out of fear. Just realize what this life is and try to act accordingly. This isn’t a movie where there’s gonna be some guaranteed happy ending.

I absolutely resent the fact that I’ll eventually have to take a gamble at some point. Either I get married and have kids and risk that all going to hell in a hand basket....or I stay single and bang broads the rest of my life and possibly end up alone with nobody whose gonna be sad for me when I’m dying. Obviously you shouldn’t have kids just for that reason but you get my point. I’m not a gambler and I’m basically gonna be forced to make a gamble one way or the other. But that’s the game. There’s no way out of this. Well....there is but that’s like the joker card in a deck. You’re not supposed to play it. You’ve already been dead for billions of years and will be dead again for billions of years afterwards. Don’t rush to end things no matter how depressed you are.

And don’t chase happiness. Happiness doesn’t exist in a permanent state. You’ll be chasing a ghost. Instead, search for meaning and inner peace.