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01-05-2021, 07:47 AM
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Originally Posted By miscHodor⏩
And you go for those tiny weights and young girls because you're a low test twink.Just remember........women are like dog poo; the older they get, the easier they are to pick up.
Never give up on love.
Never surrender hope.
Rise.
Here's another pretty song to counteract your negative vibes. I can only rebel against authority. I see many wimps.
01-05-2021, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
The biggest lie was that somehow a "career" is just as satisfying as a loving family.Lmfao, you just summarized SilenceSpeaks, although she's in her 40's. Sure she gets "chads" but they will never settle down with her.
But yeah it's quite funny older women have more demands yet NOTHING to offer. Women =/= men, I believe these women have been brainwashed by media, hollywood into thinking men care about things women look for in men like how much money, status, etc she has. Newsflash; We don't.
Just look at this simple biological fact to understand why: 90% of eggs are gone by age 30 for women. No sh*t men don't want older women.
That's why feminism absolutely destroyed the lives of so many women, lying and deluding younger women, telling them they can sloot it up in their 20's and focus on their "carreer"...
Oh well, this era will be a very good lesson for future generations of the world. Everything has been documented very well.
But yeah it's quite funny older women have more demands yet NOTHING to offer. Women =/= men, I believe these women have been brainwashed by media, hollywood into thinking men care about things women look for in men like how much money, status, etc she has. Newsflash; We don't.
Just look at this simple biological fact to understand why: 90% of eggs are gone by age 30 for women. No sh*t men don't want older women.
That's why feminism absolutely destroyed the lives of so many women, lying and deluding younger women, telling them they can sloot it up in their 20's and focus on their "carreer"...
Oh well, this era will be a very good lesson for future generations of the world. Everything has been documented very well.
Most bizarre thing I've ever heard.
01-05-2021, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
Yea if a girl tells her guidance counselor “My dream is to have a family and raise them,” she’s gonna be met with something like “But...but...don’t you wanna go to college and get a career and be self-sufficient??” They look down on girls who want that when in reality, being a housewife/mother is one of the most noble things a woman can do. It’s not easy. And I’ve talked to a substantial amount of girls after sex laying on my back in bed with their arm around my chest as I stare at the ceiling contemplating life. And during those pillow talk times, girls have confided in me that they wanna have a family eventually. They’ve been brainwashed into thinking that’s beneath them. That being a mother/wife is some outdated 1955 lifestyle that’s sexist. It’s bullsh!t.The biggest lie was that somehow a "career" is just as satisfying as a loving family.
Most bizarre thing I've ever heard.
Most bizarre thing I've ever heard.
Say what you want about the Amish, Muslims, or hardcore Christians but when it comes to gender roles, I think they got it right for the most part. If civilization started to crumble, everything would go back to normal real fukking fast. The strongest males would once again be the most necessary for women and that skinny beta computer nerd would be tossed aside. Western society has a lot of positives to it but we’re still very tribal and the further we deviate from the “rules,” the worse things seem to get and we start living in clown world.
There’s a reason why 50 Shades of Grey became the highest selling novel of all time. It’s about a rich alpha male chad who engages in S&M domination....
Women think they like that because of their “individuality” or their personality when it’s reality just biological factors that drive them as much as they do men. Except men are better at coming to terms with these facts of life.
No man gives a fuk if some hot 10/10 Margot Robbie has “ambition” lol. We could not care less.
01-05-2021, 08:06 AM
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Ladies in your early 20's, remember if he hits you, rapes you, makes fun of you... is this someone you want to procreate with? He'll treat his daughters just like he treats you. So that means if he's a dick, drop him like a hot chit.
If that means you're single till you're 40, so be it.
If a man wants you for your body, not for your soul, he'll dump you anyway, so you might as well reject them and listen to miscers call you "too cocky and sloppy."
The difference between a hoe and a lady is the amount of respect a man gives her. In other words, you can't make him love you, he either does or doesn't.
I've seen other women's #1 struggle become the exit from abusive relationchits. Get quality or Stay single and get some horses and dogs. Single life > abuse
If that means you're single till you're 40, so be it.
If a man wants you for your body, not for your soul, he'll dump you anyway, so you might as well reject them and listen to miscers call you "too cocky and sloppy."
The difference between a hoe and a lady is the amount of respect a man gives her. In other words, you can't make him love you, he either does or doesn't.
I've seen other women's #1 struggle become the exit from abusive relationchits. Get quality or Stay single and get some horses and dogs. Single life > abuse
01-05-2021, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Good, hard, but honest advice. Doubt it lands on any ears that needs to hear it on the female side but it's true. Especially in 2020 where everyone (media, movies, others) are telling you that you are entitled to having it all. For chicks your 'fun' years should basically be college, after that you need to date with intent. That doesn't mean marry the guy you are dating at 23 - but no more wasting time. Get your mind out of the BS that you need to be single to 'discover yourself', 'travel', or 'focus on career'. All can be done in a healthy relationship.For the several women who are in their early twenties and might be reading this.....I’m gonna give you some serious real talk. Now listen carefully...
If you’re 18-27 years old and even just slightly good looking, you better damn well think about if you really wanna go your entire life without a family. It’s not just about kids. It’s about FAMILY. This goes for men too. Stare at the wall for a few hours each day if you have to and figure out what you want in life. If you want kids someday then you better realize that the hourglass has already started dropping sand. I hate to sound cruel but you’re basically a depreciating asset. Treat your youth like the commodity that it is. If you wanna lock down a chad that can be a good husband/father then make that your mission.
If you think you can just sloot it up in your twenties and just swoop in and find a husband at 30+ you’re entirely too cocky and careless. If you say you want a career instead of a family then you better be damn sure you’re gonna get there because if you don’t, you risk being alone and depressed with a shrinking pool of guys that maybe still want you. The chads out there that you think you can still get at 30+ will have moved on to the younger girls. And your standards will be FORCED to drop due to simple supply and demand economics. By then you’ll definitely settle. The guys you rejected in your twenties won’t take you this time around. They’ve been slowly working their asses off accumulating money/resources.
For us men, time is on our side. Our ceiling may never reach that of a 10/10 girl in her twenties. They have the most fun out of anyone so their peak may be higher, but it doesn’t last. Like that saying goes....”Women who turn 40 finally know what it’s like to be average men in our twenties.” You’re gonna get rejected by all the good looking men you used to be able to pull into your twats. So what you do is up to you.
Also to my brahs here, don’t waste up a girl’s prime/fertile years by lying to her or leading her on like you might put a ring on it someday. That’s fukked up and you can literally ruin a girl for life by doing that. We can smash and dash all we want but just try to think a little harder about treating a girl like she’s “just your next gf” when she might be thinking you’re “the one.” Have some fukking empathy too and don’t be a borderline sociopath about it.
If you’re 18-27 years old and even just slightly good looking, you better damn well think about if you really wanna go your entire life without a family. It’s not just about kids. It’s about FAMILY. This goes for men too. Stare at the wall for a few hours each day if you have to and figure out what you want in life. If you want kids someday then you better realize that the hourglass has already started dropping sand. I hate to sound cruel but you’re basically a depreciating asset. Treat your youth like the commodity that it is. If you wanna lock down a chad that can be a good husband/father then make that your mission.
If you think you can just sloot it up in your twenties and just swoop in and find a husband at 30+ you’re entirely too cocky and careless. If you say you want a career instead of a family then you better be damn sure you’re gonna get there because if you don’t, you risk being alone and depressed with a shrinking pool of guys that maybe still want you. The chads out there that you think you can still get at 30+ will have moved on to the younger girls. And your standards will be FORCED to drop due to simple supply and demand economics. By then you’ll definitely settle. The guys you rejected in your twenties won’t take you this time around. They’ve been slowly working their asses off accumulating money/resources.
For us men, time is on our side. Our ceiling may never reach that of a 10/10 girl in her twenties. They have the most fun out of anyone so their peak may be higher, but it doesn’t last. Like that saying goes....”Women who turn 40 finally know what it’s like to be average men in our twenties.” You’re gonna get rejected by all the good looking men you used to be able to pull into your twats. So what you do is up to you.
Also to my brahs here, don’t waste up a girl’s prime/fertile years by lying to her or leading her on like you might put a ring on it someday. That’s fukked up and you can literally ruin a girl for life by doing that. We can smash and dash all we want but just try to think a little harder about treating a girl like she’s “just your next gf” when she might be thinking you’re “the one.” Have some fukking empathy too and don’t be a borderline sociopath about it.
Advice for men should be equally harsh, but completely different. As a guy your clock is extended quite a bit - but lets be real, you dont want to be the guy out at bars who is 40 trying to pick up 23 year olds. That said if you are a loser at 21 you dont magically become high value at 31. You need to realize no one loves you outside of your mom for who you are, it's about what you are. Be fit, have interesting hobbies, make solid money - realize that things like video games can be ok but are literally just throwing time away. If you are a fit, interesting, and financially secure, male at 30 - 35 the world is your oyster. Few men qualify for that
01-05-2021, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
I hope you’re really a girl but everything about your username and sig says you’re an obvious troll.Ladies in your early 20's, remember if he hits you, rapes you, makes fun of you... is this someone you want to procreate with? He'll treat his daughters just like he treats you. So that means if he's a dick, drop him like a hot chit.
If that means you're single till you're 40, so be it.
If a man wants you for your body, not for your soul, he'll dump you anyway, so you might as well reject them and listen to miscers call you "too cocky and sloppy."
The difference between a hoe and a lady is the amount of respect a man gives her. In other words, you can't make him love you, he either does or doesn't.
I've seen other women's #1 struggle become the exit from abusive relationchits. Get quality or Stay single and get some horses and dogs. Single life > abuse
If that means you're single till you're 40, so be it.
If a man wants you for your body, not for your soul, he'll dump you anyway, so you might as well reject them and listen to miscers call you "too cocky and sloppy."
The difference between a hoe and a lady is the amount of respect a man gives her. In other words, you can't make him love you, he either does or doesn't.
I've seen other women's #1 struggle become the exit from abusive relationchits. Get quality or Stay single and get some horses and dogs. Single life > abuse
If you are an actual female and into horses then you probably have at least a hint of craziness in you. Girls who have a horse obsession are crazy. There’s some kind of correlation and I’ve witnessed it first hand.
Anyways I never understood girls who stay with guys who are physically abusive. Not bragging but never in my life have I felt the desire to hit a girl. Even the ones that broke my heart. I don’t have that gene so it’s not like I can act virtuous. If I had constant urges to hit girls but didn’t, then I could give myself a pat on the back, lol. I’ve had girls hit me but not in the face and not really for real. Just kind of playful hitting but if one actually got me in the nose I’d dump her right on the spot. Part of me would be a little impressed, not gonna lie, but I’d never trust her and probably develop a fear of her biting my dick off the next time she blew me.
01-05-2021, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Funny thing is it's women who want these "badboys" because "feelingz". Afterwards they cry and yell "but I thought I could...fix him"I hope you’re really a girl but everything about your username and sig says you’re an obvious troll.
If you are an actual female and into horses then you probably have at least a hint of craziness in you. Girls who have a horse obsession are crazy. There’s some kind of correlation and I’ve witnessed it first hand.
Anyways I never understood girls who stay with guys who are physically abusive. Not bragging but never in my life have I felt the desire to hit a girl. Even the ones that broke my heart. I don’t have that gene so it’s not like I can act virtuous. If I had constant urges to hit girls but didn’t, then I could give myself a pat on the back, lol. I’ve had girls hit me but not in the face and not really for real. Just kind of playful hitting but if one actually got me in the nose I’d dump her right on the spot. Part of me would be a little impressed, not gonna lie, but I’d never trust her and probably develop a fear of her biting my dick off the next time she blew me.
If you are an actual female and into horses then you probably have at least a hint of craziness in you. Girls who have a horse obsession are crazy. There’s some kind of correlation and I’ve witnessed it first hand.
Anyways I never understood girls who stay with guys who are physically abusive. Not bragging but never in my life have I felt the desire to hit a girl. Even the ones that broke my heart. I don’t have that gene so it’s not like I can act virtuous. If I had constant urges to hit girls but didn’t, then I could give myself a pat on the back, lol. I’ve had girls hit me but not in the face and not really for real. Just kind of playful hitting but if one actually got me in the nose I’d dump her right on the spot. Part of me would be a little impressed, not gonna lie, but I’d never trust her and probably develop a fear of her biting my dick off the next time she blew me.
Just lol, hence I was saying we need back the cultural framework.
Some interesting studies:
1.1 Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad—narcissism, manipulativeness, & psychopathy
1.2 More psychopathic men tend to receive higher attractiveness ratings from women
1.3 On PornHub, women consume most of the porn where women are violently raped and abused
1.4 62% of women have fantasies about rape and other forced sex acts
1.5 50% of female porn viewers admitted to watching porn involving extreme violence against women
1.6 Women are drawn more than men to nonfiction stories of rape, murder, and serial killers
1.7 Criminal and antisocial men have more sexual partners and have sex earlier
1.8 Antisocial, criminal and violent men have greater sexual access to women
1.9 Imprisoned serial killers, terrorists and rapists receive thousands of love letters from women
1.10 Male gang members have dramatically more female sexual partners
1.11 Childhood bullies experience greater sexual success than non-bullies
1.12 More than half of prison staff sexual misconduct involves female guards/staff
1.13 39% of hospitalized male psychopaths had consensual sex with female mental health staff
1.14 Women desiring marriage and commitment are more attracted to narcissistic men
1.15 Female narcissism reduces marital quality for men, but male narcissism does not for women
1.16 Men are attracted to "nice" women, but women are not attracted to "nice" men
1.17 Vegetarian men are less attractive, likable, and masculine to women than omnivorous men
1.18 Rapists are far more sexually active than other men
1.19 Benevolent sexism is approved in society by both men and women
1.20 Sexist teenage boys are more sexually active
1.21 Physically attractive people convey personality traits better during first impressions
01-05-2021, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Bro it gets way worse than that even.Funny thing is it's women who want these "badboys" because "feelingz". Afterwards they cry and yell "but I thought I could...fix him"
Just lol, hence I was saying we need back the cultural framework.
Some interesting studies:
1.1 Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad—narcissism, manipulativeness, & psychopathy
1.2 More psychopathic men tend to receive higher attractiveness ratings from women
1.3 On PornHub, women consume most of the porn where women are violently raped and abused
1.4 62% of women have fantasies about rape and other forced sex acts
1.5 50% of female porn viewers admitted to watching porn involving extreme violence against women
1.6 Women are drawn more than men to nonfiction stories of rape, murder, and serial killers
1.7 Criminal and antisocial men have more sexual partners and have sex earlier
1.8 Antisocial, criminal and violent men have greater sexual access to women
1.9 Imprisoned serial killers, terrorists and rapists receive thousands of love letters from women
1.10 Male gang members have dramatically more female sexual partners
1.11 Childhood bullies experience greater sexual success than non-bullies
1.12 More than half of prison staff sexual misconduct involves female guards/staff
1.13 39% of hospitalized male psychopaths had consensual sex with female mental health staff
1.14 Women desiring marriage and commitment are more attracted to narcissistic men
1.15 Female narcissism reduces marital quality for men, but male narcissism does not for women
1.16 Men are attracted to "nice" women, but women are not attracted to "nice" men
1.17 Vegetarian men are less attractive, likable, and masculine to women than omnivorous men
1.18 Rapists are far more sexually active than other men
1.19 Benevolent sexism is approved in society by both men and women
1.20 Sexist teenage boys are more sexually active
1.21 Physically attractive people convey personality traits better during first impressions
Just lol, hence I was saying we need back the cultural framework.
Some interesting studies:
1.1 Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad—narcissism, manipulativeness, & psychopathy
1.2 More psychopathic men tend to receive higher attractiveness ratings from women
1.3 On PornHub, women consume most of the porn where women are violently raped and abused
1.4 62% of women have fantasies about rape and other forced sex acts
1.5 50% of female porn viewers admitted to watching porn involving extreme violence against women
1.6 Women are drawn more than men to nonfiction stories of rape, murder, and serial killers
1.7 Criminal and antisocial men have more sexual partners and have sex earlier
1.8 Antisocial, criminal and violent men have greater sexual access to women
1.9 Imprisoned serial killers, terrorists and rapists receive thousands of love letters from women
1.10 Male gang members have dramatically more female sexual partners
1.11 Childhood bullies experience greater sexual success than non-bullies
1.12 More than half of prison staff sexual misconduct involves female guards/staff
1.13 39% of hospitalized male psychopaths had consensual sex with female mental health staff
1.14 Women desiring marriage and commitment are more attracted to narcissistic men
1.15 Female narcissism reduces marital quality for men, but male narcissism does not for women
1.16 Men are attracted to "nice" women, but women are not attracted to "nice" men
1.17 Vegetarian men are less attractive, likable, and masculine to women than omnivorous men
1.18 Rapists are far more sexually active than other men
1.19 Benevolent sexism is approved in society by both men and women
1.20 Sexist teenage boys are more sexually active
1.21 Physically attractive people convey personality traits better during first impressions
I saw a YouTube vid of a guy posing as a “Chad” on tinder or some other dating app. He put in his bio that he was a convicted sex offender that was attracted to minors but that “he’s better now.”
He got replies from tons of girls saying sh!t like “everyone deserves a second chance.” I couldn’t believe my eyes. I always knew the obvious rule that good looking guys can get away with more sh!t, but not to that extent. I wanted to kill myself just reading the excuses these girls made for him.
This isn’t some new type of fetish either. Male serial killers have gotten love letters from all over the world while they were in prison. It’s ridiculous. Joe Rogan had a theory that it might be because women have some kind of tribal/primitive wiring that tells them that dangerous, murderous men have good genes and are more likely to survive in the wild. It’s fukked up but on some level might make sense if you delve deep into evolutionary biology.
But according to Jordan Peterson, most women want a man who is both dangerous, yet civilized. They want to tame those men.
The 5 categories of males that were deemed most attractive to women were the following:
Werewolf
Vampire
Billionaire
Surgeon
Pirate
Wrap your head around that one
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
this is some strong advice, i've been a victim too the cocky and careless. As a true degen tho its never enough and when your smashing a 20 something, you feeling alpha AF which makes it easier to get other women because your not being too much of a try hard. Youve got too know when too cash out tooFor the several women who are in their early twenties and might be reading this.....I’m gonna give you some serious real talk. Now listen carefully...
If you’re 18-27 years old and even just slightly good looking, you better damn well think about if you really wanna go your entire life without a family. It’s not just about kids. It’s about FAMILY. This goes for men too. Stare at the wall for a few hours each day if you have to and figure out what you want in life. If you want kids someday then you better realize that the hourglass has already started dropping sand. I hate to sound cruel but you’re basically a depreciating asset. Treat your youth like the commodity that it is. If you wanna lock down a chad that can be a good husband/father then make that your mission.
If you think you can just sloot it up in your twenties and just swoop in and find a husband at 30+ you’re entirely too cocky and careless. If you say you want a career instead of a family then you better be damn sure you’re gonna get there because if you don’t, you risk being alone and depressed with a shrinking pool of guys that maybe still want you. The chads out there that you think you can still get at 30+ will have moved on to the younger girls. And your standards will be FORCED to drop due to simple supply and demand economics. By then you’ll definitely settle. The guys you rejected in your twenties won’t take you this time around. They’ve been slowly working their asses off accumulating money/resources.
For us men, time is on our side. Our ceiling may never reach that of a 10/10 girl in her twenties. They have the most fun out of anyone so their peak may be higher, but it doesn’t last. Like that saying goes....”Women who turn 40 finally know what it’s like to be average men in our twenties.” You’re gonna get rejected by all the good looking men you used to be able to pull into your twats. So what you do is up to you.
Also to my brahs here, don’t waste up a girl’s prime/fertile years by lying to her or leading her on like you might put a ring on it someday. That’s fukked up and you can literally ruin a girl for life by doing that. We can smash and dash all we want but just try to think a little harder about treating a girl like she’s “just your next gf” when she might be thinking you’re “the one.” Have some fukking empathy too and don’t be a borderline sociopath about it.
If you’re 18-27 years old and even just slightly good looking, you better damn well think about if you really wanna go your entire life without a family. It’s not just about kids. It’s about FAMILY. This goes for men too. Stare at the wall for a few hours each day if you have to and figure out what you want in life. If you want kids someday then you better realize that the hourglass has already started dropping sand. I hate to sound cruel but you’re basically a depreciating asset. Treat your youth like the commodity that it is. If you wanna lock down a chad that can be a good husband/father then make that your mission.
If you think you can just sloot it up in your twenties and just swoop in and find a husband at 30+ you’re entirely too cocky and careless. If you say you want a career instead of a family then you better be damn sure you’re gonna get there because if you don’t, you risk being alone and depressed with a shrinking pool of guys that maybe still want you. The chads out there that you think you can still get at 30+ will have moved on to the younger girls. And your standards will be FORCED to drop due to simple supply and demand economics. By then you’ll definitely settle. The guys you rejected in your twenties won’t take you this time around. They’ve been slowly working their asses off accumulating money/resources.
For us men, time is on our side. Our ceiling may never reach that of a 10/10 girl in her twenties. They have the most fun out of anyone so their peak may be higher, but it doesn’t last. Like that saying goes....”Women who turn 40 finally know what it’s like to be average men in our twenties.” You’re gonna get rejected by all the good looking men you used to be able to pull into your twats. So what you do is up to you.
Also to my brahs here, don’t waste up a girl’s prime/fertile years by lying to her or leading her on like you might put a ring on it someday. That’s fukked up and you can literally ruin a girl for life by doing that. We can smash and dash all we want but just try to think a little harder about treating a girl like she’s “just your next gf” when she might be thinking you’re “the one.” Have some fukking empathy too and don’t be a borderline sociopath about it.
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Lol yeah I've seen multiple experiments like that. Tbh, it's doesn't even faze me anymore, it is what it is and every man with healthy test levels and who's not completely brainwashed by far left trash knows we need to go back to better times.Bro it gets way worse than that even.
I saw a YouTube vid of a guy posing as a “Chad” on tinder or some other dating app. He put in his bio that he was a convicted sex offender that was attracted to minors but that “he’s better now.”
He got replies from tons of girls saying sh!t like “everyone deserves a second chance.” I couldn’t believe my eyes. I always knew the obvious rule that good looking guys can get away with more sh!t, but not to that extent. I wanted to kill myself just reading the excuses these girls made for him.
I saw a YouTube vid of a guy posing as a “Chad” on tinder or some other dating app. He put in his bio that he was a convicted sex offender that was attracted to minors but that “he’s better now.”
He got replies from tons of girls saying sh!t like “everyone deserves a second chance.” I couldn’t believe my eyes. I always knew the obvious rule that good looking guys can get away with more sh!t, but not to that extent. I wanted to kill myself just reading the excuses these girls made for him.
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Originally Posted By JustMoved24⏩
I do this they dont get a chance to get rejected because im simply not interested, i dont hate them but almost the same reaction women have too beta men. They try too hard and you have to give them the hard rejection instead of it being a normal 'interaction'I don’t talk to 30 year old women. No older then 25. Once I find out they are 25+ I go NC. Even if I want to sex them those broads are a day away from turning into that nasty sour milk
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Originally Posted By cookoodbrah⏩
Knowing when to cash out is a great way to put it. Was 28 when I got into my current relationship and am 30 now. Absolutely loved the dopamine hits from 24-28 of getting hundreds of matches on apps, getting hit on at work/bars, hook ups when traveling, going out, from girls in your apartment building, etc. You feel like a king - but there's also annoying parts: dealing with dumb personalities, juggling different girls life stories, missing the benefits relationships bring (mainly being good company).this is some strong advice, i've been a victim too the cocky and careless. As a true degen tho its never enough and when your smashing a 20 something, you feeling alpha AF which makes it easier to get other women because your not being too much of a try hard. Youve got too know when too cash out too
I feel very fortunate now and have no regrets. Could easily be single and squeeze out a few more years of hookup/party life, but at this age know the music is winding down and it's time to start thinking of the future. If you're a single guy in your early 30s you still can do whatever, but the amount of relationship quality women left when you're 34, 35, 36, etc. will dwindle severely. There is something primal about being single and going on 'the hunt' that you will always miss, but not stupid enough to sacrifice a great relationship for another round of relationship russian roulette
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Either you’re a dude or a really really mature woman.Girls stay with guys who are physically abusive because of a psychological dynamic called trauma bond. It’s a mixture of fear and misplaced loyalty.
People can be psychologically manipulated into bonding with an abuser if the abuser mixes the abuse with random acts of “love” or “kindness.” These trigger a survival mechanism in the human brain that makes you bond to the abuser and give the abuser love and loyalty in the hope that he will take mercy on you.
The messed up part is that the more intense the abuse, the stronger the trauma bond if the abuser keeps mixing in random acts of “kindness.” So while rationally you might think abuse causes only negative emotions in the victim, because of that trauma bond survival mechanism the victim’s brain actually reacts with more intense bonding and loyalty.
That dynamic is why domestic violence victims have such a hard time leaving their abuser and why most decline to press charges.
The same dynamic can exist between hostages and hostage taker if the latter mixes in kindness to the hostages (like bringing some extra food or some other type of relief). In that scenario it’s called Stockholm Syndrome.
People can be psychologically manipulated into bonding with an abuser if the abuser mixes the abuse with random acts of “love” or “kindness.” These trigger a survival mechanism in the human brain that makes you bond to the abuser and give the abuser love and loyalty in the hope that he will take mercy on you.
The messed up part is that the more intense the abuse, the stronger the trauma bond if the abuser keeps mixing in random acts of “kindness.” So while rationally you might think abuse causes only negative emotions in the victim, because of that trauma bond survival mechanism the victim’s brain actually reacts with more intense bonding and loyalty.
That dynamic is why domestic violence victims have such a hard time leaving their abuser and why most decline to press charges.
The same dynamic can exist between hostages and hostage taker if the latter mixes in kindness to the hostages (like bringing some extra food or some other type of relief). In that scenario it’s called Stockholm Syndrome.
Either way yea you’re right about all of that. From what I’ve gathered from men more knowledgeable than myself, girls have a huge need to feel in touch with their emotions. Even if they’re negative emotions. ANYTHING is better than BORING. Women are like cats chasing that string on a stick. They won’t do sh!t with it if the string is just laying there. But if you move it around they’ll chase it. That’s why they get sick of their husbands only a year into marriage a lot of the times. The man gets lazy and thinks “I got her now.” And he stops doing all the things he did to get her attracted to him in the first place. That’s why the males who are legit fukked up in the head have the same girl come crawling back to them again and again. Because that’s just who they are. They attract the girl by having a naturally volatile nature about them. It’s not a performance to them or maintenance trying to keep the girl happy.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So what now then? Do you just go full hedonist mode and bang as many chads as possible? Does that bring you happiness or just short term pleasure? Genuinely curious and not judging at all. Doesn’t seem like you’d care if I were anyways.Not a dude but I learned this the hard way with my ex. I didn’t understand my emotions for him during the divorce so I researched it to try to understand myself. Trauma bond dynamic explained everything.
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so bikini photos aren't enough to prove my sex? You sound like you hope I'm male. I have the spirit of the herd in me. That's what causes the "crazy." I'm never alone because I stand with the herd.I hope you’re really a girl but everything about your username and sig says you’re an obvious troll.
If you are an actual female and into horses then you probably have at least a hint of craziness in you. Girls who have a horse obsession are crazy. There’s some kind of correlation and I’ve witnessed it first hand.
Anyways I never understood girls who stay with guys who are physically abusive. Not bragging but never in my life have I felt the desire to hit a girl. Even the ones that broke my heart. I don’t have that gene so it’s not like I can act virtuous. If I had constant urges to hit girls but didn’t, then I could give myself a pat on the back, lol. I’ve had girls hit me but not in the face and not really for real. Just kind of playful hitting but if one actually got me in the nose I’d dump her right on the spot. Part of me would be a little impressed, not gonna lie, but I’d never trust her and probably develop a fear of her biting my dick off the next time she blew me.
If you are an actual female and into horses then you probably have at least a hint of craziness in you. Girls who have a horse obsession are crazy. There’s some kind of correlation and I’ve witnessed it first hand.
Anyways I never understood girls who stay with guys who are physically abusive. Not bragging but never in my life have I felt the desire to hit a girl. Even the ones that broke my heart. I don’t have that gene so it’s not like I can act virtuous. If I had constant urges to hit girls but didn’t, then I could give myself a pat on the back, lol. I’ve had girls hit me but not in the face and not really for real. Just kind of playful hitting but if one actually got me in the nose I’d dump her right on the spot. Part of me would be a little impressed, not gonna lie, but I’d never trust her and probably develop a fear of her biting my dick off the next time she blew me.
I don't think abusers abuse because they have "genes" for it. They do it because they're lazy.
As to the "obvious troll" comment ... wtf? I am a "megasloot" because I am throwing y'alls disrespect of me in y'all's faces. Like I've often said, the only difference between a sloot and a lady is the amount of respect she gets.
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
I dont agree with the rape statistics, if your sexually active and smashing randoms there more chance than your gonna get accused than if your a beta brah hoping for a bj every birthday.Ladies in your early 20's, remember if he hits you, rapes you, makes fun of you... is this someone you want to procreate with? He'll treat his daughters just like he treats you. So that means if he's a dick, drop him like a hot chit.
If that means you're single till you're 40, so be it.
If a man wants you for your body, not for your soul, he'll dump you anyway, so you might as well reject them and listen to miscers call you "too cocky and sloppy."
The difference between a hoe and a lady is the amount of respect a man gives her. In other words, you can't make him love you, he either does or doesn't.
I've seen other women's #1 struggle become the exit from abusive relationchits. Get quality or Stay single and get some horses and dogs. Single life > abuse
If that means you're single till you're 40, so be it.
If a man wants you for your body, not for your soul, he'll dump you anyway, so you might as well reject them and listen to miscers call you "too cocky and sloppy."
The difference between a hoe and a lady is the amount of respect a man gives her. In other words, you can't make him love you, he either does or doesn't.
I've seen other women's #1 struggle become the exit from abusive relationchits. Get quality or Stay single and get some horses and dogs. Single life > abuse
Thats the problem with feminised sloots, they always lean towards the accusation if they dont agree with something.
How about instead of getting mad save keep chitty ass opinions too your self
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin⏩
How if they have unlimited guys to choose from? Sad for the men.Speaking from a purely biological and evolutionary perspective - a woman who has crossed the threshold into her 30s, that has not settled down (but would like to), is not in a healthy relationship, has no kids (but wants them), etc - she's up against younger, more sexually viable and fertile women, so all the try-hard behaviours are like a last ditch desperate effort to attract a mate.
I know a lot of women that are in this situation. They're in their early 30s, some are newly single, and they're on dating apps going through one guy after another, desperately searching for 'the one' that they can settle down with and have children immediately. They have these lists of ridiculous, delusional criteria, and a back-burner of unlimited guys to just keep breezing through until, in their minds, they find 'the one' that will meet all of these impossible criteria.
Overall, it's just really sad.
I know a lot of women that are in this situation. They're in their early 30s, some are newly single, and they're on dating apps going through one guy after another, desperately searching for 'the one' that they can settle down with and have children immediately. They have these lists of ridiculous, delusional criteria, and a back-burner of unlimited guys to just keep breezing through until, in their minds, they find 'the one' that will meet all of these impossible criteria.
Overall, it's just really sad.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You went the exact route my ex-gf should have gone. She’s 33 with a low egg count and I just got bored. I don’t want her back but I feel guilty like I wasted her time but I genuinely thought she could’ve been the one. Now she’s with this guy who has been in the friend zone with her for 12+ years, is morbidly obese, and looks legit 70 years old when he’s only 36. I honestly feel bad for her because it’s just so obvious how hard she’s settling. It’s natural to never want your ex to get an upgrade over you because it hurts the ego.....but she went the exact opposite way and got with a guy that’s just......damn. Someone told me that the reason why that bothers me so much is because it makes me value myself less. And that seeing her with a low value man makes me feel like I’m somehow lower value as well. I’m still not sure if that’s true or not. And I’d admit it if I knew it were.After my marriage ended I took 4 years off from dating altogether. Didn’t talk to any guys at all and just focused on myself and the divorce.
After 4 years I started dating with the intent to find a new relationship and possibly new marriage. I fully expected to find someone new and to find new happiness again.
After a couple of years dating I realized that I would not be able to find someone new unless I severely lowered my standards. I carefully considered settling and dating/marrying someone I don’t like because that is a common choice for women.
Eventually decided I’d rather stay single than settle. To just be grateful that I already had a long happy marriage which is more than most people get to enjoy. And instead of settling just stay single and enjoy attention and sex from young Chads.
Not saying I would pass up the chance at a new relationship/marriage if I did get that chance with someone I really like. Ofc I would love it if that did still happen for me. But the odds of that happening are so low that I am not going to keep looking for it or hoping for it. I accept reality that it’s a slim to none chance and I choose to just enjoy myself with young Chads instead.
After 4 years I started dating with the intent to find a new relationship and possibly new marriage. I fully expected to find someone new and to find new happiness again.
After a couple of years dating I realized that I would not be able to find someone new unless I severely lowered my standards. I carefully considered settling and dating/marrying someone I don’t like because that is a common choice for women.
Eventually decided I’d rather stay single than settle. To just be grateful that I already had a long happy marriage which is more than most people get to enjoy. And instead of settling just stay single and enjoy attention and sex from young Chads.
Not saying I would pass up the chance at a new relationship/marriage if I did get that chance with someone I really like. Ofc I would love it if that did still happen for me. But the odds of that happening are so low that I am not going to keep looking for it or hoping for it. I accept reality that it’s a slim to none chance and I choose to just enjoy myself with young Chads instead.
I’ve tried to “save” girls in the past and wanted to blow my head off for having that mindset. I want there to be a big happy ending for you at some point. Hope it works out.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You aren't 'settling', you're being evenly matched.After my marriage ended I took 4 years off from dating altogether. Didn’t talk to any guys at all and just focused on myself and the divorce.
After 4 years I started dating with the intent to find a new relationship and possibly new marriage. I fully expected to find someone new and to find new happiness again.
After a couple of years dating I realized that I would not be able to find someone new unless I severely lowered my standards. I carefully considered settling and dating/marrying someone I don’t like because that is a common choice for women.
Eventually decided I’d rather stay single than settle. To just be grateful that I already had a long happy marriage which is more than most people get to enjoy. And instead of settling just stay single and enjoy attention and sex from young Chads.
Not saying I would pass up the chance at a new relationship/marriage if I did get that chance with someone I really like. Ofc I would love it if that did still happen for me. But the odds of that happening are so low that I am not going to keep looking for it or hoping for it. I accept reality that it’s a slim to none chance and I choose to just enjoy myself with young Chads instead.
After 4 years I started dating with the intent to find a new relationship and possibly new marriage. I fully expected to find someone new and to find new happiness again.
After a couple of years dating I realized that I would not be able to find someone new unless I severely lowered my standards. I carefully considered settling and dating/marrying someone I don’t like because that is a common choice for women.
Eventually decided I’d rather stay single than settle. To just be grateful that I already had a long happy marriage which is more than most people get to enjoy. And instead of settling just stay single and enjoy attention and sex from young Chads.
Not saying I would pass up the chance at a new relationship/marriage if I did get that chance with someone I really like. Ofc I would love it if that did still happen for me. But the odds of that happening are so low that I am not going to keep looking for it or hoping for it. I accept reality that it’s a slim to none chance and I choose to just enjoy myself with young Chads instead.
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
Your username is MegaSloot and your sig is ridiculous, lol. Yea it would take spoon pics with your username written on it to prove you’re real but I don’t give that much of a sh!t. The other girl in this thread I believe because she’s been vetted.so bikini photos aren't enough to prove my sex? You sound like you hope I'm male. I have the spirit of the herd in me. That's what causes the "crazy." I'm never alone because I stand with the herd.
I don't think abusers abuse because they have "genes" for it. They do it because they're lazy.
As to the "obvious troll" comment ... wtf? I am a "megasloot" because I am throwing y'alls disrespect of me in y'all's faces. Like I've often said, the only difference between a sloot and a lady is the amount of respect she gets.
I don't think abusers abuse because they have "genes" for it. They do it because they're lazy.
As to the "obvious troll" comment ... wtf? I am a "megasloot" because I am throwing y'alls disrespect of me in y'all's faces. Like I've often said, the only difference between a sloot and a lady is the amount of respect she gets.
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Originally Posted By cookoodbrah⏩
It's "to" not "too" genius. The problem with criminals, they always lean towards denial if they don't agree with something. How about instead of getting mad, save your chitty ass to yourself.chitty ass opinions too your self
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
I put the dick in ridiculous. hehehe. I guess with nuts this massive I should just stop fronting. You caught me bro. Now time to measure and see who's bigger down there.Your username is MegaSloot and your sig is ridiculous, lol. Yea it would take spoon pics with your username written on it to prove you’re real but I don’t give that much of a sh!t. The other girl in this thread I believe because she’s been vetted.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Since we don’t know what you or the guy you were with, or the guys you wanna get with look like.... it’s impossible for him to say if you’re settling or not. Not trying to kiss ass, just pointing out something that should be obvious. If you think you would have been settling than that’s your truth.Yeah the term settling is ambiguous and different people mean different things with it.
To me settling means dating someone you’re not attracted to.
To me settling means dating someone you’re not attracted to.
But then again my ex is with a guy she had available for 12+ years and looks like 70 year old Humpty Dumpty. She’d never admit she was settling. So who knows.
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
the thread is about young HBBs not criminals, its kinda off topic.It's "to" not "too" genius. The problem with criminals, they always lean towards denial if they don't agree with something. How about instead of getting mad, save your chitty ass to yourself.
However thanks for proving my point
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Originally Posted By Merovingian11⏩
my daughter has autism and its difficult to relate to her IRL25 is the cutoff is you want to have several babies with minimal chance of autism.
Hang out 2 years she's 27. Start breeding and have 1 every 2 years She's 37 by the time you have 5.
Hang out 2 years she's 27. Start breeding and have 1 every 2 years She's 37 by the time you have 5.
our only real communication is on ********
its not ideal m8 but at least im her favourite penpal
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