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Thread: Would you ever consider getting serious with a single mother?

post 1628215063 01-11-2021, 06:08 AM
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If I didn’t have kids I wouldn’t. Now that I have 2 it’s a different story and I understand the struggle.
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post 1628215203 01-11-2021, 06:11 AM
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
I would never consider getting serious with any woman.

Not serious in the same way. Closer to a FWB than a relationship.
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post 1628215393 01-11-2021, 06:16 AM
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Personally... when I was single it was a big fkn NOPE!! And I was a single parent myself and fully understand the hypocrisy

There are people on the face of this earth that have the ability to give love , affection , & attention to children that arent theirs and truly mean it... And for those people I commend you!! SRS... But I simply dont have that quality within myself and never was willing to put any broads child in a position of forming any kind of attachment when I was just there to get in their moms guts a few times and steal their capri suns and fruit snacks on my way out
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post 1628215523 01-11-2021, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted By TopSeason⏩
To me if you both of you love each other and she's a wonderful person, why should her kids be a factor to being in a serious relationship?
It's not that easy at all. Kids bring in a whole new element because it is other lives entwined with yours and can cause major issues. And the simple fact is that the kids SHOULD be the first priority to the parent - so it means their needs come first. Lots of people can't handle that. My ex certainly couldn't.
post 1628218333 01-11-2021, 07:01 AM
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Only scenario where it could work is if both people had children from a past marriage and are single due to unfortunate circumstances. Other than that the only seriousness would be the sex.
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post 1628220463 01-11-2021, 07:30 AM
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post 1628220523 01-11-2021, 07:31 AM
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The real answer is yes If the father had been in the picture but died and I was older.
post 1628220623 01-11-2021, 07:31 AM
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yes i would also let the child's father come over and have sex with her whenever he'd like (ded fkn Srs)
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post 1628220643 01-11-2021, 07:32 AM
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post 1628223763 01-11-2021, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So is your gf now a stepmom to your kids? Or how much caretaking work does she do for them and does she like doing that?
My wife technically is a stepmom to my oldest (which will be 16 in a couple of months) but she never did much caretaking work. She never has been comfortable stepping into a "mom" role in that sense , but then again it was never needed since my ex is active in our child's life and we have managed to work well together co parenting.

But , my wife and I do have two children of our own ( 3 & 2 months) and has gone above and beyond as a mother which even surprised her . When we had first met she didn't even want kids and to be honest I was fine either way.
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post 1628224763 01-11-2021, 08:19 AM
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post 1628225483 01-11-2021, 08:27 AM
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only on one condition: if i have kids myself.
post 1628225803 01-11-2021, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By sg1976⏩
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post 1628226743 01-11-2021, 08:40 AM
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Yes, but only if she had a hot, college-aged daughter who likes having 3-somes.

Gross? I think not.
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Only if I were a single dad with kids too and I don't have to support hers in any way
Yeah this is a good way to sum it all up. Doesn't make sense to me to get seriously involved with a single mother as a man without kids himself unless her kids are basically already grown up, and/or he just flat out doesn't have many options to begin with based on other things. I have no idea why any guy under 40 without a kid of his own would even think about it unless he were below average attractiveness or broke or something, unless it was a 9/10+ woman and situation otherwise.
post 1628231753 01-11-2021, 09:40 AM
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I was dating one for a while to check out dat dere milf sex and while she was freaky and had nice T&A going, kids were ALWAYS on the first place, no ifs and buts. Unless you yourself have kids, I say it's a no-go as far as actual relationship goes.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I don’t want kids. I’ve never wanted them. I want a relaxing life with minimal chores and errands and minimal responsibility.

Staying alone is not ideal but it’s also not a “pit of despair.” That’s a little dramatic. Staying alone is still better than settling for a single dad with little kids imo.
I can just imagine you at 80 with absolutely nobody to visit you on sundays/birthdays/christmas. I wonder if you'll revisit this line of thinking then.
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post 1628232233 01-11-2021, 09:46 AM
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post 1628233053 01-11-2021, 09:55 AM
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there is nothing wrong with working your life away to get with a women whos full attention will be on another mans kiddos.

jfl this isnt a srs post
post 1628233333 01-11-2021, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah if her looks are 10/10 some guys think it’s worth the trade off. Like that Snapchat billionaire marrying Miranda Kerr when she already had a kid from Orlando Bloom.
How do you know so much about celebrity tabloid bs? Seems awfully time consuming to be so familiar with the personal lives of some youtubers and Hollywood actor celebrities.


By the way, if anyone still doubts that SS is female, I'm pretty sure this sort of thing validates her claims of being female. I don't know ANY men IRL who would bring up multiple celebrities to make points in normal discussion like that lol. Not even trying to rip on her, just saying, that celebrity obsession stuff tends to be something women do a lot more than men.
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would date single dad if i would be single mom.
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post 1628244693 01-11-2021, 11:41 AM
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My ex of almost 3 years had 2 kids from 2 baby dads, dont do it.
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Originally Posted By LurkoLantern⏩
If I were a single parent myself, then yes it wouldn't be an issue.


But if you're a single guy with no kids, getting serious with a single mom is an indicator of having issues valuing yourself.
I don't agree with the second part.. but the only way i could see myself dating a single mom is if i was also a single father.
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No. Unless I'm in my 40s-50s and her kids are grown and out of the house.
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No. I dont even fuk single moms (srs), then again im kinda weird about sex and relationships.

Last year i was on a date with an absolute HBB, 25 year old doctor, and at the middle of the date she told me she had a 2 year old kid with some random douche. I told her it was fine and asked her story, chilled for a couple hours more after that etc but i didnt even go for the kiss at the end of the night. I despise drama, aint nobody got time for a clingy woman.

Even then, she still texted and called me for nearly a month lol, had to reject her quite a few times.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
absolute HBB, 25 year old doctor, and at the middle of the date she told me she had a 2 year old kid with some random douche.
At 22, she conceived an illegitimate child? While supposedly doing some fast-track M.D. program and maintaining her looks? God, the type-A women in some careers. I knew they must use some wild vices to relieve their stress.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I would feel that way already about my own kids. I really don’t see what is so great about having kids. They are needy and annoying.

The only thing I can think of is that it’s your own genetics that you are continuing. Which does not apply to someone else’s kids so no thanks.
I agree. Having kids does not seem that appealing tbh but thats the point of life to reproduce.
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no thanks, jeff
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I was banging one of those before I was even a miscer. The cringe on my face when we went to the store with her kids...omg. I could never do it and it’s not even misc influenced
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