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Thread: 50 Year Old off Tinder wants to meet me.

post 1628252673 01-11-2021, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By IlChosenOne⏩
At this point op, what do you have to lose by sending an assertive/sexual text as a last ditch effort?

I’m not saying to tell her “I wanna fist you like a sock puppet”


But dig up an old Black Jesus copypasta and send her that

Again, what do you have to lose?




Didn’t bbygainz serve it up to you on a platter and you yourself fumbled? lol


Edit: OP what kinda gun do you carry?
That ship had sailed. He had his chance and blee it. All its gonna do now is come off as desperate and creepy. She's already made her mind up on him and there is nothing he can do to change it.

Move on brah.
post 1628252683 01-11-2021, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Indeed
Man how would you handle drunk bishes throwing themselves at you for being a tall, in shape man in uniform? At least before all this started.

I'm having a hard time understanding your line of work and not being assertive with women. Pls don't tell me you're hispanic too mane gonna be a low blow for us Mex miscers
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post 1628252843 01-11-2021, 12:55 PM
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This is why you shouldn't date gals with ACAB tattoos, brehddy
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post 1628252933 01-11-2021, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
How come?
pls respond
I'm back, bitches!
post 1628253103 01-11-2021, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
pls respond
I don’t approach IRL, and I get poor results with dating apps that’s about it really
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post 1628254183 01-11-2021, 01:08 PM
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Why the fuk is this thread 23 pages of people giving advice? This is why I hate jestermaxxing lmao, I can see where OP is coming from in terms of him 'just being yourself' the fact is not everyone can be good with women and there's not much you can do to change it if you're naturallly introverted/shy/nice etc. You either have of the gift of the gab or you don't.

I work in a job where I'm forced to speak to 100's of people a day IRL and it's not made me more outgoing or any better with women. You can't change your personality.
post 1628254533 01-11-2021, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Why the fuk is this thread 23 pages of people giving advice? This is why I hate jestermaxxing lmao, I can see where OP is coming from in terms of him 'just being yourself' the fact is not everyone can be good with women and there's not much you can do to change it if you're naturallly introverted/shy/nice etc. You either have of the gift of the gab or you don't.

I work in a job where I'm forced to speak to 100's of people a day IRL and it's not made me more outgoing or any better with women. You can't change your personality.
Stop enabling OP. You’re wrong anyway.
post 1628254723 01-11-2021, 01:13 PM
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Women in their late 40s that are in shape are the goat for banging. They know what they're doing and know what they like. They won't waste your time with bs.

Last fwb was 48, had incredible body (no kids, was very fit, nice thick ass too). Current FWB is a Korean 45 year old, has a kid but you can't tell. Has very fit body but lack of ass.
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post 1628255023 01-11-2021, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Stop enabling OP. You’re wrong anyway.
I agree with him, unfortunately the governing force of the universe decided to bless me with youthful looks and a good body yet also decided simultaneously decided to make me a complete social retard with women

It’s my fate
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post 1628255613 01-11-2021, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Why the fuk is this thread 23 pages of people giving advice?
There’s a little opie in every one of us. Op just needs to realize there’s a little bit of zyzz in every one of us too.

A few pages back someone said that you should overstep until you’re told to tone it back a notch. I think that advice could help having less inhibition.

Op is the type of guy that when people find out he’s not slaying, they’re taken back a bit. Has the nice car, great career, looks, yet lacks pull ability. Should take some of ratfish advice and just neg the hell out of women if he can’t “nicely “ pull em.
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post 1628255873 01-11-2021, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
I agree with him, unfortunately the governing force of the universe decided to bless me with youthful looks and a good body yet also decided simultaneously decided to make me a complete social retard with women

It’s my fate
Self-sabotaging behavior. If you don't believe in yourself, noone else will. It's all in your head.
post 1628256693 01-11-2021, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
Wow
STRONGEST most appropriate one word reply in any thread ever.
post 1628256953 01-11-2021, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
I don’t approach IRL, and I get poor results with dating apps that’s about it really
You disqualify yourself mentally in female interaction. That's their job, not yours. Your job is to do what YOU want. Admit it, you had every intention of fukking that night.

Always go in with the mindset that the women you date want you in them and act accordingly. She was touching you, and you wanted to touch back. Do it. Keep doing what you want and only stop if she explicitly tells you.

One of the biggest mistake guys do is worry about what she thinks. What she wants. Is this or that appropriate. Fuk all that. Get all that chit out of your head. Women WANT to to do what you want,but they won't explicitly say it. Your instincts didn't tell you to hug her and go home, your instincts said to fuk her brains out. Be honest, that's what they said. That's why you bought condoms in the first place.

From now on, if you set up a date, do WHATEVER you want and leave it to her to stop you. As men, we're always trying to close. Women are the gatekeepers. Don't take her job bro.

And FFS, approach IRL. You're a tall, good looking guy IN UNIFORM. The hell are you afraid of? Rejection? Big deal. Your ego hurts for a bit, 15 minutes pass, and you forgot all about it. Approach. Do what you really, really want srs. Don't let February end without getting pussy.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1628257033 01-11-2021, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By RakiaPower⏩
Self-sabotaging behavior. If you don't believe in yourself, noone else will. It's all in your head.
You guys really are my friends lol, slowly getting out of this rut srs
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post 1628257713 01-11-2021, 01:41 PM
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****ing nerds. no e-stat bs i woulda wheeled her that first date

makes me miss being single

godam i would have ravaged her

OP bro you need to go in with a killer instinct. you need to know before hand that YOU ARE going to bang
post 1628257903 01-11-2021, 01:43 PM
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the bottom line is that her age is the sum of the ages of 2 gals who have hit the wall

you deserve way better than that chit lol
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post 1628257913 01-11-2021, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Why the fuk is this thread 23 pages of people giving advice? This is why I hate jestermaxxing lmao, I can see where OP is coming from in terms of him 'just being yourself' the fact is not everyone can be good with women and there's not much you can do to change it if you're naturallly introverted/shy/nice etc. You either have of the gift of the gab or you don't.

I work in a job where I'm forced to speak to 100's of people a day IRL and it's not made me more outgoing or any better with women. You can't change your personality.
lmao you couldnt be more wrong
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post 1628258373 01-11-2021, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By IronILLinois⏩
the message ruby left in my cp was 100% spot on. you're a pussy bro. i would delete this thread if i was the one who made it.
It's extremely chitty of her to do that chit.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
It's extremely chitty of her to do that chit.
I keep telling people but they don’t believe me lol
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Originally Posted By IronILLinois⏩
the message ruby left in my cp was 100% spot on. you're a pussy bro. i would delete this thread if i was the one who made it.
Unaware of this Ruby character or the parallel storyline in this misc soap opera.
post 1628259113 01-11-2021, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
I keep telling people but they don’t believe me lol
My comment has nothing to do with the "he said" "she said" between the two of you. Neither one of you should be throwing insults about each other to other Miscers.

Oh and I forgot to say earlier in the thread, don't do dinners on a first meet. Just a drink or something else cheap and simple. Lots of women are just using men for free dinners.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
I keep telling people but they don’t believe me lol
Maybe shes a chit person, but at the end of the day shes right. Just admit it, youre a huge fukin pussy when it comes to women. Its not over and you can do a complete 360 if you really want it, but I guarantee you you wont see any pussy in the foreseeable future if you dont change your mentality
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Smh at all the hate and negativity itt but I do think there is some good advice that has been given to you op.


Don't sweat it with this girl, if you're getting girls of this caliber that match with you and actually follow through with meeting up then I'm sure you'll have plenty more opportunities to polish your game soon.


My two cents is to consider being more direct and learn more about escalating. Like finding a reason to touch her in some way during the date so that way later on going for a kiss isn't like going from 0 to 100. If she was touching you and you weren't touching her back she probably thought either you were too scared or weren't attracted to her physically, why would she want you to let you drive her home and smash if you didn't even touch her the whole time? Consider the frame of the date too, you're not just trying to have a good time with her at a restaurant like you would with one of your friends, you're trying to seduce this bish and make her horny... it's a different vibe. Checkout some redpill type youtube videos (alpha male strategies, steph is cold) and that will give you some concepts to think about and incorporate both in your text game and irl. Just some small changes and it'll probably make a huge difference.


Looking forward to your next thread srs
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
I don’t approach IRL, and I get poor results with dating apps that’s about it really
gee ... i wonder why
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Originally Posted By xam1996⏩
Maybe shes a chit person, but at the end of the day shes right. Just admit it, youre a huge fukin pussy when it comes to women. Its not over and you can do a complete 360 if you really want it, but I guarantee you you wont see any pussy in the foreseeable future if you dont change your mentality
There’s no salvaging this one brah lol
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End this ded thread srs.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
There’s no salvaging this one brah lol
The complete 360 comment wasn't about turning it around with the 50 YO.

Its about turning YOU around with how you interact and flirt with women.
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im sure every single miscer would have smashed, right? bunch of cassanovas here
Lol, lmfao
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Originally Posted By KingOmar9⏩
The complete 360 comment wasn't about turning it around with the 50 YO.

Its about turning YOU around with how you interact and flirt with women.
Oh well yes of course
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Originally Posted By lupus002⏩
im sure every single miscer would have smashed, right? bunch of cassanovas here
E-Frauding harder than they do with their bank accounts lol

“Oh yea bro, I totally would’ve had her back at my place smashing that”

Lol sure pal
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