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Thread: Would you ever consider getting serious with a single mother?

post 1628272253 01-11-2021, 04:02 PM
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Yes (I'm a single father as well).
I envision this would be more of a relationship for when you're older and in search of companionship (ie approaching retirement etc etc) and no longer are pursuing more kids of your own. Not sure it'd appeal to me if we were living together in a mixed-family home or w/e.

If I were to have more kids of my own I think my preference would be to have them with a woman who hadn't had any yet.
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Originally Posted By bigcat3655⏩
Da fuk is a YOLO kid?
Think bolobrah and his meth addict skanks
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post 1628274793 01-11-2021, 04:29 PM
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you have to be pretty desperate to do this. theres no reason why any man 20-40 years old cant find a woman with some glow without kids.
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
Not to mention, if something happens to the child on your watch, you arelegallyresponsible. 100% chance they're going to end up delinquent, and the liability rests on the homeowner for minors. Hit someone in his/her car? Let's see how much money we can extract from your assets.
Oh yeah most definitely, there's so much other chit that's involved with dating them serious. Not to mention if the kid lies on you and says you hit them or touch them, 9 times out of 10, you're getting shredded by the law
Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Yeah, these are a lot of potential issues with dating single mothers. I once worked with one female who has 3 children, by 2 different fathers. First one was practically a YOLO type baby she had as a young married military wife, a story she claims came about because her first husband was a military guy who cheated on her and is a scumbag in general. I know nothing about that situation beyond what she has said openly by choice just because she felt like it.

Then she got married again and had two more kids by a guy I don't hang with or anything, but can confirm he's a pretty big douchebag. The guy is an abrasive ssshole to basically anyone who he isn't great buddies with. He's clingy and controlling by calling her, I chit you not, to bitch and whine about various bs/keep track of her by calling her at her work like 5 times a day (it seriously got annoying af seeing the clown's name/number show up on the business caller ID and have to pick up and listen to him ask where she's at and to talk to her all the time. She's literally been in tears at her job (I've seen it) numerous times after fighting with her current husband over the phone.

I'm pretty sure they're headed for divorce within 5 years at their current rate. That would put her in her 30's with 3 children by two different ex-husbands of hers, both of whom she'd be calling scumbag asssholes by then. Yet, she still acts like it's crazy if anyone indicates a new, high quality man wouldn't wanf to deal with that type of bs. But I doubt you'd ever see her signing up to get with a guy with her exact own baggage for her to deal with unless the guy was loaded financially lol.
She'll call em scumbag A-holes, but she let them raw her and cum in her. okay.jpg
She won't take blame for her fcukups during that whole charade and in her 30s she'll still think she can get a 6 figure, 6 pack, 6 feet, 6 inch dink dude. And the thing is, she won't fcuk with a single dad who has kids that's feeling her and want to have a blended family
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Obviously not a realistic scenario.

Just added that in to be complete because BP is always the exception to everything.
I'll give you that
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
No. I dont even fuk single moms (srs), then again im kinda weird about sex and relationships.

Last year i was on a date with an absolute HBB, 25 year old doctor, and at the middle of the date she told me she had a 2 year old kid with some random douche. I told her it was fine and asked her story, chilled for a couple hours more after that etc but i didnt even go for the kiss at the end of the night. I despise drama, aint nobody got time for a clingy woman.

Even then, she still texted and called me for nearly a month lol, had to reject her quite a few times.
Texted and call for nearly a month and you chose not to smash, let alone kiss? your game had to be on point and you were easily 20x better than her baby daddy. The only red flag in her case as a doctor would have been the debt but with the kid, hell naw. You played it smart, the baby daddy gonna be in the picture one way or another.
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post 1628277253 01-11-2021, 04:54 PM
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I've only met one single mother who I was ever attracted to. She was a rock solid person and had alot going for her except...the psycho, manipulative, obsessed ex-husband.

I barely have time for myself much less a full family though, plus the crazy ex. If I wasn't in college though I might because we think alike, have the same politics and sense of humor, and she's pretty. I'd possibly consider that worth dealing with the guy.
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post 1628277923 01-11-2021, 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I don’t want kids. I’ve never wanted them. I want a relaxing life with minimal chores and errands and minimal responsibility.

Staying alone is not ideal but it’s also not a “pit of despair.” That’s a little dramatic. Staying alone is still better than settling for a single dad with little kids imo.
First and probably last time I can agree with you.
post 1628278903 01-11-2021, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
No. I dont even fuk single moms (srs), then again im kinda weird about sex and relationships.

Last year i was on a date with an absolute HBB, 25 year old doctor, and at the middle of the date she told me she had a 2 year old kid with some random douche. I told her it was fine and asked her story, chilled for a couple hours more after that etc but i didnt even go for the kiss at the end of the night. I despise drama, aint nobody got time for a clingy woman.

Even then, she still texted and called me for nearly a month lol, had to reject her quite a few times.
gahd damn, even a 25 year old single mother doctor isn't redeemable.
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post 1628279033 01-11-2021, 05:14 PM
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post 1628279323 01-11-2021, 05:16 PM
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I am a single parent and would only date a single mom if she was an 8/10 and didnt have more than one child. The odds of that happening are slim so no I will not date a single mom.
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post 1628279923 01-11-2021, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I wouldn’t do it myself but I actually do respect people who do become step parents with genuine intentions. It can change a kid’s whole life to have a stable new family. It’s actually a great thing for the world if the guy genuinely loves the kid and raises him well. It’s like charity imo.
That's one way to look at it. Another way is that guy cucked himself and traded his dignity just for the chance to be a provider and smash some disinterested poon once per month. There's probably a spectrum.
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My step father did it and I commend fully for it

I tried once

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i dated a decently hot single mom for about a year and a half.

Had a good time, never engaged with the daughter, didnt care, didnt play daddy.

But yeah, that was probably one of the reasons i didnt see myself longterm with her, didnt want to raise a child not mine.
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no. wouldn't want any sexual relations either.
I wouldn't even flirt srs.
I'd feel like I was already cheated out of starting a family.
no disrespect to single mothers btw

if i was a single father then yes.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah it depends on the guy’s intentions. If the guy doesn’t really care about the kid and just becomes a step parent because he couldn’t do better or for sex then yeah that’s no good.

But if the guy is genuinely a good and giving person who genuinely loves the kid and puts genuine effort into raising the kid well then that is very charitable and admirable imo.

Again I wouldn’t do it myself because I’m way too selfish to be a good step parent (or a parent at all really). But there are still people in this world who are genuine and selfless and giving and kids from broken homes would be really lucky to get a stable step parent who actually loved them and raises them.
What if I shacked up with a single mom but sent her brat(s) to boarding school?
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**** no. In my experience, single mothers aren't any easier to get than girls without kids so why would you be with one? They still think they're entitled to a Chad, their standards aren't any lower than girls without kids, they're not going to treat you any better, so what's the point?
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
Thank God I'm happily married. I don't even like my own kids sometimes, never mind others sired by some degenerate.
I still have parents living and I don't even like myself
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it would be okay if i had a kid too but most likely i wouldn’t date a single parent. i don’t wanna deal with a baby mama, i wanna enjoy the freedom of the pre-baby years etc.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No I don’t want kids. I’ve never wanted them. I want a relaxing life with minimal chores and errands and minimal responsibility.

Staying alone is not ideal but it’s also not a “pit of despair.” That’s a little dramatic. Staying alone is still better than settling for a single dad with little kids imo.
Your unborn children thank you for never being their mother. 10000% srs.
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Men are meant to have a harem of sloots not take care of another man's child.
Literally ridding your genes from the gene pool doing stuff like.

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i knew a guy that was dating a broad who had 2 kids

was just completely cucked

the dad would come over into the house and just go into the kitchen and argue with the mum (in a different language) and the bf would just watch tv awkwardly. She ended up dumping the bf coz he was beta af.

was so ****ing weird though

nuclear family or nothing srs
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The girl I had the best chemistry was a single mother. Father of her daughter was a degen that would send her to work with red forearms and bruises (srs). Great sex and I was even getting feels but I pulled out because she was already a mother and I would want to be with a girl that doesn't already have kids. Besides the drama would've been unnecesary. Dude would come and maddog every dude at work, and he was cool af with me. Just lol at the fact that I was the one banging his baby momma and I was the one he was cool with

Cringe at men who say they got kids but they aren't theirs lol
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