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» Pup passed away 2 days ago, so sad not sure what to do brahs.
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post 1629472843 01-23-2021, 04:02 PM
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Pup passed away 2 days ago, so sad not sure what to do brahs.

he was with me for 17 and a half years and i am beyond devastated. He wasnt in good health and he is in a better place but i miss him so much. how the **** do you brahs cope? I have lost most of my family and havent felt like this before
post 1629473323 01-23-2021, 04:08 PM
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Sorry brah. I lost a 20 year old a couple years ago. Still miss her. Take some time to grieve and adopt when you’re ready.
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just put down my pet last night. as long as you did everything you could you shouldn't have any regrets. I have nobody to cope with either. just be around people. cherish the moments and compile all pictures and videos
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post 1629473713 01-23-2021, 04:13 PM
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17 is a long life for a dog... be happy for the life they had and open your home and life to another dog to provide them with a good life, that's what your dog would want
post 1629473893 01-23-2021, 04:15 PM
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Sorry to hear, OP.

Comfort yourself in knowing you gave him a happy and comfortable life, and that he is now at peace. Cherish the good memories and don't jump into adopting until you're ready for another one.
post 1629473923 01-23-2021, 04:16 PM
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Bro nothing I can say to help you. It just hurts. It hurts like hell and that is real, justified pain. I hope you can find joy and peace soon. Maybe wait a bit, and get another puppy and start over. You will never replace your pupper that died, but there are so many dogs out there that need and deserve that love you have. Your pupper had a good long life and is no longer sick, no longer in pain, no longer suffering, in a better place than us. Wish your pupper well, and try to make it a better world for another dog.
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass
Sorry brah. I lost a 20 year old a couple years ago. Still miss her. Take some time to grieve and adopt when you’re ready.
Originally Posted By HairyWBush
just put down my pet last night. as long as you did everything you could you shouldn't have any regrets. I have nobody to cope with either. just be around people. cherish the moments and compile all pictures and videos
Originally Posted By mgftp
17 is a long life for a dog... be happy for the life they had and open your home and life to another dog to provide them with a good life, that's what your dog would want
Originally Posted By ramimotemem
Sorry to hear, OP.

Comfort yourself in knowing you gave him a happy and comfortable life, and that he is now at peace. Cherish the good memories and don't jump into adopting until you're ready for another one.
Originally Posted By Jasonw1178
Bro nothing I can say to help you. It just hurts. It hurts like hell and that is real, justified pain. I hope you can find joy and peace soon. Maybe wait a bit, and get another puppy and start over. You will never replace your pupper that died, but there are so many dogs out there that need and deserve that love you have. Your pupper had a good long life and is no longer sick, no longer in pain, no longer suffering, in a better place than us. Wish your pupper well, and try to make it a better world for another dog.
Thanks ofr the words broskis i really appreciate it, i currently have no motivation to do anything just to sad. Not sure if ill be strong enough to get another pupper, but perhaps one day. He was a happy sweet pup from the first day to the last, strongest man i ever met
post 1629474983 01-23-2021, 04:28 PM
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Thats rough but I would kill to get 17 years with either of mine. It still would go by too fast tho.

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It's rough man, morn in your own way but remember as long as you loved them and gave them a good life that's what it's all about. You never stop missing them, but it gets easier pal.
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post 1629475823 01-23-2021, 04:41 PM
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Sorry to hear OP- i lost my pup back in 90' and still miss the ole Boy.
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sorry OP

When my last cat died I was pretty devastated for the first week then sad for several more. Gets better with time. I adopted another cat after a few weeks which helped me feel a lot better since I was able to give another cat a loving home.
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass
Sorry brah. I lost a 20 year old a couple years ago. Still miss her. Take some time to grieve and adopt when you’re ready.
This is a perfect reply for op.

Hang in there bro, chits hard but gets easier over time.
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post 1629476423 01-23-2021, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted By trippped
Thanks ofr the words broskis i really appreciate it, i currently have no motivation to do anything just to sad. Not sure if ill be strong enough to get another pupper, but perhaps one day. He was a happy sweet pup from the first day to the last, strongest man i ever met
There’s no timeline. That’s the burden we bear adopting them, we will usually outlive them. Just know he adored you and you put in the work to give him the best almost two decades possible. Do not rush it but he wouldn’t want you to be alone.
I don’t want a large farva, I want a goddamn liter of cola

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post 1629476433 01-23-2021, 04:48 PM
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Sorry bro

Honestly the pupper lived a blessed and great life with you. Have no regrets
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Originally Posted By ChunkerFish
Thats rough but I would kill to get 17 years with either of mine. It still would go by too fast tho.

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I was deffinatley blessed to have him for so long ill try and post it if i can figure it out, you would think i would know how to do it after all these years.
Originally Posted By Evening7
It's rough man, morn in your own way but remember as long as you loved them and gave them a good life that's what it's all about. You never stop missing them, but it gets easier pal.
thanks man
Originally Posted By mr.left
Sorry to hear OP- i lost my pup back in 90' and still miss the ole Boy.
thanks, i feel it will be the same here too
Originally Posted By WHChampion
sorry OP

When my last cat died I was pretty devastated for the first week then sad for several more. Gets better with time. I adopted another cat after a few weeks which helped me feel a lot better since I was able to give another cat a loving home.
thanks brah, i think it will be a while before i get another one, to sad to think about it.
Originally Posted By Redfish225
This is a perfect reply for op.

Hang in there bro, chits hard but gets easier over time.
thanks brah
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Damn I’m sorry OP. Losing a pet fukking sucks. My parents beagle is about to pass on and it’s sad thinking about it because him and my other two labs brought much joy to me when I was young. Sending you my wishes man.
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Originally Posted By billclintonnn
Damn I’m sorry OP. Losing a pet fukking sucks. My parents beagle is about to pass on and it’s sad thinking about it because him and my other two labs brought much joy to me when I was young. Sending you my wishes man.
thanks buddy i think thats why its so hard, hes been there for me for almost 17 years straight, so much of my life and good memories involve him
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I am so sorry for your loss.17 years is a good long life for a dog. You were both very fortunate to have each other for so long. He'll be waiting at the bridge for you. This always brings me comfort when I lose a beloved pet.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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Originally Posted By Legz422
I am so sorry for your loss.17 years is a good long life for a dog. You were both very fortunate to have each other for so long. He'll be waiting at the bridge for you. This always brings me comfort when I lose a beloved pet.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...
thanks for sharing that, pretty touching stuff, the Urn we chose has the rainbow bridge on it, makes me feel a little better thinking about that
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We’ve all been there bro. Just remember them and all the good times. You gave your pup a great life.
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I never usually click on these threads, but hang in there, OP.
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We had to put our family cat down last year October, he was with us for 18 years.

I will say this thread is hitting me in the feelz.

Its rough, he was fine for the longest time, then out of nowhere the kidneys stop working, drinking tons of water, not eating, can barely walk, etc.

Its a mercy, but every once in a while you'll be hit how much you miss them.
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Originally Posted By trippped
he was with me for 17 and a half years and i am beyond devastated. He wasnt in good health and he is in a better place but i miss him so much. how the **** do you brahs cope? I have lost most of my family and havent felt like this before
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It's a phukkn animal you stupid autist.
Move on.
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These feels haunt me to this day. Lost my little man 5 years and 1 week ago, and his sister passed 2 months later, and it the hurt is still VERY fukkin real and present.

But I will say, the absolute best piece of advice I heard about coping with loss, is in my sig.
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