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post 1630120483 01-30-2021, 01:59 PM
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I'm 35 yo and I just just moved back to my parents home...

And my girl is giving my chit cause of that. I moved back cause my dad has a pulmonary terminal disease and he can barely walk by now. My mom is helping him a lot but I just wanna be with them for a while. I think my girl is selfish and honestly being a kunt. I mean it's my dad, the man that took care of me and gave an easy life when I was growing up. They have a nurse but it's not the same. My dad has a lot of pain and my mom is sad af. It's a chitty situation and my girl just cant understand that I need to be with them. I'm really thinking to cut her loose...

PS: I'm working home office full time so my job it's not a problem.

Update at #65: I broke up with her
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post 1630120553 01-30-2021, 02:01 PM
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Sorry to hear about your dad man. I’m glad you are in a situation to be able to support him and your mom during this.

Sucks bro.
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post 1630120623 01-30-2021, 02:02 PM
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Plenty of more fish in the sea man. If she doesn't see why you're doing this then why start a family with a kunt like that?
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post 1630120643 01-30-2021, 02:03 PM
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Sucks bro

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post 1630120893 01-30-2021, 02:05 PM
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Sorry about your father. Not even sure what to say about your gf acting that way, that's horrible of her man.
Lol, lmfao
post 1630120983 01-30-2021, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Sorry to hear about your dad man. I’m glad you are in a situation to be able to support him and your mom during this.

Sucks bro.
Thx bro. Yeah it's a very sad situation but I'm glad I can be with them at this time.
Originally Posted By Evening7⏩
Plenty of more fish in the sea man. If she doesn't see why you're doing this then why start a family with a kunt like that?
I'm not thinking about that atm but I think she is being a kvnt. She doesn't have a good rt with her parents so maybe that's the issue. I just wanna be with the 24/7 at least for a while.
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post 1630120993 01-30-2021, 02:07 PM
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Family first man, you do what you feel is the best thing -- and those who don't support you, well, you leave them behind.
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post 1630121003 01-30-2021, 02:07 PM
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That's HUGE red flag, unless you're leaving out details. You still haven't dumped her? Neg pending
post 1630121113 01-30-2021, 02:09 PM
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Manipulating kunt lul. What would she do if her parents were like that? Does she even have a Dad?

Maybe offer to let her move in if its a long term relationship/parents approve and see how it goes?
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post 1630121213 01-30-2021, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted By lupus002⏩
Sorry about your father. Not even sure what to say about your gf acting that way, that's horrible of her man.
Thx bro. She has a bad RT with her parents...
Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
Family first man, you do what you feel is the best thing -- and those who don't support you, well, you leave them behind.
I know, my family and my dog are top priority. The rest can wait.
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
You still haven't dumped her? Neg pending
Dunno. She sad I can help them without living with them. That's kinda true but I just wanna be with them 24/7, they didn't even asked me to move, I just feel it was the right thing to do.
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post 1630121263 01-30-2021, 02:10 PM
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Fuk that girl, spend as much time as you can with your dad but don't forget about mom. You should take her out to dinner, relieve some stress that she has maybe give her a spa day or something.
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post 1630121583 01-30-2021, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By CoastTrash⏩
Fuk that girl, spend as much time as you can with your dad but don't forget about mom. You should take her out to dinner, relieve some stress that she has maybe give her a spa day or something.
She cries everyday, its hard af. My dad has a lot of pain. Sometimes I think maybe a heart attack would be the best thing for him but at the same time I feel like chit for thinking like that. I don't want him to die but it's so sad to see him suffering.
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post 1630121633 01-30-2021, 02:14 PM
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To play devils advocate his death might not be imminent in which case you’re gonna do what, live with you parents for the rest of your 30s?
post 1630121733 01-30-2021, 02:16 PM
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Were you renting beforehand or something? I take it you were living together?

Unless you just abruptly pulled her home from under her, she's a psycho for giving you chit about something so serious.
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post 1630121803 01-30-2021, 02:17 PM
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If a women gave my sh!t for taking care of my parents, I'd literally cut her off with zero explanation. (srs)
post 1630121833 01-30-2021, 02:18 PM
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Throw her back in the trash heap where you found her
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post 1630121843 01-30-2021, 02:18 PM
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Family is everything brah.

**** her, **** her face.
post 1630121853 01-30-2021, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Yoopwat⏩
To play devils advocate his death might not be imminent in which case you’re gonna do what, live with you parents for the rest of your 30s?
I'm pretty sure he will die this year srs
He even said so. He is at the final stage of the disease. He is with oxygen 24/7.
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post 1630121973 01-30-2021, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By GlennQuagmire⏩
I'm pretty sure he will die this year srs
He even said so. He is at the final stage of the disease. He is with oxygen 24/7.
Oh fair enough then, I don’t have a relationship with my parents so couldn’t imagine myself doing it but could see why someone would.
post 1630121993 01-30-2021, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By GlennQuagmire⏩
Thx bro. She has a bad RT with her parents...



I know, my family and my dog are top priority. The rest can wait.



Dunno. She sad I can help them without living with them. That's kinda true but I just wanna be with them 24/7, they didn't even asked me to move, I just feel it was the right thing to do.
Do you live with her? I don't see the big deal with you staying with your parents, it's not like it's gonna be forever
post 1630122043 01-30-2021, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By GlennQuagmire⏩
I'm pretty sure he will die this year srs
He even said so. He is at the final stage of the disease. He is with oxygen 24/7.
Yup, i'd get rid of that selfish broad. Can imagine how a marriage would be with someone like that. Get rid of her, before she destroys your life.
post 1630122123 01-30-2021, 02:21 PM
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Family first no matter what.

Are you married or have a kid with her? That’s a pretty big red flag in my book.

Means she’s not self aware, selfish, and likely bat chit crazy (down the road)
post 1630122163 01-30-2021, 02:22 PM
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On one hand you're a strong man for going back to hell your father.

On the other hand you're a weak man for not immediately dumping the whore.
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The fact that she doesn't have a good relationship with her own family is also a red flag unless they are a bunch of arseholes, though that's not good either. I'd kick her to the curb.
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
Were you renting beforehand or something? I take it you were living together?

Unless you just abruptly pulled her home from under her, she's a psycho for giving you chit about something so serious.
I used lived alone but she was staying with me almost every weekends.
Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
If a women gave my sh!t for taking care of my parents, I'd literally cut her off with zero explanation. (srs)
Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Throw her back in the trash heap where you found her
Originally Posted By Miscbob⏩
Family is everything brah.

**** her, **** her face.
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Do you live with her? I don't see the big deal with you staying with your parents, it's not like it's gonna be forever
Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
Yup, i'd get rid of that selfish broad. Can imagine how a marriage would be with someone like that. Get rid of her, before she destroys your life.
Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Fuk her.

First literally, then figuratively.
She wasn't like that before. But yeah, this chit is making me angry af. I mean she knows how important my parents are for me and it's not like I'm gonna be with them for more than a year.
Originally Posted By radrd⏩
The fact that she doesn't have a good relationship with her own family is also a red flag unless they are a bunch of arseholes, though that's not good either. I'd kick her to the curb.
Her parents are arseholes, they treat her like chit. But mine are just the best.
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post 1630122533 01-30-2021, 02:27 PM
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Sorry to hear about your dad, man. It must be terrible to have to witness that day-in, day-out. I guess the silver lining is that you get to spend time together and I'm sure he really appreciates you comiing back to take care of him. You're doing right by him.

As for your girl, as others ITT have said, she's behaving like a b*tch. She must be really immature and worried about the optics of the situation, and also lacking in empathy. I would seriously reconsider the relationship if I were you. She does not sound like the kind of person who will be there for you if/when things take a turn for the worse. My 2c.

All the best.
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Originally Posted By GlennQuagmire⏩
I used lived alone but she was staying with me almost every weekends.













She wasn't like that before. But yeah, this chit is making me angry af. I mean she knows how important my parents are for me and it's not like I'm gonna be with them for more than a year.
You know what to do.

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Originally Posted By GlennQuagmire⏩
I used lived alone but she was staying with me almost every weekends.
If she has her own place then that's just silly dude. Dad has a terminal illness, you move in to spend time and help your mom with him, she gets on your chit.

Red flag, srs.
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Kick her to the curb. What a bitch.

I would do anything to help my parents at any time. Family first, no matter what. At the end of the day thats all you truly have.
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Bro, shes fat, just dump her
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