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post 1630154413 01-30-2021, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted By dontstopbelief
Lol damn bruh.
I know fukk
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post 1630154453 01-30-2021, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I think so, just haven’t met the right girl. With my luck I don’t see it happening anytime soon.
it's not about luck *******. it's not even in your words, it's the energy i can glean behind them. i had a feeling that once again you kinda let this chick lead

i'm guessing that's what she picked up on, because as you said it doesn't really make sense how she acted. now, there's a slight chance she may have ghosted you regardless of what you said, that happens sometimes. but it's more likely it was once again your approach

as far as sloots not liking deep convo, etc. you may be slightly right but.. who cares. lead conversations the way you want them to go. if you want to talk about that stuff, talk about that stuff and let them decide if they want to partake. this is hard to talk about because it depends on your approach

you do not have to cultivate your personality around them. you saying it's "luck" as though you have no grasp on reality or as though you can't increase your chances, and that you have "nothing in common with sloots" just tells me that you don't take control

it's more about liking what you like and getting sloots to partake in what you have to offer than it is trying to placate and please them

one is a supplicating beta and the other does things because they want to

i think you need more of this struggle, cause i think you'll get tired of it and implement change
post 1630154643 01-30-2021, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
it's not about luck *******. it's not even in your words, it's the energy i can glean behind them. i had a feeling that once again you kinda let this chick lead

i'm guessing that's what she picked up on, because as you said it doesn't really make sense how she acted. now, there's a slight chance she may have ghosted you regardless of what you said, that happens sometimes. but it's more likely it was once again your approach

as far as sloots not liking deep convo, etc. you may be slightly right but.. who cares. lead conversations the way you want them to go. if you want to talk about that stuff, talk about that stuff and let them decide if they want to partake. this is hard to talk about because it depends on your approach

you do not have to cultivate your personality around them. you saying it's "luck" as though you have no grasp on reality or as though you can't increase your chances, and that you have "nothing in common with sloots" just tells me that you don't take control

it's more about liking what you like and getting sloots to partake in what you have to offer than it is trying to placate and please them

i think you need more of this struggle, cause i think you'll get tired of it and implement change
I’ve been dealing with this “struggle” my whole life and quite frankly I may as well be a celibate monk at this point

I don’t even feel like trying anymore it’s totally exhausting
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post 1630154763 01-30-2021, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I’ve been dealing with this “struggle” my whole life and quite frankly I may as well be a celibate monk at this point

I don’t even feel like trying anymore it’s totally exhausting
Thats fine.. just know that there are consequences and youll have to deal with them
post 1630154863 01-30-2021, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I’ve been dealing with this “struggle” my whole life and quite frankly I may as well be a celibate monk at this point

I don’t even feel like trying anymore it’s totally exhausting
You can't even dopemaxx with your career. You are going to have to figure this chit out I think
post 1630154913 01-30-2021, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
Thats fine.. just know that there are consequences and youll have to deal with them
All in due time my friend
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post 1630154943 01-30-2021, 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted By DizzySmalls
You can't even dopemaxx with your career. You are going to have to figure this chit out I think
Yea I am, but the problem is I don’t feel like it.
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post 1630155023 01-30-2021, 11:11 PM
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Have you tried Bumble?
post 1630155113 01-30-2021, 11:12 PM
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You might just be a bit boring OP.

Try limiting the amount of talking/texting you do by immediately setting up a meeting.
post 1630155123 01-30-2021, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah
Have you tried Bumble?
I’ve tried them all
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post 1630155143 01-30-2021, 11:13 PM
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Cliffs ? Wanna hang Saturday or happy ending ?
post 1630155173 01-30-2021, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By bigdownunder
You might just be a bit boring OP.

Try limiting the amount of talking/texting you do by immediately setting up a meeting.
That’s exactly what it is, I’m boring to women yet I actually am quite a wholesome interesting individual there’s miscers who can vouch for me
No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.

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post 1630155213 01-30-2021, 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted By puristhndrwrth
Cliffs ? Wanna hang Saturday or happy ending ?
Cliffs: Punching the Clown on a Saturday night 🤡
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post 1630155263 01-30-2021, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
I’ve tried them all
You get no likes on bumble?
post 1630155373 01-30-2021, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah
You get no likes on bumble?
Only whales and ugly chicks
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post 1630155413 01-30-2021, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Only whales and ugly chicks
When in Rome
post 1630155563 01-30-2021, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
That’s exactly what it is, I’m boring to women yet I actually am quite a wholesome interesting individual there’s miscers who can vouch for me
you think highly of yourself and your physique, yet you don't portray that confidence at all to women.

/endthread
post 1630156423 01-30-2021, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
No nightclubs, sloots are not hanging at local bars here lmao, masks still in full force especially at my gym, parks idk I’m not outdoorsy plus it’s cold outside RN
Approach as much as possible IRL. Do you read? Go to the library. Like metal? Find a bar that plays local bands. Try out some new hobbies like a rock climbing gym, mma gym, yoga, etc. Go to the park for a walk, see a girl you like? Approach her.

Online dating works if you're a chad or have good pictures that portray you as a fun guy. Notbadnotbrad's a good looking dude, but not a chad. I bet his online pics are off the charts.
post 1630161053 01-31-2021, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
That’s exactly what it is, I’m boring to women yet I actually am quite a wholesome interesting individual there’s miscers who can vouch for me
Better date them then.
post 1630161573 01-31-2021, 02:27 AM
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op you should just fk a hooker in the meantime. your confidence appears to be shot but something most miscers won't tell you this is fairly common with average to slightly above average dudes. if you are below that you don't even get any attention or matches. so consider yourself lucky. at the end of the day the best way to meet a girl is in a social setting it eliminates all nuances there is to online dating. the girl you were talking to on tinder probably had 1000 guys messaging her
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so did op destroyed her angus?
Cherish your life. Live to tell your story
post 1630162733 01-31-2021, 03:09 AM
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Just keep swiping and plowing. That’s how I found my wife lol. But I was on Tinder during the golden age 2013-2015, heard it’s rough out there these days.

Rarely would set up real dates with tinder girls, would just ask if they wanna meet at a bar for drinks and we’d go from there. If we weren’t vibing, at least we out at a cool place and not wasting $100 on a dinner. But most the time it would end up at theirs or mine place. Then rinse and repeat with the next match
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post 1630162743 01-31-2021, 03:09 AM
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OP I suggest next time you make a thread like this you do it after you have smashed the girl
post 1630163633 01-31-2021, 03:44 AM
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OP how about you post a few lines that you two have been posting and saying back in fort? Maybe your giving up the wrong vibe or saying the wrong things?

Of course it just could be that she is a messed up flaker immature sl00t.
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How the hell don't you get women hitting on you when you're in uniform?

Women are everywhere, just start asking randoms out in general when out and about.
I can only please one person per day, today is not your day and tomorrow doesn't look good either.
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cliffs? did op have the seggs?
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Originally Posted By ****liGirl
cliffs? did op have the seggs?
No, he got stood up
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski
Cause I have nothing in common with them, and my natural self is quite literally the anti-thesis to what’s popular these days.

I’m a quiet metal head that likes horror movies and really appreciates deep conversation. Most sloots are into raves and trashy rap music and stupid stuff that I have no interest in
Sounds like you need to look at older women who are in a different stage of life. Or start filtering better. This statement is basically what your bio should say if that's the case. Except phrased in a more positive way. The first sentence should be in there for sure.

Unfortunately not a lot of women (at least hot ones) are into metal and horror movies. That's more of a goth thing so women who are typically chubby and covered with tats. If that's not your taste then you're fishing with a plastic fork. So if you have any other interests that might appeal to women as well then make sure to talk about those.

Leave out the trashy race sloot statement. If you're a cop, make sure they know that too and joke about it like you have a pair of handcuffs. Playful yet serious.

Unfortunately women in your demographic are often flakes and stupid.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget
Sounds like you need to look at older womenwho are in a different stage of life. Or start filtering better. This statement is basically what your bio should say if that's the case. Except phrased in a more positive way. The first sentence should be in there for sure.
He has.
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