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post 1630883353 02-08-2021, 03:03 PM
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Help noob not to end up in a friendzone

I asked this girl out and its going to be our first date
Help me not get in friend zone pls guys lol


This is actually my first actual date with a girl ever so help a noob out make this site more gracious,this site really needs it

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post 1630883823 02-08-2021, 03:07 PM
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talk to her like a person
don't put her on a pedastal
act interested in what she says but like you are just chill and listening not all excited
smile every now and then
at the end of the date try and give her a kiss, not too forceful not too soft.
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post 1630884703 02-08-2021, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
talk to her like a person
don't put her on a pedastal
act interested in what she says but like you are just chill and listening not all excited
smile every now and then
at the end of the date try and give her a kiss, not too forceful not too soft.
Pretty solid tips all men should know but Im on the fence about the kiss. Maybe I'll give it a shot
post 1630884853 02-08-2021, 03:18 PM
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don't act overly interested.. even tho you said this basically your first date ever. is gonna hurt you.. depending on her experience
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post 1630884933 02-08-2021, 03:20 PM
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Remember the 4 C's of Dating -

1. Be Confident
2. Be a Challenge
3. Have Self Control
4. Care - But not that much
post 1630885063 02-08-2021, 03:21 PM
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she will be assessing you. you should be assessing her, too.
post 1630885113 02-08-2021, 03:22 PM
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ALWAYS ask them right out the gate if they like daggers. Works every time.
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post 1630885153 02-08-2021, 03:22 PM
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you always go for the kiss, no matter what. it might not land, but it provokes a response and she knows you have confidence. that's what everything you are doing should convey.
post 1630885753 02-08-2021, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
Pretty solid tips all men should know but Im on the fence about the kiss. Maybe I'll give it a shot
that shows your intentions. The worst that can happen is she rejects it. But if she does 99% chance she isnt into you and it wont go anywhere so it saves you the time and highly mitigates the chance of being put in the friendzone after the first date.
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post 1630885873 02-08-2021, 03:30 PM
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bring her some pastries from your bakery.
post 1630885893 02-08-2021, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
Remember the 4 C's of Dating -

1. Be Confident
2. Be a Challenge
3. Have Self Control
4. Care - But not that much
Should I talk with her about her career plans and mine and all that or do you think I should exclude that from the conversation
post 1630885913 02-08-2021, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
bring her some pastries from your bakery.
Lmaooooo
post 1630885923 02-08-2021, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
Should I talk with her about her career plans and mine and all that or do you think I should exclude that from the conversation
stop pre planning shiit. just talk about whateve ryou're doing or whatever comes up or whatever youre into. no scripts homeboy.
post 1630886333 02-08-2021, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
stop pre planning shiit. just talk about whateve ryou're doing or whatever comes up or whatever youre into. no scripts homeboy.
I hear you. This isnt some test where you have to prepare yourself (well it is but it isnt lol) its better to be natural and let the conversation flow its natural course. Be confident,not too aggresive in conversation (by aggresive I mean looking in her eyes all the time and answering her questions in a milisecond). Be humorous and comedic (Im kinda good at that) but with a slight idgaf attitude and then go for a kiss.


All in all its better not to overthink it that much
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