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post 1631187643 02-11-2021, 10:45 PM
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girl who friendzoned me a year ago came back? lol

First she sends me an email basically more than a week ago which I didn't reply to.
Now she's sent me a text saying "Hope you finally found a gf now"
Wtf? it's not like I have been single my whole life, she's stupid.
background: me and her went out for a bit we kissed etc. there was sexual tension and all that chit but she didn't wanna be my gf for whatever reason.
We stayed talking cuz I thought she will change her mind (bad idea)
so she ended up dating another guy last summer so I got pissed and we stopped talking pretty much since june.
Now when we texted today apparently she broke up with her bf in november.
I'm sure im still friendzoned srs. Don't see her ever changing her mind so should I ghost her again tomorrow? I went NC for like 6 months+. Now she's more open to me and not taking me for granted like she was last summer. Reason I replied is because I'm not a rude guy, and she reached out to me so we texted a bit.
last year she was 18 when we met and I was 23.
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post 1631187683 02-11-2021, 10:46 PM
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So you're saying she's reached that point where she gets rejected by Chads and is willing to settle down with a beta?
post 1631187753 02-11-2021, 10:48 PM
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Brah it doesn’t matter if she’s interested now. Self respect is more important than any sloot.
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post 1631187763 02-11-2021, 10:49 PM
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why do you care? you went for it back then and didn't hit it off. take her reaching out as an ego boost and move on. don't let her manipulate it as her ego win. you guys are never going to work out, so take what emotional points you can from this and run buddy.
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post 1631187793 02-11-2021, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted By bigcat3655⏩
So you're saying she's reached that point where she gets rejected by Chads and is willing to settle down with a beta?
brah she's 19 she's not settling down prolly just using me for attention.
You are right, and being friendzoned sucks azz I'll just stop talking to her again lol, she tryna trap me back in the friendzone.
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post 1631187813 02-11-2021, 10:49 PM
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wait til youre older lol the world spins my man
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post 1631187873 02-11-2021, 10:51 PM
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Move on srs. Do not let a her be a time burglar.
post 1631187913 02-11-2021, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironface⏩
Brah it doesn’t matter if she’s interested now. Self respect is more important than any sloot.
brah I don't even think she's interested now either. I think she's tryna put me back in the damn friendzone cuz she's single now.
also can you elaborate what you mean by this?
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post 1631187963 02-11-2021, 10:52 PM
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She's too young, immature and using you as a backup plan.

Why would you be interested in the games from a 18 year old when you're 24??
post 1631188213 02-11-2021, 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
She's too young, immature and using you as a backup plan.

Why would you be interested in the games from a 18 year old when you're 24??
Just confused why she wants to reach out to me. I'm sure she still doesn't wanna date me lmao. Last summer was chit not only did she not want me, but she goes off and dates another dude and still keeps me around as a sad side piece.
Yeah you're right, because she went off and dated another guy I will always be her second choice, even if all of a sudden she changed her mind about me.
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post 1631188283 02-11-2021, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Just confused why she wants to reach out to me. I'm sure she still doesn't wanna date me lmao. Last summer was chit not only did she not want me, but she goes off and dates another dude and still keeps me around
She wants you to ask her if you can watch.
post 1631188463 02-11-2021, 11:04 PM
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brahs I moved on from her srs, I was in the friendzone last year and it was pretty much a never ending rollercoaster cuz I liked her but she just kept me around as a friend.
I was talking to other girls after her.. going out with girls who appreciated me and didn't see me as only a friend. was enjoying it srs
Then this bish comes outta nowhere and tryna trap me again.
wait until she finds another guy who she wants, and I'm back in the friendzone with her again lol
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post 1631188513 02-11-2021, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
brahs I moved on from her srs, I was in the friendzone last year and it was pretty much a never ending rollercoaster cuz I liked her but she just kept me around as a friend.
I was talking to other girls after her.. going out with girls who appreciated me and didn't see me as only a friend. was enjoying it srs
Then this bish comes outta nowhere and tryna trap me again.
Yeah fuk her
post 1631188733 02-11-2021, 11:09 PM
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Shes probably just bored again and looking for attention, should smash and ghost her
clownbaby has arrived
post 1631188833 02-11-2021, 11:11 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
First she sends me an email basically more than a week ago which I didn't reply to.
Now she's sent me a text saying "Hope you finally found a gf now"
Wtf? it's not like I have been single my whole life, she's stupid.
background: me and her went out for a bit we kissed etc. there was sexual tension and all that chit but she didn't wanna be my gf for whatever reason.
We stayed talking cuz I thought she will change her mind (bad idea)
so she ended up dating another guy last summer so I got pissed and we stopped talking pretty much since june.
Now when we texted today apparently she broke up with her bf in november.
I'm sure im still friendzoned srs. Don't see her ever changing her mind so should I ghost her again tomorrow? I went NC for like 6 months+. Now she's more open to me and not taking me for granted like she was last summer. Reason I replied is because I'm not a rude guy, and she reached out to me so we texted a bit.
last year she was 18 when we met and I was 23.
You're still FZ'd.

But her BF isn't giving her attention anymore since they broke up.

Then she's been pumped & dumped a few times since then & is feeling a tiny bit off kilter that they aren't chasing her, just pump & dump.

So she turns back to try and juice up her orbiter network a bit more to fill the void until she finds another BF worthy individual.

You MAY be able to transition into another role from here IF you want to be that guy (eg the TImothy who tales her back or then next guy to pump & dump & crush her 18 yr old heart a little further).
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post 1631189113 02-11-2021, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
brah I don't even think she's interested now either. I think she's tryna put me back in the damn friendzone cuz she's single now.
also can you elaborate what you mean by this?
You need to move on brah. She had her chance
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post 1631189793 02-11-2021, 11:35 PM
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just tell her to get her ass over to your place. Then when she comes over have her drop to her knees, pull your pants down and blow you. Give her a pearl neckless. After that, tell her to clean up and then you can talk to her.
post 1631190053 02-11-2021, 11:47 PM
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Happened to me aswell. She is married with a kid now but still bothers me every now and then thru messages and shiet.


Stay on NC srs.

But if you feel your younger self was hurt in the pride then I say talk to her, smash and then go NC.
post 1631190533 02-12-2021, 12:05 AM
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she's looking for attention and a short rebound without sex to boost her broken self esteem. very unlikely she wants anything sexual or physical with you
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