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post 1631312293 02-13-2021, 03:19 PM
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Dumped my gf of 5 years brahs

About a week ago. I loved her but for the last year or so, the relationship was adding nothing but stress and troubles to my life. Too young for that chit. Gonna be single, focus on career and gains, & enjoy the thotties for the foreseeable future. Weight off my chest tbh, reps till I'm out
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post 1631312353 02-13-2021, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
About a week ago. I loved her but for the last year or so, the relationship was adding nothing but stress and troubles to my life. Too young for that chit. Gonna be single, focus on career and gains, & enjoy the thotties for the foreseeable future. Weight off my chest tbh, reps till I'm out
Fuarkkkk brah. Terrible feels. Youll find the one mang.
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post 1631312783 02-13-2021, 03:26 PM
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Time to lifemaxx to the fullest you got this dawg
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post 1631312923 02-13-2021, 03:28 PM
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I’m looking forward to the thread a year from now how much you loved her and fuked up

Sandman2.0 incoming boyos
I don’t want a large farva, I want a goddamn liter of cola

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post 1631313013 02-13-2021, 03:30 PM
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Strict NC from here on out brah. She will inevitably contact you in a few weeks/months. Don’t respond whatever you do
post 1631313183 02-13-2021, 03:32 PM
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I thought you were the dude who always posts selfies for validation and not being able to get girls

The bald, pretty jacked guy, relatively handsome with tats? Maybe I’m mistaken

Didn’t think you had a gf
post 1631313233 02-13-2021, 03:33 PM
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For some strange reason ,pics of ex sloot are not loading?
Back with my Fam
post 1631313273 02-13-2021, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
I’m looking forward to the thread a year from now how much you loved her and fuked up

Sandman2.0 incoming boyos
It’s weird...I remember reading somewhere about the psychology of a break up. Men tend to not feel depressed early on and in many cases feel liberated. Women take the brunt of the pain early on right after the break up and suffer a deeper depression. The unfortunate part for guys is, the pain usually comes later and men tend to dwell on it for some time and women, though it hurt them worse emotionally, tend to get over it much quicker.

Don’t shoot the messenger...just what I read and kinda rang true for me. Better that OP knows what to expect and plan accordingly.
post 1631313433 02-13-2021, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I thought you were the dude who always posts selfies for validation and not being able to get girls

The bald, pretty jacked guy, relatively handsome with tats? Maybe I’m mistaken

Didn’t think you had a gf
You are thinking of someone else entirely lol, unaware
Originally Posted By cannon300⏩
Strict NC from here on out brah. She will inevitably contact you in a few weeks/months. Don’t respond whatever you do
Ye brah blocked from all socials and never going to talk to her again. She texted me a couple times this week but didn't respond.
Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
I’m looking forward to the thread a year from now how much you loved her and fuked up

Sandman2.0 incoming boyos
Don't think so brah, not that kind of miscer. I might not have another gf I really like for a while but, I'm not the type to feel sorry for myself or wallow
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post 1631313513 02-13-2021, 03:37 PM
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What stress and troubles did you have?
-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

-I'd rather live life saying "I failed" than "I could have"
post 1631313913 02-13-2021, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
What stress and troubles did you have?
She always had a negative side but over time, especially last year, became way more negative about everything. Constantly complaining about everything in life, almost never anything positive to say. And not even necessarily complaining about me or our relationship, but just everything. It was obvious she preferred and wanted me to "emphasize" with her by wallowing with her and her pitiful outlook, but I didn't wanna let her bring me down and it pissed her off. This may sound like a stupid reason to break up with someone, but it was constant and ongoing for a long time. I tried everything I could. Pretty sure she has depression or some sh*t, but she had no interest in getting better or changing her outlook. She called my optimistic and high energy outlook on life childish, which is ridiculous. At the end of the day it was just too much of a drain to be around someone who was constantly negative
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post 1631314133 02-13-2021, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo⏩
It’s weird...I remember reading somewhere about the psychology of a break up. Men tend to not feel depressed early on and in many cases feel liberated. Women take the brunt of the pain early on right after the break up and suffer a deeper depression. The unfortunate part for guys is, the pain usually comes later and men tend to dwell on it for some time and women, though it hurt them worse emotionally, tend to get over it much quicker.

Don’t shoot the messenger...just what I read and kinda rang true for me. Better that OP knows what to expect and plan accordingly.
I've seen those studies and there's a lot of truth to that imo. This is far from my first breakup with a serious gf, and historically I've gotten over breakups pretty easily and quickly. But this was my most serious relationship. Maybe I will be sad for a while, but that's just the L I'll have to take because I think I made the right decision here

Originally Posted By Johnliftsbig⏩
that is basically accurate. Also op waiting for reps please
Loool on r/c G
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post 1631321513 02-13-2021, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
She always had a negative side but over time, especially last year, became way more negative about everything. Constantly complaining about everything in life, almost never anything positive to say. And not even necessarily complaining about me or our relationship, but just everything. It was obvious she preferred and wanted me to "emphasize" with her by wallowing with her and her pitiful outlook, but I didn't wanna let her bring me down and it pissed her off. This may sound like a stupid reason to break up with someone, but it was constant and ongoing for a long time. I tried everything I could. Pretty sure she has depression or some sh*t, but she had no interest in getting better or changing her outlook. She called my optimistic and high energy outlook on life childish, which is ridiculous. At the end of the day it was just too much of a drain to be around someone who was constantly negative
Hm.

I bet she was very intelligent (srs).

Am I correct?
You have my word as a Schons.
post 1631322023 02-13-2021, 05:28 PM
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Just think, OP, as we speak a black man is ramming his purple-headed trouser snake in her as we speak.
post 1631349023 02-14-2021, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation⏩
Hm.

I bet she was very intelligent (srs).

Am I correct?
Yeah, for a girl
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post 1631349723 02-14-2021, 01:40 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
She always had a negative side but over time, especially last year, became way more negative about everything. Constantly complaining about everything in life, almost never anything positive to say. And not even necessarily complaining about me or our relationship, but just everything. It was obvious she preferred and wanted me to "emphasize" with her by wallowing with her and her pitiful outlook, but I didn't wanna let her bring me down and it pissed her off. This may sound like a stupid reason to break up with someone, but it was constant and ongoing for a long time. I tried everything I could. Pretty sure she has depression or some sh*t, but she had no interest in getting better or changing her outlook. She called my optimistic and high energy outlook on life childish, which is ridiculous. At the end of the day it was just too much of a drain to be around someone who was constantly negative
She sounds like a realist and highly intelligent. A shame she couldn't challenge herself to achieve something instead of dwelling on the negatives
post 1631349783 02-14-2021, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo⏩
It’s weird...I remember reading somewhere about the psychology of a break up. Men tend to not feel depressed early on and in many cases feel liberated. Women take the brunt of the pain early on right after the break up and suffer a deeper depression. The unfortunate part for guys is, the pain usually comes later and men tend to dwell on it for some time and women, though it hurt them worse emotionally, tend to get over it much quicker.

Don’t shoot the messenger...just what I read and kinda rang true for me. Better that OP knows what to expect and plan accordingly.
We would get over it just as quick as women if we had constant validation and offers of sex from hundreds of beta orbitors
post 1631349873 02-14-2021, 01:47 AM
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savage timing

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post 1631351453 02-14-2021, 02:49 AM
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you didnt really want to be with her you just wanted to spread your seed otherwise you would have fixed the relo

there is nothing wrong with that but lets not beat around the bush brah
post 1631351943 02-14-2021, 03:07 AM
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I know those feels, probably best decision you ever made srs


enjoy your life brah
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I thought you were the dude who always posts selfies for validation and not being able to get girls

The bald, pretty jacked guy, relatively handsome with tats? Maybe I’m mistaken

Didn’t think you had a gf
hello... is it me...you're looking... for =(
post 1631352183 02-14-2021, 03:17 AM
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Mirin bro

It’s always hard but tbh that’s how life goes, and if you have a growth mindset it ends up better than ever srs
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
emphasize
she was a speech pathologist, you a$$hole
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post 1631352353 02-14-2021, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
When it will be mine turn to get over ex.

And congrats op you made the right decision. Five years is too long anyway if you weren’t going to marry her.
You never will

You’re one of those people that it’s burned into your psyche, the experience etc. Srs. The only way is with deep spiritual work but you avoid that(I don’t blame you)
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Told you I’ve done deep spiritual work and couldn’t handle it and almost lost my marbles.

Yeah my only hope is that maybe it’s just loneliness and if I ever get a bf then I’ll finally get over it.
The thing is once you start it isn’t your choice to keep going or stop lolllll and you know this. If life wants more of it from you it will eventually come up again
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