Hope all you guys make it. Srs

Lold at thread title to this comment ratio. Your luck did a 360 on you brah

you're a humble guy, i'm just saying that it's not exactly in your best interests to be saying "other girls don't want me" (if you did, indeed, tell her that)- it's just not a way of selling yourself.

i'm glad that you're sharing your experiences with us, though.

Damn brah actually legit responses. Kept the high ground and didn't give in to her childish behaviour. At least you have learned something.

you're not deserve me bye



onto the next dumb bitch OP

Dude... You're calling her out on her ego, while you are rating yourself an 8/10 in a different thread and saying sht like: she's a 6/10, I was punching below my weight...

Haven't you figured out the common denominator in all your experiences yet? Come on, man. Get a grip on yourself. Don't get me wrong, she's insane, she's not the only one though. Take care

OP doesn't understand that his texts come off passive aggressive like he's trying to push her away after the BJ. From her eyes he gives 0 phucks about her.

"I understand I'll be home at 4 and check in with you then"-

This is passive aggressive way of telling her to phuck off. Op thinks because he views the situation as "it's only 2 dates" she views it the same way.

He thinks he has it all figured out when he's in his 20's and admittedly socially handicapped. It's like trying to describe sight to a blind person, they're completely unaware of what's going on, so instead he's going defensive. Op, you gotta understand that the other party has feelings too, right? You have to work with the other person instead of just running away and avoiding them because its uncomfortable to you.

You should have plowed that. You basically put up with the abuse without getting the reward. The weird thing is you could still plaster her sugar walls with just a "sorry".
Still good show old boy, reps on recharge.

OP says he's an 8/10 hahahahahahahahaha.


You have the nerve calling her a 6/10, when the last bish you tried was 40 and divorced. This latina MOGs her.

One last thing, OP. Us men have all been insulted by upset women, but being called a nerd? Man... That's something different, there has to be some reasoning behind that insult don't you think.

And did OP really went 2 days without contact after she sucked him of...................????? Oh boy, I'm still rooting for you, but you're making it very difficult. There's a difference in being inexperienced and being a total autist.

Lol



Op just go ghey already.

Lol, you are a manipulative nutjob srs.
Chick is heavy into your autismo azz, you end up getting your dink sucked but I guess you read too much redpill or blackpill online and decide to wait days before saying anything back, let’s be real, you weren’t doing anything meaningful to keep you that busy over two days, and I can almost guarantee she sniffed out you were an introvert, who isn’t even talking to other women so you are playing games for the sake of games or”trying to be aloof” going off your text messages.

It’s not 2010 bro she isn’t retarded and knows you have your phone on you. if you solely text women for logistics, like setting up dates then set the standard early, and even then you may need to call one here or there.

This deserves to be quoted.

Why did you make plans in your head regarding her birthday? Why did you not speak to her about it asap? Why did you assume that she would spend her birthday alone? Why did you mention "your plans" AFTER her meltdown? Why?

The best advice I can give you, OP. Stop posting on the Misc and reread the milf thread and this one aswell. Pick out a couple of people you find trustworthy and knowledgable. Let them guide your cock. Orrrrrr your heart since you're a "good guy" right?

And don't try to act all trolly and alpha as you did towards the end of the milf thread, that was extremely cringe.

why arn't u lifting? u been saying for a while u been wanting to

are the gyms closed?

get ur ass in there brah!

This is what I was trying to find the words to say

You have made up your mind that you are an 8/10, the same rating that Chris Hemsworth, Chris Pine, and Chris Evans got

If you honestly think you are as attractive as they are, I don’t know what more to tell you because you are straight delusional
This sums it up from her point of view

Seriously op, what was your reasoning for not messaging her?

I was homeschooled so I’m no stranger to being an autist with girls, but even I knew that after you fukked one or got your cawk sucked you send her a “Good morning beautiful” text or some chit the next morning

Takes you 5 seconds and makes her feel like she didn’t just get pumped and dumped

This chick had a great time with you, she was excited for more. Probably looked at her phone with every notification hoping it was you, but it never was

She melted down and insulted you because she was genuinely interested in you

Dude I was at work and responding to a suicide call absolutely fukk you if you think I can just drop everything I’m doing to fukkin appease this chick after two measly dates

You haven’t even seen her face lol I’m telling you guys she’s really not all that good looking I know that sounds shallow but I’m being brutally honest. I mainly was continuing seeing her cause I needed the experience talking with new people I already mentioned I had no intention of making her my GF

I am and you all agreed I was as well. I’m just socially retarded when it comes to talking to women.

Wasn’t being manipulative my dude, I was just doing my thing and yup pretty much just texting her to setup dates. We made plans for a third date and I was cool with hanging out with her.

But she got into her own head and decided to self sabotage herself that’s not my problem

You couldn't tell her that? You felt that it was better to respond with cold, passive aggressive texts that gave no information? Are you surprised she's mad? You could have at least used big boy communication aftertwodays, especially since she was kind enough to give you a BJ.

Here to see where else this goes

It’s not gonna go anywhere first they were patting me on the back for standing up for myself, now the misc is gaslighting me into being the bad guy.

The truth is I just really didn’t like her all that much, I appreciated her spending time with me and was willing to continue seeing where it went

Maybe then a bond could have developed, but she couldn’t hold herself together for a day and half.

Plus like I said previously if she was truly interested how about SHE ask me how my day was?

I’m not playing this cat and mouse game, I’ve been met with so much disappointment in my dating life being let down by former dates and ex girlfriends that I’m truly apathetic now

The thread is over. It's all her fault. There's no chance op is too socially inept to realize that for a great majority of women, a day and a half of radio silence after a bj comes off as being pumped and dumped. Everyone must view social interactions through the eyes of op, or else they're invalid. Op is definitely headed towards a healthy, fulfilled dating life.

I truly did nothing wrong we made plans but she just couldn’t wait

That was before other facts became know...you know, like a police investigation.
So...you thought it be better to lead her on rather than just not make plans with it at first. And according to your first post, you definitely liked her.Um...cause you ghosted her after she sucked ur dink. You don't see that as a problem tho.So...its her fault you couldn't text her because she didn't text you first...lol. news flash, women like to be pursued by potential partners. If a woman is doing all the initial work...she's gonna get tired of your austic beta arse quickly.Because you refuse to play the game. You're gonna end up like SS...single and lonely. Srs unless you change your way of thinking.

Morning after BJ, you should have texted something like this...


Good morning beautiful. I had lots of fun last night with you. Definitely looking forward to our next date. BTW...I'm working till about 4pm, Ill text you when I get off work. Hope you have a good day today.


That quick 2 minute message whike you're taking a morning chit would have made this entire thread go another direction.

Honestly dude I’m at the point where I don’t care if I’m single for the rest of my life srs

And I know there’s people who are perpetually single for years

I mean really I’m starting to not even care what’s the point

I don’t want to get married

I don’t want to have children

What value can a woman bring to my life besides companionship?

I’m completely fine otherwise

I have everything else going my way in life

I’m going to quote a post I found elsewhere because I found it insightful

“Anyone can live alone. It mostly comes down to one’s preferences though. But there are a few things you should consider before making a solid decision.

First, to summarise a few studies succinctly, people that enter into and invest in relationships tend to have greater extremes in their emotions. In other words, single people only get about half as much sorrow and half as much joy as someone in a relationship. So ask yourself; are you prepared to experience terrible things in exchange for more good? If not, solo might be right for you.

After that, ask yourself if you’re ready to make the investment. Because that’s what a relationship is; an investment into not only your future, but someone else’s future too. Are you willing to put everything on the line? There are plenty of reasons to say ‘no’; trying to co-exist with someone isn’t the easiest thing in the world, no matter how much you care for them.

So long as people are not uniform, there will be friction. But hey, with love, these should only be rough patches. And if things go to the point of marriage, then go downhill, divorce courts are shown to favour women in many situations. Men have more to lose when a relationship breaks down, so if you want to enter in, be prepared for everything to go wrong.

At the same time, don’t enter with the idea that any given relationship will fail. Anyone familiar with the ‘Self-fulfilling Prophecy’ will tell you that thinking a relationship will end badly will cause behaviours that will ultimately serve to end the relationship despite best efforts from either side. If you intend to give it a go, be fully invested and positive. If you’re not ready to make a full investment, keep flying solo.

Next, ask yourself if there is a woman worth investing your time into. Hypothetically, any woman is worth investing your time into, but if you’re not really interested in anyone, don’t push it too hard. You see with with mail-order brides; the man seeks companionship, the woman seeks a better life, eventually a mutual understanding and eventual legitimate love forms. Both have to make legitimate investments into their relationships in order for them to work so they don’t end up at square one again. Really, any woman can be worth an investment, so don’t be closed to the idea, but at the same time, don’t force yourself into any scenario out of some fear. If there’s no-one you deem worth investing in, don’t.

Finally, we reach the point of asking how necessary it is for you to have a counter-balance in your life. Don’t forget, men and women are inherently different psychologically, and when men and women come together, they create a natural balance between themselves. Your partner should be able to balance out your various attributes to create a cohesive couple. You both work to better the other. Do you feel you need this feminine touch in your life to balance things out? If not, keep flying solo.

So, that about sums everything up. Run yourself through these basic questions and hopefully you’ll find the right answer. Hypothetically, anyone can live solo, but it isn’t the most advantageous decision.”

OP - if you didn't like this chick, then I commend you on how you handled it. Not perfect, but you conducted yourself well. That being said, you can still learn from this.

The chick gave you a BJ and let you play with her teddies, then you don't contact her for 2 days. That definitely made her feel lousy (plus you said she's latina, so theres that) Women are mentally vulnerable after chit like that, they need the reassurance. So in the future, if it's a girl you actually like, don't make this mistake again. Don't be needy, but a simple messaged the next day to ease her mind and let her know you aren't gonna ghost her helps.

And I get your point about "Why didn't she message me", and while I agree, look at Silencespeaks last "rate my text" thread and you will get a look into the mentality of most women. If you wanna bang, you'll have to play the game a little bit. If you honestly don't care, then props to you.

Point is to use every incident as a learning experience, whether the intended outcome was wanted or not.

Thank you I agree with your post. Again, the bottom line is my heart wasn’t truly in it with this one.

Her coming out of left field at 100MPH was a major turn off