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post 1631943713 02-20-2021, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
By house, you mean dorm room?
Nah she means in the back of a parents car
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post 1631943843 02-20-2021, 11:49 PM
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post 1631943993 02-20-2021, 11:51 PM
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Gf and I enjoy having Starbucks now and then. After dinner at home or somewhere, we just go there to chill and have dessert especially since there is a nearby Starbucks.
post 1631944053 02-20-2021, 11:52 PM
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post 1631944093 02-20-2021, 11:52 PM
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post 1631944313 02-20-2021, 11:58 PM
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I like coffee dates, but in my experience girls don’t seem to. I think it can work if you find a hole in the wall place that not many people know about

Somewhere like Starbucks and major chains have a sterile vibe and don’t suit dating very well

I found a fantastic coffee shop in Summerlin in Las Vegas and I’m glad actually that not a lot of people seem to know about it
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post 1631944323 02-20-2021, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Also yes

My first time with my 4 year fwb was in his mom’s car lmao.


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post 1631945173 02-21-2021, 12:19 AM
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Maybe I’m weird, but I like coffee dates. Well, while I was single. It’s no pressure, if we didn’t vibe, it’s no biggy. Its better than sitting thru a bad dinner date. Bars I always felt uncomfortable with, like if I didn’t drink I’m weird then if I do will they think they can get me drunk. And after I stopped drinking all together, watching someone else drink it was meh

Other first dates I think are good is something that’s an activity. Puzzle rooms, hikes, bowling, frisbee golf/mini golf, cooking classes, trivia night at a bar, I’d even rather do a workout class /gym date than a bar/dinner/movie
Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
I love arcade bars like this one in Davenport, Iowa



It's like Chuck E Cheese except with Alcohol

They've got all the old school games like Pac Man, Dig Dug, Centipede, Mavel vs Capcom, House of the Dead etc

and they serve alcohol

I've seen teenagers to CEO's with beautiful dates in there.
that would be a great idea, even Dave and busters
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post 1631945483 02-21-2021, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted By theOCwasthebest⏩
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post 1631945973 02-21-2021, 12:41 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
Maybe I’m weird, but I like coffee dates. Well, while I was single. It’s no pressure, if we didn’t vibe, it’s no biggy. Its better than sitting thru a bad dinner date. Bars I always felt uncomfortable with, like if I didn’t drink I’m weird then if I do will they think they can get me drunk. And after I stopped drinking all together, watching someone else drink it was meh

Other first dates I think are good is something that’s an activity. Puzzle rooms, hikes, bowling, frisbee golf/mini golf, cooking classes, trivia night at a bar, I’d even rather do a workout class /gym date than a bar/dinner/movie

that would be a great idea, even Dave and busters
Yeah activites.

There's something called the Bridge Experiment

There were two bridges with a person taking a survey at the end of each bridge. The bridge that was dangerous. It swayed back and forth. The person got the most amount of phone numbers while the bridge that was stable only got a few.

So now it's known that if there's physical excitement causes sexual arousal. lol
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post 1631949333 02-21-2021, 02:33 AM
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I think one of those bougie dessert places is the go.

Would feel weird meeting for coffee though.
post 1631949403 02-21-2021, 02:35 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
What's a good date environment?
A walk around a historical city centre
More plates, more dates
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Originally Posted By nineOHnine⏩
Coffee doesn't really mean coffee. Not all chicks will come straight to your place, or let you in theirs. Some don't want to show up at a bar alone, and most will never go to a club alone. So read in between the lines, and use your judgement since it's very nuanced. She wants to meet in public where she knows she won't get murdered. The idea is that when you pitch the meet , you do it in a way where there's zero downsides so the sloot doesn't flake. If you actually meet at a coffee shop, changing venues demonstrates leadership. You lead she follows. Each time you initiate a venue change, it's like a new mini date. When deciding on a venue try remember that sex is the goal, and the environment is supposed to help her get in the mood.
True it isn't because all fresh dating couples like coffee so much it's just that the chick wants some insurance against getting dextered to pieces
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post 1631949943 02-21-2021, 02:54 AM
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Ask her if she would like to preterp and then go play some mini golf.

I'll leave it to you to decide if this wouldn't be the most fun time in her recent life or if I am not being serious.
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post 1631950113 02-21-2021, 03:00 AM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
Just met this woman at the gym and got her number to be friends, but I'm not stopping at 'friends'. she's very active, into kickboxing and Taekwondo. Exchanged a few text messages today and left off at her schedule. thinking about starting off with a little coffee date and moving from there.
Sometimes, but "srs srs dates"!!
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I've been out with a girl sporadically (about 4 times) over a period of months. She has been at home supposedly and is worried about the covid. She doesn't want to come round for dinner but she wants to go for morning walks. Should I bother with this?
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go get one or two drinks

go to my favorite bench way at the end of the beach

then go to another place for another drink on the beach

then go to my house for more wine and to show her my black sabbath records
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My dating went like this over the years:
- Lunch dates/ dinner dates
- Coffee dates at coffee shop
- Drive through coffee dates
- Drinks at my house then sex
- Booty calls with smalltalk ( either hers or mine)
- Booty calls at only mine.
- Booty calls where I didn't have to get changed out of my chitty clothes
- Booty calls where I barely had to leave my couch.
- Can't even be bothered with the mess it creates so just stay in and misc.
- Low test and old age gave up entirely gone monk.
post 1631951953 02-21-2021, 04:37 AM
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No, only dates at Chili's gets it in.




But I do like going to mom and pop coffee bars or dessert like places. Small and inexpensive yet a good social area to get to talk and screen someone lol. Mini golf or Dave and Busters places are surprisingly effective too.
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Just about the only ones i go on srs.

This is the goat setting for it, especially these 4-seater tables so she can sit beside you and not across

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bottle of wine and an empty park (srs)

you get to walk there, make small talk etc


e: turns into 'I live nearby, we can MAKE something to eat?"
brb more wine whilst cooking
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I'll avoid it all costs but do if it's necessary to move the plan along.
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
Just about the only ones i go on srs.

This is the goat setting for it, especially these 4-seater tables so she can sit beside you and not across

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Lol kind of bland man. Looks like some generic Chilis or country breakfast place. I'll fix it for you.



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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
What's a good date environment?
For her? Typically on her back
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I prefer coffee dates for a first meet because it's low key and no pressure. For a first date with someone I've already met in person and know I'm attracted to them I'm fine with a regular date. Lots of other stuff you can do if the weather is decent. Walk in a park and other outside stuff. It's cold here now so the last time I met someone we met at a Starbucks for an hour or so of conversation on a Sunday morning and then we went out to dinner the following Saturday night.
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nah. park dates and then blow job in the car. or bang

coffee dates is for gays srs
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if you aint meeting up for alcoholic drinks then son i am dissapoint
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Vibe check coffee or a bar just depending on if you think she’s a prude

Escalating beyond the bar is simple assuming you have a good time
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Just have a good time and the rest doesn't matter



But doing some active (like walks, hikes, w/e) can many times be more enjoyable than just sitting there especially with a lame coffee
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