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02-16-2021, 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Magomed1⏩
This.. im surprised at how open and honest she was.Lol...this? This is what you're calling crazy? Lol
This is nothing,. My bro had his bish put sugar in his car's gas tank when he wouldn't take her on vacation with his family.
These messages you got is her telling you how to actually treat a woman you're interested in...then she apologies to you for getting upset.
This is nothing,. My bro had his bish put sugar in his car's gas tank when he wouldn't take her on vacation with his family.
These messages you got is her telling you how to actually treat a woman you're interested in...then she apologies to you for getting upset.
OP, don't phucking act bruh. You were trying to play the "cool" and alpha guy when you're clearly not. Your every bit as emotional as this check, except you come whining to the misc when chit doesn't work
Be real bro
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02-16-2021, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By KingofLifts⏩
Honestly dude I was not playing some cool guy actThis.. im surprised at how open and honest she was.
OP, don't phucking act bruh. You were trying to play the "cool" and alpha guy when you're clearly not. Your every bit as emotional as this check, except you come whining to the misc when chit doesn't work
Be real bro
OP, don't phucking act bruh. You were trying to play the "cool" and alpha guy when you're clearly not. Your every bit as emotional as this check, except you come whining to the misc when chit doesn't work
Be real bro
I simply truly did not even think about texting her until Valentine’s to pick her up
I literally give no fukks
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02-16-2021, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
You give zero phucks about a girl you sucked you off? Maybe it's time to realize that that's just not a healthy attitude..Honestly dude I was not playing some cool guy act
I simply truly did not even think about texting her until Valentine’s to pick her up
I literally give no fukks
I simply truly did not even think about texting her until Valentine’s to pick her up
I literally give no fukks
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02-16-2021, 06:50 PM
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Hey CherryP I got a few questions for you:
Outside the blowjob what was your interactions with her like?
Did this girl give you any hints that she had feelings for you?
What is your current status with this girl/what's the situation?
Outside the blowjob what was your interactions with her like?
Did this girl give you any hints that she had feelings for you?
What is your current status with this girl/what's the situation?
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02-16-2021, 06:54 PM
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+1 to EXP, Op.
While I do agree she was out of line with how she responded, she's a female at the end of the day, and fuk off with all of you who will label me a misogynist, but women are naturally more emotionally unhinged than most men. With that being said, note that in the future, almost every female you end up in a relationship with will have moments like this. Not to this degree, and certainly not this early on, but it does happen.
Where you have every right to disconnect and go your separate ways, know that if and when a female you want to genuinely be serious with acts this way, you'll have to communicate appropriately.
Three approaches to it:
1. One extreme - "have a nice day, bye"
2. Other extreme - "baby I'm sorry I will do anything for you!"
3. Moderate/and what I would say is the correct approach in my opinion: you listen to what she has to say, figure out where the issues lie and the miscommunication, and make it clear and be stern with what you expect the appropriate behaviour to be. Inevitably, all relationships will have periods where both people don't see eye to eye on some things, and unless they're going to read each others' minds, there will be miscommunication.
All misc shiit aside, you're not going to find your 10/10 female who is the quintessential perfect partner with no faults, who's going to read your mind. Well adjusted, healthy people need to learn to communicate with others, and once you've established an understanding, and what you expect from one another, then you can act as needed. Whether that means telling her you're done and moving on, or what have you.
Could your response have been something along the lines of telling her:although she may have felt that way, it wasn't your intention. That you're often busy, and won't always be able to respond all the time, and it's just a normal part of your life and career. If she understands that, wonderful, if not, then it's best to go your own way.
Sure.
Did you have every right to simply do what you did?
100%
All a matter of what you want out of it, I suppose.
Either way +1 to EXP.
While I do agree she was out of line with how she responded, she's a female at the end of the day, and fuk off with all of you who will label me a misogynist, but women are naturally more emotionally unhinged than most men. With that being said, note that in the future, almost every female you end up in a relationship with will have moments like this. Not to this degree, and certainly not this early on, but it does happen.
Where you have every right to disconnect and go your separate ways, know that if and when a female you want to genuinely be serious with acts this way, you'll have to communicate appropriately.
Three approaches to it:
1. One extreme - "have a nice day, bye"
2. Other extreme - "baby I'm sorry I will do anything for you!"
3. Moderate/and what I would say is the correct approach in my opinion: you listen to what she has to say, figure out where the issues lie and the miscommunication, and make it clear and be stern with what you expect the appropriate behaviour to be. Inevitably, all relationships will have periods where both people don't see eye to eye on some things, and unless they're going to read each others' minds, there will be miscommunication.
All misc shiit aside, you're not going to find your 10/10 female who is the quintessential perfect partner with no faults, who's going to read your mind. Well adjusted, healthy people need to learn to communicate with others, and once you've established an understanding, and what you expect from one another, then you can act as needed. Whether that means telling her you're done and moving on, or what have you.
Could your response have been something along the lines of telling her:although she may have felt that way, it wasn't your intention. That you're often busy, and won't always be able to respond all the time, and it's just a normal part of your life and career. If she understands that, wonderful, if not, then it's best to go your own way.
Sure.
Did you have every right to simply do what you did?
100%
All a matter of what you want out of it, I suppose.
Either way +1 to EXP.
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02-16-2021, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By KingofLifts⏩
I’ve told you I’m jaded and pessimistic about dating I recognize my faultsYou give zero phucks about a girl you sucked you off? Maybe it's time to realize that that's just not a healthy attitude..
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02-16-2021, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Brah, it's not ok to be like that. You recognize it's a fault, and you let yourself be trapped in that cycle? Fix it dude. Past failure doesn't mean future failure. Keep goingI’ve told you I’m jaded and pessimistic about dating I recognize my faults
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02-16-2021, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By KingofLifts⏩
I’ll try to be more optimistic in the future. I still think this chick fukked up though srsBrah, it's not ok to be like that. You recognize it's a fault, and you let yourself be trapped in that cycle? Fix it dude. Past failure doesn't mean future failure. Keep going
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02-17-2021, 04:14 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Awesome honesty, good job!I’ve told you I’m jaded and pessimistic about dating I recognize my faults
The upcoming might be cliche, but it's the goddamn truth regarding new contacts: if you can't love yourself, you'll never be able to love someone else. Delete all your dating apps, because the chances that you will find "the one" on of these apps are slim to non. You will find crazies and milfs though, but as we've all experienced with you: they will put you down the hole even more.
Also, stop using the word luck. Your luck didn't turn around and you didn't get lucky with your previous flings. You need to change that mindset, brother. Love yourself and take care as always.
02-17-2021, 04:22 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
You did the right thing. Don't listen to these stupid simps. Never apologize to a whore and always put yourself first. All these bitches want to do is suck your time and money away anyway. Take care of yourself first and the pussy will come to you. You don't have to work for it.I’ll try to be more optimistic in the future. I still think this chick fukked up though srs
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02-17-2021, 11:14 AM
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I get the majority of people seeing eachother these days end up sending at least message or two daily but to each their own on that front.
Anyone who claims he "ghosted" or was not mindful of her feelings (when she never told him what she expected in terms of communication or just simply tried to start a casual conversation herself and rather resorted to her passive-aggressive opener that led to a full blown hissy fit) is overlooking the fact that they already had concrete plans set a week after the last time they hungout. Completely different than if he said "thanks for the beej, lets do this again soon" and went quiet for days on end. Even if he had every intention of seeing her again in that scenario, you'd have much more merit in accusing him of playing unnecessary games or not being mindful of her feelings had that been the case.
It was her own insecurity thinking not having constant communication means he's gonna bail or w/e when that was never the case.
Anyone who claims he "ghosted" or was not mindful of her feelings (when she never told him what she expected in terms of communication or just simply tried to start a casual conversation herself and rather resorted to her passive-aggressive opener that led to a full blown hissy fit) is overlooking the fact that they already had concrete plans set a week after the last time they hungout. Completely different than if he said "thanks for the beej, lets do this again soon" and went quiet for days on end. Even if he had every intention of seeing her again in that scenario, you'd have much more merit in accusing him of playing unnecessary games or not being mindful of her feelings had that been the case.
It was her own insecurity thinking not having constant communication means he's gonna bail or w/e when that was never the case.
02-17-2021, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Thank youI get the majority of people seeing eachother these days end up sending at least message or two daily but to each their own on that front.
Anyone who claims he "ghosted" or was not mindful of her feelings (when she never told him what she expected in terms of communication or just simply tried to start a casual conversation herself and rather resorted to her passive-aggressive opener that led to a full blown hissy fit) is overlooking the fact that they already had concrete plans set a week after the last time they hungout. Completely different than if he said "thanks for the beej, lets do this again soon" and went quiet for days on end. Even if he had every intention of seeing her again in that scenario, you'd have much more merit in accusing him of playing unnecessary games or not being mindful of her feelings had that been the case.
It was her own insecurity thinking not having constant communication means he's gonna bail or w/e when that was never the case.
Anyone who claims he "ghosted" or was not mindful of her feelings (when she never told him what she expected in terms of communication or just simply tried to start a casual conversation herself and rather resorted to her passive-aggressive opener that led to a full blown hissy fit) is overlooking the fact that they already had concrete plans set a week after the last time they hungout. Completely different than if he said "thanks for the beej, lets do this again soon" and went quiet for days on end. Even if he had every intention of seeing her again in that scenario, you'd have much more merit in accusing him of playing unnecessary games or not being mindful of her feelings had that been the case.
It was her own insecurity thinking not having constant communication means he's gonna bail or w/e when that was never the case.
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02-19-2021, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
sounds like she is just craving a dick in her and you didn't provideVoices messages attached, well now I feel bad cause it almost sounds like she was crying in the last message lol
But she probably does have issues if she’s acting like that so early on
But she probably does have issues if she’s acting like that so early on
Uncontrollable behavior with some psychopathic tendencies
02-19-2021, 08:54 PM
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Lol'd @ the voice clips. She reminds me of Larissa from 90 Day Fiance. She's right, girls want attention from guys they like, but either way, there's no excuse for her behavior. She could've taken the high road and expressed her feelings (like an adult), but instead, she decided to lash out and say hurtful things. All you did was not talk to her for a few days, god forbid you start dating and encounter other issues. I think you dodged a bullet with this one.
Honestly, Cherry, you just need to find a girl that's on the same wave length when it comes to communication. Not all girls want to text all day everyday. Find a girl with a job, hobbies, and friends so that her life doesn't revolve around you. I think it's so unhealthy when couples are around each other 24/7 and lose their own identity.
Honestly, Cherry, you just need to find a girl that's on the same wave length when it comes to communication. Not all girls want to text all day everyday. Find a girl with a job, hobbies, and friends so that her life doesn't revolve around you. I think it's so unhealthy when couples are around each other 24/7 and lose their own identity.
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Originally Posted By wutevs⏩
That’s pretty hard in today’s societyLol'd @ the voice clips. She reminds me of Larissa from 90 Day Fiance. She's right, girls want attention from guys they like, but either way, there's no excuse for her behavior. She could've taken the high road and expressed her feelings (like an adult), but instead, she decided to lash out and say hurtful things. All you did was not talk to her for a few days, god forbid you start dating and encounter other issues. I think you dodged a bullet with this one.
Honestly, Cherry, you just need to find a girl that's on the same wave length when it comes to communication. Not all girls want to text all day everyday. Find a girl with a job, hobbies, and friends so that her life doesn't revolve around you.I think it's so unhealthy when couples are around each other 24/7 and lose their own identity.
Honestly, Cherry, you just need to find a girl that's on the same wave length when it comes to communication. Not all girls want to text all day everyday. Find a girl with a job, hobbies, and friends so that her life doesn't revolve around you.I think it's so unhealthy when couples are around each other 24/7 and lose their own identity.
You would be surprised how many times I asked past dates what kind of hobbies they have and they have no real answer to that question, or any ambition for life and achievements in general srs
I’m not talking out of my azzz either I’ve legit asked girls these questions
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02-24-2021, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
You don't get those dopamine highs from texting?That’s pretty hard in today’s society
You would be surprised how many times I asked past dates what kind of hobbies they have and they have no real answer to that question, or any ambition for life and achievements in general srs
I’m not talking out of my azzz either I’ve legit asked girls these questions
You would be surprised how many times I asked past dates what kind of hobbies they have and they have no real answer to that question, or any ambition for life and achievements in general srs
I’m not talking out of my azzz either I’ve legit asked girls these questions
02-24-2021, 10:43 PM
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02-24-2021, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Not any more unless the girl seems interested and is actually engaging with meYou don't get those dopamine highs from texting?
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02-24-2021, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Kcrack⏩
Nah this chick was just crazyCliffs? Did OP fuk it up again?
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02-24-2021, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This girl was interested in you and looked hot from the photos, but you ignored her text?? I'm so confused by your behavior. Don't you want a gf?Not any more unless the girl seems interested and is actually engaging with me
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
She had big tits, her face was not the best lookingThis girl was interested in you and looked hot from the photos, but you ignored her text?? I'm so confused by your behavior. Don't you want a gf?
Some companionship would be cool, but at this point idk even know anymore I’m cool being single
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