It sounds bad but I just don’t care about the responsibilities of a relationship. Sharing finance, keeping them interested, are they cheating on me etc.

I’m not even lazy. I work hard at things I care about. But a relationship seems like it takes more from my life than it gives.

I think this is why my encounters with women tend to be short-lived. I can’t be bothered trying to keep her interested, I’d rather do the things I enjoy doing and invite her to them etc. but she wants the focus and attention to be on her.

It also hemorrhages you financially. I’ve noticed this every time I start seeing a woman. It’s like my wallet suddenly has holes in it

It’s called autism

I think when you meet the right person your opinion will change

Yep. I hardly strike up conversation or keep one started going.

Hope someday women will grow some balls and ask me out


W8 wut?

Have fun being 50 and having no family.

MaybeLol, you’d better be a 10+/10 gigachad and even then meeting women who take the initiative is like finding a unicorn.I dunno brah I think some people do better in solitude than others

I’m an extreme introvert and can’t remember the last time I’ve felt lonely. Yet I’ve had several girlfriends throughout my twenties and multiple fwb’s. My looks (no e-brag), personality, and ADD brain that has a billion references to carry any conversation is what made up for my introverted self. When I’m in social settings, people 100% think I’m an extrovert and I’m not faking it either. I just choose not to seek them out.

When my exes first introduced me to their extended families, they thought I was gonna clam up and stay quiet when it was the exact opposite. I talked and mingled with everyone, much to their surprise. But they started to get annoyed with me when I pulled back and said “yea I’m not going to another fukking wedding.” Lol. I think I’m built for short term relationships no longer than 1-2 years and then I gotta get the fuk outta there. But at least I know that option is there if I want it.

It’s just too much work keeping them happy long-term. Plus I get sick of them after about a year which I deeply regret about myself. Maybe it’s the ADD and the fact that I get obsessed with things for a little while, and then drop them for something else constantly. Books, movies, tv shows, musical instruments I’ve hoarded, etc. I’m all over the place, lol. But they can’t say I was boring.

I’m built for a life of solitude more than most people I know. I’m cool with it. Sort of. But I do worry about not having a family in the future.

I have ADD too but it hasn’t given me any advantages

I'm also an introvert. If you find the right one, none of what you describe should be happening.

Yea my ADD might differ from yours. My behavior is really erratic. I’d rather my gf saw my porn history than my youtube history, lol. Because you would basically see the most random sh!t you could possibly come up with. There’ll be like a prank video, then a Hitler documentary, then a bunch of golden retrievers doing silly sh!t, and then like a guy in his backyard testing bullet proof vests with high powered rifles, lol. I have dozens of books in my room and on kindle that I’ve only read maybe half of every one of them. I’ll read a few pages, think about another book, read some pages of that, and then switch to another. It’s honestly really frustrating lol. But I know a lot of sh!t from that so that’s where it helps me.

If anyone saw my internet history my life would be over. Lol

Lmao