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post 1632801713 03-02-2021, 11:09 PM
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Have you ever been cheated on

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Let's see how many of you have been cucked
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Where my cucks at
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I was cheated on when I cheated first, growing up is wierd for love, I hated it. Glad I figured out women are chitty.
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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
I was cheated on when I cheated first, growing up is wierd for love, I hated it. Glad I figured out women are chitty.
but u cheated first...
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Not to my knowledge, however I would go as far to say that nearly half of men who have been cheated on do not know they have been cheated on. Women are generally better at hiding stuff like that and generally have more opportunities to cheat. Also by cheating I am including things like messaging the opposite sex on social media with unfaithful intentions, talking in flirtatious ways, exchanging pics, sexting, etc.
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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
I was cheated on when I cheated first, growing up is wierd for love, I hated it. Glad I figured out women are chitty.
Then it doesn't count
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
I fell madly in love with a girl and she dumped me out of no where, breaking my heart.

Then she went on a vacation to Cancun or some crap, and met some hippie surfer type dude and they've been inseparable ever since.

I check her SM here and there, and I am happy that she's happy.

It wasn't really the worst thing that ever happened to me, but it was pretty bad, but it has taught me unconditional love.

It has also taught me that I am worth more than simply being somebody's narcissistic supply getting picked apart for literally no reason other than to make a jealous loser feel good about them selves.

No seriously, I have never been as much of a wholesome human being as I have now.. and it will only get better.

There is no stopping me.

I am good enough .

I am whole and complete, within my self.
Just over one vacation? Fuk that.

But good for u brah. It wasn't meant to be, and ur better for it.
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Yes I have, and I would say the answer is the same for anyone who wasn't an incel when they were 15-25. I cheated on basically every girlfriend I had growing up and to the best of my knowledge I was cheated on twice (confirmed), number is probably higher than that though lol.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yeah mate, and she was brazen about the whole situation, too - called me a sh*t kunt and to not slam the door on the way out.

She's basically one of those good looking girls who 'follows her vibes' in life, doing what ever feels good in the moment, not placing much thought on the future.

As for me, I have been dating around since then, but I still love her, and always will, even though we won't end up together.

That's the thing about love and life, you come to learn that you can love a monster and want nothing to do with them in this life, or the next.
Damn bruh. But it seems ur a good dude who only wanted what was best for her. She's a fukin kunt. Hopefully u find someone better.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yeah, I'm actually a really nice guy, and I am always looking for ways to become a better man.

Everybody thinks the same of her, she's just nasty, and people only fear her because she has amassed a social media following, so she has some clout behind her.

I doubt that she has anybody in her life right now who truly understands her, but that's her prerogative - sometimes people don't want to be understood, and choose to live in ignorance of their own self, and that of others.

In the last 16 months that we've remained apart, I have totally killed my depression and suicidal idealisation, so my life is better now than ever, and so is hers, itappears.
Yea dude. Just gotta remember there was an entire life u had before u met her, and there will be a life after. She was just one small chapter in ur story. And it's ur story, not hers. I've struggled with those kind of feels myself, and it is really easy to talk urself into a spiral. Gotta stay grounded and remember who u are before anything else. Love causes us to lose perspective.
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Most people who dated in their teens got cheated on.

When I was 17 I was a girls rebound to make her ex jealous. I was young, dumb and totally oblivious to this.

For her it worked like a charm - he didn't like it, they ****ed, then apparently it all kicked off again and went sour.

She realised she was going back to the same **** relationship she'd been in, thought I was a better option, was honest to me and said she'd cheated but wanted to work it out, and I nope'd the **** out.

Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Won't lie, that **** messed me up for months and I was really into her. Great body, solid 8/10 face.

Last I heard she was with some businessman who does business deals in the middle east. No doubt she enjoys the time he spends on business trips.
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post 1632810833 03-03-2021, 03:07 AM
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for those who think they never got cheated on; you just never knew about it.
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Originally Posted By CeBKa⏩
for those who think they never got cheated on; you just never knew about it.
That would be my answer, not to my knowledge or gut feeling. You can never know for sure ofc.
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Originally Posted By CBRIT89⏩
Most people who dated in their teens got cheated on.

When I was 17 I was a girls rebound to make her ex jealous. I was young, dumb and totally oblivious to this.

For her it worked like a charm - he didn't like it, they ****ed, then apparently it all kicked off again and went sour.

She realised she was going back to the same **** relationship she'd been in, thought I was a better option, was honest to me and said she'd cheated but wanted to work it out, and I nope'd the **** out.

Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Won't lie, that **** messed me up for months and I was really into her. Great body, solid 8/10 face.

Last I heard she was with some businessman who does business deals in the middle east. No doubt she enjoys the time he spends on business trips.
Still counts as being cucked but not as big of a deal since you were in high school and different rules apply than they do in adult life
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Yes ex husband was a cheater.
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Not that I know of.


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No, but it seems fun.
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Yeah, once or twice but...I was kind of shyt head and really pushing them away for a long time (I'm not very good at relationships, "affection" and all that shyt), so...in the end I can't particularly blame them.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yeah mate, and she was brazen about the whole situation, too - called me a sh*t kunt and told me not slam the door on the way out.

She's basically one of those good-looking girls who 'follows her vibes' in life, doing what ever feels good in the moment, not placing much thought on the future; superficial with a rotten soul.

As for me, I have been dating around since then, but I still love her, and always will, even though we won't end up together.

That's the thing about love and life, you come to learn that you can love a monster and want nothing to do with them in this life, or the next - I can admire her beauty from a distance, and find a nice girl inside, then out.

Evertime i listen to this song, I think orher

cool story, 4/5 song. Also that france looking girl with blue eyes is a 10/10 ded srs
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
Not to my knowledge, however I would go as far to say that nearly half of men who have been cheated on do not know they have been cheated on. Women are generally better at hiding stuff like that and generally have more opportunities to cheat. Also by cheating I am including things like messaging the opposite sex on social media with unfaithful intentions, talking in flirtatious ways, exchanging pics, sexting, etc.
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not that im aware of, but probably yes (srs)

i just assume any girl who im seeing is cheating (srs)

and that isn't a reflection of my self worth, it's a reflection of female nature and their insatiable need for new validation and attention (srs)

also, by thinking this way, it allows you to become very detached from them so in essence you'll never get burned

try it
Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
Not to my knowledge, however I would go as far to say that nearly half of men who have been cheated on do not know they have been cheated on. Women are generally better at hiding stuff like that and generally have more opportunities to cheat. Also by cheating I am including things like messaging the opposite sex on social media with unfaithful intentions, talking in flirtatious ways, exchanging pics, sexting, etc.
this

but actually if you have decent awareness and have an understanding of various psychological concepts, you can be on the look out for this kind of behaviour from the outset

the truth is most guys dont want to know, so they actively avoid being suspicious - hence the cheating goes undetected

most sloots are pretty stupid (no offence to any sloots reading this) it goes hand in hand with their entitlement in 2021, fuelled by media and girls' magazines almost convincing them it's ok to cheat

their type of thinking is:
'as if he's gonna catch me, i know how to hide things from him. besides i studied psychology at college so im basically infallible to the modern man'

so they naturally get complacent, and slip up

if you're persistent enough you'll catch your sloot slipping, if she's up to no good. you just need to be diligent.
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It was never confirmed and she denied it vehemently with proof, but I still think she did. First gf I ever had, dated for like 4 years. Halfway through we broke up and she started to "hang out" with a dude from work. She used to take phone calls from him and leave the room lol. Then like a week after we broke up she posted a picture with him in a group. That was short lived because 3 months we were back together again. Then like a year after that same thing. She was hanging out after the gym with her friends and she was close with this one dude. Long story short I saw her texts to her best friends that said "I felt like I cheated last night". Again nothing happened but she was just hanging out with a dude without me. Then a year after that I had to go on a trip for 3ish months for school and wasn't home. We had a fight during that time and went radio silent for a week. Then when I got back we talked about it and I kid you not the first thing she said was "I was going to cheat on you with Mike, but you're lucky I didn't". LOL I was like you know what, fuk this and I just broke up with her on the spot and I walked out, never to return again. 2 weeks later I was sleeping with one of her friends lol.

I like to think she didn't cheat on me, but like if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, sloots gunna sloot. Been in way better relationships since then and have not been cheated on lol.
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I put yes but I don't know for certain. I think 3 women cheated, but never confirmed any of them. I didn't really care, I mean that's just relationships in teens/early 20s. Everyone is so horny and ****ing everything.
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