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post 1632818153 03-03-2021, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater
Wait til you experience it. Particularly as a physician, your "value" should increase at least through your 30's, potentially peaking early to mid-40's. If you think a fit, charismatic early 40's doc can't pull hot mid 20's girls... you may be too black pilled for life.
Pulling hot 20 year old girls is easy if you have status and money for a few nights of fun. Finding a hot 20 year old girl who isnt a sloot and is doing something for herself is a bit harder for a doc in his mid 40's.
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****
Gonna keep fuking multiple women per week, traveling the world, gaming and getting yucky with the boiz, etc. I don't understand why people think you have to turn into a lame ass old person when you get older. Blows my mind
Had the same mentality. If I had the same mentality now at 45, I think life would be not to my expectation but 100% everyone is wired different so just follow what makes you happy. On the wiring....in my 30's, life for me wasnt about banging random chicks.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Had the same mentality. If I had the same mentality now at 45, I think life would be not to my expectation but 100% everyone is wired different so just follow what makes you happy. On the wiring....in my 30's, life for me wasnt about banging random chicks.
Well there's still plenty of shyt to do even when you're older, and life doesn't revolve around poon - that's why I don't get this repeated "what, do you plan on being the geriatric creeping at the night clubs?" thing. Besides, how many older people that are married regularly bang their wives (and more importantly - how many even want to?). Additionally, that's a dumb reason to base such a major life decision on.
post 1632820093 03-03-2021, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
Well there's still plenty of shyt to do even when you're older, and life doesn't revolve around poon - that's why I don't get this repeated "what, do you plan on being the geriatric creeping at the night clubs?" thing. Besides, how many older people that are married regularly bang their wives (and more importantly - how many even want to?). Additionally, that's a dumb reason to base such a major life decision on.
I was responding to that guy's lifestyle. Agreed there is plenty of stuff to do when you are older, fact of the matter is MOST people (i can accept people are wired differently) like to share those experiences with other people. As you get older, the times you get to spend with your "bros" decreases. Unless you have a crew full of 50 year old dudes that are all financially independent and can go camping, climb Everest, surf north shore, whenever.....

Most of the stuff I do I enjoy with my wife and kids. Or social outings are with other families. Spring Break at the beach in Destin, child's 7 birthday party in Tahoe, mountain biking in Angel fire with my sons, etc.

I just last night did a guy's trip the casino (4 of us) and was in bed by midnight. At 45, I simply can't pull all nighters anymore.
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Originally Posted By Polaris
Well there's still plenty of shyt to do even when you're older, and life doesn't revolve around poon - that's why I don't get this repeated "what, do you plan on being the geriatric creeping at the night clubs?" thing. Besides, how many older people that are married regularly bang their wives (and more importantly - how many even want to?). Additionally, that's a dumb reason to base such a major life decision on.
Unfortunately, a lot of men only look for poon, and most can't see past their biological hardwiring. And to think what their existence might be without constantly looking for it, like water in a desert.
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I think you just do whatever you want to do all the time.

Don't see how that's a bad thing.

Its the only option for me, I'm not bringing a child into this s*itshow
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Life's what you make it *******s....if you make the most of family life, life will be great. If you make the most of single life, life will be great.

If you sit around waiting for stuff to happen, life will suck.
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Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat
Life's what you make it *******s....if you make the most of family life, life will be great. If you make the most of single life, life will be great.

If you sit around waiting for stuff to happen, life will suck.
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Nah, life is much better with a partner. I also believe males actually need affection and attention and to cuddle, you should be bored in time to always look on tinder and meet new women and smash, repeat.

I need security so I would need someone to count on, being alone is a no no for me. I´m 25 and would like a guy younger than 40. 40 is my limit. Guys around my age are boring, immature and they can´t handle me. I also love traveling and I am afraid to travel alone, so in the end I would like someone.

My plan is also career maxing and buying some rental properties, so I can sit at home in my 40s, painting, baking and gardening daily. Will also open a bakery when I´m well off.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
Nah, life is much better with a partner. I also believe males actually need affection and attention and to cuddle, you should be bored in time to always look on tinder and meet new women and smash, repeat.

I need security so I would need someone to count on, being alone is a no no for me. I´m 25 and would like a guy younger than 40. 40 is my limit. Guys around my age are boring, immature and they can´t handle me. I also love traveling and I am afraid to travel alone.
You'll always have your kitty and the 15 others
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Originally Posted By KingNothing95
You'll always have your kitty and the 15 others
I want also a good husband
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Originally Posted By KingNothing95
Become a single dog father, whoremaxx and pursue hobbies. Maybe find and LTR or FWB that doesn't want kids
This is the current path.

Lifemaxxing, looksmaxxing, assetmaxxing, gainsmaxxing.

There’s a 32 year old complete bombshell that’s smart, a statistician, charming, polished, great family, basically the total package. Was thinking this weekend what a life with her would be like if I went down that path. Took a peek into that life, did a 720 immediately and walked away.

I will say however that I’m getting to the age (32) where a lot of my friends are getting married and having kids. A lot of them fade away or you see them less, they’re happy, but it’s also ridiculous how much starting a family takes over serious career and life progression for a lot of guys that are just hitting their stride.

I’m glad they’re happy, but it seems like they shot their shot to early and really limited their potential, but it’s priorities I guess.
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dont' have kids - your senior days will suck.

then one day some state appointed guardian will take over your life, money and throw you into a long term care home to hurry up and die.

that'll be your end. assuming ur not homeless.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
I want also a good husband
At 25 with no kids, shouldn’t be too hard.
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Originally Posted By wave_length
At 25 with no kids, shouldn’t be too hard.
No kids, where should I look for a guy ? Serious guys only. I am against the hook-up culture.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
No kids, where should I look for a guy ? Serious guys only. I am against the hook-up culture.
There are dating websites/services for serious people. I met my wife on one of them.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
No kids, where should I look for a guy ? Serious guys only. I am against the hook-up culture.
Go to the gym, walk up to swole chads/chadlites say hi and profit. You literally just need to show signs of interest and we do the rest. Some will just be after a quick fuk, but some do actually want LTR's especially if they are in there 30s
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
Since when? It's always been normal for men to date and marry 10-15 years younger. That's why there's no cougar term for men.

It's only a recent phenomenon that younger men have pursued barren women, ie old maids or leftovers. All part of the feminist agenda to give them a place when, for the most part, they had previously been invisible in the sexual marketplace.
When I first started on cougar dating sites years ago they marketed to us by saying that men have always dated younger, but now that we are successful career women, why can’t we do the same?

The founder of CougarLife was a model who married a much younger guy, who was also a model.

We don’t want 10-15 years older.

That would mean I’m with a guy in his 60s?!! No thanks Jeff.

The cougar term for a man who chases 10-15 years younger is a DOM (Dirty Old Man). When I was a kid my Mom called the neighbor that.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
No kids, where should I look for a guy ? Serious guys only. I am against the hook-up culture.
Through your network of friends and family.
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Originally Posted By gesten
Cope harder you pathetic beta bux provider lmfao


This dude is 55 years old almost 60 and he can make your wife cheat on you in a one night stand in less than 20 mins lmfao

From looks alone, without money

Yeah he totally looks miserably LMFAO

And he never married

Only miserable dudes are you beta providers giving your time energy and attention span to one girl while she smashes chads in one night stands. Lmao what a life. Changing kids diapers and providing for one girl while she smashes chads in ons. Might as well dig ur grave cause ur literally dead lmfao. You literally have NO Life when you do kids and marriage. I’d legit rather die than do a ltr/marriage and kids

Lmao happy wife happy lifers
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
Do you ever see a stigma around that kind of thing? Like just thinking back to how you met your wife, do you ever feel less "manly" for finding her off a website?
As opposed to what? Jestermaxxing in public to say you "pulled her"?
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
Do you ever see a stigma around that kind of thing? Like just thinking back to how you met your wife, do you ever feel less "manly" for finding her off a website?
What? No. Most guys I know met their spouse online one way or another. You have to eventually meet up IRL anyway, just saves a lot of time. I also had other encounters ofc, just worked out this way.
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Originally Posted By wave_length
What? No. Most guys I know met their spouse online one way or another. You have to eventually meet up IRL anyway, just saves a lot of time. I also had other encounters ofc, just worked out this way.
I know a family of four, 2 girls, 2 boys, they all met their spouses online.
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
Was stuff like your salary and occupation listed on the site?

Reason I ask is because my parents keep badgering me to make a profile on some indian dating website. I think it's honest in the sense that they ask about all your details such as salary and occupation, but I also think it's dishonest in that the other person could be choosing you with those details as a main deciding factor. I'm against it, don't want to spend the money on such a service.
LOL at providing salary and occupation on an online dating site. And WTF mane, you have indian parents and they dont have a network of friends with daughters that they can hook you up with?
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
Was stuff like your salary and occupation listed on the site?

Reason I ask is because my parents keep badgering me to make a profile on some indian dating website. I think it's honest in the sense that they ask about all your details such as salary and occupation, but I also think it's dishonest in that the other person could be choosing you with those details as a main deciding factor. I'm against it, don't want to spend the money on such a service.
Agreed. Salary/net worth was not part of the profile and could not be filtered on. Same with pictures which are blurred at first and must be unlocked.
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Originally Posted By wave_length
What? No. Most guys I know met their spouse online one way or another. You have to eventually meet up IRL anyway, just saves a lot of time. I also had other encounters ofc, just worked out this way.
I don’t know anyone IRL who met a spouse or boyfriend online. They have all been through work, friends, or back in college.

People are frustrated with dating apps for finding relationships IMO, including me. It’s just nonstop guys who ask for sex.
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Originally Posted By wave_length
Agreed. Salary/net worth was not part of the profile and could not be filtered on. Same with pictures which are blurred at first and must be unlocked.
You must have a completely different dating app over there! I’ve never heard of blurred pics, except with Ashley Madison.
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Originally Posted By AgentSkyhawk
I agree with you on that. The only thing about that line is that, Almost half of kids are unplanned..meaning half of the guys who say 'once you have kids they change your lift", fcuked up somewhere mid-cheek clapping. So yeah no chit your outlook on life changes, but it's because the pussy got too good for too long



Legacy doesn't mean what a lot of people think it means. Having a legacy is about the impact you left on people, what you contribute to society and impact that has. Magic Johnson has left a legacy in the basketball game and beyond. Nobody in this thread can tell me off the top of their head who his son is or what he does.

Mayweather has left a legacy in the boxing world and beyond...His "legacy" is a daughter that's not even 21, but has felony charges, is a baby motha to a rapper with 4-5 baby mothas...If that's what mothafcukas is teaching in Legacy 1A i'm dropping out that class.



Miscers can be with the 25 yr old if they worked on themselves, be the best versions they can be and if not 25, a good looking 26-30 yr old. But the red pilled miscers know that locking down a partner in mid 20's aint fcuking worth it. That time is spent dating women, working on yourself, building assets and having minimal liabilities, working out, etc. They also know marriage is in the fcuking grave. It's a 50% percent fail rate, initiated by 80% of women, that most times you're paying for their and your lawyer fees, before you get took for 50% and possibly more from court, So LTR is the next best choice. Furthermore bitches in they 20's have fcuked hundreds of guys, they're pussy is just as salvaged as the 30yr olds, and if they're single moms, forget aboudit.

We're in the age of information. Information about being wealthy and being the best person you can be haven't been this easy to have ever. If peoples in their 20s and 30s don't capitalize, then its their loss.
I’m 28 and my girl is 23 and makes almost 100k. To me I’m in the best situation. She wants to be a mother and have a family more than anything, but she also worked on her career so she doesn’t have to depend on a man. And I had my fun in my 20s and find what I don’t like, and found what’s most important. IMO I did it perfectly and feel that she came into my life for a reason. I was living a meaningless reckless life and now I’m grounded and my quality of life so much higher with her as my long term partner
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Originally Posted By CalmYerSwag
I’m 28 and my girl is 23 and makes almost 100k. To me I’m in the best situation. She wants to be a mother and have a family more than anything, but she also worked on her career so she doesn’t have to depend on a man. And I had my fun in my 20s and find what I don’t like, and found what’s most important. IMO I did it perfectly and feel that she came into my life for a reason. I was living a meaningless reckless life and now I’m grounded and my quality of life so much higher with her as my long term partner
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