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post 1632988263 03-05-2021, 01:15 AM
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Inb4 SS
post 1632988343 03-05-2021, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
I have to be mentally attracted, as well as physically or it's zero interest. Not a lot have the masculine personality or something to respect these days unfortunately, and I couldn't fake interest if I tried which scares meso I understand that part some have standards and are traditional still even younger than you.
That's true. I didn't realize those men were "beta providers" until I came on here. The Misc. is certainly right about them, as well as the "beta orbiters".

I can understand that you need the mental attraction as well as the physical. I have a tough time with the guys who just message for sex. I need someone to talk with me about my day and their day and get that sense of connection before I have sex.
post 1632988353 03-05-2021, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
Not all Gods go for fake instagram look or on it themselves though
lol but pretty much every guy prefers glow. It's biology. Never once in my life met a Chad who would pass up a gorgeous 20 year old for a 40-something bag of door knobs. And I see dozens every day.
post 1632988383 03-05-2021, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted By infinityplus1⏩
Inb4 SS
I think she's sleeping.

Sweet dreams SS
post 1632988413 03-05-2021, 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Well then how was I able to get the alpha dudes?
You weren't. Maybe they were good looking, but alpha dudes pick from their choice of young women. They aren't hitting up dusty friends of their mother on some B-grade dating website.
post 1632988453 03-05-2021, 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
lol but pretty much every guy prefers glow. It's biology. Never once in my life met a Chad who would pass up a gorgeous 20 year old for a 40-something bag of door knobs. And I see dozens every day.
Yeah but what the guys always told me was the 20 year olds play games and aren't as sexually experienced or confident.

Men also like variety.

I mean they would take a 20 year old for a gf, but you won't believe how many on dating apps want a "MILF" experience. It's legit insane. Any guy under 30 I would swipe was a match, but it wasn't the same when I went between 30-50.
post 1632988543 03-05-2021, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
That's true. I didn't realize those men were "beta providers" until I came on here. The Misc. is certainly right about them, as well as the "beta orbiters".

I can understand that you need the mental attraction as well as the physical. I have a tough time with the guys who just message for sex. I need someone to talk with me about my day and their day and get that sense of connection before I have sex.
They talk about alphas and masculinity here but there are hardly any left and I'm being serious if you do actually find one it's a rare dying breed.
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
lol but pretty much every guy prefers glow. It's biology. Never once in my life met a Chad who would pass up a gorgeous 20 year old for a 40-something bag of door knobs. And I see dozens every day.
I wasn't talking about age, I was on about cake face and filters and that sort of thing. I know a guy who can mog most and looks like a model he doesn't prefer fakeness like the ig you speak of, good looking yes, fakeness no lol
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post 1632988573 03-05-2021, 01:22 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
You weren't. Maybe they were good looking, but alpha dudes pick from their choice of young women. They aren't hitting up dusty friends of their mother on some B-grade dating website.
They were good looking guys (and some still hit me up) and if I look at their Instagrams they have a lot of young good looking girls around them. I couldn't figure it out, either, as it's not like I'm some model or something.

Now I can say that MANY had mommy issues. Like their Moms had BPD or abandoned them with a busy career. Not like that's a shock, but it was sad.
post 1632988633 03-05-2021, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
You weren't. Maybe they were good looking, but alpha dudes pick from their choice of young women. They aren't hitting up dusty friends of their mother on some B-grade dating website.
Sick burn. repped.
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post 1632988753 03-05-2021, 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Yeah but what the guys always told me was the 20 year olds play games and aren't as sexually experienced or confident.

Men also like variety.

I mean they would take a 20 year old for a gf, but you won't believe how many on dating apps want a "MILF" experience. It's legit insane. Any guy under 30 I would swipe was a match, but it wasn't the same when I went between 30-50.
Yeah 90% of dudes will fukk absolutely anything, obviously. Misc is proof enough of that lol. Most don't have options so they have to cruise OLD and try to smash absolutely any match. Chad is the opposite of that.
post 1632988773 03-05-2021, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
They talk about alphas and masculinity here but there are hardly any left and I'm being serious if you do actually find one it's a rare dying breed.



I wasn't talking about age, I was on about cake face and filters and that sort of thing. I know a guy who can mog most and looks like a model he doesn't prefer fakeness like the ig you speak of, good looking yes, fakeness no lol
It definitely is in my area where many men on dating apps call themselves feminists. I live in a very liberal area. It's so annoying.

Yeah the cake face and filters are not attractive at all.
post 1632988833 03-05-2021, 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
It definitely is in my area where many men on dating apps call themselves feminists. I live in a very liberal area. It's so annoying.

Yeah the cake face and filters are not attractive at all.
It's sad I prefer masculine and the real dominant type not the ones who think they are.
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post 1632988913 03-05-2021, 01:29 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Yeah 90% of dudes will fukk absolutely anything, obviously. Misc is proof enough of that lol. Most don't have options so they have to cruise OLD and try to smash absolutely any match. Chad is the opposite of that.
No way. I just matched 2 Chads. One was rated a 7.75/10 by Miscers. He said he had a lot of sex in college but was always curious as to what it would be like with an older woman. I didn't like how he just texted me at the last minute, though. I told him that he needs to make a date and give me advance notice. Well the next time he texted me in the morning for that night, but then I didn't hear from him again. Anyhow, I've had a lot of Chads (good looking guys) so it's not like I'm dying for him. I'd rather sit home and Misc as that takes less energy now that I'm getting old
post 1632988973 03-05-2021, 01:30 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
It's sad I prefer masculine and the real dominant type not the ones who think they are.
Is that what draws you to misc? All the silverback alpha male gorillas?
post 1632988983 03-05-2021, 01:30 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Sick burn. repped.
Make another sticky for your notebook and go to bed.
post 1632989013 03-05-2021, 01:31 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Is that what draws you to misc? All the silverback alpha male gorillas?
Yeah, they're all in the Whiny Bitch thread.
post 1632989023 03-05-2021, 01:31 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
No way. I just matched 2 Chads.
post 1632989053 03-05-2021, 01:32 AM
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
It's sad I prefer masculine and the real dominant type not the ones who think they are.
Oh that's the worst, the ones who call themselves "alpha" but they are really just douchebags.
post 1632989073 03-05-2021, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
I have a different type than SS. I matched with linemen for college football and the NFL just for the notoriety, but she prefers that body type.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Is that what draws you to misc? All the silverback alpha male gorillas?
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Oh that's the worst, the ones who call themselves "alpha" but they are really just douchebags.
No it reminds me of the betas in reality who think they are dominant by abusing women. I've met the best and experienced that so I think I'm messed up lol, misc is more of a curiosity. Some are good, some not.
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post 1632989203 03-05-2021, 01:35 AM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I have a different type than SS. I matched with linemen for college football and the NFL just for the notoriety, but she prefers that body type.
You matched with guys who play beer league softball
post 1632989283 03-05-2021, 01:39 AM
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thats dumb...
just set your filters to younger and you will get younger matches..
dont need a seperate site
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Originally Posted By DM28⏩
No it reminds me of the betas in reality who think they are dominant by abusing women. I've met the best and experienced that so I think I'm messed up lol, misc is more of a curiosity. Some are good, some not.
Oh that's horrible. Abusing women is the worst. You sound perfectly normal to me. I don't think you're messed up? Sometimes our exes seem better looking back.
Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
You matched with guys who play beer league softball
No lol. The Chad guy who hit me up last minute is a firefighter. I'm pretty sure he double booked me for the evening. The other guy was just your typical rich boy blonde surfer type. But he also annoyed me as he talked about sex right away. I'm just not going to run over and jump on Chad's cawk. I need an emotional connection.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
thats dumb...
just set your filters to younger and you will get younger matches..
dont need a seperate site
All these niche dating sites just prey on desperate loser men srs. Even Ashley Madison, over 90% of the female profiles were fake. It was all a grift to trick guys into thinking there are milfs, cheating sloots, female farmers, whatever.

And that if they spend money, you gain access to a pool of sloots who aren't on tinder. Which is ridiculous, but guys are dumb and horny lol. There are no horny single women in your area waiting for you.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
All these niche dating sites just prey on desperate loser men srs. Even Ashley Madison, over 90% of the female profiles were fake. It was all a grift to trick guys into thinking there are milfs, cheaters, farmers, whatever.

And that if they spend money, they will access to a pool of sloots who aren't on tinder. Which is ridiculous, but guys are dumb and horny lol. There are no horny single women in your area waiting for you.
Ashley Madison owns Cougar Life lol.

Yeah, I felt bad for the young, broke guys who paid $40 a month for CougarLife.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
thats dumb...
just set your filters to younger and you will get younger matches..
dont need a seperate site
I was on Cougarlife before Tinder even came out. But then I just went to Bumble (I can't stand Tinder) and Hinge and matched with younger guys that way.

A lot of the guys on Cougarlife were weird.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
https://cougarlife.com



They market the site as to where it looks like the women is actually dating and having a relationship with a younger guy. The guys told me that they all want just sex, but the women want relationships, so it just didn't work.
All guys want sex, even older ones...hence why stuff like vigara other pills exist for men.

Really shouldn't be a shock to any woman.

Its funny tho...older women will fuk Chads, but want a realtionship with men their same age...there's nothing worse than seeing an older woman desperately flirting with younger men...and vise versa
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Originally Posted By BallsDeep3⏩
All guys want sex, even older ones...hence why stuff like vigara other pills exist for men.

Really shouldn't be a shock to any woman.

Its funny tho...older women will fuk Chads, but want a realtionship with men their same age...there's nothing worse than seeing an older woman desperately flirting with younger men...and vise versa
Well I’m picky and would only swipe on 7/10s and above under 30, and almost every single swipe is a match under 30.

I lower my standards for over 30 to 5/10s and above, and I’d say the match rate goes way down.

I’ve taken a break from dating apps, but that’s the reality of life from the perspective of an older woman.
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