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ITT: Cruelest thing a girl has done to you in dating.
03-12-2021, 06:42 PM
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ITT: Cruelest thing a girl has done to you in dating.
So I had two seemingly great dates with a girl. She ghosts me after I took her out to dinner and when I follow up a week later asking "Hey, everything cool?"....she responds: "Sorry this is not for me. Please don't contact me again lol"
The "lol" really fkn stung for some reason. Doing a complete 180 after being miss all-American sweetheart and then going full kunt like that.
I thought everything was going well, had no signs I could see of her not enjoying the dates, hell we even kissed when she left my place after date 2.
Now I've had a long-term gf cheat on me and that doesn't bother me anymore but now that I'm dating again these heartless rejections sting like hell.
The "lol" really fkn stung for some reason. Doing a complete 180 after being miss all-American sweetheart and then going full kunt like that.
I thought everything was going well, had no signs I could see of her not enjoying the dates, hell we even kissed when she left my place after date 2.
Now I've had a long-term gf cheat on me and that doesn't bother me anymore but now that I'm dating again these heartless rejections sting like hell.
03-12-2021, 06:49 PM
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Brutal lol.
03-12-2021, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By umop3pisdn⏩
I see what you did there.Brutallol.
03-12-2021, 06:58 PM
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aborted my baby
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It's 2021 bro, there's no such thing as the "miss all-American sweetheart", you got duped and she knew she was duping you which made her drier than the sahara.
03-12-2021, 07:00 PM
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OP please dont contact me again lol
03-12-2021, 07:06 PM
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Ate my ass and then dumped me after doing it a few more times, now It's a need.
03-12-2021, 07:11 PM
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OP don't take it personally. It sounds to me like she was trying to get over someone. Remember that almost everyone u encounter dating will have lost love. It can hurt them. If a girl ghosts you or drops you, don't take it personally. She obviously has her own issues. She may validate herself by rejecting guys too. Also, someone better from her pov may have come along. Sad but true. When there is no attachment, it's easy to get dumped.
TLDR: The problem is with her and not u.
TLDR: The problem is with her and not u.
03-12-2021, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
TY manOP don't take it personally. It sounds to me like she was trying to get over someone. Remember that almost everyone u encounter dating will have lost love. It can hurt them. If a girl ghosts you or drops you, don't take it personally. She obviously has her own issues. She may validate herself by rejecting guys too. Also, someone better from her pov may have come along. Sad but true. When there is no attachment, it's easy to get dumped.
TLDR: The problem is with her and not u.
TLDR: The problem is with her and not u.
03-12-2021, 10:01 PM
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if that's the meanest thing that's ever happened to you you should be thankful
my ex
- broke up with me
- then wnted to g back to dating and demanded i kept talking to her
- had sex, hung ut and saw a mvie together
- she slept with some random guy a couple times
- then got into a relationship with ANOTHER guy
- then i found out
- she said 'oh well now you know
no sorry or anything
pretty much lead me on, promised a future, had sex with me, another random a couple of times and another guy all in the space of 21 days.
my ex
- broke up with me
- then wnted to g back to dating and demanded i kept talking to her
- had sex, hung ut and saw a mvie together
- she slept with some random guy a couple times
- then got into a relationship with ANOTHER guy
- then i found out
- she said 'oh well now you know
no sorry or anything
pretty much lead me on, promised a future, had sex with me, another random a couple of times and another guy all in the space of 21 days.
03-12-2021, 10:15 PM
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-6th-8th grade dance. I dance with an 8th grader. Her sister is in my grade which is 6th grade
-Everyone thought I was an absolute boss because she was hot and a motherfukkin 8th grader
-Talked to her on AIM and said we can date. Naive fresh 6th grade me was now walking like I owned middle school
-Would talk to her and hug her and stuff, but her sister in my grade warned me that I'm being stupid
-One day catch her holding hands with this queer red head 8th grader. They saw me and laughed as they walked away
-Next time that kid saw me (I was a little midget then because I was a late bloomer and he was like 5'10 already) he threatened to beat me up if I talk to her again
-Atlastrength learned a valuable lesson in 6th grade about female manipulation and games.
-Everyone thought I was an absolute boss because she was hot and a motherfukkin 8th grader
-Talked to her on AIM and said we can date. Naive fresh 6th grade me was now walking like I owned middle school
-Would talk to her and hug her and stuff, but her sister in my grade warned me that I'm being stupid
-One day catch her holding hands with this queer red head 8th grader. They saw me and laughed as they walked away
-Next time that kid saw me (I was a little midget then because I was a late bloomer and he was like 5'10 already) he threatened to beat me up if I talk to her again
-Atlastrength learned a valuable lesson in 6th grade about female manipulation and games.
03-12-2021, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Atlastrength⏩
Coming of age lesson for sure.-6th-8th grade dance. I dance with an 8th grader. Her sister is in my grade which is 6th grade
-Everyone thought I was an absolute boss because she was hot and a motherfukkin 8th grader
-Talked to her on AIM and said we can date. Naive fresh 6th grade me was now walking like I owned middle school
-Would talk to her and hug her and stuff, but her sister in my grade warned me that I'm being stupid
-One day catch her holding hands with this queer red head 8th grader. They saw me and laughed as they walked away
-Next time that kid saw me (I was a little midget then because I was a late bloomer and he was like 5'10 already) he threatened to beat me up if I talk to her again
-Atlastrength learned a valuable lesson in 6th grade about female manipulation and games.
-Everyone thought I was an absolute boss because she was hot and a motherfukkin 8th grader
-Talked to her on AIM and said we can date. Naive fresh 6th grade me was now walking like I owned middle school
-Would talk to her and hug her and stuff, but her sister in my grade warned me that I'm being stupid
-One day catch her holding hands with this queer red head 8th grader. They saw me and laughed as they walked away
-Next time that kid saw me (I was a little midget then because I was a late bloomer and he was like 5'10 already) he threatened to beat me up if I talk to her again
-Atlastrength learned a valuable lesson in 6th grade about female manipulation and games.
Here I am, a 32yr old who can't get it right still.
03-12-2021, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
You're not alone. I'm staying off the market until i get my stuff together. Then maybe if i find someone along the way, we'll make it happen but my goals are more important right now.Coming of age lesson for sure.
Here I am, a 32yr old who can't get it right still.
Here I am, a 32yr old who can't get it right still.
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03-12-2021, 10:49 PM
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Shouted at me for fukking her sister...
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Beat my ass with her dad while I didn't fight back cause I didn't want to accidentally hurt her. They called the the cops after and caught felonies, I needed stitches but declined.
Broke my nose while I was asleep cause I broke my phone and had to use an old one. Didn't know there were naked pictures of an ex on it, she went through it while I was asleep.
Got my lip split in half from a cup, but I deserved that one. I was being a complete *******, not physical though.
Broke my nose while I was asleep cause I broke my phone and had to use an old one. Didn't know there were naked pictures of an ex on it, she went through it while I was asleep.
Got my lip split in half from a cup, but I deserved that one. I was being a complete *******, not physical though.
03-12-2021, 11:25 PM
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Told me she was really sick and made me feel sorry for her all tucked up in bed with the flu and really she was out getting jackhammered by Jamal
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03-12-2021, 11:27 PM
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too beta to even type it out, embarrassing srs
grown alot since lol, was 17 at the time
grown alot since lol, was 17 at the time
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She was pretty hot, she came on strong to me and was all over me, looked like obsessed with me, physical stuff.. the whole 9 yards.. then after a month she just ghosted me out of nowhere, when I somehow got in touch with her she said she was just bored and playing a bit. Disgusting.
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Semi-recently, was going out with girl for months. Obviously sleeping together, sleeping over, deep convos, blah blah blah. Thinking definite possible wife potential, and getting close to asking about exclusivity.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
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Please don't post again lol
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Left me after dating for 7 years, 1.5 of which we were engaged for. Moved in and was in full wedding planning and everything.
That sucked at the time, but ended up being for the best.
Just wish she had figured her chit out 6 years sooner
That sucked at the time, but ended up being for the best.
Just wish she had figured her chit out 6 years sooner
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03-13-2021, 03:23 AM
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
you told a girl no to sex at the beginning of a relationshipSemi-recently, was going out with girl for months. Obviously sleeping together, sleeping over, deep convos, blah blah blah. Thinking definite possible wife potential, and getting close to asking about exclusivity.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
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Smashed a rebound for a few months, she was going skiing with her fam for a week, and had been pestering me to get in a relationship, I didn't want that. Took my opportunity to ghost her, next month she was engaged to BBC, mates haven't let me live it down
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Originally Posted By ayyy⏩
I knew it was the no sex thing as soon as she went cold the next day. Thats why I wanted to make up for it so bad.you told a girl no to sex at the beginning of a relationship
her self confidence did a backflip off mount everest and landed in a pit of lava
her self confidence did a backflip off mount everest and landed in a pit of lava
I still dont think doing that once is a reason to “break up”, but thats not what fukked me up. The ghosting is. After a few dates, okay, whatever. After months? Yeah. That chit hurt.
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