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ยป How TF do you make friends as an adult in a new city?
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post 1633765513 03-14-2021, 06:33 PM
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How TF do you make friends as an adult in a new city?

Especially during a fukkn scamdemic? This is why I overdo it on the misc for "social" life.

I am fortunate to have some friends from my hometown down the road but it's always the same ol' chit with them.

Brb, no work rn
Brb, school is online
Brb, people hit the town with people from work or school
Brb, FA
post 1633765703 03-14-2021, 06:36 PM
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Lots of friendly guys on Grindr
post 1633765913 03-14-2021, 06:39 PM
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Work is the easiest, but in a city it still should be dooable. I'd recommend becoming a regular at a bar to begin with, and kind of move from there.
post 1633766533 03-14-2021, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Work is the easiest, but in a city it still should be dooable. I'd recommend becoming a regular at a bar to begin with, and kind of move from there.
This is actually a solid piece of advice.
post 1633767023 03-14-2021, 06:55 PM
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At the hobby shops.
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post 1633768433 03-14-2021, 07:14 PM
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meetup.com
hobbies (bjj for me)
post 1633768503 03-14-2021, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ThaifooN90
meetup.com
hobbies (bjj for me)
Have you actually used meetup.com and had luck?
post 1633768533 03-14-2021, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By FoxMcCocks
Lots of friendly guys on Grindr
This tbh
post 1633768623 03-14-2021, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks
Have you actually used meetup.com and had luck?
When I first moved to Portland 6 years ago, yes. They had tons of social events at bars so you could go there and everyone would be there for the meetup. I met a ton of drinking buddies. However, I got real tired of that over time and now most of my friends are from BJJ instead.

Tbh I haven't used it in years and not since the pandemic started, but I think it's still worth a shot.
post 1633768673 03-14-2021, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackJack619
At the hobby shops.
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Hobby shops? Like what, building models and crafts and chit?
post 1633768683 03-14-2021, 07:19 PM
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Get some hobbies and find groups of people on either ******** or the meetup app.


But in your case OP, you would probably find the Grindr app most enjoyable.
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