03-18-2021, 07:04 PM
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Anyone stressed out about aging/women
I'm 27. People say age doesn't matter for guys. It stresses me out so much for the following reasons:
1. Balding, looks declining
2. People getitng married. starting families
3. Almost every girl has a LTR at my age
4. Women just aren't pretty in my age group
5. Feel like I missed my chance at love and now if I want a family, I will have to settle
6. Women's standards are increasing. When you're young you can get away with a lot. I.E. being shy,**** job, bad social skills, skinny or w/e. At my age it's a death sentence.
7. Friends become too busy with their LTRs
8. You become that creepy single man
People say age doesn't matter for guys. You can bang young girls into your 40s. But I don't want to bang young girls. I want a loving wife to spend the rest of my life with. I missed my best years with her and she has been taken by someone else at this point. All that is left for me is trash. Is dating younger women enjoyable? I feel like it would just feel weird. Maybe I'm just not open minded?
I made this thread because I always hear women complaining about stuff like this but then they go up to me and are like "aren't you happy u aren't a girl?" I'm just thinking "wut, girls have this stuff way easier. Even ugly autistic girls can get a bf with ease."
IDK man. I'm stressed the fuark out.
1. Balding, looks declining
2. People getitng married. starting families
3. Almost every girl has a LTR at my age
4. Women just aren't pretty in my age group
5. Feel like I missed my chance at love and now if I want a family, I will have to settle
6. Women's standards are increasing. When you're young you can get away with a lot. I.E. being shy,**** job, bad social skills, skinny or w/e. At my age it's a death sentence.
7. Friends become too busy with their LTRs
8. You become that creepy single man
People say age doesn't matter for guys. You can bang young girls into your 40s. But I don't want to bang young girls. I want a loving wife to spend the rest of my life with. I missed my best years with her and she has been taken by someone else at this point. All that is left for me is trash. Is dating younger women enjoyable? I feel like it would just feel weird. Maybe I'm just not open minded?
I made this thread because I always hear women complaining about stuff like this but then they go up to me and are like "aren't you happy u aren't a girl?" I'm just thinking "wut, girls have this stuff way easier. Even ugly autistic girls can get a bf with ease."
IDK man. I'm stressed the fuark out.
03-18-2021, 07:09 PM
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Idk i've literally been invisible since i was 25-26 and i am starting to actually age i know i only have a few years of my youth left
I don't really have a sex drive either, like it doesn't interest me like it did in my early 20's
I don't really have a sex drive either, like it doesn't interest me like it did in my early 20's
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03-18-2021, 07:19 PM
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Not really. my looks have increased over the years the only problem is that the reaper swiped a few times at my hairline and its taking away from my looks
03-18-2021, 07:19 PM
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I’m torn too, like should I be finding someone to build memories with now that you can only do when you’re young, or focus on career/etc until 40s and marry an early 30s gal?
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03-18-2021, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By beansieweansie⏩
Men generally get better looking only if they stay in shape and keep their hairline. Problem is most won’tNot really. my looks have increased over the years the only problem is that the reaper swiped a few times at my hairline and its taking away from my looks
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03-18-2021, 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Dmoc23⏩
Yeah the memories thing is huge. Like what memories are you going to have together if you meet someone in your 30s/40s??I’m torn too, like should I be finding someone to build memories with now that you can only do when you’re young, or focus on career/etc until 40s and marry an early 30s gal?
Also the focus on your career thing is pure cope IMO. You can focus on a career (which basically just means show up to work and do your job and you will move up the corporate ladder) and still have time for everything else.
03-18-2021, 07:23 PM
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Nah I don't care about anything.
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03-18-2021, 07:24 PM
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Talking to older people isn't the same either. It's boring and awkward. Like idk how i'm going to be socializing with 35-50 year olds from here on out
I still feel 23
I still feel 23
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03-18-2021, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Yeah it's brutal. People literally just talk about stocks and how busy they are with their kids. It's ****ing lame.Talking to older people isn't the same either. It's boring and awkward. Like idk how i'm going to be socializing with 35-50 year olds from here on out
I still feel 23
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03-18-2021, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
They are also corny and polite to each other. Younger people give no fuks and just say whatever they want around each other. With older people every conversation is awkward and lame.Yeah it's brutal. People literally just talk about stocks and how busy they are with their kids. It's ****ing lame.
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
love that for youbut that's life, you can have anything you want but not everything you want.
03-18-2021, 07:42 PM
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OP I had the same concerns as you at your age, 33 now. As long as youre handling business and taking care of yourself you will stop worrying about women and just take them as they come. Your friendships will atrophy when they have kids so you'll have to mingle your way into a new friend group. Its wise to upgrade into more high value friendships as you are the sum of your 5 best friends.
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03-18-2021, 07:44 PM
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03-18-2021, 07:58 PM
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Checked Uni friends FB profiles, a lot of them got better looking at 30+ vs 18-21. They look like a a more well-groomed man in better shape than being a skinny spotty teen at 19 for example.
Men who age bad are generally guys who don’t take care of themselves. Poor diet, lack of sleep, abuse of substance etc.
Example, this is famous British boxer Amir Khan at 21, a woman’s prime:
This is him at 30, just a more mature look. He’s Pakistan but similar logic to all races.
Men who age bad are generally guys who don’t take care of themselves. Poor diet, lack of sleep, abuse of substance etc.
Example, this is famous British boxer Amir Khan at 21, a woman’s prime:
This is him at 30, just a more mature look. He’s Pakistan but similar logic to all races.
03-18-2021, 08:01 PM
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As you age most of the memories fade away anyways. My parents are in their 70s and were arguing about the year they were married the other day.
So many people are so focused on living the perfect life with the perfect wife, perfect kids, perfect memories. Life isn't as perfect as people make it out to be or want it to be.
Quit caring what other people think. If you're with a girl that's younger than you and she cares what people think about the age gap, then find a girl who doesn't. If you don't find her, then continue to live your life as you see fit. Some of the happiest people I know live every day have little to nothing going for them. They just accept life better I guess.
People think if they don't get married and have kids they are going to grow old, miserable and alone. Well there's plenty of married people who wish they didn't have kids or get married because they're miserable and feel alone in their marriage too.
So many people are so focused on living the perfect life with the perfect wife, perfect kids, perfect memories. Life isn't as perfect as people make it out to be or want it to be.
Quit caring what other people think. If you're with a girl that's younger than you and she cares what people think about the age gap, then find a girl who doesn't. If you don't find her, then continue to live your life as you see fit. Some of the happiest people I know live every day have little to nothing going for them. They just accept life better I guess.
People think if they don't get married and have kids they are going to grow old, miserable and alone. Well there's plenty of married people who wish they didn't have kids or get married because they're miserable and feel alone in their marriage too.
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03-18-2021, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
If you’re alpha you’re girl will show you off regardless of what age you are. If you’re insecure about the age then lol expect her to be as well.I just turned 31 and this is the same issue I'm facing. I think the best answer for most people is to get the girl thing done when young because I feel like you can only have genuine relationships with young girls when you yourself are young. Girls are social animals and the opinions of others weighs heavily on them. I have no doubt that I'll still look good in my 40s and 50s, the issue is that a young girl won't be able to bring me around her friends/family and that would kill the relationship after a while.
What dave ramseycel types lose sight of is the value of today and your prime years. Working your ass off while living like a hermit so that you can enjoy 10 years in retirement before the Alzheimer's gets you is complete stupidity from a total life happiness standpoint.
That's most people though. Personally, I have an ego and want more out of life. I'm already financially secure and can take it easy in life at this point and I'm fully aware that it's complete stupidity for me to continue to grind instead of enjoying what I've already built. My ego demands that I get fuk you rich to prove that I'm better than other people though so I'm going to continue to grind anyway. In a few years, it'll probably be too late for me to settle down with the kind of girl I want but that's life, you can have anything you want but not everything you want.
What dave ramseycel types lose sight of is the value of today and your prime years. Working your ass off while living like a hermit so that you can enjoy 10 years in retirement before the Alzheimer's gets you is complete stupidity from a total life happiness standpoint.
That's most people though. Personally, I have an ego and want more out of life. I'm already financially secure and can take it easy in life at this point and I'm fully aware that it's complete stupidity for me to continue to grind instead of enjoying what I've already built. My ego demands that I get fuk you rich to prove that I'm better than other people though so I'm going to continue to grind anyway. In a few years, it'll probably be too late for me to settle down with the kind of girl I want but that's life, you can have anything you want but not everything you want.
40yr olds should probably go for 25-30yr old women who are still hot. 50yr olds go for 30-40.
My last 4 gfs have been 17 (3yrs), 19 (1yr), 18 (1yr) and 22 (5yrs current fiancé). I’m 36 and can pull women much easier now than I could in my early 20s ironically.
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I was 33 when I found my misses she was 25
27 is very young as a male
27 is very young as a male
03-18-2021, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Sounds crazy but they're literally just thoughts. Once you get burned enough times, you stop giving a chit about stuff like thatI'm 27. People say age doesn't matter for guys. It stresses me out so much for the following reasons:
1. Balding, looks declining
2. People getitng married. starting families
3. Almost every girl has a LTR at my age
4. Women just aren't pretty in my age group
5. Feel like I missed my chance at love and now if I want a family, I will have to settle
6. Women's standards are increasing. When you're young you can get away with a lot. I.E. being shy,**** job, bad social skills, skinny or w/e. At my age it's a death sentence.
7. Friends become too busy with their LTRs
8. You become that creepy single man
People say age doesn't matter for guys. You can bang young girls into your 40s. But I don't want to bang young girls. I want a loving wife to spend the rest of my life with. I missed my best years with her and she has been taken by someone else at this point. All that is left for me is trash. Is dating younger women enjoyable? I feel like it would just feel weird. Maybe I'm just not open minded?
I made this thread because I always hear women complaining about stuff like this but then they go up to me and are like "aren't you happy u aren't a girl?" I'm just thinking "wut, girls have this stuff way easier. Even ugly autistic girls can get a bf with ease."
IDK man. I'm stressed the fuark out.
1. Balding, looks declining
2. People getitng married. starting families
3. Almost every girl has a LTR at my age
4. Women just aren't pretty in my age group
5. Feel like I missed my chance at love and now if I want a family, I will have to settle
6. Women's standards are increasing. When you're young you can get away with a lot. I.E. being shy,**** job, bad social skills, skinny or w/e. At my age it's a death sentence.
7. Friends become too busy with their LTRs
8. You become that creepy single man
People say age doesn't matter for guys. You can bang young girls into your 40s. But I don't want to bang young girls. I want a loving wife to spend the rest of my life with. I missed my best years with her and she has been taken by someone else at this point. All that is left for me is trash. Is dating younger women enjoyable? I feel like it would just feel weird. Maybe I'm just not open minded?
I made this thread because I always hear women complaining about stuff like this but then they go up to me and are like "aren't you happy u aren't a girl?" I'm just thinking "wut, girls have this stuff way easier. Even ugly autistic girls can get a bf with ease."
IDK man. I'm stressed the fuark out.
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03-18-2021, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted By _zman⏩
Great point. I barely remember my oneitis and it hasn't even been 3 years. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and it doesn't even matter anymre. Memories mean nothing. All that matters is now.As you age most of the memories fade away anyways.
03-18-2021, 08:43 PM
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My biggest regret is that i've never had a prper relationship.. the longest relationship i had was 7 months and im 27. i guess i missed out on that. but ye i see people my age buying houses with their gf getting married and ****... oh well.
There's kids born deaf and blind and with autism it could be worse OP.
There's kids born deaf and blind and with autism it could be worse OP.
03-18-2021, 09:00 PM
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Your biggest problem isn't your age. It's your beta mindset.
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Chads in their 30s/40s are still banging women in their early 20s. They don't care if you're alpha and handsome. Some old crusty post-glow feminists might give them **** for it, but other than that, there are no issues.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
03-18-2021, 09:07 PM
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Misc is a sad place nowadays. Mid to late 20s you need to start pursuing ideal women who can help you raise a family. I'm married and get pussy more often then you so called bachelors. Handjobs and BJs when she's on the rag. Two beautiful kids.
That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.
Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?
Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.
Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?
Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
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03-18-2021, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Liberal3lite⏩
I guess my issue is it wouldn't feel like love if there was an age gap. There is a connection you feel with people your age that no one else can replace. I don't get it really.Chads in their 30s/40s are still banging women in their early 20s. They don't care if you're alpha and handsome. Some old crusty post-glow feminists might give them **** for it, but other than that, there are no issues.
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Wtf are you guys complaining about getting old? 27-33 is the best time for a man. You have money and still have youth. Less than that you have no money, older than 40 you have no youth.
Get on eHarmony and find a wife. Western culture is not set up for marriage so it kind of sucks. Look for a wife like it's a job. Have a list of the most important questions and be realistic, not fantasy land. Money is important and caring about it doesn't make someone shallow as it literally determines lifestyle, location, etc.
If 1 in 200 people are compatible enough for marriage then all you have to do is meet 200 women.
Have your list of most important questions: religion, money expectations, location, children, political leaning, education standards for children, supporting or not supporting parents, alcohol and drug usage, relations with opposite gender expectations, job or house wife, weight expectations (fat equal divorce), titty size.
You will quickly get through 50-60 and narrow down the list. Don't even look at the chick in immodest clothing during the search. Look at face and fat or not fat. That's it, don't let your dick get a chance to interfere with the wife finding process.
Get on eHarmony and find a wife. Western culture is not set up for marriage so it kind of sucks. Look for a wife like it's a job. Have a list of the most important questions and be realistic, not fantasy land. Money is important and caring about it doesn't make someone shallow as it literally determines lifestyle, location, etc.
If 1 in 200 people are compatible enough for marriage then all you have to do is meet 200 women.
Have your list of most important questions: religion, money expectations, location, children, political leaning, education standards for children, supporting or not supporting parents, alcohol and drug usage, relations with opposite gender expectations, job or house wife, weight expectations (fat equal divorce), titty size.
You will quickly get through 50-60 and narrow down the list. Don't even look at the chick in immodest clothing during the search. Look at face and fat or not fat. That's it, don't let your dick get a chance to interfere with the wife finding process.
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