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post 1634136253 03-19-2021, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy
Misc is a sad place nowadays. Mid to late 20s you need to start pursuing ideal women who can help you raise a family. I'm married and get pussy more often then you so called bachelors. Handjobs and BJs when she's on the rag. Two beautiful kids.

That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.

Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?

Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
Calling others puzzy as you won’t fuk your wife on the rag. Just lol
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post 1634136533 03-19-2021, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Dmoc23
The end game would be owning a nice house in a nice area, having decent cars, and enough in savings for freedom/life experiences. If you’ve got all this in your mid 40s and stayed in good shape, you’ll be able to pull a gal in her mid 20s no problem.
I have this in my mid 30s, and there's no age limit from interested womenz. It'll be the same into my 40s, perhaps better since I'll have more money.
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post 1634136853 03-19-2021, 09:45 AM
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Only 25 but don't care so far. Only getting better looking each year. Hair is NW0, probably never changing. Still f*cking 18yr old girls, and hotter ones than I f*cked when I was 18 myself.

I am conflicted though. I can continue to just get new pussy for the foreseeable future, but I do want a family, love, all that. The problem is marriage. It's an absolute joke. Nothing is ever certain with women. No matter how handsome and rich you are, how much drip you have, how big your d*ck is, it doesn't matter. Women can still women. I'm a big boy, I can handle L's when they come my way and move on to someone new without caring too much. But when you throw alimony, child support, settlements, custody arrangements, etc. in to the mix... It's just a bad deal. Not one that I'm sure I'm willing to accept. So what's the solution? If you have kids outside of marriage they're going to probably be weird ****s with mental issues. And marriage is such a strong norm that good luck locking down a young, attractive virgin from a decent family permanently and having kids with her without marrying her. If a single guy on misc has such an arrangement, lmk
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post 1634136953 03-19-2021, 09:46 AM
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Worrying about your age is just cope to the real things bothering you. Likely your social life is lacking.

You can be in the best shape of your life and girls will be turned off by a friendless guy with no social life. Focus on making your life more fun and stimulating and women will fall into your lap if you aren't ugly.

Easier said than done
post 1634137323 03-19-2021, 09:51 AM
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fuking stupid man. there are plenty of good looking women aged 22-27 you could date right now and look for marriage if you wanted to (or could). you are acting like you are 50 and there are no options left
post 1634137773 03-19-2021, 09:55 AM
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You’re 27 OP lmao

Snap out of it
post 1634138223 03-19-2021, 10:02 AM
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Man you've gotta stay off of social media. I can already tell you're one of those types who scrolls Instagram all day.

Just live your good life and someone will pop into it at the right time.
post 1634138613 03-19-2021, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted By wave_length
Well ofc you get a younger woman when you want to settle down, why miss out on one of men's biggest advantages?
This, don’t cash out your chips too early unless you find a really great high quality woman.

You’ll have higher SMV in your 30s/40s if you make the right choices now.

A woman however should try cash out her chips before 30. SMV declining.
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post 1634139183 03-19-2021, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
Just came to tell you that I´m 25 and I have plenty of options that realistically are not bad at all, but I´m too stubborn to accept them, so don´t get scared. You can always find someone.

2nd, I like bald guys, there are women who like bald guys.

3rd, focus on making money, it´s more important than anything else. Most women still want a provider if they marry.
You’re a woman, the equation is completely different. Making money doesn’t impact your SMV much. Youth does.

If you wanna focus on career/money, go for it. But don’t expect it to impact your SMV like it does with men. It’s still good for other life reasons obviously.
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post 1634139803 03-19-2021, 10:21 AM
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Lucifer how can I get as swole as you? I don't even care if I die in the process. tired of living this ldar life.
post 1634140173 03-19-2021, 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
You’re a woman, the equation is completely different. Making money doesn’t impact your SMV much. Youth does.

If you wanna focus on career/money, go for it. But don’t expect it to impact your SMV like it does with men. It’s still good for other life reasons obviously.
Roxy is either another dustin/SS alt or well on her way to crazy cat lady land just like them.
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post 1634140733 03-19-2021, 10:33 AM
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Know that feel brah. I’m 30 now with a good steady girl. Checks literally all the boxes. Been together 2 months and she hasn’t done anything to annoy me yet.. Great job, cooks, cleans, voted for trump, 27 years old, blows me whenever.

Only thing I can think of is I wish her tits were bigger. But other than that I’m in love
post 1634141443 03-19-2021, 10:40 AM
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Stressed? No but concerned ya

-old for a female, 30 in July
-was going to try to conceive this year, husbands cancer came back, he’s already had kids and is 36. Cancer at this stage has only a 60% survival rate in the next 5 years
-I don’t think I’ll ever get to have a child
-well at least I have animals and step kids
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post 1634141663 03-19-2021, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus
Stressed? No but concerned ya

-old for a female, 30 in July
-was going to try to conceive this year, husbands cancer came back, he’s already had kids and is 36. Cancer at this stage has only a 60% survival rate in the next 5 years
-I don’t think I’ll ever get to have a child
-well at least I have animals and step kids
Jeez I’m so sorry to hear
post 1634142233 03-19-2021, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus
Stressed? No but concerned ya

-old for a female, 30 in July
-was going to try to conceive this year, husbands cancer came back, he’s already had kids and is 36. Cancer at this stage has only a 60% survival rate in the next 5 years
-I don’t think I’ll ever get to have a child
-well at least I have animals and step kids
is your husband circumcised? would you circumcise your kids?
post 1634142613 03-19-2021, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus
Stressed? No but concerned ya

-old for a female, 30 in July
-was going to try to conceive this year, husbands cancer came back, he’s already had kids and is 36. Cancer at this stage has only a 60% survival rate in the next 5 years
-I don’t think I’ll ever get to have a child
-well at least I have animals and step kids
Sorry to hear, srs. Hope he recovers, rooting for you.
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post 1634142733 03-19-2021, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By cazzo1
Jeez I’m so sorry to hear
all in all even if I could go back in time I wouldn’t. I love my hubby and my little adopted family :] I live with my best friend and despite everything he’s always positive and brave. He faces everyday with gratitude and faith.
Originally Posted By wave_length
Sorry to hear, srs. Hope he recovers, rooting for you.
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post 1634150093 03-19-2021, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By snailsrus
Stressed? No but concerned ya

-old for a female, 30 in July
-was going to try to conceive this year, husbands cancer came back, he’s already had kids and is 36. Cancer at this stage has only a 60% survival rate in the next 5 years
-I don’t think I’ll ever get to have a child
-well at least I have animals and step kids
Sorry to hear that

This might seem ignorant, but may I ask why you won't have a child? Is it the stress of the treatment, finances, lack of external support, risk...
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post 1634161983 03-19-2021, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Dmoc23
The end game would be owning a nice house in a nice area, having decent cars, and enough in savings for freedom/life experiences. If you’ve got all this in your mid 40s and stayed in good shape, you’ll be able to pull a gal in her mid 20s no problem.
If you're killing it in your 40s, you probably also have significant debt (ex. mortgage, lease payments etc) that needs to be paid off (and will be paid off). This also means you work long hours. And most career oriented people don't slow down in their 40s, maybe in their 60s (if even that).

I'm literally surrounded by dozens of such people daily in my work. Everyone makes 6 figures and has lots of stuff. Though no one has that kind of bachelor lifestyle you're picturing. You won't force physical attraction via assets.
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Originally Posted By snailsrus
Stressed? No but concerned ya

-old for a female, 30 in July
-was going to try to conceive this year, husbands cancer came back, he’s already had kids and is 36. Cancer at this stage has only a 60% survival rate in the next 5 years
-I don’t think I’ll ever get to have a child
-well at least I have animals and step kids
Sorry to hear. I hope everything goes well.
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How are so many miscers balding in their 20s? Lay off the celltech. What good is muscles if you have no hair?
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Yes and no. I never planned on having a family anyway, and am genetically pretty fukking ill-equipped to attract women. I'm just naturally bad at it the same way a 5'4" manlet brah is going to be naturally bad at basketball. So sitting outside of the game is pretty ****ing easy.

But I still have a functioning sex drive, and seeing girls my age (25) fading in glow and slowly starting to sag just fukking kills me. Manlet into tall girls crew, I was walking by a fukkin volleyball net at the beach last weekend and when some 6'2" high school age girls went playing there in short shorts? Almost fukking snapped my neck from turning and staring so hard. Then I realized that while my chances of getting those girls was nevergood, that door was now closed for good short of paying for it.
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Originally Posted By FA*******
Yes and no. I never planned on having a family anyway, and am genetically pretty fukking ill-equipped to attract women. I'm just naturally bad at it the same way a 5'4" manlet brah is going to be naturally bad at basketball. So sitting outside of the game is pretty ****ing easy.

But I still have a functioning sex drive, and seeing girls my age (25) fading in glow and slowly starting to sag just fukking kills me. Manlet into tall girls crew, I was walking by a fukkin volleyball net at the beach last weekend and when some 6'2" high school age girls went playing there in short shorts? Almost fukking snapped my neck from turning and staring so hard. Then I realized that while my chances of getting those girls was nevergood, that door was now closed for good short of paying for it.
saddest **** ive ever read brother. 5'4 is death. hope all is well
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Originally Posted By imbored21
5'4 is death
incel moron lmao
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
incel moron lmao
lmao did she take her birth control today??
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im definitely running into a lot more women who basically next me when they find out my job isnt great.
when I was in mid 20s , none really cared.. Now they expect me to have my own business etc..
thats fine. they will see that love isnt about money eventually.. but by then.. they will be too old so theyl have to lower their standards again
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
im definitely running into a lot more women who basically next me when they find out my job isnt great.
when I was in mid 20s , none really cared.. Now they expect me to have my own business etc..
thats fine. they will see that love isnt about money eventually.. but by then.. they will be too old so theyl have to lower their standards again
that is really sad to here considering most girls have **** jobs as well. like a secretary making $18/hr wants a fighter pilot lmao
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
im definitely running into a lot more women who basically next me when they find out my job isnt great.
when I was in mid 20s , none really cared.. Now they expect me to have my own business etc..
thats fine. they will see that love isnt about money eventually.. but by then.. they will be too old so theyl have to lower their standards again
That’s because with older women it isn’t so much about ‘love’ but more so the resources you can give them and how useful you are in maintaining a house and raising a family.

Hence, why we’re saying it’s better to build a relationship younger when the relationship is less transactional
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Originally Posted By Dmoc23
That’s because with older women it isn’t so much about ‘love’ but more so the resources you can give them and how useful you are in maintaining a house and raising a family.

Hence, why we’re saying it’s better to build a relationship younger when the relationship is less transactional
It may be less “transactional” in the overt sense when younger (although it’s still transactional), but as the women gets older she’ll have the same desires.

Many women date the cool musician guy in college, and then dump the “loser” when wanting to build a stable home.
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Dude I’m 40 and get carded for booze but as soon as you get a bit older you get girls won’t date you because that’s weird. I’ve hooked up with a few 25-26 year olds here and there but they come from a different era of time. Don’t even know who guns and roses or Metallica were. Into stupid protests and stuff. This country is hopeless. They are even adding some race class in public schools now teaching people that whites are racist and superior and to hate police and white Americans. It’s officially the end of this country
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