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post 1634351213 03-22-2021, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes fear of disabled or special needs child is a big reason for me too. I would be completely miserable. Idk how people can just assume their kids will be healthy. The risk is terrifying to me.
I started my career working with special needs people and they should be called "impossible needs" kids.

It was my observation that having one will drive some people insane.

It's endless chaos, like owning a monkey.

Even weirder is that some types like Downs people can talk, but none of their ideas are rational. So, you're dealing with a talking irrational person who are too stupid to know they're irrational, but thinks they're dead serious and correct.

Stupid people think they're smart, and so they are endless trouble.
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post 1634351293 03-22-2021, 10:51 AM
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All these bros on the misc talking about not having kids, in the next breath will talk about white genocide and the fall of western civilization but can't make the connection from their nihilism and the rot of society but blame something external like liberals or immigrants
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I struggle with the concept of having kids knowing how brutal life is
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post 1634351583 03-22-2021, 10:56 AM
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I'm too selfish to have kids and I don't see myself sacrificing my personal space for anyone. If one day that changes, then I might be inclined to have kids, but I doubt it'll happen.
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I've met bunch of old people who decided to not have kids and they always regret it.
post 1634351923 03-22-2021, 11:00 AM
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The antinatalism zeitgeist in the western world is highly - highly disturbing
post 1634352023 03-22-2021, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted By hammerman1964⏩
I've met bunch of old people who decided to not have kids and they always regret it.
You don’t think there’s any people out there who regret having kids?

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t
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Originally Posted By dave437⏩
The antinatalism zeitgeist in the western world is highly - highly disturbing
We live in a world where drug cartels chainsaw people in half and you think antinatalism is disturbing?

You’d be insane, a sociopath, or an ignoramus if you hadn’t ever considered antinatalism in your lifetime
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post 1634352553 03-22-2021, 11:09 AM
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Watch this video. It's an old woman explaning her situation when she decided not to have kids.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShttAt5xtto&t=3755s
post 1634352693 03-22-2021, 11:12 AM
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post 1634352893 03-22-2021, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah that is so weird to me too. Being a doctor or lawyer or consultant or banker etc is considered a highly successful life. But those people are working long miserable hours and are exhausted all the time. I don’t understand how that is supposed to be something to strive for as a successful life.
Status and money.

Some people have a genuine passion for their jobs too. But that’s more likely to be the exception rather than the norm.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah they do get status and money but they are working ALL the time and are stressed out ALL the time. Idk how that is something to strive for.
I don't want long hours and have passed up on job opportunities that would have me on conference calls from 7am to 9pm. Been there, done that.

I don't think having a child who is a wagecel is causing them to be miserable over their life. Some love their jobs and they are giving back to the community. Remember in the 1800s that people didn't have convenience appliances, so women were working around the clock cooking and doing housework back then. It's not like times were easier.
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No matter how shyt my day went if I just tell myself “at least you don’t have kids”. Then I instantly feel better.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah that is so weird to me too. Being a doctor or lawyer or consultant or banker etc is considered a highly successful life. But those people are working long miserable hours and are exhausted all the time. I don’t understand how that is supposed to be something to strive for as a successful life.
I have worked 16 and 17 hours days, sometimes more.

In one job I had last year I was doing 80 weeks, it was crazy.

I am extremely dedicated and recently I had considered getting a cat, and I'm like, do I really have to will power to love a cat right now? I need to wait until the gf returns to live with me to get a cat.

Meanwhile, if a cat walked up to the door I would probably love it.

The one person here said all of this is due to "status and money" and that's a beta response. When you have massive responsibilities, you're like a priest in your field. You are giving to the community and you can't stop.

In the healthcare field you must continue until the job is done. Today I was dealing with a suicidal kid and I had to go at it for hours after quitting time, and I had no food at all, but you can't be like, I need a burger, brb. You have to just act like you're okay and keep at it. Then, after I ate I got super sleepy, then went home and wrote all the documents, passed out during writing the last one, woke up, finished, then fell asleep again.

After that, I have art projects that need work and I watched a movie.

Meanwhile, I'm hoping the suicide kid is okay.
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem⏩
I'm too selfish to have kids and I don't see myself sacrificing my personal space for anyone. If one day that changes, then I might be inclined to have kids, but I doubt it'll happen.
I agree and see this as a reason I don't want kids, I am selfish with my money and even more so my free time. However I think that comes more down to just someone's personal desire to have kids. I mean I know parents who love to give up their free time for their kids, while others have become alcoholics and would do anything for a day to themselves. If you truly want children you would be happy to give up your free time for them, no matter how selfish you are.
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Originally Posted By QuickShotSteve⏩
i've noticed the only ones who dont want kids in the USA right now are whites. Every other group of people still have kids like normal. I think its a combo of both white guilt, and white people not wanting their children to be 'tax slaves'/re-educated that they are bad. Everything is anti white, and it is making people feel bad. I know i dont want my white children being taught they are bad because of how they were born. I wish education went back to teaching that everyone is equal not white man bad. ded fckn srs
It's because white men aren't known for having game and judging from the misc in large part depressed, anti social, and suicidal. Not to mention many white men climbing clock towers and killing innocent people on a regular basis now for the past 20+ years.

If you do meet a white man with kids chances are he is a cuckold 1 in 4 married Anglo men are.
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Hate kids crew . Probably because I was never Chad and ended up picking fruit from the bottom of the tree, which involved unwed mothers .
Having to deal with some sloots undisciplined brat was daunting, and not worth her sweat hole .
If I was a young man in this day and age , I wouldn’t even consider children . The worlds too fuked already ,and only going to get much worse
Lol ,and Bottom Feeder... i have 1 kid which i was 21 years old when she was born

she is the best Girl/daughter ,very independent never was a Follower always a Leader . i could of had 5 by now ,but aborted them because I wanted to remain young and free Chad. this life is short and you will be left behind all alone. if you are a Manlet then stay childless only 6'4 kangz in this new world
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Originally Posted By dave437⏩
The antinatalism zeitgeist in the western world is highly - highly disturbing
its also true. Our lives are empty and overall not worthwhile so why would continue the cycle
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
Fuk no. Never have and never will. My sleep schedule sucks dink half the time as it is.... you think it would be fun to wake up 7 times every night to a crying baby? I'd rather literally blow my brains out. SRS. brb make over 100k and still feel poor without any wife/kids/bullsht
It's true though. I make over $100k gross this year at 25 in a lower-middle CoL area and I'm still thinking I'm not making enough. I say that as a dude with no kids, but does have a GF. Unless the GF makes $50k+, and plans to work their adult life, marriage would otherwise feel like a burden. Kids too. Taxes for being married, and having kids, is nice, but it doesn't make up nearly enough for the costs along the way.

I'm the type that would calculate the total cost of the kid from Age 0-18, including food/bills/schooling/healthcare/clothing/vacations/car/college, and realize holy chit I could've retired like a decade sooner instead.
Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩
Yeah I definitely don't want kids. I want to find a partner and ideally marry them, but I just don't want to deal with the hassle of raising kids. I'd rather save the time and money to do stuff with my partner and retire earlier without putting unnecessary strain on our relationship. On top of that I could never deal with the diaper changing stuff.
I'd probably puke at the diaper changing crap. A companion in life who is on the same page would be interesting though.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
its also true. Our lives are empty and overall not worthwhile so why would continue the cycle
Idk why you post like this is even an option for you. Same as SS.
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I started my career working with special needs people and they should be called "impossible needs" kids.

It was my observation that having one will drive some people insane.

It's endless chaos, like owning a monkey.

Even weirder is that some types like Downs people can talk, but none of their ideas are rational. So, you're dealing with a talking irrational person who are too stupid to know they're irrational, but thinks they're dead serious and correct.

Stupid people think they're smart, and so they are endless trouble.
Had to read again , thought you were describing the Misc
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Originally Posted By XcelerateNYC⏩
Idk why you post like this is even an option for you. Same as SS.
I still have an answer and I think its a big topic of modern times because of the birth rates
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Originally Posted By dave437⏩
The antinatalism zeitgeist in the western world is highly - highly disturbing
If you are rich then having kids make sense to pass down your wealth. But if you are some working class pleb having kids is the last thing you should do.

The amount of time and money that raising kids requires will be too much on your meager wage not to mention you already have no freetime outside your wageslaving job.

All for what? To bring in the next generation of wageslaves that the upper class will exploit and use up?
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