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post 1634510353 03-24-2021, 08:57 AM
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The more sexual partners people have, the harder it is to settle down

Ill use the vacation analogy.

If you only go on a few vacations, you appreciate every aspect of them.

But once you get to a certain threshold, your appreciation diminshes:

X place had a better beach
Y place had a better bar
Z place had a better view
...even if the Q place you are currently at is still pretty nice.

You would've appreciated Q more if it was only one of the few vacation spots you've been to.
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Everyone who settles down is unhappy, fat and lonely and their wife cheats, because they don't respect their fat hubbys ass.

This is what awaits most miscers if I'm being honest.
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I'd like to think there's hope. Cure your sex addiction and the world opens up.
If any of you need to chat, PM me. I'm here for you boyos.
Life is weird :)
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
I'd like to think there's hope. Cure your sex addiction and the world opens up.
Go on my friend
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post 1634512363 03-24-2021, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
I'd like to think there's hope. Cure your sex addiction and the world opens up.
and how does one cure a sex addiction?? Pls share...
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post 1634513203 03-24-2021, 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
Go on my friend
Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
and how does one cure a sex addiction?? Pls share...
Stop using sex/fapping as an escape. When you catch yourself reaching out to a sloot try to observe what you are doing and try catching what it is you are avoiding. The more you become aware of your avoiding of issues the easier itll be to make better decisions.

It'll help being more present with your partner.

I also dunno what im talking about.

If you youtube the "Addicted to Love" podcast, it actually helped me a lot. I feel its more geared towards chicks but I'm sure miscers are smart/creative enough to extract some wisdom from it.
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Life is weird :)
post 1634513433 03-24-2021, 09:37 AM
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And the less you have, the constant thoughts of "what if" and wanting/wishing you had more, making you unhappy in your current relationship and more likely to step outside of it


there is no winning.
post 1634513623 03-24-2021, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
And the less you have, the constant thoughts of "what if" and wanting/wishing you had more, making you unhappy in your current relationship and more likely to step outside of it


there is no winning.
Is that what you're dealing with? All my friends who've been with their gfs from highschool dont have these issues.
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post 1634513903 03-24-2021, 09:43 AM
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No, it's when you have had enough experiences where something that seemed so perfect when so horrid that you are wary to get too involved.

Stock theory: If every time you invested into a stock, it ended up crashing and you ended up getting no return, would you keep investing? Hell no.
post 1634514183 03-24-2021, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
Stop using sex/fapping as an escape. When you catch yourself reaching out to a sloot try to observe what you are doing and try catching what it is you are avoiding. The more you become aware of your avoiding of issues the easier itll be to make better decisions.

It'll help being more present with your partner.

I also dunno what im talking about.

If you youtube the "Addicted to Love" podcast, it actually helped me a lot. I feel its more geared towards chicks but I'm sure miscers are smart/creative enough to extract some wisdom from it.
By Aleah Ava? Being on dating apps the past few years has fukd me. Constantly looking for something better. Did this during my two year relationship that just ended
"Stop sitting back saying yeah man, I wanna be this, I wanna be that, grab your phucking nuts and be it" -Greg Plitt

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post 1634514303 03-24-2021, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
Is that what you're dealing with? All my friends who've been with their gfs from highschool dont have these issues.
Not currently, but in my late 20's....yes.

Oh, ALL of them? and how may exactly is that? and how old are they currently? Some people don't miss what they don't know but I'm willing to bet they are in the vast minority, especially in today's oversexualized world. I also believe that you have to be a little "simple/uneducated/uncultured/never leave your hometown/vanilla" (not saying these in any sort of offensive way) to be able to pull this off.

I've known countless people/friends that had been together since 15/16 only to break up in their mid 20's and go fukking nuts sexually.

Also, just because they don't talk about it or you don't know about it doesn't mean they aren't dealing with this issue.
post 1634514803 03-24-2021, 09:54 AM
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This is true. But I think it’s deeper than that. I think sex is a spiritual thing. When you fk around and have meaningless sex over and over again you become soul less imo. Why do you think porn stars men included are fked up? You think they would be the happiest people ever. It’s the opposite. There’s something spiritual about sex. When a girl gets dicked down by random ducks she ends up
Becoming fked up in the head we all know this. But something happens to the guy as well....
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post 1634514863 03-24-2021, 09:55 AM
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You have to have enough experiences good or bad to know what you need and what you're looking for but not the point that you become jaded and unable to pair bond or stay in a monogamous relationship.

Stay away from used up sloots, don't become a man whore and you'll be fine.
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Originally Posted By CalmYerSwag⏩
This is true. But I think it’s deeper than that. I think sex is a spiritual thing. When you fk around and have meaningless sex over and over again you become soul less imo. Why do you think porn stars men included are fked up? You think they would be the happiest people ever. It’s the opposite. There’s something spiritual about sex. When a girl gets dicked down by random ducks she ends up
Becoming fked up in the head we all know this. But something happens to the guy as well....
Hence why most whore/escorts are fukked up in the head, unable to sustain a healthy relationship or build a family. I know, I've tried to be a captain save a hoe. Too much dink fries their brains and after a certain amount there's a point of no return where the chick is permanently damaged.
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Originally Posted By denrocks1⏩
I 100% get that the ability to "pair-bond" decreases with an increase of sexual partners for women more so than men BUT lets not forget that a "Stable" marriage does not necessarily equate to happiness.
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That's why I don't trust women who are travelcels.
A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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This is why women 30+ are in a paradox


Their value is declining by the day

The best guys they could get was when they were younger, and the value of the guys going forward will be lower

With enough partners she will have dated guys who no doubt made more money than you, was smoother, had a motorcycle , taller, better body, etc. now any one of those guys didn’t have it all, but you’ll be compared to them like they did


And that also doesn’t include the fact that your brain is positively triggered by NEW experiences. You’ll always have a special place in your hearts for a lot of firsts. You can date a woman for YEARS and she may never have as intense a feeling for you as she did for that one night stand from a rain soaked night while backpacking abroad in Portugal



From a guys POV it’s also true. Been with enough women you realize they are all the same more or less. And if they aren’t special then really being with them isnt special
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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩
By Aleah Ava? Being on dating apps the past few years has fukd me. Constantly looking for something better. Did this during my two year relationship that just ended
Yeep. It’s not magic but she offers some interesting views. It’s really repetitive but I don’t mind.
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Originally Posted By CalmYerSwag⏩
This is true. But I think it’s deeper than that. I think sex is a spiritual thing. When you fk around and have meaningless sex over and over again you become soul less imo. Why do you think porn stars men included are fked up? You think they would be the happiest people ever. It’s the opposite. There’s something spiritual about sex. When a girl gets dicked down by random ducks she ends up
Becoming fked up in the head we all know this. But something happens to the guy as well....
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
That's why I don't trust women who are travelcels.
truth
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Originally Posted By orangetide⏩
Ill use the vacation analogy.

If you only go on a few vacations, you appreciate every aspect of them.

But once you get to a certain threshold, your appreciation diminshes:

X place had a better beach
Y place had a better bar
Z place had a better view
...even if the Q place you are currently at is still pretty nice.

You would've appreciated Q more if it was only one of the few vacation spots you've been to.
I realized this when I was a kid. I used to say, I don't want to use people like I'd use a kleenex.

It's the same deal.

My friend called me a "Demisexual" because I'm only attracted to people I have an emotional connection with.

Personally, I do not know how you could want to have sex with a person you might hate or might be crazy. So, I need to know that person.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

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true. Thats why youre fked if u have a small penor. Guaranteed shes been with guys who are much bigger
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Originally Posted By GeezersPalace⏩
Everyone who settles down is unhappy, fat and lonely and their wife cheats, because they don't respect their fat hubbys ass.

This is what awaits most miscers if I'm being honest.
"settling" is codeword for dying.
long marriages are IDEAL as long as ur fire in ur heart is fed by ascending.
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
And the less you have, the constant thoughts of "what if" and wanting/wishing you had more, making you unhappy in your current relationship and more likely to step outside of it


there is no winning.
true-ish.
too few partners creates the same mentality w/ post 2000's.
exaggerated after 2011ish (zyzz + REAL REDPILL (not conservative republican "redpills" on the chinese and COVID) was a male sexuality meme bc that's the time we are living
more on display now in 2021 but same
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Not currently, but in my late 20's....yes.

Oh, ALL of them? and how may exactly is that? and how old are they currently? Some people don't miss what they don't know but I'm willing to bet they are in the vast minority, especially in today's oversexualized world. I also believe that you have to be a little "simple/uneducated/uncultured/never leave your hometown/vanilla" (not saying these in any sort of offensive way) to be able to pull this off.

I've known countless people/friends that had been together since 15/16 only to break up in their mid 20's and go fukking nuts sexually.

Also, just because they don't talk about it or you don't know about it doesn't mean they aren't dealing with this issue.
sadly true
Originally Posted By denrocks1⏩
outdated stats + misleading stats.
but still somewhat true + useful.
Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
You have to have enough experiences good or bad to know what you need and what you're looking for but not the point that you become jaded and unable to pair bond or stay in a monogamous relationship.

Stay away from used up sloots, don't become a man whore and you'll be fine.
true
Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Hence why most whore/escorts are fukked up in the head,unable to sustain a healthy relationship or build a family. I know, I've tried to be a captain save a hoe.Too much dink fries their brains and after a certain amount there's a point of no return where the chick is permanently damaged.
true. a lot of chicks like that have a victim mentality + have a more pesstimistic/nihilistic view on life.
also the "captain save a hoe" is a narrative she creates by expressing emotional damage + high sexuality.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
That's why I don't trust women who are travelcels.
fair srs
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I realized this when I was a kid. I used to say, I don't want to use people like I'd use a kleenex.

It's the same deal.

My friend called me a "Demisexual" because I'm only attracted to people I have an emotional connection with.

Personally, I do not know how you could want to have sex with a person you might hate or might be crazy. So, I need to know that person.
Mirin’. I’ve only realized this in past couple years.

Before then I didn’t take sex very seriously. I could have sex with whoever so why not?
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Originally Posted By GeezersPalace⏩
Everyone who settles down is unhappy, fat and lonely and their wife cheats, because they don't respect their fat hubbys ass.

This is what awaits most miscers if I'm being honest.
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