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post 1634635223 03-25-2021, 05:34 PM
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How is monogamy a thing?

Were men (and women, I guess...) designed to be with one person for the rest of their lives? I get there are some really strong marriages out there, but the majority of married guys are miserable.

I am recently single and I’ve done a lot of thinking while talking to multiple girls (and no commitments) that I get a damn rush out of it and love it. Maybe it’s me but eventually I get tired of one girl, so I move on to another or I look for another challenge. I get that marriage is a sacred establishment and you’re supposed to fight for, support and love your partner forever but were we really designed that way?
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post 1634635603 03-25-2021, 05:40 PM
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Romans invented it and everyone quickly copied when they realized how useful it was for empire/civilization building.

When you engage almost every male in your cause and harvest his labor in trade for a single piece of poon, chit gets built at warp speed. Armies, infrastructure, religions, etc. Look how far humans advanced in the past 3k years vs. the prior 197k years.

Now that monogamy is all but over, it will become more and more difficult to capture labor from lower ranking men. That's where onlyfans comes in and fills that void ded srs.
post 1634635793 03-25-2021, 05:43 PM
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I don’t think there’s any rules set in stone-unless you’re religious. Some people aren’t built for monogamy for life, and that’s okay, just be upfront and leave the relationship gracefully when you’re no longer interested.
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Imagine having 5 wives and you come home and none of them have even started dinner.
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Originally Posted By chivasregal
I get that marriage is a sacred establishment and you’re supposed to fight for, support and love your partner forever but were we really designed that way?
Some of us are, and some of us aren't. End of story.

It really sounds like you enjoy the novelty of new women, and that's understandable. I think you'll eventually get tired of it after you've had your fun though.

Personally, I think everyone should "play the field" a bit before settling down. It'll keep those "what if there's something better out there" feelings at bay.
post 1634637663 03-25-2021, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178
Imagine having 5 wives and you come home and none of them have even started dinner.
worst deal in the history of trade deals. now imagine no dinner and they are all cheating on you....
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post 1634638113 03-25-2021, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178
Imagine having 5 wives and you come home and none of them have even started dinner.
Originally Posted By TonyTriangles
worst deal in the history of trade deals. now imagine no dinner and they are all cheating on you....
And the house is a mess. And they're all bored chitless and spending your money on pointless chit.

Stick with three, blonde, brunette, redhead.
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post 1634638843 03-25-2021, 06:29 PM
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Monogamy is pretty much coming to an end. The nuclear family is dying and women are riding the cock carousel like never before.

Plenty of married women are banging other guys whether their husbands know it or not. In our feminist-driven gynocentic society, women are taught it is empowering to ride as many dicks as possible.

The only problem is that with hypergamy in full force, only the top 20 or 30 percent of men will be having all the sex. This is why prostitution needs to be legalized in all 50 states as soon as possible.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
post 1634639323 03-25-2021, 06:35 PM
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post 1634639793 03-25-2021, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Romans invented it and everyone quickly copied when they realized how useful it was for empire/civilization building.

When you engage almost every male in your cause and harvest his labor in trade for a single piece of poon, chit gets built at warp speed. Armies, infrastructure, religions, etc. Look how far humans advanced in the past 3k years vs. the prior 197k years.

Now that monogamy is all but over, it will become more and more difficult to capture labor from lower ranking men. That's where onlyfans comes in and fills that void ded srs.
Interested in you expanding a bit more here...
post 1634640443 03-25-2021, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By inspectionstare
Interested in you expanding a bit more here...
Marriage was orginally invented as kind of a business transaction.


The first recorded evidence of marriage ceremonies uniting one woman and one man dates from about 2350 B.C., in Mesopotamia. Over the next several hundred years, marriage evolved into a widespread institution embraced by the ancient Hebrews, Greeks, and Romans.


Marriage comes from Middle English which was first seen in 1250-1300 CE. ... The main goal of marriage, earlier on, was to act as an alliance between families. Throughout history, and even today, families arranged marriages for couples. Most couples didn't marry because they were in love, but for economic liaisons.


Marriage has historically occurred to join two people and two families. ... In many cultures, it's more of a business transaction than being about love and commitment. Regardless of why a marriage occurs, it is ultimately the legal union of two people.
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post 1634640683 03-25-2021, 06:55 PM
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disregard females, acquire currency.
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takes 2 special kind of people, probably less than 10%
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post 1634642083 03-25-2021, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No we are not monogamous by nature.

Monogamy was installed by society and religion to control the people and control female sexuality.

Monogamy allocates a set of bobs and vagene to every man which gives him incentive to be a good worker bee.

Monogamy socializes sexuality. With capitalist sexuality all the bobs and vagene are belong to Chad and the worker bee wage slave men would lose incentive for productivity.
So why do women want to hang onto monogamy and marriage so much? I never understood that, outside of obvious financial stuff.
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Monogamy makes sense


Marriage doesn’t
post 1634642563 03-25-2021, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Dirtymanjames
Monogamy makes sense


Marriage doesn’t
Neither makes sense for Ape species.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No homo?
damn you got me, hmm ok maybe semi homo. shoutout to our ghey brahs. you do you.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
Neither makes sense for Ape species.
So do you think it's normal for a child to be raised by multiple mothers/fathers? Do you think if mummy had a new boyfriend every 6 months the child will grow up to mentally healthy?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No we are not monogamous by nature.

Monogamy was installed by society and religion to control the people and control female sexuality.

Monogamy allocates a set of bobs and vagene to every man which gives him incentive to be a good worker bee.

Monogamy socializes sexuality. With capitalist sexuality all the bobs and vagene are belong to Chad and the worker bee wage slave men would lose incentive for productivity.
i agree that it was created by society and religion to control people but dont get ahead of yourself, you are putting too much value in your pussy.... in the past, women were more or less used as currency because of their potential to provide children and to strengthen family alliances. marriage in itself controls sexuality for both the husband and wife since extramarital sex was commonly forbidden in most societies because of the consequences and disruption to the family unit.
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post 1634643133 03-25-2021, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Monogamy socializes sexuality. With capitalist sexuality all the bobs and vagene are belong to Chad and the worker bee wage slave men would lose incentive for productivity.
A very good point. I'm unemployed and I refuse to be a wageslave since I'm not getting any bobs and vagene. Other men without a romantic partner should quit their jobs too until the government figures out a way to fix the bull**** that's going on right now.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea
So do you think it's normal for a child to be raised by multiple mothers/fathers? Do you think if mummy had a new boyfriend every 6 months the child will grow up to mentally healthy?
we can already see how single parenting, bad decisions and lack of a father figure affects communities. take away their reliance on govt welfare benefits and they will instantly become 3rd world poverty
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Originally Posted By chivasregal
How is monogamy a thing?
TL;DR, *******. Noboy wanna fuk you lmao
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea
So do you think it's normal for a child to be raised by multiple mothers/fathers? Do you think if mummy had a new boyfriend every 6 months the child will grow up to mentally healthy?
Yes, children were raised communally for all of our history up until the past few thousand years. And there weren't really romantic relationships, either.

The Chads of the tribe would gangbang every female and then go back to whatever they were doing. Sloots have been slooting since humans were hairy enough to be used as wind indicators, boyo.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No we are not monogamous by nature.

Monogamy was installed by society and religion to control the people and control female sexuality.

Monogamy allocates a set of bobs and vagene to every man which gives him incentive to be a good worker bee.

Monogamy socializes sexuality. With capitalist sexuality all the bobs and vagene are belong to Chad and the worker bee wage slave men would lose incentive for productivity.
nah most girls wont be with a guy whos with another girl
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Originally Posted By ImUTI
nah most girls wont be with a guy whos with another girl
Well that's wrong.
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