I just realized something I’m actually mad scared of catching feels..
Is that commitment issues??

I realize I’ve done that with every girl. Like I don’t let the feelings come through. I’m holding back feelings and if I sit with it and be honest with myself, it’s because I’m scared of falling in love.
Like even that possibility.
And I’ve done that with every girl I’ve talked to.

Id love to dive in and fall in love, but idk..

Maybe i shouldn’t be talking to someone right now. They deserve someone who doesn’t hold back. Or am I meant to take it slow. Are other ppl like that?

This is why just being friends with girls is best for me.

If I really want some pussy I’ll get an escort, but the reason why I’ve been single for a while is because I don’t want to mess with ppl.




Can anyone relate lol. Feel like I’m ****ed.

Probably more people have commitment issues than do not, because most people have probably been hurt by someone they loved. It's a protection mechanism.

Try to work on it and communicate your feelings to any girl you begin to see a future with. She will probably understand and have a similar experience.

Yeah I normally get feels for a girl super into me then they leave me for some Tyrone that doesn't lift

If I had to pick between the emotional extremes of catching feels or blocking feels, I'd catch feels. Just keep your finances/assets as separate as possible in case things go bad

You might just be scared of investing your feeling in a girl and getting cucked. Half the girls i bang these days have a significant other so my sense of reality is probably pretty warped.

Same

And I've used this excuse all my life

If ever I start talking to them I get scared that things might become serious

So I bail

Been bail'in ever since

I was like this but sorted it out in the end cos it was silly as you are playing games in your own mind.

Best advice i have is have a few girls you are texting at once and then you won't be worrying about this one girl.

Me too brah. This is how I want to be too. But I catch myself blocking itThat’s just a waste of time for me.

Which is why I couldn’t do a fwb type thing cause one person is gonna catch some sorta feels.

I find myself doing things like not opening messages and not being that interested even though she’s a beautiful girl and is into me. & then at other times I’m like I like her let’s go further.

But I can feel the resistance there.

ever since i got me heart broken i try to block any feels

she was the best, man

My ex who I was in a long relationship with said i gave her mixed signals at the beginning and it created insecurity in her with me from the beginning. This ultimately fuked our relationship.

When we broke up it was because I was looking for something that i didn’t have in the relationship. I couldn’t figure out my feelings at the end either and suppressed them and she said I was confused. & she was right I loved her but i was suppressing those emotions at the end too.

Now a couple years later I’m realizing I’ve done it with every girl. She was just the unlucky one that was stuck with me for 5 years.

Most girls things just didn’t go anywhere and things fell through.

I remember when I was talking to a girl in college and she came over to “study” Made me food, we Hooked up. Then she stopped talking to me because she felt it wasn’t going to go anywhere.

My feels only tend to last 2 weeks