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post 1635044483 03-30-2021, 08:39 PM
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After how many dates is it no longer acceptable...

To end things over text message and it should be done in person? Seen this girl 4x and am not really feeling it.

Can I text or do I need to meet up?
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post 1635044783 03-30-2021, 08:41 PM
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hey look everyone Chad needs advice on pump and duping girls

In the end some small skull Indian ****** will marry her even though you used her like a sex doll then threw her away
post 1635045103 03-30-2021, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By ispxa
hey look everyone Chad needs advice on pump and duping girls

In the end some small skull Indian ****** will marry her even though you used her like a sex doll then threw her away
edited the op. Question still stands though
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post 1635045443 03-30-2021, 08:48 PM
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Women have no honour. They would do anything.

You can do the same or try to keep your dignity for your own reasons. Probably, things will go smoother for you with a cordial breakup.

An employee you let go with a severance and reference is less likely to sue than one who you fire heinously.
post 1635045593 03-30-2021, 08:51 PM
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Assuming you didn’t tell her you love her 4 times is still okay to say it through text imo.
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post 1635045633 03-30-2021, 08:51 PM
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Only seen 4x? Would just ghost lol
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post 1635045693 03-30-2021, 08:51 PM
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well you're going to break it off with her so do it however you like, she'll hate you regardless.

Its your decision so you do it how you feel.
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post 1635046143 03-30-2021, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By DimTriad
edited the op. Question still stands though
shut up normie im sick of you guys pumping and dumping girls then guys like me are expected to be happy with left overs
post 1635046393 03-30-2021, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By datclownbaby
Only seen 4x? Would just ghost lol
yeah but they weren’t just lame bar dates, they were either at my place or hers and she’s cooked for me twice
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well you're going to break it off with her so do it however you like, she'll hate you regardless.

Its your decision so you do it how you feel.
i hate being hated, but I think in person is the way to go here
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post 1635046423 03-30-2021, 09:00 PM
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post 1635046533 03-30-2021, 09:02 PM
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lol @ meeting up to end it

what world are you from?
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post 1635046563 03-30-2021, 09:03 PM
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End it by scheduling a date where you promise to pay for everything at her favorite restaurant and then show up one table over with a different lady.
post 1635046643 03-30-2021, 09:04 PM
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Neither. Call her and let her know. You obviously feel a text isn't enough but it seriously isnt serious enough to literally meet this bish to crush her dreams lmao

p.s. Text is enough
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post 1635046723 03-30-2021, 09:05 PM
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post 1635046753 03-30-2021, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx
lol @ meeting up to end it

what world are you from?
Apparently 1954, but I dont want to chit on OP for trying to be a good guy. He just needs to get with the times or he's going to be seriously crushed when the next girl doesn't extend him the same courtesy.
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post 1635046813 03-30-2021, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx
lol @ meeting up to end it

what world are you from?
i dunno dawg, I’ve often thought I’m too conscientious for my own good
Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet
End it by scheduling a date where you promise to pay for everything at her favorite restaurant and then show up one table over with a different lady.
nice
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post 1635046843 03-30-2021, 09:06 PM
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as long as you don’t live together
post 1635046953 03-30-2021, 09:08 PM
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You can just Ghost her and she will eventually get the hint.
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post 1635047313 03-30-2021, 09:14 PM
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Phone call would be better
post 1635047333 03-30-2021, 09:14 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
You can just Ghost her and she will eventually get the hint.
thing is if a chick did that to me I wouldn’t care at all yet I feel bad doing it to them
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post 1635048113 03-30-2021, 09:27 PM
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only 4 dates? text is fine imo

Meeting up is only required if she is your gf

I would call instead of text if we dated for a couple months
post 1635048123 03-30-2021, 09:27 PM
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Lol hearing about whitecels(American'ts) dating problems is the cringiest thing.
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post 1635048893 03-30-2021, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Not about the amount of dates but whether it’s a srs exclusive relationship. If it’s just casual dating it’s fine to end it by text imo.
this. who cares how you end anything that isn't a serious relationship.

you dont owe anyone anything up until that point
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post 1635048993 03-30-2021, 09:43 PM
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Do it over text. I wouldn’t ghost it’s kinda messed up lol
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4 dates -> texting is fine brother
post 1635049683 03-30-2021, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
Do it over text. I wouldn’t ghost it’s kinda messed up lol
agree. Texting seems to be the consensus so I guess that’s what I’ll do
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post 1635049943 03-30-2021, 09:57 PM
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Girls ghost without a second thought

May aswell just ghost back
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