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post 1635521293 04-05-2021, 09:10 PM
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Tinder/Bumble: My experience trying to escape inceldom. Important thread.

After 2 weeks, I have not gotten a single phone number. I don't have high standards. I swipe right on almost everyone and only swipe left so so Tinder doesn't think I'm a bot. I use all 5/day of my super likes on ugly thin girls and only 3 have matched with me. None of them responded. On bumble I got 5 matches so far and all of them were obese women and only 1 of them responded. I am paying for Tinder.

The only girls who respond to me look like this:

Spoiler!


I even decided to settle forokaylooking fat girls. They don't even respond to me. I have never felt so hopeless.


Guys I am NOT ugly. Here is proof of my photopheeler score. I am completely normal looking. I shouldn't be having problems getting an ethnic 4/10 to LTR.

Spoiler!

Spoiler!


I do not know what is going on.

I literally set my preferences to men and my likes go to 99+ in less than an hour. I don't ****ing get it.



So I got frustrated and decided to Chadfish to see what it's like for Chad.



This is what happened.

Spoiler!

Spoiler!

Spoiler!








Jokes aside, even as a Chad, Tinder was underwhelming. He got 30 matches on the first day and then 5-15 the following days. His "likes" peaked at around 40. And over half the girls didn't even respond to him. I get more attention from gay men then Chad does from women.


I don't get it and don't know what to do. I'm so lonely but don't understand how I'm supposed to get a girlfriend??

CLIFFS

-I'm not ugly
-Can't get a date
-How does anyone get a non disgusting girl to respond to them??

This is not a troll thread. I legit feel helpless and defeated
post 1635521643 04-05-2021, 09:12 PM
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begone thot
post 1635521743 04-05-2021, 09:13 PM
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ur ugly
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post 1635521853 04-05-2021, 09:14 PM
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bro try being a sugar daddy it's so tough averge guys can't even get a chick to bang u for 300
post 1635521883 04-05-2021, 09:14 PM
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Try men
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post 1635521913 04-05-2021, 09:14 PM
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its over
See user title srs
post 1635522213 04-05-2021, 09:17 PM
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i lost my virginity by cold approaching, try real life, get off online dating
I rep/neg back
post 1635522263 04-05-2021, 09:18 PM
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just be a chad works everytime
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post 1635522313 04-05-2021, 09:19 PM
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this thred pist me off srs.

delet this.
post 1635522543 04-05-2021, 09:23 PM
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more than ever sloots gonna sloot
post 1635522563 04-05-2021, 09:23 PM
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Namek lands on Goku
Sloots Gon Sloot.
post 1635522633 04-05-2021, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By wapacmane
i lost my virginity by cold approaching, try real life, get off online dating
Bagging the cow handing you the McDouble in the drive-thru last week is nothing to brag about, even if it was your first.
post 1635522903 04-05-2021, 09:27 PM
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You didn't use a true Chad, that's why.
Splitting wigs and busting cheeks™
post 1635522913 04-05-2021, 09:27 PM
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I fkked two girls last week if it makes you feel any better. There's hope.
MTC ==> Medium Test Crew...Best of both worlds
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post 1635522993 04-05-2021, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted By SkiGains
focus on yourself man, stop thinking about this bs
what do you mean focus on myself? I have a career and spend time on my hobbies ( that's all I can do). I still yearn for a woman's companionship.
post 1635523013 04-05-2021, 09:29 PM
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post 1635523493 04-05-2021, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002
I never understood Tinder, meeting people in person in a thousand times easier if you're not an autist. You should give it a try OP. If you say in person doesn't work, your personality and game suck. So blame that, not Tinder.
where do you meet girls in person? What do you say after "hi how r u my name is xxxx"??
post 1635523733 04-05-2021, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
where do you meet girls in person? What do you say after "hi how r u my name is xxxx"??
hey i’m imbored21. i’m sorry for my horrible ugliness
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post 1635523773 04-05-2021, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
where do you meet girls in person? What do you say after "hi how r u my name is xxxx"??
Admittedly while I killed it on the apps I only ever successfully cold approached and smashed one sloot (granted she was an hbb 8/10 middle eastern) at the dog park.
Asked if the husky was hers and away we went. Got number before she left. Pretty simple.
Sloots Gon Sloot.
post 1635523873 04-05-2021, 09:40 PM
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Bro what city are you in? Chances are you're more like a 3 or 4/10 cus I'm pretty sure 5/10s can at least get whales on tinder. Pm me a picture I'll tell you what your flaws are. srs
post 1635523883 04-05-2021, 09:40 PM
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Sorry to break the news but 2800 ain’t rank1 bud
post 1635523963 04-05-2021, 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted By BorderPatrol505
Bro what city are you in? Chances are you're more like a 3 or 4/10 cus I'm pretty sure 5/10s can at least get whales on tinder. Pm me a picture I'll tell you what your flaws are. srs
lol i can get whales on Tinder. I want a 4/10 ethnic girl. Not some gross obesse girl. I know I'm not ugly.
post 1635524093 04-05-2021, 09:44 PM
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Step 1. Delete all dating apps
Step 2. Cold approach and/or build a social circle of friends that you can go to the bar with
Step 3. Profit
post 1635524173 04-05-2021, 09:46 PM
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always crazy to see legit 7+/10s responding or opening enthusiastically and actually contributing to convo. different world for some ppl
they talk to me like i killed their cat or something (if they respond at all) just because im not chad. its such an uphill battle that most of the time has no finish line.

i can get some girls but never the ones I want. Would at least be nice to get a fit girl. face not that important.
Usually stuck with 40+ milfs, or chunky girls if they are by my age.

the type of messages you sent show theres no such thing as "game" as well

chad: I farted, wanna go out?

girl : hahahah yaaas


I aint tryin to add to the negativity. I just learn to live with it and take wat I can get
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post 1635524183 04-05-2021, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
After 2 weeks, I have not gotten a single phone number. I don't have high standards. I swipe right on almost everyone and only swipe left so so Tinder doesn't think I'm a bot. I use all 5/day of my super likes on ugly thin girls and only 3 have matched with me. None of them responded. On bumble I got 5 matches so far and all of them were obese women and only 1 of them responded. I am paying for Tinder.

The only girls who respond to me look like this:

Spoiler!


I even decided to settle forokaylooking fat girls. They don't even respond to me. I have never felt so hopeless.


Guys I am NOT ugly. Here is proof of my photopheeler score. I am completely normal looking. I shouldn't be having problems getting an ethnic 4/10 to LTR.

Spoiler!

Spoiler!


I do not know what is going on.

I literally set my preferences to men and my likes go to 99+ in less than an hour. I don't ****ing get it.



So I got frustrated and decided to Chadfish to see what it's like for Chad.



This is what happened.

Spoiler!

Spoiler!

Spoiler!








Jokes aside, even as a Chad, Tinder was underwhelming. He got 30 matches on the first day and then 5-15 the following days. His "likes" peaked at around 40. And over half the girls didn't even respond to him. I get more attention from gay men then Chad does from women.


I don't get it and don't know what to do. I'm so lonely but don't understand how I'm supposed to get a girlfriend??

CLIFFS

-I'm not ugly
-Can't get a date
-How does anyone get a non disgusting girl to respond to them??

This is not a troll thread. I legit feel helpless and defeated
do you have the blue check mark
post 1635524273 04-05-2021, 09:48 PM
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you keep saying you know you’re not ugly





















your results determined.. that was a lie
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post 1635524313 04-05-2021, 09:48 PM
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Fukkin lol at Chadfish message #2.

IRL really does seem to be the answer these days. I'm still living at home (moving out in a few months), so I don't have personal confirmation that IRL is great, but there seems to be heaps of evidence that Tinder just isn't going to work in general (assuming you've already done the basic profile optimizing of getting better pics/bio with a friend/the internet's help).

You have both the data from all the chadfishing and the fact that ~80% of tinder users are dudes. it's obvious Tinder is a rigged game. As tempting as it seems, feel like you've got to leave it alone at a certain point or learn to not put weight in it at the very least.
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post 1635524363 04-05-2021, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
lol i can get whales on Tinder. I want a 4/10 ethnic girl. Not some gross obesse girl. I know I'm not ugly.
Chances are you're uglier than you think breh. Plus you are boring/incel and have zero personality according to your responses ITT.

The 4/10 ethnic chicks you want would rather get bagged by a boring chad with zero personality than some 4/10 dude with zero personality
post 1635525183 04-05-2021, 10:05 PM
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wtf does slllllat mean?
Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation.
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